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Thread: Oral after sex
skibunny1979
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Oral after sex
Posted:
5/5/2006 2:32:28 PM
I had a friend her gave her man oral after he a** f*cked her. She was drunk. We now named that sex move after her and promised ourselves never to do it.
skibunny1979
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How long should good sex last?
Posted:
5/5/2006 2:30:29 PM
Sometimes bad sex lasts too long. Good sex cannot be judged on length. Good Sex is where you are panting next to each other, turn over and say "lets do that again!"
skibunny1979
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Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted:
4/6/2006 9:27:14 AM
Ok, so we have heard a plethora of comments from the girls on how all the guys on this site only want one thing... sex! We have also heard a lot of comments about how the guys are sub-par, cheaters or otherwise.
Guys, I want to hear your stories about the girls you have met on this site, or other online sites. Are they all Mommies looking for daddies, are they sex-crazed Nymphomaniacs, or are they regular girls?
Girls, I look forward to hearing some positive stories about guys you have met on this site.
Cheers.
skibunny1979
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Guys i need your help.... let us girls in on your huy stuff
Posted:
4/6/2006 9:10:06 AM
Don't go home with him. "lets watch a movie" is always code for "Lets have crazy sex".
skibunny1979
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What's your thoughts on a new political party in Canada?
Posted:
4/5/2006 1:54:00 PM
Its called the Liberal Party.
But sure, start another one. Split the left vote so the Conservatives continue to win.
Long live the Conservatives!!
skibunny1979
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in love with a newly married woman
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4/4/2006 3:00:05 PM
My vote is to leave her and forget her. Way too much Drama. She doesn't truly love you, if she did she would be with you.
From personal experiene I know that if there is that much drama it will never get better. Perhaps she is addicted to the drama and is using you?
skibunny1979
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Back up plan
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3/31/2006 1:29:18 PM
Fair enough. But if that individual lied about their appearance, do they deserve my good manners?
If they are just not attractive I typically stick it out, b/c usually he is a really nice guy and we have good converstation.
skibunny1979
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Back up plan
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3/31/2006 1:16:45 PM
ya, making a bad face may not go over well.
I phone a friend while in the bathroom and ask them to call me back right away. Then when I answer the phone infront of him I say it is an emergency and I need to go.
skibunny1979
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Back up plan
Posted:
3/31/2006 1:11:34 PM
You meet someone on POF, decide to meet in person. But they are either fugly or totally not what you expected. What do you do? Do you have a get-away plan?
skibunny1979
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Girls club in Calgary
Posted:
3/31/2006 10:03:59 AM
I don't know about all you other single gals on this site, but all of my girlfriends are coupled. No single girlfriends for me :( Which is a problem b/c when I want to go a singles event, or to the bar, my girls can't go without fear of their boys being upset.
So, to remedy this I am thinking that us single girls should start a club. Go for coffee, hang out together, do stuff that only single girls can do and our non-single girlfriends will not do with us.
Let me know what you think.
skibunny1979
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Things have gotten stale....
Posted:
3/29/2006 9:05:09 AM
I like your profile much better now.
Although you do not state your profession, you give enough away for me to be curious, but not worried. Now it at least seems like you have a respectable job, your not an unemployed oaf.
I also like what you have to say about yourself. It makes me interested in getting to know you more.
Good Luck in your search
skibunny1979
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I'm confused
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3/29/2006 8:48:53 AM
I have not been able to answer this one on my own so I am sending it out there to you fellow POF users.
I met this guy in January online. Our first date went well, but we pretty much ruled each other out. He is a quarter of an inch shorter than me. I don't really like to date shorter men, and he doesn't date taller women. Anyways, we had a lot in common so we decided to keep hanging out. Hanging out turned into dating. For two weeks we saw each other every day. Things got really intense. We slept together and it was like making love, not having sex.I really liked him, stature aside he was perfect for me. Educated, successful and we had tons in common. But I was not prepared for the intensity and I started to pull away from him. Consequently, he broke up with me, over the phone. He didn't want to date someone who didn't want the same thing as him.
A week passed and we couldn't not hang out. We ended up sleeping together again and then decided to give it another shot. Well, about a month of happiness later my ex came into town. We broke up in November after 4.5 years and things were still raw between us. I was completley over him, but we had mutual friends so I was nervous about the visit. Well my boy freaked out and dumped me via text message while I was out with the ex.
The dumping was totally an over reaction. My ex and I most certainly did not hook up and we were not going to hook up. My boy just freaked. The problem is, he seems to be very over dramatic. Hence two dumpings in less than two months.
Well, by this time I had fallen in love with my boy and I wasn't going to let an over reaction break us up. We decided to stay together. It lasted a week. He said he just couldn't deal with my "baggage" or whatever. I was fine with that because the drama was getting really old. That was two weeks ago.
Here's the problem. I miss him a lot and want to spend my time with him. We have seen each other twice since then and stayed over both times. We have great chemistry together and really enjoy each others company. I want to date him, but I don't know if I should. There was way to much drama before.
What do you think? Date him again, or keep a friendly relationship where we act like we are dating, but we are not?
Thanks for reading my novel and considering my dilema.
skibunny1979
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How do you tell a man.....
Posted:
3/29/2006 8:23:08 AM
Well, if you want to see him again you are going to have to discuss the tongue situation. Bad kissers are a total turnoff, and it can be easily rectified with some encouraging words.
As far as the orgasims go, wear a helmet! LOL. Just kidding. I dated a guy who had the same type of orgasims. At first it was weird, but after the first couple of times I really started to enjoy it and then I got jelouse. I wish my orgasims were that powerful!
Seriously, do watch out for your head though. My guy and me bumped heads pretty good once when he was in this euphoric state of spasms.
skibunny1979
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Things have gotten stale....
Posted:
3/28/2006 2:56:34 PM
Two suggestions:
1. put your profession. I hate it when men do not say what their profession is. I don't even consider that individual as dateable unless they have a profession written. The reason being is I don't want to even start to date a lazy oaf who has no respectable job. When you don't indicate what your job is I find it a little sketchy.
2. Talk more about yourself and not what you are looking for.
I hope that helps.
skibunny1979
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After so many messages you'd expect at least one reply!
Posted:
3/22/2006 1:08:46 PM
Dating is a numbers game. Its amazing we find anyone at all that we are completely compatible with. But its even more amazing at how many we have to meet before we meet that one.
POF works the same way. The more people you talk to the more likely you are too meet someone.
I don't think your profile is the problem, its seems to be up beat and your picture is pretty good. The problem is probably the girls you are trying to contact. Try to contact someone you may not be initially attracted to. Remember, a lot of these people look better in person. I've been told I do.
Don't be offended when a woman ignores your message. They really don't know you and therefore have very little to base their decision on. That being the case its really not about you, its about them. Perhaps they don't want to date and delete all messages, or maybe they get 100's a day and randomly chose a few to answer. You never really know why they chose to delete yours, so don't take it personally.
skibunny1979
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It's getting harder
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3/22/2006 12:47:13 PM
I definetly feel your pain. Being single is not easy for men or women.
First, your pretty cute, so I don't think your looks are the problem. So, that leaves attitude. When you go out with friends are you grumpy or depressed?
Maybe you should take a break from POF dating. I found online dating to be depressing at times b/c you don't always meet high quality people. And your talking to a computer. Interacting with people face to face is much more fun, and spirit lifting.
I would start to accept my friends invitation. It gets you out of the house and keeps you busy. And who knows, maybe you will meet another third wheel of the female variety and bond over the fact that you are both third wheels.
The only way to meet people is to get off the computer and out in the real world.
I wouldn't reley on POF or other dating sites to improve your situation. I just don't have a lot of faith in them.
Also, getting a dog is not a bad idea. They are great companions, and I have dated guys that I met b/c I started to pet there dog at a park or somewhere else.
I hope this helps
skibunny1979
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New User - Any profile reviews would be nice.
Posted:
3/21/2006 2:26:12 PM
Although I would write more about your interests. Tell the ladies more about you. A sense of humor is a good thing, but what else do you have?
skibunny1979
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New User - Any profile reviews would be nice.
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3/21/2006 2:25:14 PM
I disagree with Kingjpw. I really like it. It is straight forward and really describes who you are. The pictures are good too. I really got a sense of who you are.
skibunny1979
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Another N00b asking for a review
Posted:
3/21/2006 2:12:51 PM
I like it.
It's simple, its positive and it gives the reader a good sense of you. I like your pictures too, although the third one is a little creepy. I might take that one off. But I love the middle one, you look adorable and approachable.
Good luck in the search.
skibunny1979
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Ladies, let me review you!
Posted:
3/21/2006 2:08:59 PM
Thanks for the suggestions.
skibunny1979
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I give up - give me the bad new first
Posted:
3/21/2006 12:22:46 PM
"I also didn't like you selling yourself short with the line "Do not measure up to alot of the ladies" That shows your insecure, low self esteem....allo red flags to guys."
I agree with Bana-dito on this one.
You obviously have a great sense of humor, why not showcase it.
skibunny1979
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Ladies, let me review you!
Posted:
3/21/2006 12:20:02 PM
Please feel free to critique mine. Do you think my pictures work, or should I think about changing them?
Thanks in advance.
skibunny1979
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She must be physically attracted to me, or its a no go
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3/20/2006 10:57:57 AM
Personally, I have to be physically attracted to my man from the onset. But he must then back the good looks up with a fabulous personality. If the personality is lacking I find him less attractive as time passes.
Also, is a guy I am not attracted to but really like not just a friend? I think physical attraction is a mandatory piece of the relationship. I don't want to make love to someone that is unattractive.
skibunny1979
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Advice Please
Posted:
3/14/2006 1:46:16 PM
If it makes you feel better Jada Pinkett is something like 5'2" and her husbend Will Smith is like 6'3".
I don't think your man being a foot taller than you is a big deal.
skibunny1979
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Online Cheaters
Posted:
3/13/2006 5:12:28 PM
I have a story for you...
I had been dating this guy for two years when he moved to Ottawa, I live in Calgary. I was suppose to move their two months later. In February, one month before I suppose to move out there, I got a phone call from this man named "Sean". He told me that my boyfriend was sleeping with his wife. I didn't believe him at first. He had hired a private investigator and he sent me all the evidence I needed. Sure enough, my boyfriend was sleeping with Seans wife.
You asked if you should have told her. I say yes. Had Sean not told me my bf may never have told me and would have continued behind my back. I was about to give up my whole life for this a**hole. Sean saved me the hassle.
skibunny1979
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Mail Order Brides
Posted:
3/13/2006 2:32:34 PM
I have a simple solution for you. Seek counseling. Not becuase I think you are crazy or a loser, but because no matter who your relationship is with (whether its an american/ canadian or mail ordered) the relationship will not be a happy one unless you are happy with yourself. You need to clean your own house before you can invite someone over.
I think you will find with improved self esteem and confidence you will find the women of your dreams in your hometown.
And trust me, a man who is a virgin is not a big issue unless he makes it a big issue. My unlce lost his virginity in his late 30's and he is a successful, good looking, well liked man. He was just saving it for the right lady. If I dated a 23 who was a virgin it would not bother me. As long as he respected himself and me I would not think it was a big deal. And besides, you don't need to sleep with lots of people to be good in bed. You just have to be open to new experiences and willing to listen to your partner.
In conclusion, before you pay someone to love you, love yourself first. Then maybe you will find someone to love you for free.
skibunny1979
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Have you ever paid to use a dating site?
Posted:
2/17/2006 2:01:59 PM
No. I had a posting on Lava Life and would smile for free, but I never sent an email or initiated a chat. I'm not sure paying would be worth because I see all the same people on POF.
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