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a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 82 (view)

seeing guy for 2 months and he still on pof Posted: 10/23/2009 11:38:24 PM
RE: Forum101 Sorry, I didnt read the whole post...if he asked her how he could hide is profile but then didnt...THEN...NOW I can see the problem. I'd say...dont put all your eggs in this basket. It COULD turn out well...so dont give up just yet...it's just off to a rocky start.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 155 (view)

Dating a Gemini Posted: 10/23/2009 11:18:10 PM
Ouch at everything negative that's said here... I'm a Gemini....EVERYONE, RUN AWAY!!! :P

a_chris79

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Msg: 36 (view)

Girlfriend's Ex Won't Leave Her Alone - Need Advice! Posted: 10/23/2009 11:06:31 PM
She can change her number if she wanted to.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 35 (view)

From lover to boyfriend Posted: 10/23/2009 10:58:10 PM
I need to find a neighbor to be sexually active with me! LOL. Sorry... What's your question? Oh... Keep him as your **** buddy....let him know you're interested in that and only that...and keep on with your "the one" search. Honesty is best.

a_chris79

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Msg: 78 (view)

seeing guy for 2 months and he still on pof Posted: 10/23/2009 10:55:53 PM
You're already starting your relationship off bad. You don't trust him. Either leave...or leave it be. You're choice. Once he feels 100% comfortable with your relationship I'm sure he'll let pof go poof.

a_chris79

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Dating again after relationship ending Posted: 10/23/2009 10:53:16 PM
I'm guessing it takes time...don't rush love.

a_chris79

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Let me try it again -- Posted: 10/23/2009 10:52:41 PM
Accidentally got into your bag?

a_chris79

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Msg: 120 (view)

Is it worse to get rejected for your looks or your personality? Posted: 10/22/2009 9:49:58 PM
Looks are amendable to some extent. Personality...not so much.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 99 (view)

Would you date a women bigger and more muscular then you? Posted: 10/22/2009 9:34:33 PM
TSF! uhm. uhm. no.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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Kissing cheating? Posted: 10/22/2009 9:25:42 PM
"took me back" Were you together when she kissed this other guy? You know what...doesnt matter...hickies are immature and stupid. Dump her for THAT...who cares if she cheated.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 29 (view)

Curbing your relationships Posted: 10/22/2009 6:25:52 PM
The girl SHOULD kick the sneezer to the curb. TSF!!! As you said, past relationship has made us much wiser. That helps develop your list of likes and dislikes. As far as I've noticed, most advice IS correct on the "run like hell" assessment. Maybe it would help if you gave an example of where a person shouldn't leave a relationship that was posted on the forums.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 14 (view)

Why.. Posted: 10/22/2009 6:20:57 PM
Question: I don't mean to sound rude but...are you, yourself being a bit shallow? Look at the guys you talk to, if you can honestly say that you talk to a wide spectrum of guys, then that's cool. If you step back and see that they're pretty much the same guy, then you kind of have the same problem they do. If I'm completely wrong about you, then, I owe you some apologies.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 64 (view)

a young beautiful wife with a much older husband Posted: 10/22/2009 6:12:11 PM
Why's she married to him in the first place? Gold diggerish? Advice. Don't marry for money.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 42 (view)

I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags? Posted: 10/22/2009 6:09:48 PM
I dont make too much of it...it's usually something that's uttered after a failed relationship. Mostly said out of frustration. Those who make it known that they "don't need" are the ones who need that exact thing the most.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 50 (view)

How Do You Feel About The Other Person In A Affair? Posted: 10/21/2009 8:12:56 PM
If you KNOW the other person is in a relationship, then YOU'RE wrong too. Life should punish you the way it'll punish the cheater.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 29 (view)

My gut Posted: 10/21/2009 8:10:38 PM
She lied about going to her gf's house but instead of that happening, another guy came out of her home? DONE!

a_chris79

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how to tell if he wants to move forward or subtle trying to break up Posted: 10/20/2009 9:39:34 PM
He's intimidated/scared by you...you're not the right person for him. Bail before he bails on you.

a_chris79

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Msg: 90 (view)

What does NO BAGGAGE mean? Posted: 10/20/2009 9:35:02 PM
To me it means that your heart isn't somewhere else. Devoted (emotionally/romantically) to the future only and not looking into the past.

a_chris79

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Msg: 27 (view)

Mouth Shut or Tattle? Posted: 10/20/2009 9:33:30 PM
It's none of your business, stay out of it. Anddd... Dude...you don't tattle on your boy UNLESS you're interested in seeing April yourself.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 26 (view)

The Stand-By Posted: 10/17/2009 9:40:34 PM
The guy was honest with you and very respectful to you and the girl he's talking to. He didn't choose her over you, he's known her now for a while but is realistic that things may possibly not work out so he left it open to you.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 160 (view)

Guys, what do you think of the girls? Posted: 10/17/2009 9:38:46 PM
LMFAO @ Cybury's comment. "easy... they are all looking for sex but only with Brad Pitt lookalikes" Awesome!

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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He can't afford to date you! Posted: 10/17/2009 9:36:51 PM
Sounds like a gold digger to me.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 108 (view)

Why do women try to make men feel quilty? Posted: 10/17/2009 9:29:44 PM
That's just how women are. Gotta love 'em!

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 103 (view)

Fellas, how would you honestly react to this? Posted: 10/17/2009 9:28:49 PM
Uhm...what do you think??? LOL...props though...that rules. Yes, you must have subway for lunch at least one more time. Must be something in the water, Meridith Viera did this on Who Wants to be a Millionaire recently. FUNNY STUFF!

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 197 (view)

A question for you serious-minded men... Posted: 10/17/2009 9:24:48 PM
No but at the same time don't be "cocky" about it. Lose the modicums...sounds kinky.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 38 (view)

Phone etiquette Posted: 10/17/2009 9:22:57 PM
Whoa. This post seemed innocent at first then...BAM. "I just met someone...when can I phone bone her?" LOL. Slow down buddy. But thanks for the laugh. Uhm...whatever you do, don't tell her that you're looking for phone sex.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

question about cheating Posted: 10/17/2009 9:19:50 PM
"WE WERE ON A BREAK!" I side with Ross on this.

a_chris79

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Msg: 463 (view)

Is Height an issue to Men? Posted: 10/17/2009 3:23:41 PM
Yes. I prefer a girl to be at least a few inches shorter than me. I know it's caveman'y of me, but I want to feel like I'm my girl's protector.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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Are there male chubby chasers/BBW lovers in los angeles? Guys and Gals what is your experience with this? Posted: 10/17/2009 3:22:12 PM
I'm not very pick with the weight of women...as long as you're not too skinny or not too large you're okay with me. I'm more attracted to a cute face, cute smile, and sweet voice. Maybe you didn't have to do so much on the east coast to get a date and that's throwing you off...pick it up on your end a bit (personality/a little more outgoing and friendly) and guys will notice you.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 131 (view)

Imprisoning nonviolent pot dealers -- a useless expense? Posted: 10/17/2009 3:15:36 PM
Useless yes. However... But...if you know it's illegal...why do you keep doing it? You deserve to get arrested for being a dmbss. Get a real job!

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 114 (view)

Can you be TOO honest? Posted: 10/17/2009 3:13:24 PM
Just share stuff on a need to know/relevant basis.

a_chris79

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Msg: 47 (view)

i just want to kiss you.......all night long !!! RIGHT................... Posted: 10/17/2009 3:07:13 PM
LOL. Yup, you're getting set up...kissing leads to touching leads to sex.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 321 (view)

Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 10/17/2009 3:03:46 PM
Yup... the rest of us are ***holes. LOL. You're just frustrated is all. Stick to your "long-term" profile and it'll come around.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 55 (view)

too much in debt? Posted: 10/17/2009 3:01:53 PM
No. This woman's irresponsible with her money...what else is she irresponsible with?

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 112 (view)

I can't understand this woman and her actions HELP!! Posted: 10/17/2009 2:59:25 PM
I think you're stuck on the "very pretty girl". So she has a pretty face...but quite lame about meeting with you. Do you know ANYTHING else about this girl? Ask yourself this... Do you need this drama? More than likely you'll say no...so just bounce.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 72 (view)

A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ? Posted: 10/17/2009 2:55:57 PM
Who established this rule? I don't place a sex limit (min or max) at the third date. Just go with what feels right for you and your date and hope for the best. If someone likes you they won't leave just cause you gave it up the first night. Similarly, they wont leave you cause you didn't give it up that 3rd date either.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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Let me pose a question, how much is to much sex? Posted: 10/17/2009 2:50:22 PM
I think you already know the answer to this. Communicate with your partner. Venting about your frustrations to us will not help your situation any. Good luck.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 68 (view)

Has anyone almost came close to death yet ? Posted: 9/10/2009 2:00:48 AM
One time when I was about 10 or so, I lost a frisbee (or something) up on the roof of the garage. Being the smart kid that I am...i noticed a ladder right next to the garage...immediately thought...SCORE...JUST WHAT I NEED! I carefully placed the ladder up against the garage and I began to ascend the ladder. Rough 1/3 of the way up, the ladder decided to slide away from underneath me...and DOWN I WENT! For about 0.7 to 2.2 seconds I was certain I had seen my end and the story of my life, albeit short, flashed across my mind. Fortunately, I'm able to share this tale. I owe you one God! My sense of adventure was the only thing that died that day. Small price to pay right? :D (Oh...I don't think I ever got my frisbee back. Boo!!!)

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 67 (view)

Has anyone almost came close to death yet ? Posted: 9/10/2009 1:58:39 AM
One time when I was about 10 or so, I lost a frisbee (or something) up on the roof of the garage. Being the smart kid that I am...i noticed a ladder right next to the garage...immediately thought...SCORE...JUST WHAT I NEED! I carefully placed the ladder up against the garage and I began to ascend the ladder. Rough 1/3 of the way up, the ladder decided to slide away from underneath me...and DOWN I WENT! For about 0.7 to 2.2 seconds I was certain I had seen my end and the story of my life, albeit short, flashed across my mind. Fortunately, I'm able to share this tale. My sense of adventure was the only thing that died that day. Small price to pay right? :D (Oh...I don't think I ever got my frisbee back. Boo!!!)

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 29 (view)

Do men ever say I love you first ? Posted: 7/19/2009 6:12:17 PM
Of course... Read on... I love you! See...its possible!

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 239 (view)

Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 7/19/2009 6:10:57 PM
I have nothing bad to say about them. Forgive and forget and move on. Dumper, or dumpee, you dont want to be with someone who you dont want, or doesnt want you. You have to accept that. You'll learn both positives and negatives from every person you date/get involved with.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 59 (view)

Can you fall in love over the phone? Posted: 7/19/2009 6:07:09 PM
You bonded over the phone. Love has many dimensions to it some of which you cant get through the phone.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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Why do women get ready for first meetings and men don't Posted: 5/31/2009 3:27:48 PM
LMFAO...OMG...you cant be serious. Really? That's just sad guys. I hope this is a joke post.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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Are you happy with this site? Posted: 5/31/2009 3:23:49 PM
As good as any I suppose...except for the whole...dont have to pay for the service and this has a wonderful little forum section where I can have most of my fun on (provides entertainment a'plenty on a boring week night).

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 374 (view)

Brazillian (shaved) Posted: 5/23/2009 12:36:33 AM
Wow, I appreciate the pain that you girls go through for us guys. hugs

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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Opinion Needed Posted: 5/23/2009 12:34:24 AM
Honestly, it comes down to how it makes you feel...some people enjoy hearing that....others not so much. What's your take on it? Sounds like you're bothered...talk to her, reassure her that you WANT to be with her (assuming you're with her).

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 131 (view)

Cheating mother Posted: 5/22/2009 9:23:56 AM
If you can...for now try to keep it in your circle of trust (and us, lol). I suggest talking to your brother first and see if the children can make sense of it. Give your best friend a try, too. I hope things work out somehow.

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

Msg: 24 (view)

a moral dilemma Posted: 5/22/2009 12:00:55 AM
Hmmm...I'm mexican...we're known to fit 14 people in a two seater. No problem!!!

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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how to get back with my ex Posted: 5/21/2009 11:58:49 PM
That I'm funny, and great in the sack. :)[\quote] That's cute man. Give it time...let it grow slowly again. Sounds like you guys have something there still...be honest with her and let her come to you (by that I mean, go half way and hope she does the other half and meets you in the middle). I think it'll work out between you two. Hang in there. Good luck!

a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009

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Should I call or give up? Posted: 5/21/2009 11:55:47 PM
Yeah, probably lost interest. Can you remember anything you may have said/done the last time you saw/talked to him...something in there may be responsible.

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