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alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

Too Much Attention Here??? Posted: 3/16/2006 8:00:33 PM
Yes, it is overwhelming...that's why I took down the pics and just basically go on here in the forums. I must admit, life has been much better without the drama. lol.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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I caught my date peeing in the shower!! Posted: 3/15/2006 8:40:07 PM
I think peeing in the shower is a lack of civilized behaviour....hello!!!! There is the toilet right beside the tub! What's the big deal?!!!

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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I never knew how shallow I was until last night Posted: 3/15/2006 8:39:16 PM
I don't think that's being shallow.....in a normal dating situation, you wouldn't even have looked at him in the first place bc he simply wasn't your type. So, in a normal dating situation, all those good convos and all the jokes and talks wouldn't have happened and he wouldn't have been an issue to begin with. But this is the internet and I think that if you meet someone on the internet and the looks don't happen to match up, you have every right to feel the way you do....bc after all, he simply isn't your type! Don't feel so guilty!

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Dating psychopaths Posted: 3/15/2006 8:37:11 PM
WOW...READING THAT CHECKLIST OF WHAT IT TAKES TO BE A PSYCHOPATH, it's very very very close description to MISOGYNISTS. I find that on internet forums ( especially myspace.com ), there are a few notable misogynists on there.....but seriously, the list describes them to a tee! ( well, judging from what they write ).

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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My friend met Mr.Right,but she is turned off,that he has 5 kids!. Posted: 3/15/2006 8:28:54 PM
If he has 5 kids, then he IS DEFINITELY NOT Mr. Right!

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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would you ever date someone who has an std? Posted: 3/14/2006 9:43:54 PM
THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL THAT I WOULD EVEN THINK ABOUT DATING SOMEONE WITH AN STD. Sorry...but I value my life way too much to be playing a sick " Russian Roulette Game with STD ".

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Sunday morning Email....... Posted: 3/14/2006 9:40:45 PM
That's why I took down the pics. You put your pics up and no matter how saintly you look, one will always get sick e-mails like that. I can see you may be slightly flattered though...I wouldn't even advertise to anyone on here that I received a shitty e-mail like that. In essence, it's pretty shitty.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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confused by ex's behavior....guys help me out Posted: 3/14/2006 9:35:43 PM
Well, it's a good thing you haven't responded in 5 days...leave it at that. There is no point in opening it up - since I have a feeling the wounds haven't healed yet for you ( or else you wouldn't be on here, asking for advice from strangers on a forum about your dillemma ). Just keep on doing what you do and leave him alone. He'll get the point. The guy might be going through some moral revelation...or he could just be realizing that having a baby now is no fun and he wants some " excitement " from an old ex, such as you. Either way : Leave him alone.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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HPV Posted: 3/13/2006 12:33:50 AM
Herpes really isn't that big of a deal. 99% (this is a real stat, you can look it up) of the population has herpes symplex 1. herpes symplex one can be found orally or on the genital area, this is the same for herpes symplex two. UMMMM...I would say it's very problematic! I think you have your facts wrong...99% of the population almost means everyone....I think the info you got is incorrect.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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HPV Posted: 3/13/2006 12:30:18 AM
I read that HPVs are definitely contagious, even with a condom on. Apparently they show up all over the areas, and not just on the shaft or in the case of women, on the vaginal lips. It could show up on the anus area as well...YUCK. Abstinence is the key! lol.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Disappearing act Posted: 3/10/2006 8:44:59 PM
The 2 main reasons why people do the dissapearing act without even a hint : 1) They think you are too sweet and don't really want to face your hurt feelings themselves. The last thing they want is to see you cry in front of them. 2) ( THIS IS MORE OFTEN THE REASON ) You are overwhelming and have shown some " slightly " overbearing actions and they would rather run than confront the drama that they know you will unleash.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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(Body language) the gestures, movements, and mannerisms. Posted: 3/10/2006 8:39:31 PM
- I would touch his arm, or shoulder regularly when I joke. - I would smell him on his neck when I go up for the kiss or the hug. - I would let him in my personal space. - When we are sitting, my knees point towards his, almost touching.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Running into people from POF Posted: 2/26/2006 6:17:00 PM
To be honest with you, I hope not. There are a lot of angry men at me. Hence, the pic is down! Hooray!

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Broken penis Posted: 2/15/2006 4:49:03 PM
Thanks! You just BROKE my fascination for the phallus.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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women and orgies Posted: 2/15/2006 4:37:34 PM
I think the most that I would participate in is a foursome.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Woman That Give Direction!! Posted: 2/15/2006 4:31:56 PM
I give verbal or even non verbal directions to men all the time...here are some examples: 1) For example, he is kissing me too sloppily -> I start to focus on his neck and basically grabbing his face to direct him. My tongue gets slower too for him to take the cue that I want it slower and more paced. I also then focus on other parts of the face and neck to change the tempp. 2) He is eating me out but I am not feeling the big O from coming - I usually change my position ( like lift up one leg and have my knee touch my shoulder ) and moan. This tells him that I want it this way for a bit. If that doesn't work I usually start to progress to a 69 position or start masturbating in front of him with a mix of his tongue and my finger on my clit. 3) He is thrusting but it;s too hard, too fast and not in rhtym enough - I usually flip him over in a position where I go on top, or I tell him straight up that I want doggy so bad. I then take his****in my hand and start stroking it to change the rhythm for him and to tell him non-verbally that this is how I want it. 4) He is altogether very bad in bed ( which wouldn't happen ) lol - I tell him to stop for a minute...then I face him naked and tell him what I like, while at the same time, grabbing his hand to my spots and using his fingers to hit the spot. I even tell him to look at my body and changes in my body so he knows what he is doing right.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Consequences of kiss and tell Posted: 2/15/2006 4:26:05 PM
Yes, I tell my female friends about how good he is...but he is tells his boys how good I am. lol. So in general, we both benefit.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Students Have Sex, But No Touching Posted: 2/15/2006 4:22:35 PM
Yeah, webcams and all that are cool...however, why choose that over the real thing? But then again, maybe what scares people is sleeping with the person and finding out the following : 1) The person has an STD 2) The person sucks in bed 3) They find out that they themselves suck in bed 4) Scared to actually like the person 5) Lazy to do anything afterwards

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Valentines Day Sex Posted: 2/15/2006 12:47:12 AM
I once positioned myself to masturbate as he came in the door from work.....

alpha_female

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Doppelganger truths Posted: 2/15/2006 12:46:28 AM
I would be sooo hot for him! I am one of a kind and I need someone like that!

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Riding Cowgirl...Ladies? Posted: 2/15/2006 12:46:02 AM
Not my favourite position..most of the men I ****ed liked to be in control. But if I had to do it, a bit of both...I like the sliding motion..where I am sliding away back and forth.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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How would you handle this situation... Posted: 2/15/2006 12:44:48 AM
I would just end it after the movie...she doesn't seem interested at all. If anything, she was probably very uncomfy and turned off or even annoyed!

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Bad BJ'S ??? Posted: 2/15/2006 12:43:49 AM
I believe that what makes a bad bj are: - teeth - no rhythm - too hard when it's not supposed to be too hard - too soft and weak when it's not supposed to be too soft - biting on balls - not focusing enough on the shaft - not focusing enough on the balls - not using hands to touch up other spots while sucking - bad breath - vomit on it ( lol..eww ).

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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But I thought you wanted to.... Posted: 2/11/2006 10:03:46 PM
I tell him the truth...any man who is squeamish about menstruation must be severely immature. We are all adults here and if we are talking about sex, then he shouldn't mind this minor detail. At least I told him beforehand...if he is cool with it, then fine. But if he is not, then fine as well. It's no big deal.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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On the subject of Hair - Straight or Curls - what turns you on most? Posted: 2/11/2006 9:15:44 PM
I guess I have the best of both worlds...I have wavy layers that just looks amazing :) It's the bed head look...very nice. lol.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Dating for Fashion? Posted: 2/11/2006 11:18:03 AM
I am sorry....I take fashion seriously. It's part of my " grooming ". I like to dress in the times and I am always well dressed. I expect the same off my men. lol.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Date made me dinner Posted: 2/11/2006 11:15:11 AM
LMAO! Now, that's hillarious! I don't know how to get out of this one...however if she has a great sense of humor, then she would understand and you guys can go out to a restaurant and laugh about it. I am blessed with great culinary skills and most men I cooked for wanted to marry me lol.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 2/11/2006 11:14:18 AM
From online, without even meeting the men, I have encountered Mr. Needy, Mr.Boorish, Mr. Arguer, Mr. Misogynist, Mr. Cheap...hence, I decided not to pursue dating on the net. It was my first time just 2 mths ago, and I find that it's not for me. The worst out of all was Mr. Needy and Mr. Misogynist....in fact, I know of 2 main users on here who scared me away simply bc they are who they are. I decided to just cut off my page bc of them. I am much happy on the forums, in complete anonymity :)

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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internet dating - uh huh. Posted: 2/11/2006 11:07:25 AM
I don't think that's the truth. I mean, I was on here for a bit with my old username for 2 months to give it a go and I just found that it was not for me. I have a lot of men that ask me out on dates outside the internet realm and I find that it works for me better. I know the men beforehand....on here, there are a lot of men on pretense. Hence, it's best that I just stick to the forums...rather than meet someone on here.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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How to close the deal at the end of the night? Posted: 2/11/2006 8:49:39 AM
One night stands are NOT COOL. I had one and only. He was the first and the last one night stand, bc it was just sooo gay after! It wasn't even cool at all. And you know what, if you want to go all out with the one night stands, go ahead and do it...just don't catch herpes or crabs. Yes you heard it right : herpes. You can get herpes in your groin area, even if the sex was protected. Take a good read on this one and you will think twice about one night stands.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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is this a strange thing Posted: 2/11/2006 8:47:46 AM
That's soooo yuck. Seriously. I mean, body odour is just gross...it has nothing to do with her being " European ". European males that I have been intimate with had NO BODY ODOUR at all...they all smelled very very nice.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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What the hell are you doing? oh my god dont stop. Posted: 2/11/2006 8:25:32 AM
When I was 21, I discovered amazing masturbation techniques that just got me off all the time in a matter of a few minutes. One of them is where I would lie down on my back, lift one leg up ( where the knee is touching my shoulder ) and keep the one leg down and straight out. It got me so hot...and one day, I did this for one of my lovers in the past. I did it and he got so hot that he tied me up a few minutes after this and orally pleased me for hours...he wouldn't let me go! I was tied like that for at least 2 - 3hrs, just cumming and cumming, my hips gyrating and me crying and screaming, bc the orgasms were so intense and there was nothing I could do, but just take it. He got so hot off my orgasms from being tied, with the thought of me masturbating earlier, that he would cum too in excess. It was the one experience ( unimitated by anyone, till now ) that gets my belly throbbing all the time.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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How to prevent STD from NSA Posted: 2/11/2006 8:19:08 AM
It doesnt' matter whether you are in a long term relationship or an " NSA " ( friends with benefits ) as you say it, you can get it from either one. KEEP YOURSELF PROTECTED AT ALL COSTS. READ, READ, READ INFORMATION ON HEALTH WEBSITES AND TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR ALL THE TIME ABOUT STDs, TO ARM YOURSELF WITH KNOWLEDGE BEFORE YOU GO OFF AND DO THE FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS THING. - Herpes ( Simplex 2 ) - Genital Herpes can be passed onto the groin areas, even if you are wearing a condom. Remember that just bc you cannot see sores, it doesn't mean that he is not contagious. He could be going through a time of viral shedding, WHICH IS THE MOST CONTAGIOUS AT THE TIME. Therefore, genital herpes is very contagious and you can get it on your groin area, anus area, inner thighs etc ( simply bc the condom only covers the shaft, and if he has it, it can easily be transmitted to you ). It takes roughly 1 - 21 days for the sores to show up. Upon infection, you can getI read up enough about it to know that when I have a new partner there is a lot of trust, protection and the paperwork ( i.e. results from the physical and also, if I like him a lot and we take it to a closer level, I ask him straight out to get tested with me at the same time....and if he really is cool about it, then he would go ). Read, read, read...and you will be armed with a lot of knowledge in regards to STDs. Sometimes, the knowledge itself would prevent you from looking at sex in a carefree way. Always keep this in mind and look at grotesque pics of STDs to know that what you are getting into ( Friends with benefits ) is not really a cool situation, unless there is a lot of trust and respect. A lot of people seem to think that friends with benefits should be fun, carefree etc. I agree with this TO A POINT. There better be the FRIENDS aspect of it ( i.e. trust and respect ) so it's all out in the open about STDs and consequences if he happens to have it.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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First Date Sex Turning Into A Relationship Posted: 2/11/2006 8:10:23 AM
I have slept with 9 guys in total. Out of the 9, 4 became serious relationships, 4 became long-time lovers with a lot of chemistry, and 1 was a one-night stand. So, I can say that in my life, my first time sex partners became very attached to me in the end. They became either my boyfriends, or long-term lovers ( yes I am very liberated like that ) without any sort of bad feelings. Up to this day, they still call me ( we are only platonic friends now ), bc of course, new men always come into the picture to get me interested....but just the fact that there was a deep connection with each one of them, well, I guess that's beautiful for me.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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family? Posted: 2/11/2006 8:05:35 AM
That's a little tricky....I mean, if one girl dated one man, and that one man died, and she went for his brother, then I guess, understandable. But if she is trivially swapping brothers etc etc, then that's gross.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

Msg: 13 (view)

If you cannot feel sexual chemistry, should you continue to date someone? Posted: 2/11/2006 8:04:34 AM
Nope, I don't think it will work no matter what. You will have a good friend in the end, but you would've wasted at least a few years of bad or non-existent sex. Sex is very important.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Who, in here, finda a sense of humour sexy versus the serious type. Posted: 2/9/2006 8:32:21 AM
Yes, a sharp, sarcastic, biting and witty sense of humor is great! I love wit!

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Morning sex, why is it so great?? Posted: 2/7/2006 5:45:20 PM
I used to hate morning sex...until I met this one guy recently. He is massive in general, but in the morning, he is just extra hard. Our bodies are both very warm too and very cuddly in the morning. I am extremely wet when I wake up...so yeah, the morning sex is hot.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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sex connection Posted: 2/7/2006 5:43:17 PM
No, you're not old school...YOU ARE REAL. I think that it's impossible to just have mechanical, going-through-the-motions-type of sex. There has to be some chemistry or some sort of fondness ( not love or anything like that ), but a natural fondness and interest for the person to have GREAT SEX. I know the diff between the ones I will sleep with only once and the ones I will see again.....

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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What Kind Of Nose Do You Find Sexy In The Opposite Sex? Posted: 2/7/2006 9:28:58 AM
I love Caucasian men...and part of the interest is the facial shape and the jawline, the nose! I have to admit, that I do look at noses a lot...I am a big fan of aquiline, slender nose! NOT the snub-nose or upturned look....

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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How can you tell if your long distance partner is for real? Posted: 2/6/2006 7:39:31 PM
You can't...until they ask you for your hand in marriage. I don't really believe in long distance relationships...anything more than 2 hrs travel is a bit too much. I used to date someone who was in another country....that was soo gay. I didn't even take him seriously, nor he did me. I am glad it ended bc it was starting to become an obligation.....

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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~ Is There A Difference? ~ ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 2/6/2006 7:32:35 PM
" In love with being in love " - To me, this sums up people who just get into relationships, simply bc they are in a relationship. They might not necessarily have sparks with the person to begin with, but they MAKE THEMSELVES BELIEVE that there are sparks...and that the relationship is truly wonderful. It is an illusion they live in. " In love with someone " - Then the person truly matters to them. They don't necessarily seek a relationship or to be engulfed in that relationship..

alpha_female

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Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 2/6/2006 7:23:41 PM
Nope...had many opportunities and relationships with wealthy men bc of the circle. However, I find that the men who lasted or made a deep impression on me are the ones who have modest means, but have the best characters, hearts of gold, great minds and great d*cks :) I don't judge someone by their wallet...I judge them by how they MAKE ME FEEL or how much they make ME want THEM.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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why wont my ex give me my stuff back? Posted: 2/6/2006 7:22:06 PM
TO MISSJENNA0583 : For someone who graduated from college, you don't have much common sense do you? It's simple : GO AND CALL THE COPS, AND GET YOUR STUFF. That's it. Period. I read most of your other threads that you started all the way from November and even earlier...I don't know what types of obssessive-compulsive relationships you get into, but it sounds like you cater or fuel to making it worse, by NOT DOING THE LOGICAL, STRAIGHTFORWARD THING. From your other posts to this one now, it seems like he is not the only one that is playing games.....I think you are playing games and deep down inside, you have NOT called the cops or done the logical thing, bc you LIKE THE DRAMA. Enough is enough...if you want to keep sane, cut all ties.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Codewords: ....Knows How To Treat A Lady Posted: 2/6/2006 7:10:56 PM
- A man who will be there for her, to protect her - A man who will understand her - A man who will be mature and compassionate - A man who adores her - A man who can be trusted 170% all the way - Opening doors, pulling chairs out for her, getting her into her coat etc etc are all niceties...not necessarily determinants of one's " gentlemanly " character

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Blue collar or white collar - does it make a difference? Posted: 2/6/2006 7:08:47 PM
Nope...doesn't at all. Grew up in a family of white collars....expected University circle of white collars. However, I find myself impartial. I don't care if he white, blue, yellow, green etc...as long as he is damn good in bed.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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The art of removing her bra Posted: 2/6/2006 6:58:08 PM
I don't wear a bra...I don't care how big my breasts are. They feel damn uncomfy in a bra.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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Women can't fake it Posted: 2/6/2006 6:54:50 PM
A guy (or a girl I spose, if thats what you're in to) can tell if a woman has had a real orgasm or not by kissing her. After a REAL orgasm, a woman's lips and particularly tongue with feel colder than normal, as if she has just drunk a glass of iced water. This is a physiological response to an orgasm resulting from blood draining away from her mouth and into other areas where it is needed more (genitals, skin etc) and cannot be faked. CRAP! CRAP! CRAP! And I thought someone would've come up with the TWO MAIN THINGS TO TELL if a woman is really coming. You dissapointed me. Here's an example how a cold tongue can be faked as well. While I am thrashing my head around, all I have to do is open my mouth and suck in some air, and keep on doing that...by the time I " cum " and you touch my tongue, it's ALREADY F*CKING COLD enough for you to get the satisfaction that I " came "...please! Where did you come up with this?

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

why are women materialistic, and passive agressive? Posted: 2/6/2006 6:44:24 PM
Oh please.....80 % is a percentage that you pulled out of your a$$. Seriously....how can you come up with something like that? I have to admit that it has NOTHING TO DO WITH THE WOMEN, but a lot to do with your self esteem.

alpha_female

Joined: 1/31/2006

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You love me, but your not in love with me? Posted: 2/6/2006 6:41:13 PM
But it's true....a woman or a man can love someone, but not be in love. I am a classic example. I care and love this one person very much bc we have been through a lot, but we couldn't be in a relationship, simply bc I felt bad for him or sympathized for him. There has to be passion and chemistry that glue things together....

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