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NJRiser!

Joined: 4/24/2009

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The odds stacked for ladies against men, Hmmm..Interesting! Posted: 11/15/2009 11:18:32 PM
^^^^^So, true. Accudler, there is an huge thing that is going on in the United States right now. There are women outnumbering men at a drastic rate. The same thing with Brazil, it's not talked about because, Congress and the White House are mostly made of men. There use to be an influx of men coming in from foreign countries for work prospects. Rather they were from Russia or China or Africa, it was due to the better opportunities that this country afforded! Now, not so much, everyone gets happy and delighted that there are more women in the workforce. It is clear that the women are there more so out of a need and not exercising a right of womens Lib! Either work or be poor and die and your children will starve too! Now, im not saying every woman is there, because of a need! It is just impossible to be a stay at home mom now. Im sure it is happening for many woman, but not the majority like years ago! This could be just a sign of the times, women will have to adapt. Listen I dont really want anyone to take this off topic. This is not about getting a date, it's about the alliance of marriage and being able to select mates. Is there alot of option for single women?

NJRiser!

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cheating, how prevalent is it? Posted: 11/15/2009 8:43:45 PM
This is such an over rated topic! You do know that on "Inside Edition" they exposed the "Cheaters" reality show as a fake. Those people were paid actors, they even confronted the host, and he said no comment!

NJRiser!

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Good things about Bad Dates ... Posted: 11/15/2009 6:06:54 AM
/icon_12.gif border=0> Do you know how many times I've gotten that? Or Nelly Furtado? I honestly don't see it, but thanks. :P /

NJRiser!

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Good things about Bad Dates ... Posted: 11/15/2009 2:12:57 AM
Poster Dot* looks like Sarah Silverman and she's funny like her too...Yaaaaah! What was the question?

NJRiser!

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bf has bad time management Posted: 11/15/2009 2:01:52 AM
You have anger issues! I also have time management issues, it was too the point that most of my empoyers allowed me flex time! I know, I was blessed that way, but believe me it's a problem.

NJRiser!

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How do you feel about Taylor Swift. Posted: 11/12/2009 4:24:58 PM
Taylor Swift is a pure money maker. She is like Miley Cyrus without the script. So, of course kids love her. She is a childrens and teenager musician. It's clear to me Taylor was watching Miley Cyrus 1 day while reading a peoples magazine article with a small snip about the Miley Cyrus Show! After reading that Miley Cyrus brought in around 300 million a year for Disney . She probably said, bump disney give me a mike! Im on the come up, and I a mad at Taylor, get that money! These companies do not care about your breakfast, lunch or dinner. She bypassed the middle man...do you, Boo!

NJRiser!

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Kanye West taking swing at reporter (way to go) Posted: 11/12/2009 4:21:01 PM
It seems to me that alot of these stars are jealous of Taylor. Taylor is a money maker, she is like the real Miley Cyrus. That means that her music is clean enough for young kids to listen to and idolize her, but also mature enough for teenagers. Face it, that is what these people might be hating on. Her gimmick or persona is a true money maker!

NJRiser!

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Kanye West taking swing at reporter (way to go) Posted: 11/12/2009 1:56:20 PM
Wow, a little on topic with Kanye. This proves my point, told you people have been talking among themselves about Taylor. When K anye walked on stage it seems that was for peer approval and to bully Taylor. Read this article: What's up now, you ask? Well, country legend Wynonna Judd (a presenter at last night's show) has declared that Taylor Swift--who won the CMA's top honor, Entertainer of the Year--is nowhere near ready for so much success. The country legend, one-half of famed mother-daughter duo the Judds, spoke to USA Today before the awards show, commenting in regards to Swift's extraordinary sweep of 2009: "You want my honest comment? It’s too much too soon." "Mom [Naomi Judd] and I rode in a car for the first year of our career to visit radio stations," Judd continued. "There was a making of the star, there was a rising up, and the fans went with us.

NJRiser!

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How do you feel about Taylor Swift. Posted: 11/12/2009 1:53:19 PM
Wow, Why is every one taking a swing at Taylor? I have been following Taylor Swifts scandals for a while now! So, this kind of surprises me, but what is going on? Why is eveyone hating on this woman? http://new.music.yahoo.com/blogs/vivanashvegas/5728/wynonna-too-soon-for-taylors-win/ What's up now, you ask? Well, country legend Wynonna Judd (a presenter at last night's show) has declared that Taylor Swift--who won the CMA's top honor, Entertainer of the Year--is nowhere near ready for so much success. The country legend, one-half of famed mother-daughter duo the Judds, spoke to USA Today before the awards show, commenting in regards to Swift's extraordinary sweep of 2009: "You want my honest comment? It’s too much too soon." "Mom [Naomi Judd] and I rode in a car for the first year of our career to visit radio stations," Judd continued. "There was a making of the star, there was a rising up, and the fans went with us.

NJRiser!

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She doesn't know about his other dating profile Posted: 11/10/2009 11:06:09 PM
Again Op you didnt put that in your original post! So, I dont believe it! Shame on you Op! Sitting up late ploting on how to destroy someone's relationship! No wonder he gave you the shaft! Close your legs to married men!I refuse to participate in this witch hunt any longer. m going to bed. In my opinion, all of this meddling will never make him love you, or get you that free boob job! Goodnight!

NJRiser!

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She doesn't know about his other dating profile Posted: 11/10/2009 10:15:15 PM
Im gonna play devil's advocate and say unless you know for sure he is contacting other women. Mind your own business and quit causing trouble in this man's relationship. He might of kept his other accounts open for the same reason some pofers leave their account open for associates and forums. I dont know the dating sites he is on, or the kind of friendships and relationships he has formed. There are a few people that I cht with on this site and I would like to keep it on this site. There are also people that I chat with through emaill or yahoo! SO, depending on the level of friendship we might even talk on the phone and or hangout. So, yes maybe he is just keeping the account open and communication open with these ladies for the same reason he is keeping communication open with you, friendship. Yes, men need friends too, sometimes of the opposite sex. The reason why he does not want his girlfriend to know is because unless you are going to be invited to the wedding or over his house to eat. Why should he let his girlfriend know that he still chats with old flames? Maybe she does too! Maybe he doesnt ask, as far as it is now, it is all innocent.

NJRiser!

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She doesn't know about his other dating profile Posted: 11/10/2009 3:54:13 PM
He might just still like you as a friend and that's it! D@mn that facebook that is how I got my account disabled. There was this really cool guy that would post on my page, he lived all the way in Australia, nice too! He liked video games, dark humor and scary movies, he had a campy personality and pudge. The same as me, I just wanted to make a nice comment to him! The comment was based on how cool he was, I commented on 1 of his postings. No, i did not private message him. He commented back that ohh, he was not that much into what he posted about. You can guess my face was red! So, I said so, like this is embarrassing. The reason why he even said that which he private messaged me later is because his girlfriend which I had prior knowledge of and no I never flirted with him and yes we have talked briefly in the past nothing sexual or flirty. ALways checked his facebook postings and is very jealous. Needless to say 3 days later my facebook account was disabled. Sometimes we might date or marry jealous people, should they be jealous maybe or maybe not. We all have our insecurities. No I was not flirting for the last time! Also, my comment was based on his pesonality! Which he lives all the way in Australia and he is my facebook friend. Yes, I have seen pics of his girlfriend in the past, she is very beautiful woman. He is a very cool guy, which I thought so and commented on after 1 of his postings. That was my comment, and his girlfriend saw the comment and needless to say, my account is disabled. Conincedence i dont think so!

NJRiser!

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Open mic night... Posted: 11/10/2009 7:24:03 AM
It could be the woman that was telling the story was not his cup of tea! It has been my experience that men usually run when women they percieve to be unatractive either flirt or start to get a little explicit. It makes them a little stomach sicky! It could also be as some posters have wrote. The woman in question was not good at entertaining the crowd. So, he took this as a perfect oppportunity to take a smoke.

NJRiser!

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Have you ever fallen in love with a sociopath? Posted: 11/8/2009 4:49:56 PM
Also, that is not fear to say that because you are a loner you are a sociopath, alot of people are introverts or hermits. Even they found Einstien and the guy who played Zack on saved by the bell is like that. Some people just are not really into the night life or hanging out. If a person dedicates their whole life and talents to their familly does that make them a bad person? They might get lonely if thier childrend and or spouse passes, but a lot of use end up lonely in a nursing home, or retired!

NJRiser!

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Have you ever fallen in love with a sociopath? Posted: 11/8/2009 4:44:14 PM
^^^I know what you mean about the women! There is always a fall back person, someone that they can blame their problems or their decisons on. So, when you catch them, they always look clean, like they were influenced by the wrong person. That it was not their choice, they didnt understand what they were doing! You provoked them! You or someone else is the reason why they are doing what they do.

NJRiser!

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Have you ever fallen in love with a sociopath?? Posted: 11/8/2009 10:00:35 AM
That is why that pick up artist stuff, never worked on me. I dont like the idea of someone poking fun at you or being rude from the the first word. It really just turns me off, I cant tell you how many times. I just walk away with my head shaking, it disgusting. Oh, what where we talking about?

NJRiser!

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Have you ever fallen in love with a sociopath?? Posted: 11/7/2009 1:27:41 PM
^^^^You didnt post that in the original post Vannili! Thanks Vanilli!

NJRiser!

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Have you ever fallen in love with a sociopath?? Posted: 11/7/2009 11:35:56 AM
^^^^^^Okay, I get that he was a liar! The whole thing about you feeling an evil presence. Wooooooow! Just Wooow! I mean Vanilli, there are a lot of poor people with lieing problems, but I think we are talking more about people that are emotionally and mentally abusive with no remorse or no reason except to feel pleasure or because they justify their superiority complex! At any rate, it was an entertaining story!

NJRiser!

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Have you ever fallen in love with a sociopath?? Posted: 11/7/2009 9:51:01 AM
That is another syptom of the sociopath, someone nailed it. When they do something to you, rather it is work related or even in your own home. They think you should toughen up! The fact that you are upset about them manipulating you, lieing to you, or using you for their own personal gain or amusement. Is your problem not theirs! A lot of sociopaths use hot and cold behaviour, very charming and cold at the same time. They continue to alternate the 2 while dealing with people! You dont know if they are going to be kind or cold from minute to minute.

NJRiser!

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Have you ever fallen in love with a sociopath?? Posted: 11/6/2009 8:24:36 PM
Hmmmm! Let's stop this thread. (There are going to be a lot of flamers!) I mean, How many people is this outlining? Plenty of women that like to crie and than pretend they are victims eventhough deep down they know that they started the situation! Men who constantly lie to get what they want, not caring if the woman or man is upset and or dreams are dashed or if the person is short changed. Oh yeah, im sure we have all met some narccistics, psychopaths! Let's just be thankful that most of these fools past normal folk on by. They usually end up in a comfortable relationship with each other, thereby feeding off of each other's tendencies! If you meet a psychopath just let him or her back out into the stream and let them swim free! Just remember to hurry and paddle upstream, those types nest and spawn off like crazy! ALso, we should not talk about psychopaths or narccistics without talking about the fact. That for a lot of women men are not human and for a number of men out here women appear to be toys to them. Not the majority, but for alot of people that have those characteristics!

NJRiser!

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cant commit..... Posted: 11/6/2009 6:30:14 PM
^^^^Listen to this guy! Listen to him, like your life depended on it!

NJRiser!

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Jesus is stealing my girlfriends! Posted: 11/6/2009 9:49:47 AM
Titus Breast Posted: ( wish Jesus was my old man, too, but He ducks out when I show up. I'm pretty sure He thinks I'm stalking Him. Good luck! Love, Titus) Let's see take me Lord! I dont think im going to find anyone down here. Ive tried and tried, please Lord be with me. OoooppppS! I think I just typed in Janis Joplin lyrics!

NJRiser!

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Jesus is stealing my girlfriends! Posted: 11/5/2009 12:12:47 PM
TJ 99 no one is perfect! Maybe these women really did feel guilty because of the sexual relationship they were enjoying with you. Also, I feel they felt you should want to marry them, maybe because they enjoy being with you. The only thing is if they do this with every man they date, you should take that into consideration, some women are just all about getting married. They will use any excuse to get the man to do it! On the other side if a person tries to use their religion as an excuse of this is why im a good person, it also manipulative. So, if the only reason they gave you is because they were having religious issues. That is not bad, however, if they use their whole idea of them being into Jesus as a indication of their worthiness to be with you, or that they are good women in general that is manipulative! So, all in all I will just chalk it up to a couple of women that are very nice fun women. You had a good time and they had a change of heart towards the relationship. Jesus was only a small part of it.

NJRiser!

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Ex girlfriend shows up at work, eggs my house. help? Posted: 11/4/2009 11:20:43 AM
Op Posted: (and getting high too much for my liking. ) Why is anyone even commenting? Hello, she gets high! You like women that get high, of course there is drama! Are you surprised?

NJRiser!

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Jesus is stealing my girlfriends! Posted: 11/4/2009 9:23:22 AM
Blissout you are taking alot of liberty with the teachings of the mormon religion! I have to agree with a poster that said the thing about cheating on God! Not so much about cheating on God, but the fact that they are not standing up for the principles and commandments that they were baptized into. However, even the stoucier church believer will tell you, that everyone is believed to be a sinner.

NJRiser!

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Jesus is stealing my girlfriends! Posted: 11/3/2009 7:29:30 PM
This is a case of hint, hint, let's get married! That is what these women are trying to say, okay! You said everything was great, maybe you should of considered 1 of them.

NJRiser!

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Jesus is stealing my girlfriends! Posted: 11/3/2009 9:05:25 AM
Dont you understand offer to marry them already! If you are not ready to get married move on.

NJRiser!

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The odds stacked for ladies against men, Hmmm..Interesting! Posted: 10/30/2009 12:05:47 PM
^^^^I agree but dont you think you should go where the options are, if you are a person that is open to diverse dating. Maybe you should also consider being the only 1 in a diverse group. It might seem weird, but Im sure a midwesterner in the east, or an asian person in an all white town. At first there might be problems sticking in, but after a while, I think that would make you unique and maybe, make it even easier to get a date! This map is instrumental in more than just locating ratios of male: female but I would hope we would also look at it from a creative standpoint!

NJRiser!

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Disgusted yet Not Flattered Posted: 10/29/2009 7:44:55 PM
The women on this thread are passive agressive and they form cliches quickly! Im going to take the high road and say, Whatever!

NJRiser!

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Unwanted Comments Posted: 10/29/2009 6:33:15 PM
Lint spotter/ sweetness okay! My weight is so obivious, to pick on but no, just no! I didnt shoot myself in anything, because none of you are in a position to do anything to me! However, you can continue to b@tch like you are doing and accuse me of bitching thereby still being a b@tch! Okay, I guess the bitch name for everyone except for me! Im special that is why I get the helmet. Way to go lintspotter/sweetness you have insulted disabled people and fat people in 1 senetence, Yup, your a sweetheart. Also, how dare you women, I have been reffered to as jealous disabled, fat and dumb all in 1 thread. Even flat chested. Hold on and I forgot ignorant cant leave out ignorant. Wow, the nerve of some people and the

NJRiser!

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Unwanted Comments Posted: 10/29/2009 6:05:11 PM
^^Listen you got emotionall issues! Did you take your medicine? The blue pill goes first. You are getting mad at me for stating a fact. I dont care what she does. If she was a car salesman and I highlighted that would you have jumped to such a negative view point of my post. I dont take issue with her being a massage therapist. She do what she do! However, you judge the way you want and it seems that you have issues with it. Wow ladies, you really have your claws out tonight and you are trying to argue a point that Im a b@tch. Wow, Good luck with that! All though I love all this attention! I feel quite special like the young ant-Oprah of this thread I was being purely cheeky, again the fact that you ladies jumped to a negative conclusion about my statement. As, if I damned this woman to hell for joking bout that, maybe you have the issue not me. Also, if this is because you read my profile and it says I love God. So you want to get extreme with it, fine I do love God, but I dont judge. Again, it was a cheeky statements anyone could see that, but you. So, KICK ROCK!

NJRiser!

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Unwanted Comments Posted: 10/29/2009 5:55:19 PM
Awe to be a senile demented old broad that likes to start arguements! I cant wait for those golden years! You can clearly read in her profile she is a massage therapist!

NJRiser!

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Disgusted yet Not Flattered Posted: 10/29/2009 5:15:31 PM
Well, starting threads about your breast are not gonna help! However, you are an entrepeneur and you have to promote your massage therapy business somehow!

NJRiser!

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The odds stacked for ladies against men, Hmmm..Interesting! Posted: 10/29/2009 5:09:34 PM
what happened?

njbubble

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Racism on my date Posted: 10/28/2009 10:21:45 PM
@OP: The picture part would of threw me! The whole picture part was a little weird.

njbubble

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Kanye West taking swing at reporter (way to go) Posted: 10/28/2009 3:38:28 PM
Also people pleaseb stop asking me why am I bringing this up? It is as if the posters on POF expect some type of decency from me that is higher than other posters. I like a hot topic as much as the next person! No, I dont think that Taylor is racist, the pic almost looks like a setup. I had sometime to think about it and I think that someone has an axe to grind with Taylor! No one ever really walks up and disrespects a person like that unless they think they are crazy or there has been some chatter and the person being disrespected has already been declared the low man on the totem pole! when you disrespect someone to their face, and that person has not done anything to provoke that type of harrassment, in my opinion it's called bullying! When I first heard about it and knowing the entertainment biz, I thought it wasblown out of proportion, but now I realize that was f'ed up! Now even more so looking at those pics! It is very clear to me by the positioning of the guy in the swastika and the camera someone is trying to set her up! Poor Taylor my money would be on a behind the scenes studio mogul that wanted a piece of little Taylor but Taylor's mom wasnt going for it! If you think a woman scorned is dangerous, try a man jilted with money and or prestige! Those are the worse, right ladies! Usually from my experience that's what makes the person that's doing the disrespect more confident in their actions. They feel that there will be peer approval. That plus scientist have completed a study in which they determined by doing a blind window test that 75% of the population are followers! The tests were so accurate they had people choose wrong names for colors, just because the rest of the group which were paid actors. Chose those answers! There was not even any peer pressure asserted on the people that were tested(like the person being encouraged by the other members)! Once, they saw that everyone else had chose a certain answer, they either changed their answer or chose the same answer.

njbubble

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How do you feel about Taylor Swift. Posted: 10/28/2009 3:18:36 PM
Also people pleaseb stop asking me why am I bringing this up? It is as if the posters on POF expect some type of decency from me that is higher than other posters. I like a hot topic as much as the next person! No, I dont think that Taylor is racist, the pic almost looks like a setup. I had sometime to think about it and I think that someone has an axe to grind with Taylor! No one ever really walks up and disrespects a person like that unless they think they are crazy or there has been some chatter and the person being disrespected has already been declared the low man on the totem pole! when you disrespect someone to their face, and that person has not done anything to provoke that type of harrassment, in my opinion it's called bullying! When I first heard about it and knowing the entertainment biz, I thought it wasblown out of proportion, but now I realize that was f'ed up! Now even more so looking at those pics! It is very clear to me by the positioning of the guy in the swastika and the camera someone is trying to set her up! Poor Taylor my money would be on a behind the scenes studio mogul that wanted a piece of little Taylor but Taylor's mom wasnt going for it! If you think a woman scorned is dangerous, try a man jilted with money and or prestige! Those are the worse, right ladies! Usually from my experience that's what makes the person that's doing the disrespect more confident in their actions. They feel that there will be peer approval. That plus scientist have completed a study in which they determined by doing a blind window test that 75% of the population are followers! The tests were so accurate they had people choose wrong names for colors, just because the rest of the group which were paid actors. Chose those answers! There was not even any peer pressure asserted on the people that were tested(like the person being encouraged by the other members)! Once, they saw that everyone else had chose a certain answer, they either changed their answer or chose the same answer.

njbubble

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Kanye West; He's a Jackass Posted: 10/28/2009 2:30:52 PM
Im looking closer at the pics of Taylor Swift on MTo and maybe someone is setting her up, because they look a little suspect. Like I can see the guy trying to get a dance with her or past behind her, but it doesnt exactly look like she is dancing with him. Between this and the Kanye thing, yup girlfriend got problems. Someone is out here trying to trash her name out in the industry. She needs to be careful, I know from experience some people can be very spiteful. Especially if they think you should grovel to them!

njbubble

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How do you feel about Taylor Swift. Posted: 10/28/2009 1:00:05 PM
Taylor swift is on mediatakeout.com with a t-shirt that says JH which i think stands for Jew Hater. She also has a dance partner with a swastiska on his shirt! See what you did Kanye! Now Taylor hates black people!

njbubble

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Kanye West taking swing at reporter (way to go) Posted: 10/28/2009 12:33:19 PM
What the hell does that have to do with my statement? Kick Rock! I never said, that I didnt want to get the word out! I said here is some information that may or may not be totally relevant to thread issue at hand!

njbubble

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Kanye West taking swing at reporter (way to go) Posted: 10/28/2009 11:36:14 AM
I know this has absolutely nothing to do with this thread! It kind of does, because it is Taylor Swift is in a photograph dancing with JH for Jew Hater on her shirt, and her partner has a swastika on his shirt. On mediatakeout.com. You can google it, taylor swift mediatakeout.

njbubble

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Kanye West; He's a Jackass Posted: 10/28/2009 11:33:56 AM
I know this has absolutely nothing to do with this thread! It kind of does, because it is about race, but Taylor Swift is in a photograph dancing with JH for Jew Hater on her shirt, and her partner has a swastika on his shirt. On mediatakeout.com. You can google it, taylor swift mediatakeout.

njbubble

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Racism on my date Posted: 10/28/2009 11:29:47 AM
I know this has absolutely nothing to do with this thread! It kind of does, because it is about race, but Taylor Swift is in a photograph dancing with JH for Jew Hater on her shirt, and her partner has a swastika on his shirt. On mediatakeout.com. You can google it, taylor swift mediatakeout.

njbubble

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Racism on my date Posted: 10/27/2009 3:17:52 PM
Not that anyone really cares, but it feels good to say that you are wrong sometimes! I want to apologize to Barbee, because maybe she had a lot of bad experiences with black people, lord knows I have..LOL! It doesnt matter if she accepts it, it would be nice though. The only thing that matters is that I feel I was wrong for jumping the gun and becoming deffensive and rude! It was wrong of me! You tell your story and be honest! We know that there are always balances that lean to far down in this system! It is just sometimes I hear so much of the stereotypes, that I dont aniticpate to hear anything real and from the heart. So, I gave my side of the view without weighing the issues. Color is a very touchy subject, like politics or religion!

njbubble

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Obama spells doom for America Posted: 10/27/2009 11:45:43 AM
^^^^What does that have to do with statements released in the press from representatives! You do realize that their are representatives right? How do you think they get the word out?

njbubble

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A toast to all you wonderful, single, available men... Posted: 10/27/2009 11:11:37 AM
Well, I tried it OP! In big bold letters across my profile! Not only it doesnt work, but people stopped emailing me! It was kind of embarrassing. Oh well, I think I will keep my standards. Oh yea, it is not as embarrassing as when your new beau reads this thread!

njbubble

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Racism on my date Posted: 10/27/2009 6:01:07 AM
@edburke001 You would know that because you know every white person that ever lived, right? Listen color is important to some people,and it is definitely looked as a gauge or measurement for atraction! This is why i shy away from race dicussions with latinos and black people. More than a small amount have an over dramatized, made for tv, melrose place size drama idea of white people! It is like the majority of them, think white people are all 1 way, in contrast to their hard lives, they are sitting in 90210 somewhere sipping chardonays talking with brandon. That and plus the fact spain is in europe, and their are spanish europeans. How was saying that a white person would consider a spanish person, even relevant to this question! Oh, okay....you think that spanish means, mexican, peruvian, colombian and just about every spanish person that ever walked the earth, right! Try picking up a map. and taking a history lesson somtime! The most messed up people in the world, are people that assume everyone thinks like them! Has it ever occured to you that some people do not even consider color and or age or gender in selecting mates! Oh know, they all are heterosexual, nonpedophilic, card carrying race gaugers. *****Shake my head*Just shake my head all over the d@mn place** Than to say that black people want to date up! Do you know every black person? As I told 1 white person before, if we were such the white race enthusiasts that you try to make us out to be, we would be pouring into your neighborhood by the thousands! It would be like night of the living dead! Where is your daughter and or son? This and plus the few black people you come across, that move in your area and or circle because they are atracted to white people. You use as proof that yes, they all like us, they really lkie us! Believe me if a person was that beat, and clamoring for a white person, they know where to get 1, MYSPACE or EUROPE!

njbubble

Joined: 4/24/2009

Msg: 46 (view)

Racism on my date Posted: 10/26/2009 9:42:15 PM
You guys are fool of it! Also, no they dont make any sense. Just because you think you are great does not mean that the parents feel that you are great! Color might be a part of it, but a small part! Even Nicole Browns parents embraced OJ before they founfd out what a psycho he could be! It's a free country, I dont think people should be persecueted because of color or singled out because of preference. I know it does not make sense to me either, okay, let me put it this way. Im a plus size woman, who wants to date me? If I threw up that same rant but pittied it against a slim woman, you all would consider me bitter! Preference is preference, color plays a part, looks, weight, income level, culture. This is how people select their mate, those are the breaks! @Why did I even answer this?

njbubble

Joined: 4/24/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

Is different taste in music enough for you to kill the second date? Posted: 10/26/2009 7:28:15 PM
It depends on the person's personality and their feelings in relation to the music or show in question! I watch housewives of atlanta and know im not there thinking yeah child, so and so need to do this. You go girl! I watch that show, just for entertainment reasons. When I was younger I felt the same way, judging people based off of what they were into. I hated that my aunt liked daytime soap shows, she would always talk about the characters like they were real or something. Mirroring their lives and comparing it with hers. It really made me roll my eyes at people that watched daytime soap operas, untill I realized, that is just her personality! Not all people that watch daytime soap operas are housewives that compare the characters with real life people! ALthough I do enjoy all the housewives shows from Ny to Orange county and think they should be paid more!

njbubble

Joined: 4/24/2009

Msg: 23 (view)

A toast to all you wonderful, single, available men... Posted: 10/26/2009 9:24:07 AM
Op excuse me if I rain on your parade for a minute. Every revelation is life changing and we feel renewed, but you kind of praise men and down them in the same statement. You say that the men in your area didnt work out because your standards were either even bar or too high! So, was that the only reason it didnt work? I doubt it! Your affirmation is not better than a ghetto tyle perry movie that has been geared towards a bunch of impoverished women with serious familly problems and bad attitudes. The theme is "Bonita finally gets a man". She lowers her expectations and even shows up at the local jail with a pizza box in her hand on parole day. What the movie is trying to assuage is that a woman with a long line of mental problems and or attitude issues, should lower her standards. ALthough I dont disagree, what you and a lot of women in my area that praise these ideas fail to realize though, is the fact it's easy to pick up a man on the corner. A guy that you really dont feel is someone that is equal to you for whatever reasons. ALl the men clapped, but whatever, if that is what you want from a woman you have some serious issues yourself. What im trying to get too which if you give me a moment I will, it is easier for this actor to tell women that are struggling to find a man. You have a whole list of problems, rather than change your attitude, get a job, lose weight or whatever is needed. As the poster above me highlighted, grow the hell up! Just find someone that is lower than you, i.e. lower your standards. Even in the movie he has women take bus drivers, men that dirve garbage trucks. All the things before that women never considered they would find a good man. Never, ever in the movie does he show the happy couple 2 or 5 years down the line. It is a fruedian mishap of human nature he doesnt, because, he knows as a grown man and an intelligent 1. The relationship probably didnt last after the newness ran off. Surely you do realize if you are telling this forum a 40 something year old woman has never had someone to be with her on holidays, birthdays or even an impromptu marriage proposal. It was because she was picking all the wrong men! All her life! Okay!

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