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nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 213 (view)

A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ? Posted: 10/24/2009 2:10:14 PM
if you want instant sex, go buy some. All men in heterosexual relationships pay for sex directly or indirectly. One form is a more honest business transaction and the other is like a slot machine.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 47 (view)

Why do men with kids respond to my ad? Posted: 10/24/2009 2:00:55 PM
Sure a lot of whining and complaining for someone who is so secure with her beliefs and couldn't care what others think. yawn I have to agree with this post. I think the OP wanted to get a lot of positive reinforcement with her original post; isn't that called an attention seeking post? I love all of the posts about how HOT she is. I would put her in the "around average" category in terms of looks. Based on the rest of her profile, I am shocked that ANY man responds to her, and it is not because of her desire to meet men without children. She comes across as spoiled and arrogant. Of course, that may be triggering responses from men who want to conquer her.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 70 (view)

Should I ask adult child's mother to help her daughter? Posted: 7/4/2009 3:29:54 PM
OP: Take her to court to collect the back child support and then give it to your daughter. If she cannot pay it. have her thrown in jail.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 142 (view)

Should men pay half of the expense of women's birth control? Posted: 7/4/2009 3:17:46 PM
Want some cheese with that WHINE? Especially since insurance companies won't cover the cost of most birth control. (but ironically, they'll cover Viagra. Oh, the lovely double standard again!) Question: Do you have health insurance? Have you looked at the exclusions to see what is covered? I like to because females always bring this up when there is a discussion about birth control. Several possible responses to this stupid post. (1) Do all insurance companies pay for Viagra? Do all insurance companies refuse to pay for birth control? Answers: No In the last 10 years I have had health insurance from four different companies. None of them paid for Viagra or other ED drugs. Two paid for female birth control measures as a tool for BIRTH CONTROL; all covered female birth control for other medical necessities. None paid for men to purchase condoms. (2) Viagra is intended as a corrective tool, just like prescriptions that control blood sugar, cholesterol, ... I bet many couples in relationships where Viagra or similar drugs are a necessity for having a sexual relationship are thankful for the availability of these drugs. (3) How many medical reimbursement plans cover female birth control but do not cover condoms? Of the three I have participated in over the last 10 years, all of them do this. Once again, a real double standard based on an apples to apples comparison. But wait, it cannot be a double standard if men are the ones losing can it?

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 76 (view)

Where are the decent men that are looking for more than just sex.... Posted: 7/4/2009 2:54:16 PM
I suspect a lot of people are beating her up because she launched a childish rant. You are beautiful and you deserve to ... So only physically attractive people deserve good things? Decent men though are at a premium. Decent females are at a premium too. For the most part, they don't exist. not all men are real men Ah, the old "real men" cliche. What exactly is a "real man" anyway?

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 74 (view)

Where are the decent men that are looking for more than just sex.... Posted: 7/4/2009 2:47:04 PM
OMG...I'm so sick of men not being able to think with their heads. You know the ones between their shoulders. I just want to be able to communicate with a man, to find one that's looking for a friendship and let the sexuality develop. Not to have it forced! Is that to much to ask for? I know I'm very sexually driven but, I am a woman and deserve to be treated much better than a common 'hood rat'.....Just venting sorry folks! Not venting, whining. Why do so many females here call whining "venting"? If you come across in the real world like you do here, I suspect most men think, "Well, I might as well try to get some action before I run away from this arrogant drama queen." Of course, the problem may be that you expect the men you find physically attractive to have intellectual qualities rather than looking for the intellectual qualities to begin with. Just because you are a woman you deserve to be treated better than a common 'hood rat'? Do men deserve to be treated reasonably because they are men? Finally, you follow up to another post with this: but, I'm wondering why men and women can't see a person for what's on the inside and let our sexualities be a bonus. Your initial post was a childish rant against men. Perhaps if you had started with something more rational, you would have received more rational responses.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 66 (view)

Man/Woman with too high standards or too much expectation Posted: 6/30/2009 6:56:26 AM
OP: I knew as soon as I read your post you were going to be flooded with indignant responses. After all, how dare a MAN have any standards for the females he dates. Men should be happy to accept whatever females have any interest in them. If you can attract the "1 out of 1,000", good for you and ignore what all the whiners say about you having specific standards.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 438 (view)

Should she have paid for her share of meal ? Posted: 6/30/2009 6:50:41 AM
Gees - its just money - get over it! Since it is just money, I assume you pay for all dates? Or are you one of those leach females that think it is a man's responsibility to pay for everything, after all it is just money.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 437 (view)

Should she have paid for her share of meal ? Posted: 6/30/2009 6:46:59 AM
What society and if so, isn't it time for a change? We live in a new world today. I agree with this comment. For the last 50 years men have been told they have to change their behaviors and expectations, while females have been given the choice of being "old fashioned" or being evolved, entirely at their discretion. I have yet to see an "old fashioned" female that was worth the price. Any female that thinks she is entitled to special privileges because she has indoor plumbing or is a "lady" does not deserve any respect. Speaking of which, how long has it been sense you have met a true "lady?"

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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Please answer this question. Posted: 6/30/2009 6:35:46 AM
OP: I agree with smiles9505. Most of my friends who are gay had a hard time with their sexual orientation until they were in their late 20s. They had family pushing them to deny their orientation, as well as numerous signs in our society telling them they were somehow bad. You might spend time with the older women and, as a result, meet others who are in the age range you are looking for. The main thing is to be upfront about your intentions.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 51 (view)

Fellas, how would you honestly react to this? Posted: 6/30/2009 6:31:02 AM
No wonder women dont bother hitting on men, not only dont they get it when you arent interested, they dont get it when you are! Like females are so superior at either of these. Right!

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 50 (view)

Fellas, how would you honestly react to this? Posted: 6/30/2009 6:29:55 AM
cashier: me on top? AND A young girl working at a Subway sammich shop can't make a silly, provocative remark to guy without the poor dude getting all hot and bothered? Three responses: If a man said something like this to a female customer, there would be a bunch of femalists coming out of the woodwork saying the female customer should sue the restaurant and man for making unwanted sexual advances and creating a hostile environment. I see no reason why females should get a free pass in this minefield. I agree with the others on here that if she is kidding around, that is childish game playing. These forums are filled with threads from females whining about how men play games. Take the bait! If this were me, I would be going back to the restaurant on a regular basis until I saw her again. If she is serious, go for it. If it turns out she is kidding, you can always send a comment card to the manager complaining about her conduct. Revenge! Ha Ha Ha Ha

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 24 (view)

Gentlemen, is serenading a woman part of chivalry? Posted: 6/30/2009 6:17:18 AM
In advance, I'd like to tell the cynics that you do have the right to push the keyboard back, and go to another thread. And they have just as much of a right to respond here. Answer: No. My singing would not put her to sleep, it would make her stay awake or give her nightmares.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 37 (view)

looking for mr right Posted: 6/30/2009 6:12:51 AM
OP: I have to echo some of the responses from others. I have seen so many females ignore and reject good men in favor of men who have superficial characteristics like height, a nice car, inherited money, ... only to have those preferred men reject them. Of course, as soon as that preferred man rejects the female, she starts whining about how bad men are. No, it is not men, it is females who key on a few superficial qualities and assume these make a good man. I have seen no signs that females continue to mature after about a 10th grade level. They continue to whine about how bad men are, but the females do nothing to improve their own situation. Females may reach that 10th grade maturity level before men, but men continue to mature. There are many lazy, lying females of all ages out there. If you are getting together when men that are not right for you, change what YOU are doing. Carefully consider why you have selected the men you have and ACTIVELY pursue a different kind of man. If you are unwilling to do this, quit whining.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 104 (view)

How has your experience been with POF? Thumbs Up or Down? Posted: 6/29/2009 10:10:06 AM
OP: Most females on this site are just like females on other dating sites and in the real world. In other words: lazy, selfish, arrogant, not too bright, and not worth pursuing.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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I am bored Posted: 6/29/2009 10:05:58 AM
OP: Based on this post and the second post you made, I suspect it is not the other people who are the problem, it is you. To me it looks like you expect other people to shower you with attention and be responsible for your entertainment. You also sound like someone who is selfish, annoying, mean, and abusive. I've been around people like that and it is no surprise that others quickly start to avoid them, and when they cannot avoid them, they reflect back the same kind of attitude. If you are as I suspect, I am surprised you can keep a boyfriend. Grow up and take responsibility for yourself.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

preconceived desires. Posted: 6/29/2009 9:59:25 AM
OP: If the visitor uses the basic search, they have to look at the profile to get an idea about the person. Using you as an example, a lot of men I know are not interested in dating a female who smokes so when they look at the profile, that is one of the things they check. Personally, I like to see what people are interested in. If I see a female who is into extreme sports, that is something I cannot do and I know I would hold her back. By the way, you list yourself as "Big & Tall/BBW." Based on your pictures, I would say curvy is more accurate; since body type is another thing many men look at in the profile, this can determine how closely they examine the profile. (I know lots of females say this is superficial, but it is a reality.)

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 34 (view)

Have you ever asked out a guy? How often do you do that? Posted: 6/29/2009 9:51:44 AM
WISH...operative word here... Does not mean it happens... My thought? A man who sits and waits for women to contact him shows me he is lazy and doesn't have the ability anymore to go and get that mammoth... . Do you think that females who sit around waiting for men to contact them are lazy and don't have the ability anymore to go out and get the mammoth? (Somehow I doubt it. This probably gets the "But that is different" argument.) I have heard more whiners on here begging for women to contact them because they say all they get is rejection....are you one of those??...Endearing.... I've seen numerous posts from idiots on here who think that anytime a man says anything negative about females he is a whiner. Just as endearing. Fortunately for females, many men have lowered their standards so far that even real loser females can get a date. Reality.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 33 (view)

Have you ever asked out a guy? How often do you do that? Posted: 6/29/2009 9:43:44 AM
I've asked men out but I rarely have to. I find the practice to be somewhat emasculating for some men. I have talked with a lot of men of various ages in different parts of the United States about this. Not one, ranging from early 20s to late 50s, has ever said he would have a problem being asked out by a female. Most have said they would love it. I suspect the ones who would not like this fall in the "Me Tarzan, You Jane" camp. The females I've talked with about this fall into several groups. There are some who get angry that anyone should suggest that females ask men out. Some go with the "I'm old fashioned" line, but they only seem to be old fashioned in the dating arena. Others say they are too nervous or afraid to do this. Some say they expect men to ask them out as if they are entitled to be asked out, but only by the "perfect" man. Finally, a few say they ask men out.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 90 (view)

Long vs short hair Posted: 6/29/2009 9:24:55 AM
OP: I've always been more attracted to women with short hair, e.g., shoulder length or so, rather than long hair. At the same time, as long as it is clean, that works for me.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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Whats with the harems? Posted: 6/29/2009 9:18:12 AM
OP: Sounds like someone is bitter. Possible explanations for men's behavior: 1: Since females have a narrow range of men they find attractive, the men who fit into that range have access to a large number of females. The men in that range also know that most females will let the men get away with many things. As a result, a man in that range knows he can have a "harem" and many females will let him, rather than risk losing the man. Until females start broadening the "type" of man they will be involved with, they (the females) have to learn to live with the games that the "attractive" men play. (This is analogous to how many men will let an extremely attractive female get away with just about anything rather than lose her.) 2: You don't really meet his requirements.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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I need genuine advice from guy's point of view Posted: 6/28/2009 6:03:02 AM
Sheesh! Yet another 40 something female that seems to have the maturity level of a 14 year old female. He is not interested in you so you have to accept that.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 47 (view)

need advice , moved to Montreal for boyfriend Posted: 6/27/2009 3:05:11 PM
Let's see. This female provides minimal information and yet several females automatically accept her statements as fact and blame the man. Typical. I would say anyone who moves from Florida to Montreal without taking the time to know the other person is demonstrating poor judgment. Montreal is a nice city; stay there and find someone who is a better fit or move back to Florida.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 226 (view)

How important is chivalry in an relationship to you? Posted: 6/27/2009 2:59:52 PM
I expect any female I date to do the following: Open the door for me. Pull my seat out for me. Help me to put my coat on and take it off. Walk on the street side of the sidewalk. Rise when I enter the room. Stand when I approach her. Pay for all meals, movies, and other forms of entertainment. Pick me up and drive when we go out. Place herself between me and any source of danger. Be prepared to die for me, even if I am the one who instigates conflict. Does it sound delusional when a man expects a female to do these things? Why should females expect men to do them? (I know the answer. The majority of females are delusional and men let them get away with it.)

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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What do you do in this situation?? Posted: 6/27/2009 2:53:29 PM
OP: You really DO NOT KNOW what to do? You keep your mouth shut, avoid them, and hope that the fall in love with you. Duh!

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 32 (view)

She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 6/27/2009 2:39:17 PM
OP: I have to agree with others here: why do you care? Is it because the 48 year old man you are interested in would rather be with an 18 or 19 year old female. If so, get over it. Maybe men are looking for someone who does not say "ego thang" or attribute men's behaviors to ego in the first place. Now, given the general expectation that men do the asking and pay for dates, it makes sense that a man is going to pursue the most appealing females first. (I know, many females will respond that they ask men out and pay on dates; I think this happens on February 30.) If a man has a choice between someone in good physical shape with an appealing personality and someone who is not in the best physical shape or has an unappealing personality, why would he not select option one? That said, I have only met one man who is specifically looking for females more than 15 years younger than himself. He also happens to be very immature. At the same time, females of every age seem drawn to him, despite commenting on the fact that they see him as immature.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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MY future as a crazy cat lady depends on your response!!! Posted: 6/26/2009 3:30:52 PM
OP: My first instinct is to say you should become a cat lady, but I hate when people are cruel to cats. If I understand you correctly, you are complaining about things men have done that annoy you. Guess what! Females do these same things.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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Can someone define serial dating? Posted: 6/26/2009 3:22:39 PM
Is that when you eat Raisin Bran, Life, Grape Nuts, Cheerios, and such on dates. Oh wait, no that is cereal dating. OP: Wow, pat yourself on the back for having more than a few guys asking you out. I am amazed that a female over the age of 25 would ask this question. I know the answer. He is the one with a first name that starts with a vowel. Seriously, if you consider it settling, then he is too good for you.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

My question to you is..... Posted: 6/26/2009 3:09:45 PM
OP: I suspect it is because people read a poster's question and then look at the poster's profile and have to laugh at how silly the poster is, at least based on what the poster has written. Here is an example: Why are you all so quick to judge someone based on ... plus Things I don’t like: ..., Bad Breath, short men, men that are closed minded, mean people, drama, bad grammar (a little pet peeve ) Let's see, you are quick to judge a person based on the person's height. Hmmm. You don't like closed minded men. Hopefully for you, some open minded man out there will not have a problem with a close minded female. Bad grammar is a pet peeve for you, but you don't know how to properly capitalize words in a sentence. People who are patently hypocritical often make themselves easy targets.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 70 (view)

My hormones are killing my relationships... can u help?! Posted: 6/24/2009 6:40:44 PM
OP: Based on your post, hang on to the one who gets your hormones popping because you don't seem to deserve better.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 52 (view)

Stumbling upon unfortunate news... Posted: 6/21/2009 9:59:56 AM
If you have a decent bone in your body, or ever had any feelings for this woman at all, you will go see her, take her by the hands, and break the news to her as gently as possible. Then you will go beat the crap out of the creep that is showing the video around. You started out fine, and then you took a step into the idiot zone. Why should this man go physically attack another person for this? If he does, he belongs in jail. If you know that someone is doing something vile to someone else, you are morally responsible to stop it. If you don't, you are as bad as the guys watching the video and the guy showing it. Where does this duty come from? I wonder if you would be advocating violence if the one showing the video was a female and a man knew nothing about it. Are females bound by some duty to stop harm done to men? The female should take legal action against the man showing the video. I love the way females advocate violence against men on these POF forums on a regular basis.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 49 (view)

How has your experience been with POF? Thumbs Up or Down? Posted: 6/21/2009 9:53:59 AM
OP: Where I live (Mississippi Gulf Coast region) POF is a waste of time for meeting decent females. There are none on POF. That is why I don't use POF (or any dating site) to meet females. Of course, when it comes right down to it there are very few decent females anywhere period.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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Fitness vs. Flirting Posted: 6/21/2009 9:49:52 AM
OP: Suck up much with the trite, "I am with you ladies, pay attention to me approach?" I have seen just as many pervert females leering at men in gyms. Of course, pervert females are perfectly acceptable.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 43 (view)

Constructive Criticism Posted: 6/19/2009 7:56:26 AM
OP: Most of the people I've met who like to give constructive criticism don't understand that there is a time and place, as well as method, for doing this. Most like to just spout off and expect others to thank them for it. These people often cannot handle any criticism directed at them.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 42 (view)

What do you do if a guy harrasses your date? Posted: 6/19/2009 7:54:02 AM
He is my date and I there are things that I like in a man. MAN...do you get it? There are some rational people on this site, but there are some idiots who think that they can beat up everyone in site, or ever worse yet, some females that expect THEIR man to get into fights to defend their (the female's) honor. If you cannot take care of yourself, that is not any man's problem. For all of you who say you would kick the crap out of the trouble makers, right! Then you would go to the hospital and/or jail, where you belong. It is real easy, ask once politely. If that does not work, go get the manager. (And it does not have to be the man that does either of these. Get off you big, fat butt and do some things yourself.) I really love the idiot females who expect their man to pound every man into the ground that does anything to upset the female. These are often the same idiots that are instigating conflict just so their man can show his love by fighting. This is the type of female that is so stupid that she cannot figure out that the big, macho man will eventually turn those fists on her. The nice thing for men is that they can usually figure out if the female they are dating is like this so they can dump the loser pretty quickly.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 52 (view)

How important is chivalry in an relationship to you? Posted: 6/18/2009 7:40:53 PM
I, myself am one of the last dying breed that have not forgotten the true meaning of chivalry. Wow, pat yourself on the back much? Maybe many men are tired of the sexist, one-sided view that requires men to treat females with respect while females show outright contempt for men. Of course, it may be that since there are very few ladies, men don't feel the need to live up to the old standard of being gentlemen.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

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So I met this girl... Posted: 6/16/2009 1:54:44 PM
OP: Did you post hoping everyone would tell you what you want to hear? If so, stop reading now. If you keep pursuing her, you are an idiot. She is a drama queen who uses men to get what she wants (in other words, she is a manizer). She will get you into all sorts of trouble without thinking once about your well-being. And contrary to what others are saying, she knows exactly what she is doing and she does not care. After all, the word revolves around her. Just because you fell head over heals for her based on some initial contact, does not mean she is worth sticking around for. Early in a relationship you need to be revising your feelings about the relationship as you gain more information. In her case, everything you have learned (at least based on your post) should be telling you she is not worth the trouble. RUN AWAY as fast as you can.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 147 (view)

Men....what do you think if SHE pays ? Posted: 6/16/2009 11:20:19 AM
OP: I would think I am on candid camera. I think most females do not know how to open a wallet to pay in a restaurant. It makes me wonder what females do when they are in a group with only other females and the check comes. I could see them sitting there until the restaurant closes.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

Breaking up and reading POF comments from the loser Posted: 6/16/2009 11:10:26 AM
Why do women always call guys the break up with "losers." Why were these loser traits not apparent when said guy was banging you? Excellent point. As evidenced by the post a few down from yours, many females act like big junior high children who have to whine about , insult, and blame others for their own lack of immaturity, class, and ability to make good choices. If all you date are losers (or douchebags as one child put it), that says a great deal more about you than it does the men you date. Losers date losers. When a relationship ends, how about learning from it and moving on? Oh, wait. Rationality is beyond the grasp of so many females.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 24 (view)

an old ladyfriend,was by gf for 3 weeks needs money for.... Posted: 6/13/2009 10:57:37 AM
OP: Sure, give her the money. By the way, I need some money for a medical procedure. I will gladly pay you Tuesday for surgery today. Duh! She sounds like a leach.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 77 (view)

What is he worth? Posted: 6/12/2009 2:32:18 PM
OP: Sheesh! This thread from a 43 year old. So there was some stud muffin that turned you on in high school. The relationship went nowhere. Just because he was attractive and from a wealthy family does not mean he was going to go anywhere in life. Of course, he owed it to you to live up to your standard of success because he was involved with you at one time so I see why you are angry.[/sarcasm> Grow up!

nastyjerk

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Msg: 46 (view)

Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 6/12/2009 2:08:22 PM
OP: About as much as all of the decent women are either taken or dead, and even most of the females that are taken are not decent. Most females I know who use the old cliche tend to reject the good men and gravitate to the total jerks because they, the females, like a certain physical type or bad boys that they think will turn into great guys as soon as the man hooks up with them, which is delusional. The men who fit the highly desirable physical type are in great demand so they know they can behave any way they want and still find females to date. Given this is a free dating site, it may attract a large proportion of both men and females who see this as a hook-up site. Also, I would say that I see very few females on this site that really deserve good guys.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 88 (view)

Why women want guys to come to THEM Posted: 6/11/2009 6:27:04 PM
OP: Here is my take on why females, for the most part, demand that men do the pursuing (not in any particular order). 1. Power - yes, females feel a sense of power from having men pursue them. 2. Arrogance - females think that blank between their legs makes them special - it does not. 3. Females do not want to be in a position to explicitly reveal how superficial they really are. By playing the passive target, they get to use the "you're not my type" argument without showing how looks-obsessed they are. 4. This gives females the opportunity to whine about how bad men are when they get approached by men who they see as beneath them. 5. This gives females the opportunity to use the "the one who asks pays" argument to avoid paying for dates. 6. Immaturity - 99.999% of females (at least in the U.S.) are too immature to be woman enough to actually ask a man out. 7. Self delusion - they convince themselves that men want to do the asking, and go even further by creating this moronic argument in their empty heads that men won't go out with females who ask. 8. Evil - some females get a perverse pleasure from publicly rejecting men in a degrading and demeaning manner. Fortunately for females, men know that they have to do the asking and have bought into the social programming that the outcome is worth the effort, even when they have enough evidence to show that it is not.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

Guys' turn to respond to what the ladies said... Posted: 6/10/2009 7:35:25 AM
Rambles on and on about how females are oppressed. Whines about how men are pigs. Lectures about feminist theory as if it is fact just because some female said it. Has a long list of men's responsibilities, but thinks females should not have any responsibilities in a relationship. Talks about how hot she is and how every man wants to have sex with her. You are not that hot and not every man wants to have sex with you. Stares at every man's butt as he walks by. Long rants about how every man she has dated has been a jerk and loser. News Flash: You are what you date. If every man you date is a jerk and loser, YOU are a jerk and loser. Asks how much I make. Uses profanities in every sentence. Asks for my social security number and birth date. Starts hinting that she needs money to pay for her divorce or to buy something for her child. Doesn't pick up the check. (Even after spending the whole date talking about feminism and how females are to be treated as equals.)

nastyjerk

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Msg: 19 (view)

Mommy problems. Posted: 6/8/2009 11:30:04 AM
OP: Do the female thing. Sue her for child support, including the child from a previous relationship that she is not biologically related to, and then make sure she does not get to see the kids at all.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

The women difference between the West Coast & East Coast Posted: 6/7/2009 8:18:04 AM
just know the hottest women are in the gulf coast.......... I'd sure like to know where in the gulf coast. Are they underwater? Floating on rafts? I don't see many females that I would say are even slightly attractive on the Mississippi coast.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 12 (view)

I just have a protocol question Posted: 6/6/2009 8:09:04 PM
OP: It's been a long time since I visited Michigan so things may have changed. In most of the U.S. telephones connect in either direction. He can call you or you can call him. Maybe he is sitting there thinking, "If she is interested, I should hear from her soon." (Not really, but doesn't that sound silly?) The "ball's in his court" thinking is just a form of game playing.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 51 (view)

smokers and non smokers can they get on Posted: 6/6/2009 8:53:05 AM
OP: I would not date someone who smokes. This is not a moral judgment against smokers. Simply put, I don't want to breath cigarette smoke, have it on my clothing, have it in my house or car, let alone be in close proximity to someone who smells of smoke. This is my preference. At the same time, I agree things would go more smoothly if people were clear about their preferences.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 19 (view)

Juding Books By Their Covers!! Posted: 6/6/2009 8:47:58 AM
OP: I can't believe this thread survived. Doesn't someone bring this up every few weeks? People, yes including those female people, are superficial and visually stimulated. In 99.99999999% of the time, if you don't conform to the other person's perception of a desirable partner right away, the other person puts you in the "not interested" category. You bring up weight for females. Yes, many men do not find obese (or even moderately overweight) females attractive. So what? Many females do not find short men attractive. I have received five times more message from females than a friend of mine on here. The differences: I am tall, he is short (5'5"). At the same time, he is educated, professionally employed, makes a lot more money than I do, is nice to people (but not a doormat - more like respectful), and has a great sense of humor. Generally speaking, he treats people a lot better than I do, including on this site. Yet, as the expression goes, numbers don't lie.

nastyjerk

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 60 (view)

Would you live with someone you want to marry? Posted: 6/6/2009 8:32:19 AM
OP: I think you are missing the point of most posts here. If there is something about you, the other person, or the interaction of you and the other person that will cause the relationship to end if you live together outside of marriage, is one of these three things going to change just because you are married? I say no. I think you need to be enmeshed in the day-to-day interactions before you can truly know someone. Does the fact that she is a slob drive you crazy? Is her unwillingness to leave the toilet seat up very annoying? Is her inability to balance her checkbook frustrating? Do you find that the only times you interact are when she is changing the channel from Lifetime or Oxygen or when she is assigning you your daily list of man chores? You just don't know someone until you cannot each go home to your place.

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