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Joined: 4/18/2009

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Nice guys finish last is a sad truth... Posted: 5/9/2009 1:43:24 PM
Okay fine, am I boosting? hell ya But seriously... be the bad boy ... learn QUICKLY from you mistakes Wusses get no aware.... I try my believes over and over.... Today I got reconciliation form 3 girls who work for me online. I got 2 hugs from girls when asked if they were single and said no from the liquor store I got a kiss on the lips and I kissed her on the her foreheadd after telling her I'm looking for a new BFF, and I expect to hook up with her tomorrow, if I hang on to the "i don't care" attitude. This is a girl from 5 years ago in the hood. Don't be a wuss ... no clue on thats how its spelled but if a girl wants you to support her and have her kids? She need confidence. It's like rocket science to do so, if it takes more than 2 days for a response, then forget her.

Joined: 4/18/2009

Msg: 109 (view)

Nice guys finish last is a sad truth... Posted: 5/9/2009 6:16:35 AM
If they start distancing themselves from you, end it post haste. If you distance yourself in return, really hard to do I know, you have a 80% chance she will be interested in you again real quick. But don't fall for it. She will just do it again and it will turn into a stupid head game. Nice guys do finish last. I'm a nice guy. When I was younger I was a whiney pathetic nice guy, that got me nowhere real quick, single dates, no return. At 24, I met a girl who liked a nice guy (they are out there) and we got married within a year. That lasted 8 years. When I got divorced I was in prime time, mid 30's, girls were coming out of the wood work. I was no longer a nice guy though, after a brutal divorce I was real girl hater. They can tell the attitude. I hit 39 years old and was not even close to a nice guy to any girl and it was getting me everywhere. I met one girl that year, she was 24 at the time and she loved the bad guy attitude (black 69 mustang, harley, hitting the local bars on a regular basis), having other girls running in and out of the house at random times, self employeed with way to much time on my hands and too much disposible income. She ended getting knocked up and we now have 2 kids together, I am 45 and she is 30, the kids are turing 5 and 4 in the next few months. I turned into a nice guy again over 4 years until she stated a few weeks ago she is leaving me. My whimpy nice guy came out again and she fed off it, really freaking mean, yelling at me all the time, I refused to argue back. I put up with that for a few days while I got use to the idea that she and kids will not be in my life full time anymore. Well, the woman hater started coming back. I started to tell her I welcome her leaving and reminded her of my wild ways when we met and I am looking forward to having my house back to myself again. As soon as I started stating things like this, she's updating facebook with "I'm so sad" status updates instead of "I hate Shawn" updates. I have no idea where this typing is going, nor what will be happening in my life, but I can't wait to be single this summer, being the bad biker guy again. Too bad I sold my Mustang! Am I a nice guy? Hell ya. I can't wait to go camping with my kids. Am I a woman hater again? No, but I know how one acts! But please keep it to yourself, cause it will affect my dating abilities LOL

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