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Joined: 4/20/2009

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why do a$$ holes always get the good girls? Posted: 6/1/2009 5:36:39 PM
Your question is reletive but, women want confidence in men. Other than that, most of the hot chicks are bored by the same old door mat behavior and there may be some reverse psychology at play. Women to whom I have not shown the perfunctory plea to that they expect, find me interesting and a bit of a challenge. Maybe we all want what we can't have or want to prove we can get it. Go figure. The first thing men and women should be taught early in life is that people are usually not rational, especially in love.

Joined: 4/20/2009

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Is a kiss an invitation to have sex? Posted: 6/1/2009 5:31:41 PM
A kiss can be more intimate than sex so I think a new therapist might be in order.

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Does honesty hurt more than just dissapearing? Posted: 6/1/2009 5:28:55 PM
The truth hurts more than disappearing, since the one is left behind always has a hope in their heart and without hope, we are all lost. It is more humane to simply leave cowardly or not. Most of the women who talk about bravery would never think of telling their Mother she is not what she claims to be. Obviously out of respect. We don't hurt the ones we love. Otherwise, we don't love them.

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Why are there so many attractive women on POF? Posted: 6/1/2009 5:23:28 PM
From reading the posts on here, a lot of the women are using old pics or somebody else's and that is why they are not all getting the dates you would expect in the real world. Mostly, the real better looking ones are probably trying to save their time just like we are and they have a list of criteria that they want other than just a pretty face.

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Are most guys only into one night stands? Posted: 5/12/2009 9:33:23 PM
I know this is gonna be a shock but there are women out there who only want one night because they're cheating or the man just turns their crank and they have other things that they need to do full time. Women say a lot of platitudes but, they can be as spontaeneous as most men. The key is not the play but the actors. It's you not them.

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Am I delusional? Posted: 5/12/2009 9:26:33 PM
In a word, probably. That does not mean that you cannot change. Try a makeover first and then plastic surgery. However, the most important quality in winning a girl's heart is confidence. They secretly want to be swept off their feet and for you that may take drugs or alcohol to get your courage up... However you do it, do anything other than what you have been doing. Rule 1, stop digging.

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cost of dating Posted: 5/12/2009 9:17:19 PM
Sounds like you're advertising for gold-diggers to me. All women want to feel appreciated just like guys do. The convention is that the man pays. If you are dating that much without a picture, sounds like you are simply buying dates since they sure aren't emailing you on your good looks. If you can't perform on the contract don't induce the other party. Try finding somebody who wants you for your charm.

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what would you do? Posted: 5/12/2009 9:11:43 PM
Since you are asking, why would you have a baby when not married to a man who gave you an STD, regardless of what his excuse is? You live in Egypt. Wake up.

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I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly Posted: 5/12/2009 9:01:57 PM
If it quacks like a duck, waddles like one and has webbed feet, you know the rest. Men are only intimidated by really hot women. Odly enough, many of them go for the only guys who approach them which may well be sociopaths who have no shame. Lose the glasses, get a makeover and maybe some plastic surgery. Everybody's doing it. The last girl I was with started out pretty and got better with each procedure. This crap about all natural is great for food but I prefer my babes as pretty as they can be, and perky is best.

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Doing the math: 200/25/0 Posted: 5/1/2009 5:55:13 PM
After reading Ahoy there Dave's comments I confess he is on to something but, not quite hitting the mark for OP. Women are all the same in their reptilian programing, they want a confident man to sweep them off their feet. These sites force them to be rational about their grocery list of crap they want. My advice is get their number right away and if they wont, then don't waste time. On the first date start going for it immediately. In your case, nothing ventured nothing gained or your gonna lose anyway so try to get the nookie. You might be very surprised.

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Doing the math: 200/25/0 Posted: 5/1/2009 5:38:39 PM
One more thing, when you look at the women who are commenting here, they have all been on this site (probably many others too) for a least a year. Ergo, if [as they say] they want long-term relationships. What's up. With all the guys chasing em, and they're aren't taking the long term offers, then just maybe they want long term dates from whom they can pick and chose to get wild or get whatever else, that flatters their vulturous vanities. Listen to Some Girls by the Stones. It says it all.

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Doing the math: 200/25/0 Posted: 5/1/2009 5:33:09 PM
Here's my 2cents. This OP is probably a lot more considerate of these women than I could muster and he's not getting respect not because there's something wrong with him but with the broads on these sites. [I can hear the rants already]. Basically, there are an army of guys willing to jump through hoops and all the woman need do is show their boobs on this site and then show up for free stuff. In all my years I never used these sites before and got great women (really) who were anxious to take care of me. My conclusion is that if a man wants a serious woman, go to the mall, or grocery store or even the bars. At least there you'll either get a real conversation or lucky, but you won't have to write a dissertation and apply for jobs with a bunch of hoochies that want you to send their kids to college after their true love ran off with a waitress.

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Confused of how I JUST got dumped... Posted: 4/24/2009 5:31:08 AM
Women dump men as fast or faster than men dump the trash. Human beings are out for themselves and that aint changin any time soon. If a women is not kissing me very passionately the first time we are together, I am not interested. Call it natural selection.

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Just plain UGLY Posted: 4/24/2009 5:23:02 AM
Sounds to me like OP has made it all up so he can find some softy chick who will comfort him. Aaawwww poor baby. You're not ugly but you are just fishing for bottom feeders who take in stray animals. You know; cat ladies. My pet peeve is when you are actually trying to help some skank be less victimized and they get all peeed off when you're only trying to do a good deed. They do get punished because people care about themselves unless its convenient to care about strangers. Go figure.

Joined: 4/20/2009

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New to dating, period. Would appreciate words of wisdom from your experience, please. Posted: 4/24/2009 5:12:31 AM
I know this sounds sarcastic lady but, I think you should quit while you're ahead.

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 4/24/2009 5:02:01 AM
The age-old question. Women want mant things from one man. Men want the same thing from many women. The reason the women all show us their teets is because they think that is all we want when in reality they have not much else to offer. I can hear the ranting from them now. The reason their profiles all say what they want not what they have to offer us is becuase we have conditioned them to believe all they need do is show up with teets. I think we should stop being so needy and maybe they'd need us and actually respond to our inquiries and persue us once in a while other than because we advertise ourselves as handsome doctors with a Ferrari. That is what they all want.

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