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 Author Thread: What is LOVE?
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
What is LOVE?
Posted: 11/23/2009 6:11:24 PM
I "love" people who do thread searches!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Are there some men who really DON'T like women but need their sexual needs met?
Posted: 11/23/2009 5:34:13 PM

I always chuckle when I see people consistently post bitterness and unveiled dislike towards the opposite gender in the pond they are casting bait in.
(yeah, OP, I noticed too.)

Wonder how that's working for them?


Well they always seem to have plenty of "alone time" to start threads and send people personal e-mails..

For me it's not about gender, it's about maturity and common fecking sense. I absolutely despise stupid people. But hey, blame it on my morals or my feelings of pain from relationships from years gone by.

Then again my morals keep me from sleeping with people that won't even tell me their name. (ahem)
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:21:32 PM

Thanks for the beating everyone..


Wow, if your going to whine about a few honest replies calling them a beating, your going to scream like a little girl when your"friend" aka her husband gives you one!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Finding relief in reading the forums.
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:18:57 PM

but what you see in the forums is a mild reflection of what exists in real life. Puts you on warning.


That has always been in the back of my mind. How "norm" does it have to get on-line before it becomes the "norm" in the real world?

Before too long this on-line coddling of the special ed class will turn in to a world with even more laws protecting the stupid people. It's common sense that will be shunned and outlawed.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:06:24 PM

Reminds me of a Ricky Lake Show, where a couple who were in their 20's were discussing that the had sex with each other. The man said he didn't know how that happened.




























You watch the Ricky Lake show.....
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Finding relief in reading the forums.
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:02:51 PM

So answer the question for yourself, since you are a card carrying member of this group that, in my observation, YOU have contempt for.


Hey asshat, answer the fecking question! Or go start another thread based on an idea you got from reading this one.

If anyone takes my thread personally thats their fecking problem. I never mentioned you any names, or even specific topics. So I'm not going to apologise for you taking it as a personal attack. You stood up and yelled foul all by yourself!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:54:30 PM
Hmmmm, I detect a troll....or maybe just a true example of a dumb azz.


I love you, will you marry me?

I so want to have your babies right now.


(BTW , how did her husband taste ?)

My man!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Finding relief in reading the forums.
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:41:21 PM
With all the insane asshat issues that so many people seem to have in the real world with relationships, have you ever realised your not missing much if this is really what the world is turning into?

Most of what is posted is asinine at best, yet these people seem to think it's the norm.
Then with the serious replies those threads get, I'm starting to think it is too.

I mean who really needs all of the chaos, drama, and childish problems in their lives?
I have often wondered if most don't meet while in line at the pharmacy getting their anti psychotic/depression scrips filled.

So does reading threads help you find comfort in only having relationships with family and friends , if anything just to avoid ever running into some of the ignorant asshat people ?
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
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Are there some men who really DON'T like women but need their sexual needs met?
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:31:54 PM
In reality people are generally treated just as they should be.

@sshole are treated like @sshole and cum dumpsters are treated like cum dumpsters.

The only real problem is, is getting whack jobs to accept the fact that they are whack jobs and getting the cum dumpsters to realise they have noting more to offer then orifices.

Every once and awhile something bad happens to a good person, but for the most part, we all get exactly what we deserve.

So if people are finding that most people treat them the same way, there is a reason.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 37 (view)
 
bi man marrying women
Posted: 11/23/2009 10:55:23 AM
OP, I'm sure you will be able to find a woman to marry you anyways.
So don't let being bi hold you back from trying. Yes it will be challenging, but I'm sure if you just keep trying things will work out.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
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Cheating
Posted: 11/22/2009 7:37:58 PM
Why not research this fecking redundant topic?
There are so many threads on this subject it's ridiculous. Almost as ridiculous as people who refuse to use the fecking "thread search" option.

The only thing more ridiculous are the asshats who keep voting to keep all of these asshat redundant threads! Yes, I'm talking to you . The "keep em all" asshats that keep threads just out of spite because once you started some asinine redundant thread and it got deleted. So now you vote to keep everything!

Just think about it though, yours still got deleted and nothing is going to bring them back!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Would a person who suffered a brain injury be a turn off for you?
Posted: 11/21/2009 6:48:59 AM
Is this a question you are asking for yourself? As in are there any women out there that would date "me" even though I have had a brain injury???????
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Depression
Posted: 11/20/2009 8:12:50 PM
Wow, I'm starting to wonder what the feck is in the water around here. What ever it is, both the posters and the op's are drinking it.

but after talking to some of our mutual friends they noticed that there was a change in her since she has been away. these friends are more her friends then mine and she seems to have lost contact with them.


Ok, how can they see a change in her if she has been away?
As you said "she seems to have lost contact with them...

Why doesn't anyone else see this shet?

Come on it was so obvious, yet you guys are giving out medical advice, and seek help suggestions. Seriously?

Here's the only help I can offer, stop reading articles about 2nd chances thinking it will help you diagnose other people after talking to people that haven't seen them!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 32 (view)
 
How to tell a woman to start paying for part of the date
Posted: 11/20/2009 5:45:23 AM
Are you the same poster that started a similar thread about the drunk driving fitness instructor?

You paid for a few dates and it would have been fine if she was putting out? But because she wasn't it was a problem.. Hmmmm Because this all sound s too damn familiar.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 80 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/20/2009 5:28:46 AM

I think it's down right cheesy to start a thread about dumping some one.


But teacher, that just means the circle is complete.

The first few threads where about the whine, so it's about time someone offered up some cheese to go along with it. Most people have no clue how to cater a good pity party!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 73 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/19/2009 8:18:12 PM

Msg. #69 - You said it all so beautifully, and quite accurately I must say. However, you missed the "money" part. I know several guys who choose to stay in bad relationships simply because they don't want to pay lawyers' fees, alimony, child support, etc. Some will die old and unhappy with their miserable partners - others will wait until the kids are out of the house, and others until they can no longer tolerate their terrible relationships before leaving. What kind of life is that?

Nope it's covered.

2. The Practicalities
Perhaps it’s a financial situation – how on earth can you rent or buy a place on just your income?
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 69 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/19/2009 7:18:00 PM

Why do people stay in such TERRIBLE relationships?

Oh, I know - they're scared to be alone, or they lack confidence in themselves, or they don't want to start over with someone new. But I bet the main reason is that for most people they just don't want to be ALONE.


Actually it's number 5!

As a general rule, we know when we’re done. A constant depression coupled with no communication, no joy, no laughter, no physical contact, no love…no need to really explain further, right? But despite the telltale signs, many of us continue to stay in relationships that have clearly run their course.

Those couples suffering may spend all of their time together bickering and arguing, and the rest of it avoiding and withdrawing, but something still stops them from pulling the plug. From the outside it may seem like a complete mystery why, but here are just five reasons people stay in bad relationships…


1. The Devil You Know ...
Bad relationships can be habit forming: it may not be good, but you know what to expect. For some these familiar patterns bring a kind of comfort, and induce an almost irrevocable inertia. Coupled with a fear of change, this can be decidedly lethal, and potentially lead to many years of unhappiness. In this scenario, it’s important to understand that ‘familiar’ doesn’t necessarily mean ‘good’. Try and look beyond what you have to what could be, and find the strength to make a change. Imagine the relationship you want, and don’t stand still until you’ve got it.

2. The Practicalities
For many, the everyday practicalities of day-to-day living get in the way of making the right kind of life-changing decisions. Perhaps it’s a financial situation – how on earth can you rent or buy a place on just your income? What will you do for health insurance? Who’s going to do all those jobs around the house? Maybe you’re simply too embarrassed to tell your friends? Here it’s important to know that for every problem, there is some kind of solution. Sometimes it means taking baby steps to get to a new place that will ultimately be better for everyone. Just because your new life is more than a stretch away, it doesn’t mean you can’t get there.

3. For The Children
Clearly this is one of the most complex and serious reasons why people in bad relationships stay together. It’s also perhaps the most pressing reason to make every effort to work as hard on it as possible before giving up. Having said that, if your relationship is abusive or horribly dysfunctional, it could still be better for all concerned to leave it while you still can. It’s neither good for you or your children to be exposed to the worst type of human behavior.

4. Who Else Would Want Me?
Low self-esteem is a huge hurdle to overcome when it comes to getting out of a bad relationship. Often, it’s actually being in the relationship that’s caused you to feel bad about yourself in the first place. Or if not, that’s how you got yourself there – ‘they’re not right, but who else would want to go out with me?’ There are no quick fixes to improving your self-image, and in many cases it can require one-on-one therapy to help turn how you feel around. But remember that what may seem like the worst alternative – being on your own – may not be such a horrible one. Which brings us, finally, to…

5. Fear of Being Alone
Sometimes we have a completely irrational fear of being on our own, which in turn can keep us in a relationship well beyond its sell-by. But when you really stop to think about it, what’s so horrible about spending some quality time with the one person we know we can at least agree with? In fact, some extended alone time can be really good for you. It’s an opportunity to catch up on those things we’ve been not-so-secretly dying to do: maybe it’s a night class, maybe some redecoration… it could simply be giving yourself the time to see those movies you missed. Best of all, though, it’s a chance to really get to know and understand yourself, and give you the chance to discover what it is you need and want from a relationship next time around.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Start off as the new partner, then become their parent
Posted: 11/19/2009 1:43:18 PM
My complaint department's motto is, "Grab a number and get in line."
Give me a buck for every asshat I've ever pissed off on-line when I'm being honest or even cracking a joke..





I'd buy Hawaii!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Start off as the new partner, then become their parent
Posted: 11/19/2009 5:56:36 AM

I attract those who have an obligation to worry about me, instead of looking after their own life.

Yeah well, water always seeks it's own level, even in the shallowest of ponds.

There is never a shortage of rednecks who know nothing beyond the end of their driveway and just can't figure out anyone smarter than Larry the Cable Guy...

Well don't give up yet man, there is still hope for you and Larry.

Like I said in another post that you love reading because, maybe you want to hot tub with me, come live my life and learn my past before you judge and condemn.

You wouldn't know what to do if a man like myself came in and cleaned house. Your problems are of your own making, yet you seem to think you life is of your problems making. (and yes, drowning your type in a hot tub has come to mind more then once)

Guys like you would have used a 12 gauge on yourself long time ago if you'd experienced 1/4 of what I did.
Got it?

No I don't "got it"! I've never been the weak whiny pity me for I make alot of mistakes but don't know how to live life types.

And seeing how it works for you, I don't think I've missed anything.

You should learn how to become a better host. You should know by know that you should serve cheese with all of your whine when throwing your pity parties.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Start off as the new partner, then become their parent
Posted: 11/18/2009 7:50:21 PM
You know man, I'm starting to wonder just how many paths you are trying to walk down at one time. You seemed to always be going in a different direction in life every time you start a tread. I mean honestly, how many different ways can one person be lost?
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Is being yourself really good advice?
Posted: 11/18/2009 7:44:40 PM
For myself, there is always only one way to go. Being myself has never failed me when it mattered, and I never know when it's going to matter.

But I wouldn't suggest such an extreme life style for the average or "nice" guys. Definitely go with the fake. Even if they keep saying piss off when you say hello, that false sense of security is at least getting you in the door. And that "piss off" is two more words then you would get being yourself. It gives you guys "Hope" and gawd knows every little bit helps!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 57 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/18/2009 7:33:29 PM

I've never understood this complaint. Yes, everyone who posts something wants attention. That's why they made a post.

Then the odds are, you would understand the answer.

Anyone can start a thread. Anyone. When something juicy like this one comes in, and the lonely souls trying to live vicariously through other people (the op) via the forums, they call it "feeding the trolls"..

That is an actual site phrase. Attention seeking is another term they use. When someone starts 2 or 3 threads about the same subject (as the OP did), then start 's another one to keep people updated, that is a perfect example of Attention seeking, and Trolling for attention.

Now you may see this type of drama as an everyday thing like the op obviously does, and thats why Jerry Springer was so popular for so long. It's to bad the Op didn't hang around long enough to find out he's really a she.

Where I come from they call em "drama queens" and we keep them at a safe distance.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 53 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/18/2009 6:15:34 PM

Another sarcastic load of dribble from POFs master flamer.

Yet look who's coat tail you jump on to give you a reason to even post.
With out me there is no reason for you to even be here you little "tea cup"...Lmsao!

Op, you have a dramatic sense about you. From the first thread on this topic all the way to your need for an entire new thread to inform the drama magnets and lonely souls of the update to your situation.

Does everything in your life really require this much attention and advice?
I guess it's a good thing there isn't a "what should I wear today" forum.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH
Posted: 11/18/2009 1:10:13 PM
Well thank you so much for the update. I've been hanging on by a thread wondering whats been going on. Thank gawd the wait is finally over and I can get back to my regularly scheduled life.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Are you sure your ready for a relationship again?
Posted: 11/18/2009 12:11:21 PM
In a world full of self centeredness and self absorption, over inflated ego's and pride, with out forgetting a dash or two of victimised mentality how many people do you think are actually able to do a healthy and honest "self appraisal"?

It's called DENIAL, my friend. It's no longer just a river in Egypt. It's now a life style.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Dumped/Back together advice ???
Posted: 11/17/2009 7:52:12 PM
She finds another one before she dumps you and you took her back?

But no shet though.

Are you going to be really really surprised when she does it again? I bet you will be!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Complicated Girl Question
Posted: 11/17/2009 7:49:14 PM
Fecking spare me the "she was busy" or that she might be a "single parent" CRAP. Who the hell are you guys trying to baffle with bullshet here?

I am sure you would all be in arms and quoting the never used enough "he's just not that into you" bullshet if it was a woman asking the same question.

If the crack head doesn't like to text, then she should open her mouth and say so. Feck the excuses how about some respect? If not for him then for herself.

No time to meet up, few calls and very few replies to texting, But has plenty of time to chat on-line. Hello???? Is this thing on or what? HELLO?
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Complicated Girl Question
Posted: 11/17/2009 7:41:44 PM
She's in another relationship and is just hanging on to you as a back up. But don't feel to good about that, because your only one of a few back up's she keeps around.

They come and go as they get tired of what your dealing with and she just replaces them with another you. Lather, rinse, and repeat!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Guys, Ready for the Christmas favorites rush?
Posted: 11/17/2009 7:50:41 AM
That's what you need! More shet to worry about.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Is dating a 22 year old virgin male OK?
Posted: 11/16/2009 8:58:33 PM
I'm gonna have to go with "what is an asshat troll" for a thousand Alex?

Funny a few asshats are whining about threads getting deleted and yet this asinine crap stayed up. I can only imagine how bad the other crap was if they we're actually deleted.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
TEXTS FROM THE EX
Posted: 11/13/2009 5:37:02 AM

My question is if she doesn't want me then why all the texts?

I'm sorry but you must have this place confused with the psychic hot line, maybe try Cleo or the daily horoscope in your local paper.



And how do i get her to stop without looking like a wuss or a jerk?

I've got an ingenious idea, text her!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
am i being used?
Posted: 11/13/2009 5:31:26 AM
You really seem to have a major "Victim" mentality.
And the sad thing is the only person victimising you, is you!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
on-again, off-again
Posted: 11/11/2009 9:27:33 PM

Am I happy with all of this drama in my life? Would I be happier if none of this drama was in my life?

Wait a second here.... The drama is the op's not the boyfriends or the young hottie he was making out with. Dramatic people have drama, and it's of their "own making".



I think if you keep him you will always wonder about him and it could possibly make you crazy eventually. Your post says more than you think.

Possibly make her crazy eventually?

But no shet though!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
too fast, too soon!
Posted: 11/11/2009 9:09:52 PM
So when you filled out that questionnaire about what the "love of your life" would be like is this really how it read?

If she's like this after only 5 months I can only imagine the stories your going to have after 5 years and your under a suicide watch in the nut house, while she's entertaining her ex in your water front home.

You seem to think her ex walks all over her, yet failed to notice that she walking all over you! Is your name "Mat" ? As in door mat?
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
on-again, off-again
Posted: 11/11/2009 8:53:03 PM

Should I just try to get over it?

Whats there to get over? Other then your need for this to be all about you.

Should I be worried about what this says about our relationship?

How in the world does this have anything to do with your relationship?
Oh thats right it doesn't! You just need some drama in your life.

Should I talk to him more about it?

Yes ask him all the details. How she smelt, felt, and tasted.

Is his name Ross and your name Rachel? Seriously WTF?

By the way, a pass is grabbing some @ss or passing a phone number, they made out. Big difference. That involved tongues. His tongue in her mouth doing the tango!

Do you ever wonder if he thinks of her while he's kissing you? Well now you will!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
i wanna know what you think of this??
Posted: 11/11/2009 9:45:01 AM

Sometimes I come across a thread out here that makes me feel soooooo much better about myself. This is one of them. Thank you for your help.


But no shet though!

Self esteem? Check!
Self respect? Check!
Head out of my @ss? Check!

Funny how we either get the over inflated ego and pride or the complete lacking there of.. What ever happened to "middle ground"?
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
6 month relationship
Posted: 11/11/2009 9:34:54 AM

I have lots of hobbies...I was just looking for opinions nothing more. But hey thanks for the advice, I will run right out and get one!

Sorry if it wasn't the "magical" solution you where looking for. My magic 8 ball is in the shop. Why ask here, I'm sure a princess like you has a fairy godmother..
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
6 month relationship
Posted: 11/11/2009 9:03:48 AM
I think your making to much out of it. 6 months in and your concerned about whether he will marry you or not is a waste of time. Things are going good enough that this is just something for you to focus on. Get a hobby!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 461 (view)
 
Sarcasm red flag or not?
Posted: 11/10/2009 9:24:39 PM

Biggest load of arrogant sh*t I've ever heard.


Hey, don't talk to my future ex wife like that. And by the way, you just proved her point!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Feast or Famine
Posted: 11/10/2009 9:07:37 PM
It's all explained on page 3 of "Don't date her dude". Something to do with the angle of Uranus and the ring of Jupiter and a full harvest moon!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 459 (view)
 
Sarcasm red flag or not?
Posted: 11/10/2009 8:39:44 PM

Sarcasm is a sign of intelligence.
Most dumb people can't use or understand sarcasm.


I love you!

Sarcasm being a red flag is a red flag for me.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 32 (view)
 
How much is too much?
Posted: 11/10/2009 7:00:52 PM
Bee, seriously don't let it get to you. I am like a fecking troll magnet around here and show little to no sympathy for adult children with dating dilemmas. Yet you come across very sincere and worthy of the respect that was lacking in this situation.

Just write this one up as one for the whack jobs. Since your last walk up dating boulevard the population has boomed and times have changed . So the number of half wit butt munchers is alot higher and they are better camouflaged then ever before.

(disclaimer for the up tight nut knockers that will want to turn my comment into ammo for your cause, bit me! lmao) (oh and we fecking know "men do it too")
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How much is too much?
Posted: 11/10/2009 12:45:58 PM
So she didn't reply to any mails or return any phone calls, and then pops up to call you pushy... And this bothers you why?

She's a flake, so why bother yourself with her opinion of you?
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Does it change
Posted: 11/8/2009 8:26:43 PM
For me it does. I get sleepy after good sex. And ask my sock, sex with me is always good!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Should I just let it go??
Posted: 11/8/2009 8:24:57 PM
Well for one, now you know what he was doing for those few months he was gone. (date another girl and telling her the same thing)
Then it was your turn for a few months.

Now he is hooked up with the girl he chatting with and leaving hanging while he was dating you!

What should you do? Wake the hell up and realise you are just another one of his conquests. He sees women as three things. Then, now and next.
You have been all you can be to him, you started of as a next then became a now and have become a then. Except it and move on!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Any advice would be helpful
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:32:48 PM
Get rid of them all and spend some time getting to know yourself. Take a few months realign man. It will be worth every second!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Why do people think its acceptable to tell you its not your fault?
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:01:48 PM

So why don't we just tell the other person were they went wrong? i found myself in this situation and i would much prefered to have been told what i did or did'nt do so i ca learn from my past relationships!!
So can you please tell me your views on this please?


People do not have to do anything wrong for there not to be a connection.
What can possibly be learned from my dislikes that will help you with the next guy anyways? He's going to be a completely different person then I am, so how's it going to help?

That's why I only worry about being myself. If it doesn't work out so be it. I do not need to know what someone else's opinion of me is, especially if they are not interested in me any longer.

The only judgement or opinion of me or my life that matters at all is my own!
Try it some time. It's freedom for the soul!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Divorced for 10 years and still wearing the wedding band
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:47:45 PM
How about I wear mine because it's mine. I paid more then a grand for my ring and it looks better on my finger then it does in a box on my dresser.

Rings are supposed to be very personal. Not only from a marriage standpoint but the reality of it is it's something "I had planned on wearing the rest of my life".

Lets not leave out how nice it goes with my watch and bracelet.
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
23 year old woman without children, and I'm weird?
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:17:10 AM
Jaxon, what the feck does any of this have to do with relationships?








VVVVVVV" Isn't that relationship related?VVVVVVV

And you think not having kids is the problem.. But no shet though. Lacking a relationship is now a relationship issue.. Feck me running up hill in the falling rain!
 ~The Rock Man~
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
23 year old woman without children, and I'm weird?
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:03:12 AM

Seriously.... do you really need to ask for re assurance that your wierd for thinking its ok you dont have kids by 23 years old?? If so thats even more "wierd" than the guys asking the question in the first place.


Thank you kingsfan.

This is nothing more then attention trolling.
Well unless the op actually lacks any common sense!
It must be a slow day on pof when this becomes worthy of conversation!
 
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