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steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 75 (view)

Do you prefer to be on top or bottom Posted: 11/7/2009 1:01:59 AM
Why enjoy intimacey from 1 point-of-view ? ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 66 (view)

Is being nervous on a 1st date really a turn off? Posted: 11/7/2009 12:49:42 AM
If both peopl are intersted in each other, then there is a little excitment anyway prior to a first meeting If both people are caring, then they'll make each other comfortable anyway so simple ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 106 (view)

Why to worry about when to give sex? Posted: 11/7/2009 12:46:43 AM
when? ...Outside of schedule because of the cirumstances of 2 busy lives the relationship has no future Especially if it hasn't matured to intimacey ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 340 (view)

Do men think women women wearing glasses are sexy? Posted: 11/7/2009 12:44:58 AM
Personal Preference Persoanlity with or without silicon dioxide is the ultimate! ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 226 (view)

Sex versus love Posted: 11/6/2009 3:31:36 PM
Intamacey has no match to play against ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 65 (view)

how to slow the pace to make it real Posted: 11/6/2009 3:30:10 PM
There isn't the "one" ~ It what you make it The longer you et to know someone online the stronger the friendship\otherwise it is offline ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 146 (view)

Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/6/2009 3:28:39 PM
Personal Hygiene doesn't stop after teens surely ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 153 (view)

Dating a couple people but not having sex at our age Posted: 11/6/2009 3:23:54 PM
The value of initmacey is limitless but for the desire of a relationship ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 110 (view)

IS IT TRUE THAT A WOMAN SHOULDN’T PURSUE A MAN? Posted: 11/6/2009 3:22:42 PM
A Decent person should chase & be chased otherwise the imbalance leads to valueles & futile relationship There' no value in chasing a man\woman if they won't chase you - & the chase is for the lifetime of a relationship, & not in the form of 'courting' ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 74 (view)

Second chances? Posted: 11/6/2009 3:20:28 PM
Not everyone can give second chances, and that's their choice Not everyone deserves them or understands the value of the gift ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 34 (view)

Showing selfless love at all times in a relationship Posted: 11/6/2009 2:37:53 PM
In a ideal relationship, self-less love is ingrained though it takes 2 ...anything less than ideal isn't a relationship of values ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 29 (view)

Vegetarian Potluck Posted: 10/27/2009 3:58:16 PM
BANGERS AND NOSH Vegetable Casserole with Sage Dumplings (4) Ingredients For the casserole: 1 onion, sliced 2 cloves garlic, crushed 1 carrot, scrubbed and chopped 1 medium parsnip, scrubbed and cubed 1 small swede, peeled and cubed 1 small turnip, peeled and cubed 4oz / 100g Jerusalem artichoke, well scrubbed and quartered (optional) 4oz / 100g chestnut mushrooms, halved 1 tsp dried thyme 1 tbsp fresh parsley, chopped 1½ / 900ml pints vegetable stock 1tsp Marmite or other yeast extract salt and freshly ground black pepper For the dumplings: 4oz / 175g self-raising wholewheat flour 2oz / 50g vegetable suet ½tsp salt ½tsp dried sage or 1 tsp fresh sage 1tsp dried mustard 2tbsp milk ------------------------------------ 1 Sauté over a medium heat the onion, garlic, carrots, parsnip, swede, turnip and artichoke (if using) with the herbs for 10 minutes, stirring at intervals to prevent the vegetables sticking. 2 Add the mushrooms and cook for another 5 minutes. 3 Add the vegetable stock, Marmite and seasoning and simmer gently for 30 minutes or until the vegetables are cooked. 4 Make the dumplings by mixing the flour, mustard powder, salt, herbs and vegetable suet in a bowl. Add the milk and mix to make a soft dough. Form into small dumplings and drop them into the casserole. 5 Simmer for another 15 minutes or until the dumplings are puffed up. ======================================================= Source: Veg Society GB I've done this vegan style without the milk & with veg. spicy sausages and without marmite { never had it and don't think i missed out!} ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 853 (view)

Is money really that important ladies? Posted: 10/27/2009 11:28:54 AM
Security is a important issue to Women If a women doesn't think its ALSO important to a man then they should think again ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 57 (view)

Kissing cheating? Posted: 10/27/2009 11:25:22 AM
How would your partner feel ? I'd wager all the money printed ever that they would thinks so if told ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 179 (view)

Why is it such a stigma to be an older bachelor? Posted: 10/27/2009 11:23:26 AM
I'm not embarrased ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 156 (view)

Would you date a cheater Posted: 10/27/2009 11:22:24 AM
I would be more allowable if they were vulnerable when the they did this ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 133 (view)

41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 10/27/2009 11:20:00 AM
I remember Once a upon a time there was a 43 --y-o woman & a 23-y-o man -they were together for over 4 years - I think think of the phrase that includes 'book' and 'cover' ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 113 (view)

sugar mommy? Posted: 10/27/2009 11:15:58 AM
Each to their own I guess it's filling a need for a 'sugar mommy' if she wants to be this stereotype ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 694 (view)

Why do men have affairs? Posted: 10/27/2009 11:13:43 AM
Why do Women have affairs ? Implies the respionsibiltiy is one 1 person in a affair, as if the front 2 wheels of a car drive it along ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

Full disclosure or learn as you go? Posted: 10/25/2009 1:52:25 PM
It's a balance between being a little proud of yourslef, whilst adding a little mystery, trying to make yourslef as attarctive as possible, is faking yourself- you've got to be you Likewise You've got to protect yourslef form the fakers, players researchers, etc ( men+women) here ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 43 (view)

People With No Conversation Skills Posted: 10/25/2009 1:49:32 PM
I think that people who eat fruit & veg at least as part of their life usually can communicate without talking like their texting Doesn't need a degree, just a little a effort & a little attitude to learn in life ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 398 (view)

Dating a woman who has been abused in the past Posted: 10/25/2009 1:44:20 PM
A Passion for Understanding matched by a pasison for self-healing, makes for a interesting relationship ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 108 (view)

Are Your Filters Set Too High? Posted: 10/25/2009 1:21:49 PM
If people are desperate then they will lower their 'filter's If people want a relationshipof substance then they will compromise on them ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 180 (view)

Silver haired dancing machines your thoughts. Posted: 10/25/2009 12:05:44 PM
If their children have a problem, it becasue they think their mother is not allow to be fun, only to give it to them ...And if their frinds object, then they were never friends in the firstplace ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 33 (view)

Should we stay friends? Posted: 10/25/2009 12:04:21 PM
A Realtionship of Substance can only grow ourt of a Friendship And if someone can dispense of the friendship ( if arelationship failes without malice) then they must be very vain ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 1420 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 10/25/2009 12:02:24 PM
It's a pity that their heart was fragile enough to be consumed by the feelings they have for another person, and theiremotional state was fragile enough to be beyond healing ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 81 (view)

When should the woman offer to pay? Posted: 10/25/2009 12:02:11 PM
Pity the person who expects someone else to pay in their future relationships (i.e. lack of) ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 74 (view)

saying to me ever dated a black man? Posted: 10/25/2009 1:27:39 AM
Can't stop Laughing! reminded me of my mate who, being on her own & enjoying a drink, must imply that she want's male attention when the barman approached her and said, "So, your RedHead, are you ?" ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 342 (view)

Is feminism sexism? Posted: 10/25/2009 1:25:49 AM
The vast majority of hetreosexual feminists are with partners They could't achiev that without it In Essence, to to quote a legacy feminist magazine "Spare Rib", 'Fighting for Womens Rights doens't mena Fighting for Women Domination, it just mena Fighting for the Human Right of Respect' ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

do your breakups revolve around the same issues? Posted: 10/25/2009 1:25:28 AM
3 of my 'ex' are now my friends on facebook and no, there wasn't a pattern Every relationship has a different dynamic - though it would be useful for self devlopment on the self in arelationship to know , though this is more usefl for those who have 'high turnovers' of realtionships, or young adultys in thier early 20's awaitng for the mistakes to be made ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 147 (view)

I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags? Posted: 10/25/2009 1:23:29 AM
Illogical, why would they bere here ? Independance is a very attractive quality, as it implies a sense of self-management with the allownace of compromise in a relationship ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 158 (view)

Dating a Gemini Posted: 10/25/2009 1:06:51 AM
Each to their 'atsrological' own ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 997 (view)

yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 10/25/2009 12:54:12 AM
WW { Whatever works } Some people have that kind of work lifestyle where it consumes the quality time given to relationship - look at people working in cities in the financial district! 9+ hours typically! ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 2395 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/18/2009 6:02:32 AM
How many peole have disappeared whilst goign on a 'blind' date Not me matey! ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 417 (view)

How old is too old to still be living with your parents? Would you date someone that still did? Posted: 10/18/2009 6:01:43 AM
Circumstances such as Financials concern mean that some people have to live with other people, including their parents house If that's more important than personality then pity those who se is as a factor ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 261 (view)

Why does it seem that men dislike intelligent and witty women? Posted: 10/18/2009 5:59:57 AM
Sounds like a 'honeypot' thread !! (sic) ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 378 (view)

My Weight and My Boyfriend Posted: 10/18/2009 5:58:47 AM
Mentioned before ..i'm sure Don't change yourself for anyone - they are never worth it if they demand it But If there something you don't like and you can't change for yourself, then......... ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 22 (view)

Is true love even possible? Posted: 10/18/2009 5:57:08 AM
To answer the Question... ...What do YOU think ? ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 137 (view)

Show some intelligence when writing someone. Posted: 10/18/2009 5:55:15 AM
The Attitude of Intelligence of themselves will allways shine through quite quickly ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 283 (view)

Let's get naked Posted: 10/18/2009 5:45:02 AM
In the Lounge & not looking down at anyone :) ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 197 (view)

Single parents, are they abusing the welfare system? Posted: 10/18/2009 5:44:27 AM
Single mother, 5 children, pays for a degree, then a masters in Law, achieves a 1:1 - pays for her courses from her own money ...The phrase that includes 'book' and 'cover' springs to mind ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 110 (view)

The unoffical rules of dating a single mother. Posted: 10/18/2009 5:39:02 AM
There are 'rules' !?!?!?!?!?! And 'unofficial' ones........!!!!!! ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 378 (view)

Never married & no kids Posted: 10/18/2009 5:33:05 AM
If this is a 'taboo' then it's a great 'taboo'! ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 24 (view)

freinds with the ex Posted: 10/18/2009 5:32:26 AM
When you 'ex's become friends, and lose that tag, then you had a good relationship ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 46 (view)

met my soul mate, but he doesn't want me Posted: 10/18/2009 5:30:57 AM
I think those who ahve been divorced\widowed and have foudn another parnter would think it is a mircle ot have a 2nd soul mate That 'those' would be in the millions of people around the world One more thing - the sucess of a relationship is what you do, not how you tag it... As you get older, you begin to unerstsand your emotions, value them, and. above all, manage them ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 29 (view)

How can i help him cum??? Posted: 10/18/2009 3:26:10 AM
A Sex Therapist may be able to help - to understand & help improve the dynamic of the relationship - unless he has a problem 'full stop' Genrically spekaing Lust & Feminism are compatible ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 180 (view)

Dating while unemployed Posted: 10/18/2009 3:24:16 AM
Meeting a Online Friend ( 'dating 'is so passé), who was unemployed woul't be a issue - the heart of sharing costs, asd a principle is essential - this is far removed from 'women' (aka girls ) who expect to be wined & dined ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 376 (view)

When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 10/18/2009 3:16:26 AM
How many replies to describe the gynaecology of the female sex organs?!?!?! ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 103 (view)

Do Cheaters Regret or Reform Posted: 10/18/2009 3:03:17 AM
I'm reminded of the 41 year marriage, where 1 has an affair, divorce, 3 years later marry again ~sc~

steviecashmere

Joined: 4/22/2009

Msg: 420 (view)

Why a virgin? Posted: 10/18/2009 3:02:20 AM
Decades ago, this thread would be' Why have sx before marriage'!! ~ times change as they say Let people be who they want to be so long as they don't impose on anyone else ~sc~

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