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Msg: 45 (view)

Talking about sex.... Posted: 5/21/2006 1:06:56 PM
People openly admitting that they are sexual beings is difficult for most. Has a lot to do with social, cultural and religious taboos. For women especially, they are concerned with being labeled negatively. Freud's theories deal a lot with our hangups, though he wasn't always correct, many times he was on the right track. Sex is natural, as is the discussion of it. People just have to overcome their personal issues with it. And there are those who take it too far, discussion is one thing but approaching a total stranger too get off sexually is another issue and inappropriate unless invited.

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It seems as though women no longer like romance Posted: 5/21/2006 12:13:21 PM
I don't believe that's true, most women I know complain of just the opposite that most men arfe n longer romantic. It depends on your view of what's romantic. My cooking and serving you, while you watch tv is not my idea of romantic. Neither is buying me a gift that you want or a household appliance. So, what's your definition of romantic??

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AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO DIES FOR BAREFEET AND HAIR DOWN?? Posted: 5/1/2006 1:39:41 PM
There's a reason why I go to the spa to get my feet manicured and toes polished every 2 weeks all year round. LOL!!

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revealing too much Posted: 4/23/2006 12:38:43 PM
If you are in a relationship with this person, you should be able to trust them. I'm not going to allow another person or fear of what they may do or say dictate who I am. I have to be honest or I'm not being me. If they later use it, oh well, so be it. I'm a good person, not perfect, but I do my best to be the kind of person others like to be around. It won't prevent me from being honest with the next one either. BTW, things I've shared have been used against me. I still share.

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hello, not totally new here, but the forums yeah, check it out Posted: 4/23/2006 11:50:12 AM
Have you read Stephen Hawking's "A Brief History of Time", "The Theory of Everything" and my personal favorite " The Nature of Space and Time." It wasn't until I read Hawking that I began to really comprehend physics. Though i always had my own ideas regarding time, space and demensions.

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Do you think Nascar can be considered a Sport? Posted: 4/23/2006 11:31:58 AM
I'd say it qualifies, since lately it's been looking like a boxing match.

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NBA MVP? Posted: 4/23/2006 11:27:37 AM
Going strictly by the rules, it would have to be LeBron. The Cavs are in the playoffs and he was the one that got them there. He will only get better. I'd like it to be Chauncey for his efforts alone, he's on himself the hardest at all times. All around, it's Steve Nash, he is the MVP, enuff said

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DATING = DRAMA Posted: 4/23/2006 8:10:35 AM
I've actually dated two guys (at different times) that were totally drama free. They were the best bf's I've ever had. Personally I avoid it like the plague. To quote 8Ball & MJG "No more drama, don't want none."

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I am a bodybuilder/fitness/figure competitor = vain or shallow? Posted: 4/23/2006 7:55:03 AM
I think they wanted the pics to see if it was really you. People do post false pics of themselves or old ones. If someone assumes that your vain or shallow based on competition photos, then they are the one with an issue. You've accomplished something of which you are proud and it's obviously a part of who you are. So, why not show them.

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I met the perfect man on this site. Posted: 4/22/2006 8:31:26 AM
Well sweety, I'm rooting for you. I hope it works out for you both. Perfection is a tad hard to live up to, so get to know him well.

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Women who CANNOT cook to save their lives Posted: 4/20/2006 9:42:06 PM
Lol, I sleep about 4 hrs a night, but that's because I'm hyper. He would clean the house, wash clothes and go grocery shopping. Plus a few other chores. I found the time for me when I left. LOL, but that story is for another post.

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Scary Experience Posted: 4/20/2006 6:45:51 PM
That happened to me on another site, the guy in question sent me 40 email messages in two days and I never responded to one. He spoke like we knew each other and had an on going relationship. I blaocked him and reported it. Then I switched sites. Honey, block him and be careful. He doesn't have a complex, but some very real issues. Stay safe and give a friend you trust what ever information you have on him. Better safe than sorry.

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Women who CANNOT cook to save their lives Posted: 4/20/2006 6:27:35 PM
I'll survive since I'm a helluva cook. My ex wanted me to open up my own restuarant. I was one of those wives that worked full time, was in school full time and still cooked a full meal 6 nights a week. I don't mean hamburger helper, frozen veggies or anything pre or partially cooked either. Everything was fresh and started from scratch. I also can bake, though I do that even less than I cook now. But catch me around the holidays and I take requests. I'm the official chef when I go back home to visit my family. Now a days I seldom cook, it's no fun doing it for just myself. If I'm really in the mood to do some cooking, then I'll fix something to take to my co-workers.

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NBA Playoffs 2006 Posted: 4/20/2006 5:57:55 PM
Detroit all the way!! I love my Heat, especially my boy D. Wade aka the Flash, but Pistons just get tighter every year. They play as a unit, together always, when they're on the court, they are no longer individuals they're one man that's everywhere. Steve is the go to man for the Suns, but do not underestimate Shawn Marion, he is a solid player. I believe Steve should win MVP again this year, but I want it to go to Chauncey. I'd like to see Pistons-Suns, but I'm going with Pistons-Spurs.

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What is learned in relationships? Posted: 4/19/2006 10:41:03 PM
For me, every relationship I've been in has been about self discovery. I find out a bit more about me, my needs, wants, and how I am with another person. I've learned what many of my limitations are, what I will truly put up with and what I won't. What I can and can not live with. Putting the other person first, doesn't mean forgetting about what's important for you. You need to be sure your needs are being met also. If you don't love yourself first, how will you be able to love someone else. I'd rather be alone than in a bad relationship. Just because you care about a person and they care about you, doesn't mean that you're good for each other, need to be together or even should be together. Sometimes leaving is the best thing for you both. I had to learn not to try and fix what was ailing my partner. Whatever issues they have, I can't fix them. I can only offer encouragement, if they want to fix them. And last but not least: Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. Have some fun in life. These lessons have been very helpful to me. They've help me to mature and improve over the years. Hope they can help you too.

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Is it wrong for a Lady to be offended when called WOMAN? Posted: 4/9/2006 2:15:40 AM
Yo, Dude while YOU!! are fetching a beer, bring me one too, please. I want to be called a woman, as in an adult female which my experiences and conduct in life have made me such. Yes, it can be used in a derogatory way, as some of the ladies have stated. But for me it generally has positive connotations. I have a bigger issue with being called a "girl", no matter the tone used or how it is phrased. I'm an adult and want to be respected as such. For me that term says little to no respect for what or who I am.

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Dating outside your species Posted: 4/8/2006 12:01:46 AM
My cell phone and I are carrying on a hot and passionate relationship. (OHHH celly, I like it like that Big Daddy!!!! Talk dirty to me. Yeah, do it again!! ohhh, Celly baby you are the man) I'm tech junkie and it does just about everything for me, camera, video, voice recording, internet, and plays music. Then on the other side there are also my books, stereo, and computer.

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Teasing Posted: 3/30/2006 11:24:25 AM
I love being the teaser, handcuff him to the bed and it's all good.

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Heard on the Radio this morning..50% of people in my province choose SLEEP over SEX.. Posted: 3/29/2006 10:45:07 AM
Thanks for the FYI, I'll make sure I don't move there!! Without a doubt SEX. I sleep for about 5 hours max and normally I get about 4. Just call me the Energizer Bunny I keep going and going.

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TOUCHING! Posted: 3/27/2006 7:29:53 PM
Kdblueeyes That was just the excess food you were wearing Dude

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Strange dating fetishes? Posted: 3/27/2006 1:57:49 PM
popsicleman, The tattoos dude, not the tits.

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Strange dating fetishes? Posted: 3/27/2006 1:56:05 PM
Lohki For most it may be a fantasy, mines has moved over into the realm of fetish. Though, the thought of one in black leather chaps. Just give me some rope and giddup cowboy. YEEEHAAA!!

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Strange dating fetishes? Posted: 3/27/2006 1:53:08 PM
No, Xavi, but I'll see if he has a friend. BTW, Thanks my best one is the one on my back, right shoulder, it's adinkra.

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TOUCHING! Posted: 3/27/2006 5:40:09 AM
Kdblueeyes, I'd say that brushing the "Big Mac" was a tad inappropriate for a total stranger. If you knew each other then............................

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TOUCHING! Posted: 3/27/2006 5:33:49 AM
I'm a touchy feely kind of person even with family and friends. I do it so automatically, that at times I'll find my hand on the arm of a stranger that I'm talking to. Oops! So I can't imagine being in any type of relationship were I can't touch him or he doesn't touch me except for when were having sex. Forget it, it would never work for me.

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Still trying to learn Posted: 3/26/2006 8:09:46 PM
Wow that is just plain obsessive, I'd setup an auto reply or block that one! I did block him, and I switched over here to POF.

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Strange dating fetishes? Posted: 3/26/2006 7:55:58 PM
I forgot to mention that I really like the Black Irish look (Black hair / Blue eyes I can introduce you to a real cutie i know in Ireland.

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Strange dating fetishes? Posted: 3/26/2006 7:51:54 PM
deep bass voice.(mmmmmmmmmmmmm) singing this really sexy love song. ya gotta love that girls especially if he's singing it in my ear, OOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHH!!!!

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Strange dating fetishes? Posted: 3/25/2006 10:02:37 PM
I agree with JackieA, I think that Johnny Depp is hot, though I believe it's his eccentricity that makes him so. My personal favorites are as follows: 1. Very dark skinned men, Tall, muscular and athletic. 2. Sexually agressive men. 3. Men who are bashful. I know it's a direct contradiction to #2, but it still turns me on. 4. Hairless chests 5. Men who are streetwise. 6. Accents If someone knows one man that fits all of these, have him call me , PLLLUUUZZZEEE!!!

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Still trying to learn Posted: 3/25/2006 9:44:06 AM
40 emails from the same guy in two days and I haven't responded to any of them , that's too much. I'm about to petition for a new anti-email cyber stalking law. Other that we like you to show that you're interested just not scare the hell out of us.

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Why do I bother trying? Posted: 3/24/2006 5:40:50 PM
Sweety, Sometimes it's hard to see those we care about making a decision that we feel is bad for them. But Kelly is an adult and in the long run she is the one that has to decide what she's going to do. You can't stop her from doing what she wants to do, neither is it your place to try to. No matter what she is being told, she 's the one that has decided to listen. He's not the enemy, if he has control, honey she gave it to him. I've never met anyone who was played that didn't allow it in some small way, if they're completely honest. You can share your feelings with her, but pushing them on her or trying to force her to listen to you can cause her to draw away from you. Arguing, threatening, pouting, name calling, yelling, any or all types of coercion and manipulation are not the way to get a person to listen to you. Being a friend who's concerned and willing to calmly, politely listen then repond in like manner will get you further. But Dude, you have to mean it, faking being a friend will back fire on you and you'll lose in the end. Just some friendly advice from one who's been around a bit.

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Would you buy a house....that came with a groom/bride? Posted: 3/17/2006 4:20:01 PM
Being on this website is not quite the same thing double cabin. Everyone's not here to meet a mate. Neither are most of us selling ourselves to this highest bidder. All that aside, for whatever reason this person feels the need to make themselves available through an advertisement. Though it's not something I'd do, he may have a valid reason. It would be interesting to know why he felt that he and the house should be sold together. Anyone willing to contact him to ask?

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When in a relationship, do you like being marked as territory? Posted: 3/14/2006 1:55:56 PM
[Why don't you guys just piss on us and then everyone will stay alway just because we stink?] That's a good one Luna. Other than the hickeys, anything no other man can see would only mean something to the woman. Even hickeys aren't a deterent if a guy's really interested, some guys don't even get the word NO.

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Is sci fi fantasy and horror more a guy thing or the women out there hiding Posted: 3/13/2006 5:14:44 PM
No, I'm into sci fi fantasy and horror books and movies as well as video games. I have a GameCube, PS2, Gameboy Advance and an Xbox. Just didn't put them in my profile. I didn't think about it. But then I didn't put a lot of things I like in there either.

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Do people answer profiles outside USA and Canada Posted: 3/12/2006 10:08:54 AM
I got an email when I first joined this site from a cutie in Ireland, he and I talk to each other on Yahoo IM and on pc to pc calls. We stay in toucg regularly. I don't know about a relationship, but if I hit Europe I'll look him up and hope he does the same if he comes here.

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Love, does it really exist? Posted: 3/12/2006 9:59:24 AM
Yeah Bebe, True love does exist, but some are to fearful of being hurt to go forit. Which is actually sad, since it doesn't happen all that often. Lust happens, liking happens, but seldom real love. Maybe she's afraid of being hurt. Or is unsure of her own feelings. But until she tells you, it's just speculation. See if she's willing to talk about it, maybe somewhere a little public, so she doesn't feel confronted. Just a suggestion.

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Negative perceptions of Islam increasing Posted: 3/9/2006 8:13:51 AM
It's interesting how someone can take the views of a very small radical group and apply it to millions of people. It is also completely irresponsible on the part of those who continually perpetuate these erroneous views. 1. Islam is the largest religion in the world. There membership is in the millions, and they like Christian are broken into many different sects, with different beliefs but one holy book. 2. Most Muslims are NOT terrorist. Let me repeat myself, most Muslims are NOT terrorist. They are peace loving individuals who just want to be free to worship their God in peace. You've heard of peace, freedom from strife. 3. The Quaran does not teach hatred, no more so than the Bible. In fact, if you read it, which I have, it actually teaches love and tolerance. Just as the Bible teaches it, which I've also read. Ignorance breeds ignorance, as this poll clearly shows. To indiscriminately blame all Muslims and a religion that mostpeople know absolutely nothing about, other than heresay because of the actions of a minority of people is the height of idiocy That's the same as saying that the KKK represent the American ideal and average Americans. Or that Neo-Nazi's are the voice for Germany and Europe. Or that the Black Panthers exspoused the views of all blacks. It's ridiculous, obviously there are those who follow that ideology, but it's not all or most. They are a minority. I'd like for anyone to tell me that if an army from another country came here and attempted to take over and run our country, that we'd just let them and not fight back. It would not happen, we'd train our children, women, and senior citizens to help with the fight. American Revolution and Civil War. By any means necessary, for all my NRA friends. I'd like to know how many people actually know anything about, let alone understand the Iraqi culture, their societal structure, or even their history ancient and recent. It's easy to have an opinion on a subject, but I'd like to see one based on knowledge, fact and understanding of the subject being spoken on.

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Anyone (women preferaby) able to review my profile? Gentleness not required. :) Posted: 3/8/2006 8:27:04 PM
Kevin, I read your profile and got the impression that you were a very caring, sensitive, kind, honest, and affectionate guy. But your profile has a case of TMI, too much info. Yes, you do want that special one to know about you, but you don't want to give it to them in one shot. It's a process, getting to know about another person as you date. That's one of the exciting things about dating, learning all about that special someone. For example, you might love cake, but you wouldn't eat an entire cake at one time or even in one day. You'd have one piece at a time over several days, to avoid a glycemic overload. Your mom probably taught you as you were growing up, that too much sugar was bad for you. This holds true for many things, too much of anything can be bad for you. I hope I was able to help you, it's just something to think about. Hope you find that special someone your looking for Nuit Ange

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Sex on the first date...do you go there?? Not a chance!! Posted: 2/10/2006 10:09:04 AM
It's not my personality to jump off with a stranger, but I strongly believe in never saying never. Personally, I wait till I get to know that person really well, been dating them for a few months and we've progressed to that point. But it could happen that the chemistry is so intense, that you can't refuse that one special person. Yeah, it could happen and hell can freeze over. LOL!!

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Valentine's Day + being with someone Posted: 2/10/2006 9:48:21 AM
24 hours a day, 7 days a week I'm with someone that I love and is very special. ME!! I believe people feel that being with someone on Valentine's Day validates who they are. That they're worthy of love. It's really very unnecessary, it changes nothing. If you don't have a positive viewpoint of yourself, being with another person will not make any difference,. You'll still be insecure and have low self-esteem. Valentine's Day can be a time to spend with a lover, but you're no less of a person when you spend it alone either.

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