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letson

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Do the Holidays add an extra yearning ? Posted: 11/25/2009 7:31:26 PM
Good attitude Kaigypsy ! Sometimes we simply have to provide for ourselves , what we wish others would provide for us ! Nothing wrong with treating yourself to a favorite food , movie , concert , trip - maybe something you've wanted for awhile - time to get it ! Also a time to be especially grateful for what we have , and to help those not quite so fortunate . One way to get yourself cheerful , is to volunteer somewhere - all kinds of good feelings to be had that way !

letson

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Do the Holidays add an extra yearning ? Posted: 11/25/2009 2:33:57 PM
Holidays can be a real mixed emotional bag for many - single or not . especially for single folks that may not have, or be near , family . I know I'm feeling a slight subtle pining to have someone to celebrate all the good things that occur around this time - with my own family being far away - though I also know I'm fortunate to have good friends with which to do that . More than many have. But ya know what I mean , that special hug and kiss , maybe exchange of personal gifts from someone who knows you well ... Are you feeling any similar urgings - or business as usual ?

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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Middle Aged Cheap Skates.... Posted: 11/23/2009 4:37:43 PM
I happen to be a frugal person by choice - not necessity . So I have no problem at all with free or "cheap" date ideas . However , I do have a problem with dating folks that have not learned how to handle their money well enough to totally support themselves by the time they've reached adulthood. I've never been over-ambitious , and am certainly not "wealthy" - but I have all I need , and it's paid for . I also have savings that I could tap into for a trip , cruise , motorcycle etc. IF I wanted . So considering I'm looking for someone for the long haul , I'd prefer not having to support a guy , or limit my available activities just because he can't afford his part . My preference is for someone who at least has their own vehicle ( that runs ), a home ( needn't be fancy at all ) , and a source of income . In fact , I met someone from here who I really liked , where there was mutual chemistry. BUT - while he did have a vehicle , he had no job , no real strong desire to work much , was having trouble coming up with $ to pay for basics , and lived in a single wide owned by his Mom . She asked for a mere $200 a month , and he had been unable to meet that obligation for many months . Not a real good idea to go any further , in my mind .

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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bi man marrying women Posted: 11/23/2009 7:29:27 AM
Either a spouse is faithful , or they're not . If the couple agree to have an open marriage , that's one thing . But if that's not the case , then it shouldn't matter about the sexual orientation of either person . So - sure , if I happened to seriously fall for a bi-man , I'd certainly consider marrying him .

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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PLEASE HELP!!!! Posted: 11/22/2009 4:24:12 PM
You , and the guy , and the ex , all get booked on Jerry Springer's next show !

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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Do ANY Men Read Profiles (First or at all?) Posted: 11/22/2009 9:06:53 AM
I feel your annoyance - truly . It's difficult to imagine that someone ( male or female ) who can only bring themselves to write a few words , would be willing to put much effort into an actual relationship - should they ever get that far . Just yesterday , I had someone whose profile just oozed words of religion and had little in common with me , and wanting a certain denomination of woman , write to me ( who is SO not where he is ) , and ask " do you date ?" . In spite of whatever comes at me , I'm always polite and do not attack - but damn , it can be a challenge ! I SO savor those that DO take their time , and read , and comment , and share their thoughts ! A BIG thank you to all of you !

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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Accepting a man that's unemployed Posted: 11/22/2009 8:46:34 AM
It's one thing to have already formed a solid relationship with someone , and have them run into hard times . Under those circumstances , I imagine most folks would certainly support their partner however they could . You're definitely not the only one going through hard times - but to try and lure someone into your life when you're struggling, seems like a real bad idea. Assuming you could even get the connection going , considering you'd probably have to carefully watch your spending ( even if only for your half ), and driving etc. , it would be easy then , to get lost in the excitement of that new person , and completely ignore the work you need to do to get back on your feet . That really ought to be your first priority . It's a full time job to get a job ! There are times when everyone goes through phases of not being fully ready for a relationship - working on schooling , raising young kids , traveling extensively , a time consuming job etc. Your situation is one of them . "even though we ain't got money , I'm so in love with ya honey" - only works in SONGS ! Good luck !

letson

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People, why against the rocking chair on the porch? Posted: 11/20/2009 4:19:46 PM
Hey , nothin' wrong with rocking chairs - they rock ! : ) But seriously , sure it's good to just sit and let the world go by - sometimes . But with obesity having become a major epidemic that is killing a lot of people , and destroying the quality of life for a whole lot more - leaving the porch to move around , instead of all the sitting ( on the porch , in front of TV , at the computer etc. ) , seems like a very good idea - at any age ! I'm a firm believer in " use it , or lose it " !

letson

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aging moustache Posted: 11/20/2009 4:11:03 PM
Ah-h - more generalization applied to humans ! Never works . SOME guys look great with facial hair of any kind/color , and SOME don't . I tend to like a well groomed ( operative words ) man with facial hair , whatever color it might naturally be . Think Sam Elliot (drool ) ! But then - to each , his/her own !

letson

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Is it worthwhile to date here? Posted: 11/18/2009 3:53:20 PM
I've had two good past relationships with people I met online . It can be done . But like anything else worth having , it takes some dedication and fortitude ! AND a healthy sense of humor !

letson

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Is there any recourse??? Posted: 11/18/2009 3:46:01 PM
Free site or paid site - anyone can get on ! And once they're on , they can represent themselves however they wish ! This is why male or female , it's wise not give out too much personal information too soon , and to make sure your first meeting is in a public place , with lots of folks around . Park your vehicle away from where you meet - and if you're spooked for some reason - make sure you're not followed home . No need to be paranoid - but some caution and common sense are called for . Sorry you had those experiences - but there ARE good fellas too !

letson

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Bypassing the phone, is it okay or not? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:20:38 PM
Well sure it's ok - if that's how you want to do it . For myself , I don't meet anyone in person till we've done alittle phone time. So much can be revealed ! First I want to hear their voice , and laugh . And in the course of the conversation , little tidbits can come out that have saved me time and travel to go hang with someone I wasn't at all comfortable with on the phone. Thus far, it's been a pretty reliable screen . If we have fun on the phone , we have fun in person ! Whatever works !

letson

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Should I Report This Guy? Posted: 11/18/2009 8:09:32 AM
Why EVER would you give an abrasive soul like this , your phone number ??? You could easily have done the calling and blocked your number safely - then you have the option of ending things whenever you wish . Hope a lesson has been learned here . I don't see how "reporting" him will change who he is. He can get right back on this site, or any other with a new identity. Let it go - but try and stay alert !

letson

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Would you message someone if you knew they weren't going to respond? Posted: 11/18/2009 7:56:59 AM
Not a guy, but I have before , and I would again - usually compliments , or comments on something they wrote. What's the worst that can happen ? My ego can handle it ! What I do sometimes wonder about though - is when they don't answer , is it because they think I'm hittin' on them and they're not interested ( SO ? ) ? Or they happen to be lacking in basic courtesy ? Who the heck knows ....

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship Posted: 11/16/2009 5:51:26 PM
Not sure why - but when I was in my 20's , I tended to date men old enough to be my Dad . Then somewhere in my 30's , it all gradually shifted . I found that bit by bit , my lifestyle and fitness seemed to attract younger men - and that holds today . I've tried dating those my age and older - and most were not up to the activity level I live. No judgement or brag - just how it is . That said , I find I'm not real comfortable with too large an age gap . Not because I'm concerned with what others think ( never was much ) , but because I like to be able to have some shared history of the world . Music, world events , childhood memories , all that deepens the connection when it's mutual . Sure there's some leeway and variables - but not much more than 10 yrs younger works just fine for me !

letson

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Please bring it back ! [THREAD Closed * Redundant] Posted: 11/13/2009 2:42:01 PM
On someone's profile : a way to find out what forums they have participated in - if any . It was so helpful in the past to have the last three ( or was it 5 ? ) , forum entries right on a profile. Reading them really helps to get a feel for how someone thinks , and what their opinions might be to things that are of concern to the one looking ! Another good way to possibly be attracted to someone you may have overlooked otherwise !

letson

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do ladies get turned on by strong hands and fingers.. Posted: 11/12/2009 1:01:10 PM
Sure - strong , well proportioned hands and fingers are yummy ! But the real test is how they FEEL when they're touching me !! We all know that just 'cause folks have been endowed with great features - doesn't always mean they know how to use them to full advantage !

letson

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Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair Posted: 11/12/2009 12:54:53 PM
So it's YOUR preference . So find a woman who has long hair , and hope that she has all those other qualities you seek ... does make me wonder if you'd turn down a great woman for you if she happened to have hair not to your liking . As for the rest - try not to concern yourself ! eesh ...

letson

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What's the difference between affectionate and clingy? Posted: 11/11/2009 2:06:27 PM
Obviously everyone has their own idea of how much affection is just right for them. But as I see it , affection in whatever form , is a very welcome thing , and feels GOOD. While when someone is clingy, it can feel like too much , or badly timed , or just plain not comfortable - embarrassing even ! Ick ! Back off ! Lemme go !

letson

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Too small for a condom !?! Then What??? Posted: 11/10/2009 6:43:13 PM
Sounds like a line to me ! One can find ALL sizes, available online ...

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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Right or Wrong? Your Take on This ... Posted: 11/9/2009 8:03:47 AM
You're all single people. You fulfilled your "obligation" to be friendly and social to both men. It sounds like you had a natural affinity with bachelor #2 . I say go for it ! And by the way - guilt is a totally useless emotion. You are sacrificing happiness NOW , for things that are already past history , and cannot be changed . Good luck !

letson

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Are we all here for the same reasons ??? Posted: 11/8/2009 9:23:56 AM
No we're not . Why are you concerned about it ???

letson

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Dating someone who you`re sexually compatible but nothing more? Posted: 11/6/2009 1:01:58 PM
I've had that experience . Major turn-on initially , became a major turn-off , once I learned abit more about his mind . Ugh. Cut it short right away .

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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Sexiest occupation (job profession) Posted: 11/6/2009 12:55:54 PM
Men who happen to have handcuffs hangin' on their belts as part of their job . Nicely muscled construction workers wearing shorts, work boots, and T's with the sleeves cut off ! Yum. Professors with good forearms , who role their shirt sleeves up just below the elbow . ( actually dated one for a few years , because of that initial thing ! ) If you've worked in the medical field - you may be able to relate to standing across a surgery table from someone , with masks on. It accentuates the eyes , and makes flirting so much fun ! : ) Mechanics , and folks good at working with tools - even all greasy ! Pilots - big or small planes . Firefighters !!! Anyone truly enjoying his work , and doing his job well !

letson

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Seperated,deffinatly getting divoriced ,but still having sex Posted: 11/4/2009 3:14:16 PM
Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha , ha ! No way , no how ! Nutty , crazy maybe , but not stupid !

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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How Easily Can You Detect Red Flags Posted: 11/3/2009 3:27:19 PM
Let's see if you notice this one : Meet a guy online . All things seem good , looks , attitude , comments , lifestyle , location , stages in life - it all clicks . We email , IM , move to phone - still all good , and gettin' better . He says "all the right things" . A fellow romantic . (swoon) We talk about meeting in person soon - I'll admit - I'm eager . Has a business in town - says he needs to go to England to land some big contract . Calls & Im's from hotel . A real charmer . Still all good ! Announces the contract is a sure thing , but in order for him to receive his payment - he needs to fax some information elsewhere (?) , and that he doesn't have the money ( Mr. Businessman ? ) to cover the cost of this . Uh-oh . : ( He feels "terrible" asking , but could I send ( cough ... gag ) $400 to some address in Texas !!!!???? OF COURSE - he'll pay me back , as SOON as he gets home ( wherever THAT may be ). "Sorry" I say , " this just doesn't feel right , and I won't do it " . He's apologized numerous times - but even if he screwed up - and is somehow legit - how could I EVER trust this situation ? Can you say BIG... HUGE... WAVING Red Flag !? Chit !

letson

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Putting the Cart before the horse Posted: 10/30/2009 9:35:33 AM
It's all part of this online process . It helps to find someone that sees things through roughly the same eyes . Everyone has differing ideas about how they want to go about getting to know the people they've contacted ( or been contacted by) online. There's instant gratification folks , those that like a long slow build-up , and others at all points in between . I'm not at all paranoid - but on the other hand , because I happen to have a good telephone voice , I've had a couple phone "stalkers". Nothing horribly threatening - but mostly a pain-in-the-butt ! So as some others here have stated , I like abit of email back and forth first ( maybe a few days ), before moving to the phone . And I do all the initial calling after first blocking my ID . If some key questions are asked , each step along the way can yield all sorts of helpful info , and can save all kinds of wasted time by revealing significant road blocks - or not . But of course bottom line always is the face-to-face . Works .... or doesn't ! If it's a struggle to agree from the very first contact - that's generally a sign to me to keep on goin' !

letson

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Please help me needs advice about a guy:) Posted: 10/28/2009 6:13:55 PM
I've heard it said by others, and it's been my experience , that if someone is really into you - they leave NO doubt that they are , and they'll be persistant with that interest . That includes letting you know in advance if they'll be away , or not able to get in touch . And they'll be honest with the reasons for that . I certainly would do the same with anyone I'm interested in . Anything less to me , signals - as some have suggested - that there's a spouse in the picture , or the person is in contact with other singles , or totally flakey . If he can't come up with a solid reason that makes total sense to you - LOSE him !!

letson

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Does exclusivity applies in FWB relationship? Posted: 10/25/2009 3:56:30 PM
I see this as not being any different than any other type of relationship between two ( or more) people . It's a matter of agreeing on the "rules" decided by the people involved . Sounds like there was no discussion beforehand , as to what each person is comfortable with - BEFORE you began . I've had one FWB situation . We agreed that each of us would date , but if it came to the point of being sexual with another person , we would tell one another in order to give each of us an out if we wanted . It worked well , he eventually found a steady girl , and we're all still friends . Unless you're practicing strict intercourse with condoms only - NO fancy stuff and NO oral ( and even then it can be iffy ) - you run the risk of sharing all sorts of goodies with your partner(s) , so it's only right to use some guidelines between you and whomever .

letson

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Brown eyed Men? Posted: 10/20/2009 11:31:18 AM
PLEASE - tell me you're kidding !!! Arrgh !

letson

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GIRLS AND TATTOOS Posted: 10/19/2009 8:15:50 AM
This is just another personal preference thing - some will like 'em , some won't . Some will like 'em and not like that you have forty - some won't care , or some may have more than you ! Some will be willing to at least meet you , and see if the personal chemistry works - some will be chicken and make a snap judgement . Several years ago , I met someone who admitted when he met me , that he didn't like tattoos on women. I have two . Turns out we had amazing chemistry , all sorts of things in common , and lasted over three years together . Along the line, he told me he found MY tattoos to be a real turn on ! No rhyme or reason to this stuff - you're dealing with variable humans here !

letson

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Let's get naked Posted: 10/15/2009 5:20:27 PM
I'm pretty comfy in my body - so no problem !

letson

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Someone sent me a complaint about my location preferances Posted: 10/12/2009 7:49:43 AM
We all have a right to our own preferences - be it location , age , race , financial status , interests , body type - whatever . Try not to concern yourself with what others may think, and go for what suits YOUR needs - along with the needs of your potential partner !

letson

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This is not a library. It's a bookstore. Posted: 10/9/2009 1:20:03 PM
Great editorial ! I agree wholeheartedly with your observations . It seems some folks choose to get through their lives blaming all sorts of outside factors and circumstances for their particular lot in life . I'm thinking all this ultimately boils down to the sturdiness of one's self image . Those that are solid in themselves are more generous of spirit , and accepting towards others , and don't take things like the "personal preferences" of others as personally directed towards them .

letson

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How much money does a man need to make to keep you interested in him? Posted: 10/6/2009 5:37:01 PM
I feel most comfortable with someone who has at least , roughly the same level of income that I do , along with not being in serious debt. And minimally , a home, a car that runs reliably , and a source of income - and I'm good ! I don't need someone to support me - but I do want them to be able to support themselves - with preferably some left over for playtime !

letson

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....i do......but he doesnt Posted: 9/29/2009 6:10:15 PM
NO , NO, and NO !!! Sounds like a great deal for him , and a very bad one indeed for you . He clearly does not have your best interests at heart . And with a child - you need to really pay attention to that. Have some self-respect ! You deserve better . I'd give him an ultimatum - no marriage - no moving - and definitely no kids !! If he's not into that idea - walk away ! If you want marriage , and a family - hold out for the man who wants the same .

letson

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Sex with no strings attached, is this possible? Posted: 9/28/2009 5:46:47 PM
Hm-m , I remember a movie awhile back , with Demi Moore and Michael Douglas , called "Disclosure" , about such an arrangement that turned horribly bad . Can it be done ? Maybe . Fine when it works - your job on the line possibly - if it doesn't .

letson

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Are men that cook better for a relationship? Posted: 9/28/2009 4:41:21 PM
My feeling has always been that if you eat - you should be able to prepare at least a few decent meals - take-out, delivery, and grilled stuff don't count ! And it's really fun to create a great meal together ! It's also a really nice gesture to be able to go all out , and feed your lover in grand style - with all the things you made yourself . Sometimes, food IS love !

letson

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Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? Posted: 9/25/2009 4:06:01 PM
Though I love sex , there are times it would really free up my energies to NOT have the urges I do . Certainly , it would simplify many parts of life , as the constant craving can be maddeningly distracting sometimes ! But oh - how good it is to find someone appealing and compatible, to scratch one anothers' "itch" !

letson

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Looooong profiles (like mine) - do they help or hurt? Posted: 9/24/2009 10:48:34 AM
Not too long at all ! Being pretty verbose myself , I appreciate a good read . Hell - if folks aren't willing to take the time to even read a profile , I'm mighty suspect as to whether or not they'll be willing to put the work in towards a good relationship ! As others have said - lose the last two photos , and get some more happy ones ! Lastly - reword your intro : not "JUST a guy" - how 'bout : "one good man" instead ? Don't belittle yourself in any way - sell it ! Good luck !

letson

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Where are all the Pisces Woman? Posted: 9/23/2009 6:47:38 PM
Piscean here ! But why does that matter to you ??

letson

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Let me give you the tour... Posted: 9/21/2009 6:51:15 PM
Oh my ! Creepy. Actually , if you have his address , it would be a lovely gesture to send him a thank you note . BUT - inside the card , put some sequins, poppy seeds , maybe some tiny sparkles , or colorful confetti - as much as you can fit in the card ! Then when he opens it ( hopefully over the rug ) , he'll have much to remember you by !

letson

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why do woman see men as just friends Posted: 9/20/2009 11:58:41 AM
I'm thinking about male friends I have . One is a motorcycle riding buddy . We ride together every now and then , and talk on the phone occasionally . I think he's an attractive guy too . But though he's "nice" , he does tend to whine , and is so popular in our area , that you can't go anywhere without someone stopping him . Also has some ex-wife issues and can't seem to let go of the past. Not traits I'd want in a partner . Another is someone I met online , and dated over a year . However , we were not totally compatible sexually ( I was more experimental ) , and he was getting used to being alone again after a divorce - not ready to merge , as I am. However , we have a great time together , so we remain good friends who stay in touch often , and share our latest dating stories . We love one another - as friends . Sometimes you can really click with someone of the opposite sex - but only on certain levels . There may even be some things you don't like so much - and as friends - you needn't put up with them . Or there may be no physical attraction - but their personality is very appealing. There's just not enough - for whatever reasons - to grow a romantic love . Being friends is a great option - but of course both have to want that level of connection for it to be satisfying !

letson

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Patrick Swayze's view of relationship/love Posted: 9/15/2009 4:00:14 PM
He was one fine man - in every possible definition of the word ! And he and Lisa had one of those exceptional , enviable relationships that was a product of their continual devotion to one another . I totally agree with his words , and will miss him in this world !

letson

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Racism in Dating Posted: 9/13/2009 5:50:41 PM
Unfortunately , there always has been, and likely always will be hateful , bigoted , small minded people out there . The origins for their hatred can be varied and numerous - but to me , the bottom line for it continuing is always ignorance , with a refusal to open themselves to any other way of thinking . And while you can delete them from your mail - we can't delete them from the planet ! Try not to take it personally . Live to be an example of one whose mind is accepting and tolerant . And hope that some where along the way , some of these folks just might find a new loving way to exist !

letson

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What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 9/13/2009 5:34:37 PM
With someone I really have a connection to . If that's in place , then anything goes !

letson

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why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 9/13/2009 11:57:31 AM
I'm not a man . But when I'm in a relationship , you can bet I still look ! We were all given eyes , so as to be able to appreciate the beauty that is all around us , and some of that comes in the form of other PEOPLE ! You may find if you hold the reins too tightly on your partner - they just might bust loose ...

letson

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Strong opinions on pot smoking here and abouts; why? Posted: 9/12/2009 9:13:57 AM
I'm just not into subtance abusers of any kind - be it food, drink, smoke, drugs, gambling , golf , watching sports etc. There CAN be too much of a good thing ! Aside from that - why would I want to hang out with someone who is subject to arrest when out in public ? Yeah - that's real relaxing ... Then the facts : What are its short-term effects? Short-term effects of marijuana include problems with memory and learning, distorted perception (sights, sounds, time, touch), trouble with thinking and problem solving, loss of motor coordination, increased heart rate, and anxiety.These effects are even greater when other drugs are mixed with weed. A user may also experience dry mouth and throat. ( Do YOU wanna be on the road next to a pot impaired driver ??? ! ) What are its long-term effects? Marijuana smoke contains some of the same cancer-causing compounds as tobacco, sometimes in higher concentrations. Studies show that someone who smokes five joints per week may be taking in as many cancer-causing chemicals as someone who smokes a full pack of cigarettes every day. I'll get my "highs" in other ways, thanks !

letson

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Where'd the last 5 forum entries on each profile go !?? Posted: 9/11/2009 2:30:16 PM
I really found this feature to be helpful . First it was interesting to see if a person participates in the forums . Then - which ones. And finally what they had to say . It's a great way to understnd more about how a person thinks . I had some good email conversations that were sparked because of my responding to what they wrote - or vice-versa. And lastly - it helps others to know what I'm about by seeing my most recent writings . Please consider bringing that feature back !

letson

Joined: 4/29/2009

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Experiences with cuddle guys Posted: 9/11/2009 6:48:38 AM
My main concern when I see "love to cuddle" , is that in my experience , I've noticed it tends to turn up more in the profiles of those who are carrying quite abit of excess weight . And their profiles seem to indicate that they live sedentary lives . So I'm wondering if they love to cuddle - because that's ALL they can do ...

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