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grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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35, No Kids, Never Married Posted: 8/10/2008 9:29:52 AM
The reason I didn't marry anybody in my 18's was that I didn't find anybody I thought was good enough and I wanted to become wealthy or make my mark, spiritually and financially (at, so as not to torture poor innocent wives and kids) . Now, whether or not these issues were for the greater good or from a lesser non-good remains in question. I guess I could be in the lens of anti-social but then all great men are slightly manipulative. Now that I'm busted in Baton Rouge...I will not join a monastery as that is too contemplative and non-practicle; for instance, you could pray and meditate and grow your own crops but that doesn't influence congress or get a guy a pair of socks at the local shelter. Well, I'm all talk but can't talk to a woman since my confidence has to be faked.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Better Than Sex Cake...HELP Posted: 8/10/2008 9:19:12 AM
You've mistakenly romanticized me with thoughts of food...I like it.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Played again... Posted: 8/10/2008 9:17:44 AM
Don't feel bad. I found out in life and high school that guys would ask for numbers as a sport to test their manhood and popularity status and never call the girl back. Now, I just ask people for their numbers socially and hope to cell them but often forget and then lose their number on a small scrap of paper in a sea of strange notes I write to myself. I'm sorry you felted dissed recently...you seem alright. Hurt people Hurt people. Don't feel bad...I was on Myspace.com one time looking for a movie date and to chat and I had my guts ripped out of my while driving in Bolton. (figuratively)

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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ETHNIC ATTRACTION... Posted: 8/8/2008 6:52:58 PM
You can't know my type. Only she can.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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ETHNIC ATTRACTION... Posted: 8/8/2008 6:52:28 PM
I am hardwired for a preference. Hot and sweet and lovely.

grubeci

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Why Do Men Overlook Good Women? Posted: 8/8/2008 6:49:29 PM
I'm as picky as a woman. lol. I DID do the shallow hal thing though one day and REALLy tried to get off my outer fixation or whatever...monkey shine breeding whatever...here's what I found...you could KINDA tell who is less desirable.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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How will i ever get over this! Posted: 7/10/2008 9:07:19 AM
stay off the booze. We care. There are other ways to avoid pain. btw you look like a star!

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Genuine NON-Cheatin Man Posted: 5/17/2008 6:25:38 PM
define cheating? Like emotionally such as when women watch soap operas and sex and the city or read love novels?

grubeci

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Ever hit it off real well...then they get arranged married Posted: 7/12/2005 7:31:52 PM
or move to a foreign country...I hate that.

grubeci

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The 'Secret' About Men That Women Wont Face Posted: 7/12/2005 7:22:56 PM
I wish I knew what I know now and what you knew then DOC (aka I forgotten more than you've ever learned lol) when I was 18...I would be married to a great 30 year old by now..and so at my 32..she would be...46 now ..and we'd have a labrador or butterfly farm by now and maybe a peach tree. Or, sex.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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As you get older..does your wants for a relationship change? Posted: 7/12/2005 8:14:32 AM
wants do change for instance I used to want to be happy....now I just don't want to be sad... (grin) (c'est la vie) I used to be naive and now I just want to be skeptical versus cynical and depressed. I'm am a pessimist disguised as an optimist thats really a naive realist.. hugh? I like good store bought croutons.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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As you get older..does your wants for a relationship change? Posted: 7/12/2005 7:30:18 AM
I used to want a mate-soul lover that was sex sex sex and money and looks. Now I just don't wanna be alone..boo hoooooooooo waaaaaaaaaaaaa. Nah, I want it all still but am willing to simmer vs steam and boil and be a crock pot....

grubeci

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Tracing Information Posted: 7/12/2005 3:41:44 AM
you ARE being spied on. Enjoy it. Its free. I sometimes use zonealarm but there are backdoors for the big boys. Ah, try neotrace. I have no idea. It may as well be smoke signals and wampum.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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I need the Guys' Perspective Posted: 7/11/2005 1:37:43 PM
harley and a million groups meets his boredom lonliness needs??? so...its your job to win him over....there are a million womans magazines...and 4 mens magazines....the mens magaznies are funny and fun and have naked sexy women...nuf said.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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I need the Guys' Perspective Posted: 7/11/2005 1:36:29 PM
he's set in his ways? he likes the control? he likes variety and action and activity... get some hobbies and go with him?

grubeci

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Men who are reluctant to wear condoms Posted: 7/10/2005 9:54:45 PM
never bare back on a horse you don't know...also..get off horses...no not like that sicko...

grubeci

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condoms work Posted: 7/10/2005 9:37:52 PM
what tiffy said minus the fact that spermicide may be good as well as other ideas... its like riding a bike except if you're wobbly when getting back on you may have someone else riding a bike soon :) (wear your spermicidal bike helmet) - hold the chin straps when taking off (pushers)

grubeci

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condoms work Posted: 7/10/2005 9:33:34 PM
someone said not to use them if they were in 100 degree car for 10 days!

grubeci

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condoms work Posted: 7/10/2005 8:38:15 PM
thought you should know but there are a few safety issues with using them such as...

grubeci

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Regarding food shopping and sex: never go hungry without a list Posted: 7/10/2005 8:37:14 PM
never go shopping starving without a list. lol.

grubeci

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Thou Shalt Not Kill Posted: 7/10/2005 2:08:42 PM
Thou Shalt Not Kill came at the time of humans and Jews and Moses. He was probably an elder in the dessert with a bunch of fighting people that were killing each other over camels, adultry, lies, and golden calf worship...hot, flies, sand, dirt, (no a/c and no cable tv..) just golden cows...and so he said...stop killing each other (inspired by burning bushes ... y-w-h) stop lying (false witness) stop cheating stop stealing your neighbors wife and animals to get ahead stop killing each other basically, if one tribe does it an another tribe doesn't....you get la gang riots...and blacks being left behind though here first..while....religoius and aggressive breeders....spanish get ahead...even though..new to scene...one tribe ..lives...due to rules..and breeding and money aggression..and another DIEs and becomes minority??? I'm not sure. But who likes getting killed??? They say we all live due to someone making a dying or someone dying..but the world population goes up....so thats not entirey true...oh yeah, nature and animals and pollutio nare taking the hit...so ...something is dying for us to live...that is where the respect comes in...???

grubeci

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Thou Shalt Not Kill Posted: 7/10/2005 2:03:03 PM
I guess its wrong because if you kill a snowflake you may never see that one again? Also, if you kill everyone then when you get killed by everyone else..you can't cry..."hey, thats not fair!" Also, when you kill someone then when their 10 other family members think about it for 40 years...sometimes they say...maybe I'll feel better if I kill too and they come for you....stuff like that. Basically, the palestinian arab/jewish thing...suppossedly related a long time ago on the monkey tree (evolution)

grubeci

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Everyone should walk a day in someone's shoes - develop compassion Posted: 7/10/2005 1:58:31 PM
brilliant. I have a friend that said everyone from the pope to the president should have to clean own lav or toilet. I have cleaned my own toilet and let me tell you...I'm more careful if I'm the only one on duty.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Is there any good reason for a man to be married for anything else other than raising a family? Why? Posted: 7/10/2005 1:56:13 PM
good point. marriages implies love (hahhahahha) otherwise...leave it to the pros? (house cleaning)

grubeci

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Ego stroke? Posted: 7/7/2005 12:25:06 PM
Sometimes a super ego is a super-ego.

grubeci

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Ego stroke? Posted: 7/7/2005 12:24:32 PM
not sure. probably not...ever would be better...whats an ego...super is what it is.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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What happened to the sex drive of men over the age of 25???? Posted: 7/7/2005 10:14:12 AM
If you find out...please tell me... thanks. mornings, nutrition, exercise, and thor like command of the territory...but you lose your hair?

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Have you read these predictions about the Armageddon? Posted: 7/6/2005 9:57:01 PM
If enough people love and resist the temptation for vice..the the viritues might counteract the bad stuff...

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Have you read these predictions about the Armageddon? Posted: 7/6/2005 9:56:06 PM
Putin they say is a paranoid ex KGB-er. The pope is quiet and suppossed to be the shortest in reign. China is red with anger and commerce and a-moral communism aligned with russia. Israel ain't no roll-over so that should piss off the non roll-over Russians and Chinese....oh yeah...people will act like people always have but this time we're not tossing sticks and stones and names. Pray for peace and deliverance.... be not afraid be faithful Love God and others with whole self.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Nietsche Posted: 7/6/2005 9:53:33 PM
3 years of minstry at age 33. Like a t.v. repairman that is there for 2 minutes but charges 100 dollars. Yeah, but its knowing "where" to hit the box and fix.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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How many men have turned down a woman for sex? Posted: 7/6/2005 9:39:43 PM
It IS a wonderment..but IT can happen...good post.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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What should I make of this Posted: 7/6/2005 7:45:55 PM
sorry. Well, at least you found out and decided...hmmm Maybe she needs sex anonymous

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Your prison is walking through this world all alone ? Posted: 7/6/2005 12:37:52 PM
come to your senses you been out riding fences...you aint getting no younger...your prison is walking all alone through this world...you only want..the ones...you can't get... ! the best of my love I can't tell you why I want to sleep with you in the dessert air, million star all around...peaceful easy feeling...

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Why do nice guys ALWAYS finish last? Posted: 7/5/2005 10:31:38 PM
probably love and support from the guy least likely to give it...or to other men. Not sure. No edge no spine no bone they can pick on...??? they want the lovins from someone unlovable or totally lovable. ?? who knows.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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I will OBEY you??? Posted: 7/5/2005 10:27:09 PM
I'm voting for stillettos and maxed out credit cards....NO! Stillettos though... probably.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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I will OBEY you??? Posted: 7/5/2005 10:26:05 PM
my brothers wife got a dog training book and used to smash down the dogs nose or hold him on his back uncomfy..or whatever...I didn't like that...but I guess...it works...and anyway..I can't prove it..but I was wondering if she was using that shit on my brother...grrrrrr Anyway, now I'm learning how to train birds to shit on her car. Nooooooo just kidding..they fight...and when he gets too tired to fight...she will win...and then...maxed out credit cards and ....no she's pretty cool...and all his stuff..out and hers in....but its cool.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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How do you define a dysfunctional relationship. Posted: 7/5/2005 10:22:43 PM
I'd love some functioning at this juncture...trying..how do you go about it? my function is to...

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Wild girls or girls who arent wild which you prefer? Posted: 7/5/2005 10:20:57 PM
well, if this is a learning planet...in the trust tree...then I'd have to say never let them tell you they're all the same: some like s&M (which works like in that movie where bill murray was the masochist and Steve Martin was the sadist....dentist..lol) spunk and liveliness is good. And, peace treaties...are good too.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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how long is too long???? Posted: 7/5/2005 3:56:59 PM
Women focus in on "the one" that arrives...and reject all others...men approach everyone and focus on "the one" that thinks he's "the one" (if everything at right stage and point in life...blah blah blah) ... women have back burners..too..and friends..and support network..and then create back ups when they're about to break up or want to break up....or can just walk in a bar..good for him..he might be forgetful...too..or can't juggle..women..like you can juggle 100 relationships and work...players though can...hmmm He may have just been working or busy for 3 weeks. ah...not sure. He may be playing the field..or doesn't turn computer on that often..is this a soap opera..whats roman, stefano, and bo doing..dammit.? ??? why dont you just ask him?

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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How to deal... Posted: 7/5/2005 3:53:49 PM
ou treat them like someone you can NOT trust.....very very cautiously...and remember , never tell your best friend everything , they might not always be your friend and never do the worst you can to an enemy , they might not always be an enemy be careful snowbird...why do you snowbird down to florida? can you be trusted or are you a flight risk? hmmm? Yeah, I've been discrete and trustworhty...but lately I can't trust myself and my own judgement..and this has been the worst kind of betrayal...dirty mind and in san us (in sane means un clean) I need a clean mind....the cleaner I am the more dirty everyone else seems....untouchables class....like in india.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Friend loving dangerously Posted: 7/5/2005 3:51:00 PM
He needs to stop humping her b/c you miss your friend and then he needs to be a millionaire or get dumped by her? NO, I don't know the situation enough...seek professional advice..and a counselor for yourself and her and him. ?

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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She removes the padded bra, control top underwear ... do you feel deceived Posted: 7/5/2005 3:49:05 PM
I like a woman with control mascara, control lip stick, control rouge, control hairspray, control heels and dress or blouse and skirt or jeans, control girdle...nah..au naturale is best if possible...dressing up is for when you don't have to do farm work...or keep up with jonses.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Erotic Stories....what do you have??? Posted: 7/5/2005 3:43:29 PM
hows this...the little debbie snack cake...slowly yielded to his tender pull a quick yang and now she was all his whispering hermetically to him (her plastic dress falling to the floor) ...im' fresh...I'm sweet..I'm new...but mostly.I'm alll yours...soon we'll be as one..like an Elvis Peanut butter and jelly bannana sandwich...he pulled her close...closely to his mouth..and looked at her one more time...the sweetness connected and he had her yielding all over his lips...as she broke up upon him....relentless..the merged...and then he breathed deeply knowing they had just become one...he then went jogging..so they were fit...together..and may cheat on her with a nice italian girl: the caesar salad...she's one hot spicy chicken...and she's on top. Oh, little debbie though...you'd never hurt me...you love me..and I like you a great deal....snack cakes....(wear protection..a muzzle cone) smile...(:?)

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Erotic Stories....what do you have??? Posted: 7/5/2005 3:33:20 PM
For some reason all my post it notes .. (I had to look away from this siren of a post...don't delete will revisit...lol) are premoistened and not sticky...but just tacky enough to attach but you can easily pull off...is this due to this post? :) the associations weren't lost on me. last time I read one like this...you're trying to make bacon and breakfast nook associations and pans.and...frying pans..taking home...aagahlee..aren't you? SMILE...ok let me read this thing...putting on my welding googles...

grubeci

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who likes toon porn? Posted: 7/5/2005 3:30:03 PM
If its toon porn..I don't get the crayon okay? stick women...too thin.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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How important is a since of humor in a relationship?? Posted: 7/5/2005 3:28:23 PM
hey, is this post suppossed to be funny or something? (whats the idea? ...laugh or cry...you choose)

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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When do you really know someone is into you?? Posted: 7/5/2005 10:24:58 AM
well, first off...any red blooded american male or sexy international male (the catalog) would like you... 2nd...I used to miss all clues about a girl liking me..and I realize I still do..must be some horror I experienced as a kid..but I guess...if a woman is talking to you, listening to you, calling you, going out with you, and any touch...then she probably likes you... Guys...if they don't they wont. Ah, as for if a guy likes you...he will stop seeing friends and other girls? Ah, he will be with you as well...spending time...the only thing any of us got to spend...that we can't make more of...so precious. Anyway...nice guys with romance...aren't needed..woman need control and money and looks...and romance..and sense of humor..and.....LOL..THERES PLENTY OF FISH...for all..enjoy..the swimmm SPEED SKATE.

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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Would you have a relationship with a born again or recycled virgin Posted: 7/5/2005 10:15:12 AM
you wont forget how to ski or ride a bike..but you wont be doign trick skiing, speed skiiing, or other dangerous and exciting moves out of the gate either..LOL I have a fundamentalist religious friend who says she's born again and also that she's a virgin again..well...as far as the mind set and "taking it slow" otherwise....eh...I love her though..she's a really good person. (now) 180 overall

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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age differences...does it matter? Posted: 7/5/2005 10:10:22 AM
I hope I don't get sedendary too much and mechanized routined where I'm making peanut butter sandwiches (routinely for lunch) and drinking eclipse and ovaltine...and starting to get that old man smell..I also hope I don't do what I saw some guy doing...having a perma-youth where you wear same old clothes and act the same..that would suck too. hmmm. I remember a guy doign that..I think its a midlife crisis except this guy was actually not having a crisis..it was inappropriate..lifestyle...I guess...who am I to judge.. arylyn(sp) you didn't mention erikson - I forgot him (8 stages.) and maslow...and ...like freud...oh no...self actualized at the highest energy level..at the highest stage of life...I will serve you all and then die...or better live on...clunk ahhhhhhhhh (beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep) code tangerine...vs code blue. (I like white or purple?)

grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003

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age differences...does it matter? Posted: 7/5/2005 10:06:31 AM
sasssy. the guy has to keep his sass to keep his lass..though...sipping wine, poppin aspirin, working out, eating right...(lol) oh no!

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