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Msg: 190 (view)

Best question ever asked. Posted: 10/5/2009 5:48:33 PM
I must say the quesion is a good one. Perhaps I am late in the submission of a response. I think clearly there is no boundaries on where a woman that you seek may reside. It is all a matter of your mindset at the time. If you are truly seeking women based on intellect, stature, sexual prowess then it is a matter of being available no matter where you reside. There are men and women everywhere. It is difficult to be within your mind to know what you find true beauty, both inner and outter. What may be appealing to one man might not be to another. What you find attractive within your own comfort level may not be the same to another. It again has to be on what you have in your mind that you are truly seeking. Can you say you can pinpoint it to a look, a hair or eye color. Which side of the bed she likes to sleep on, her political views. There are so many things that have to be weighed into this theory that you are proposing. Once you find her, will she find you equally appealing? Who is to say. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Seek what you want, diserve and desire and it will come. Or wait and let it happen. There are 50 states, you are young and you have time to search. Puerto Rico-has beautiful women. Are you limited to the US -the world is your oyster-best of luck on the search for your pearl. :D

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The Search Posted: 10/4/2009 7:55:13 PM
The guide to your heart is not through your eyes but through the emotion you feel. Hope not for tomorrow but live for today, the here and now. If you have a connection with another and log for them throughout the day, dream of them at night and yearn for them in the morning then they have become a part of you. Perhaps without even knowing, perhaps without even planning they have opened up the desire that you didn’t know existed but has always longed to be filled. You sought and you did not find but when you stopped your search the wind carried her in, wistful and dreamy. Her face, her smile, the look of her brilliant blue eyes captured and pulled you in. You are mesmerized by the softness of her figure your eyes wandering across the lines of her body. You see her lips asking to be touched by yours at first softly and then without abandon, firm and with passion growing deeper with each caress of yours. You press up against each other feeling the heat rise between you and as you feel your temperature rise, you awaken. It was a dream. You slowly open your eyes only to see her there lying next to you. It is your life. No need to dream any longer, it is now time to appreciate, love and live.

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why would a guy not call a woman that he likes? Posted: 6/25/2009 9:13:02 PM
Heroco That is rather young and naive response isn't it. Perhaps you should find the person from within, rather than the image that is out. Flesh fades, but a heart that is cold is very hard to warm. Kindess begets kindness.

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why would a guy not call a woman that he likes? Posted: 6/25/2009 9:10:38 PM
Here is the facts. Despite the obvious reasoning of the gentlemen that responded to you already. It may be a few things. I am not a guy, but am familar with your dilemna as well. 1) the guy may finally consider that you are not worth the effort to get to know u and clearly wants to get in your pants in a minimal amount of time. 2) how clear are you with what you want? YOU have to know it b4 you can think they would have any clue 3) Are you being to flirtatious and sending out the wrong signals-a green flag to go for it for men and then constantly telling them to Yield. Then you start the tease again. Men are primal-they want and need sex. This is a feeling that they are desired etcm women are seeking more, they want to know they are desired in order to give sex. Even though it may sound the same it is a different mind-set. This is not true of every man nor is it true of every woman-its generalities based on experiences. I would suggest to cool things off for yourself. You said u r a Gemini-as you know you are a very social person. You need to persue things that interest you, learn and develop what you want out of a relationship and then go for it-don't settle on what someone else wants you to be. One other thing-delete the BS in your profile-recreate a REAL ONE and no more bull-even if u r on here for the forums. Lie once and it is very hard to be believed the next time. Hope you get the answers you are looking for-best of luck.

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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men? Posted: 6/25/2009 7:24:55 PM
I would have to pose a question to you. Does her being w/ 1 man or 10 men, prior to you, make her less of the person you were attracted to? Does she suddenly possess LESS of the qualities you have come to admire about her? Is she now a crazed wild woman that you can never trust again-because of something she did B4 U? This is the part to really listen to-can you live with someone that has had a past -at all. Or are you truly wanting a virgin-if so, you know what you need to do. Consider the values that you are seeking, those that you, yourself possess and place yourself in the same situation that she was in. (Exchanging the men for women of course) Most men WANT 2 women-3 if they could handle it. She may be more multi-talented then you had 1st had any idea of. Take what she has told you, embrace it and learn from it-Heck-think of it this way-if she can multitask w 3-4 men-you should be having freakin fireworks if it was all devoted exclusively to you. Best of luck to you both.

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The Ring-a symbol of love or deception Posted: 6/18/2009 7:06:16 AM
I am curious to know. I have seen many men wearing a ring on their middle finger-both right or left hands. I wanted to know if this is just something they consider cool, or it is in actuality a wedding band they are attempting to disguise by its placement. I have read online that in other countries the wedding bands are actually worn on the right hand of a man and woman. So I am curious as to what the preception is.

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Being A Little Different Posted: 6/13/2009 2:25:40 PM
Can we truly say what is 'normal'? I think everyone has a criteria for normal. In essence it really comes to their comfort level. What is the need to classify it? We are who we are and we should embrace and love that fact. I am sure you have more fun encouraging one another to expound on their sense of unique style and opinions. Heck, out of babes we hear things that might not be within the standard of proper etiquette. As the world welcomes new things and new generations of people it also should encourage that we are all our own person. I think it is great. Be true to yourself and others should too. I love the subject. I think we should give thought to a new quote, "I'm not normal, I'm just me!" Have a great day and embrace who you are-its great!

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Tomorrow comes 2 part Posted: 6/13/2009 2:13:48 PM
Madness is the sadness that engulfs us, that devours our very soul. Sadness is the pain that are heart has had to endure, like blood dripping it begins to fall from our eyes, weary it makes us but we will not die. NO, we continue to live, feel and survive that is what makes us believe in a tomorrow. ~by:ME~ It is not the empty heart that will receive more but one that is full will embrace the feelings of another and become enriched. Hearts unfailing compromise brings anew. Cherish now for it will not be forgotten. In past, present and future. The tomorrow will come. Is it not up to me to decide to share in it. To feel more than yesterday, to want more than today. Tomorrow awaits-I am on my way! ~by:ME~

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Women & Blowjobs Posted: 6/10/2009 9:58:01 AM
SPURSFAN Your quote: Bad head is still head. As long as you dont bleed who cares. You control how long you last, not her... dont care how good she is. Wish I was getting head right now lol Good or bad lol -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- That is sad! You must have not had any mind blowing-blowing or you wouldn't feel that way-poor fella.

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Women & Blowjobs Posted: 6/9/2009 3:47:59 PM
We are discussing every day people here but since a gazillion people are referring to the porn industry I think they are under the impression that they are experts in the field-HARDLY! The just get paid for it. We(well most of us) have a job of some sort, but not all of us enjoy it and some are not even good at it-but we get that paycheck at the end of the week. However I am not saying a porn star doesn't enjoy her/his job but how many do you think actually know what they are doing? Why do you have so many different types of porn for pete sake. Perhaps one girl or guy is not really that 'good' at oral -thus the ones that are in other types of videos. It is not a universal thing to be good, or to think you are. COMMUNICATE we must repeat loud and clear is what will really benefit the giver and ultimately the receiver. I too don't want a man or woman going down on me IF they clearly don't know what they are doing, however with that said I am not just a dill hole that will tolerate it either just in the hopes-I will say to the left, right or OH YEA THAT'S THE SPOT!! haha. Don't feel like you will offend your partner, be aware and open with them, you might just have your eyes doing cartwheels and have a freakin outta body experience if you do and have your own 'porn star' right at home -all to yourself. Good luck! and many happy OOO's.

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booty call vs relationship woes Posted: 6/7/2009 10:20:14 PM
P Thanks I appreciate that insight. The fact that you are a confident woman that is also flirty gives me hope.

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Nude pics! Posted: 6/7/2009 3:01:33 PM
Romny -I agree! I find it a real turn on that someone thinks I am hot enough to want to show to someone else, or to enjoy in his 'alone time' lol I also think that you never know if they will later end up on the net -just have to put faith in the other person that they are decent. 2 sides of the coin I guess.

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Women & Blowjobs Posted: 6/7/2009 2:55:19 PM
AMEN! I think sometimes men might find an aggressive woman a turn off, but they forget sometimes that someone that wants a little 'control' can be a mind or c..k blowing experience. Well put Nybratde.

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Another question about oral sex Posted: 6/7/2009 2:51:08 PM
Come honk on booboo eh OH I will have to remember that one-too funny!! Thanks for the giggle on that one.

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booty call vs relationship woes Posted: 6/7/2009 2:32:06 PM
Redyellow- OMG I have to say I did love that-too funny!!

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Nude pics! Posted: 6/6/2009 7:26:51 PM
Actually I am the one that suggested it 1st in the past. I think that it is a turn on. as is video. The problem that exists sometimes is that some people have (thanks to good ol internet) posted pix or vid and there in lies the concern most people have in wanting to take these pix etc. It also depends on the female or male in a given relationship. Both have to be in agreement! There can't be any sly pix or vid being taken w/o both parties being privy to it. All comes down to communication.

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booty call vs relationship woes Posted: 6/6/2009 7:20:08 PM
Well I agree in part perhaps but it depends on what I am being flirty about I think. I mean I think that flirty can also mean giving a sassy response to a comment that they make-mind you I said SASSY(fun-sarcasm) not SAUCY(sexually charged) response. But I don't think that email response number 3 should mean that I am getting an invitation to a hotel either. I think that might be a bit extreme unless I initiated something like I want what you got-when can we get together and work out our sexual frustrations. I guess let me look at my profile and find some and I will post that (like one of the guys mentioned b4) Thanks for your comments.

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Women & Blowjobs Posted: 6/6/2009 7:04:21 PM
Totally Agree I commented on this on another forum. Most women are under an 'obligation issue' so they think and it is not really something they enjoy doing. So why do it! ME on the other hand-enjoy it very much. Pleasing is a very pleasurable experience. But I must say, different men enjoy oral differently, just as women enjoy getting pleased orally differently, or intercourse for that matter as well. I mean some are the lay in the bed sorts-typical all u gonna get sorts and others are : Bring on the toys, roleplay etc etc. You have to learn what your partner likes and be responsive to them. If you are tuned in with what they are actually "into" then you will know if they are enjoying the ACT or just the THOUGHT OF THE ACT. Learn to have fun and communication is the key. I totally think they should have an ORAL class or something because just as many women DO NOT know how to perform, men are equally lacking (provided they will even do it at all)-(which is a total other Forum entirely-lol)

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Well slap my ass and call me Daddy...WHY? Posted: 6/6/2009 6:54:59 PM
Well the ass smacking part is more a 'mood' thing. I mean don't make me feel like I can't sit down the next day, but variety is the spice-sooo enjoy it! The Daddy part is a little odd though.

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Another question about oral sex Posted: 6/6/2009 6:01:27 PM
OMG-maybe I shouldn't be saying this. But I really enjoy it. I mean maybe that is why you don't like having it done to you, because the girl thought it was an obligatory thing, or perhaps she just didn't know what the heck she was doing. I wonder if they should have classes on it-some girls just don't know how. Heck some men don't either, when giving oral to woman. Then again yea everyone is different, with different turn on's and off's -so I guess it is all in the approach and the individual. Hope you get to have another shot at it-with someone that LOVES IT.

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booty call vs relationship woes Posted: 6/6/2009 5:53:09 PM
Can someone help me to see where I might be going wrong here. I find that I am getting more 'booty call' invitations then I am actual date request. I don't know if it is the single mom thing that is a turn on or that men in general can be dogs. I am flirty, fun, open and honest. I speak my mind and can be outspoken at times as well. I may not be the typical 'hot model chick' but I really don't think you have to be if you have a good heart. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder n all. So how can I come across as ME and still not get a 'sleeping proposition'? Thanks in advance.

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