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 Author Thread: Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
 uiy62
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 1288 (view)
 
Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/21/2009 3:38:21 AM
lve got to agree with this above statement .As lve just meet a fab 53 yold here.His just a beautiful man all over Were have you been all my life u know who u are
lm 6 year his junior and he looks great...Just like aged wine..There Are good men out there .Women need to be honest and fair in what they seek within a freind /partner and luver.And should be able to match there expectations within themselves..Some truley attract what they THINK they need in a man...Not always so???.But maturity,honestly and realistic expectations .And mostly not treating every man the same does help the seach in finding a soul mate ,whislt able to. lifes to short to be wasted doing the same old mistake time after time
 uiy62
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
My x killed himself lm haveing problems dealing with it
Posted: 5/6/2009 5:43:53 PM
l was seeing a man for 2 years.l luved him,but he had plenty of issues.
l worked through them over the 2 years,but he had a very bad drinking problem
Due to the fact he'd been raped by another male when he was 11 years old.This went on for a few years.Because of the rape he became dependent on the drink.
He had been recently caught up with ny the law and he was faceing jail
He couldnt stand the thought of going to jail so last saturday he rang me and was about to stick a syringe full of horse tranqulizer up his arm.l treid to talk sence into him,but l failed.l feel horrible.The worst thing is he rang me and told me what he was about to do
Not before he told me l was the most beautiful person in his life and he would never forget me.We had been apart for a few mths because of his drinking.
Noneone can change whats happened.How does one handle this type of death?
He lost his mum years ago.He luved her dearly and tyalked about her alot.All he wanted was to be reunited with her.l feel when death happens this way you become lost in limbo.l dont think his with his mum?l hope he is it would make me feel better to know his now happy
 help62
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
What is wrong with me or is it him [ladys help]
Posted: 5/3/2009 4:58:03 AM
Nice to know u help more than just me.
How many women are reading this and saying ''yes thats right luv''
Thanks so much LT.b
Gotta find a new way of luving
 help62
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What is wrong with me or is it him [ladys help]
Posted: 5/3/2009 4:40:37 AM
Thanks you make a lot of sence
l just need advise to help me through this rough time.
l dont want a drinker nearly even not a social one because of the past.
Makes things difficult when someone really is just a rare drinker
This makes me unsure if lm missing the right person.
Thanx for your inpuy it has helped me see through some clouds
 help62
Joined: 4/26/2009
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What is wrong with me or is it him [ladys help]
Posted: 5/3/2009 3:22:53 AM
lve had my last 2 relationships end the same way.1 of 2 years and 1 of 6mths
They both were good at mind games?Both heavy drinkers.Both insecure.Both didnt trust me.
So do l attract this type of man?
lm at witts end and need an honset option before l can allow myself to give another man a go.lm trying this site cause l dont get out much..ls this why l dont find diffrent men?Come on girls ask a few question and tell me a few home truths.lm desprate before l just give up.Are there real men out there we can share a freindship with that dont have hang ups?
 
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