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Can you experience that amazing chemistry/connection more than once?? Posted: 7/15/2008 12:10:21 PM
It happened to me too.....about 8 years ago. Out of the blue (I wasn't looking for it) I met this man and it was instant chemistry, it blew my mind. I know it sounds crazy but it happened and mine also lasted a few years. Did it happen again? Yes.... once after that but never the same as the first one ...so they are different each time....depending on the relationship. Neither one was the right one for me so I'm still hoping. Don't worry hun, it will happen and just when you think it won't.....bammmm.

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A Disappearance Act.......for the 2nd time.......... Posted: 11/20/2006 5:49:42 PM
I also agree with you piano. Friends on the internet aren't the same as friends in real life. A guy once said to me......"if you want to get hurt, go on the net".

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A Disappearance Act.......for the 2nd time.......... Posted: 11/19/2006 8:05:44 PM
I once had a good friend who was married. We would talk and tell each other things. We were always there for each other. He loved his wife and I also was in love with someone else. One day, he confided in me that he was very sick and dying. I was very upset and he had me in tears. To me he was too young to die as he was only 35 and such a great guy. I started to have problems with my guy telling me I was spending way too much time with this guy, that he was a liar (many fights over that) so I backed away from my friend. Within the next few months, my friend disappeared. It bothered me alot as I figured he had died. A year past with not a word from him. He never signed in once or contacted me. I decided to find out if he really passed. To my amazement, and I won't go into details how I found out but to make a long story short, he never died. I will NEVER to this day understand why he did this. We were friends, nothing more. Why did he feel he needed to lie. If he had to stop talking to me, why didn't he just tell me his wife didn't want him on the net anymore, etc. It still hurts that he lied to me. I have a hard time believing people on here. I wonder if this is only a fantasy to some.

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Am I the ONLY one who hasnt found their fish here? lol Posted: 10/8/2006 3:36:26 PM
Hi Kris......Nope, your not alone, I have not found anyone here yet either. Been here a few months, guys will say hi, then I never hear from them again...hmmm, maybe its me??? Oh well, I'm beginning to think that he (one and only) either is married or has passed away because I'm having no luck whatsoever. Funny thing is ...I'm beginning to get used to being alone.

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am i banging my head against the wall-help Posted: 9/23/2006 5:07:52 AM
Great advice Think....Couldn't have said it better myself.

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italian's Posted: 9/4/2006 10:24:38 AM
My first italian experience was a man I met on the net 5 years ago. He became the love of my life and even though it never worked out for us, I learned alot about italians. He was proud, honest, a good family man, believed in God, he was everything I ever wanted in a man. Even though he was alittle jealous, I did not mind that at all. Things didn't work out for us but I can tell you that he was one man I would married in an instance. Seems like now, because of hm, I'm attracted more to them.

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POF party at Daniels was a waste of time!! Posted: 8/14/2006 4:09:41 PM
Actually, I didn't know about it or I would have showed up.

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 2/8/2006 3:50:50 AM
Around this time on February 9, 2001, I flew to another city and met a guy whom I had been talking to on the net for 5 months. In the whole time we talked, we couldn't bring ourselves to show our pics to each other fearing the other would dislike it. We did talk on the phone alot and I loved is voice. We were crazy about each other and he sent me so many love letters. I was terrified to meet and kept saying him to him, if you dislike me, its over and thats the part I was beginning to find hard to deal with. To make a long story short, we finally met at the airport, (after my plane was delayed for 3 hours and he told me he thought for sure I had decided not to come but sat and waited anyway). When we met, he was the most handsome man I ever met in my life, and the weekend turned out great. I wish I could give you a happy ending to this story but I can't. We were an item for some time later but it never worked out. All I can tell you is, at that time, it didn't matter how he looked to me, I was already in love with him.

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Confused, Hurt, LOST...... Posted: 2/7/2006 7:17:35 PM
Hi...I want to tell you I know exactly what you are going thru, because I also was in the same position once. No one can tell you what to do.....people and family gave me advice and I didn't listen. I loved that man more than life itself. I thought he was my soul mate and a part of me. I needed him so much. I was soooo lost. Believe me I know and feel your pain. Eventually our relationship ended as I knew it would. I look back now and wonder why I didn't leave him sooner, it would have saved me so much heartbreak. You already know deep down inside what you should do and shouldn't do, so listen to that little voice inside you. It knows you better than you think it does. One thing I want to say, concentrate on your courses, make that your number 1 priority, throw yourself into it (not only will it help you forget the pain)....someday, no matter how things work out with you and him, you will be happy you did. Older and Wiser

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