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loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 130 (view)

Going from Hi to bed?????? Posted: 2/22/2009 10:17:44 PM
TibiaMiss I have been on this site 2 or 3 years. Unfortunately the experience you suggest is very common on line. Men usually do not have the courage to talk sex in person after saying hello! i make it clear I want a sexual relationship but not with a stranger. I can pick up a man anywhere. Usually I find men mention sex and how hung they are and how well they can satisfy me and how kind, considerate, and romantic they are BEFORE they mention their name. My question is...if all this is so true...why are they divorced?HMMMMMMM!!!

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

Deleting profile b/c of inappropriate messages from men Posted: 9/17/2008 7:45:59 PM
Perhaps now....you are absoultely correct in your assestment.. In my day we would call her a 'tease' and when they man reacts...slap his face!

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 55 (view)

I cant seem to let go of my cheating wife..Y?? Posted: 7/20/2008 8:34:22 AM
Number 1, you are correct, she is too young for you..if you can't hold on to her now, what about when you are even older? 2nd, if you are so worried about your marriage, why do you list yourself as divorced, and what the heck are you doing on a dating site...sounds to me like you deserve each other.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 64 (view)

a sandwich short of a picnic - how to say no? Posted: 7/9/2008 2:10:45 PM
you forgot to mention in your profile you are a snob...what's wrong with a sandwich picnic...Just say no, you will be doing him a favor

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

Harder to Date with age. Posted: 7/3/2008 10:41:09 PM
no wonder superlizard...look in the mirro

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 980 (view)

Should a woman buy a round of drinks? Posted: 7/1/2008 4:37:18 PM
So who raised you and your friend? a monkey? you have a bad attitude toward women...tsk tsk

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 965 (view)

Should a woman buy a round of drinks? Posted: 7/1/2008 11:31:54 AM
I AM SO SICK OF THIS FORUM...GET A GRIP...IF SHE WANTS TO, WHY NOT?

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 98 (view)

How many people have actually went on a date using this site? Posted: 6/11/2008 6:17:18 AM
I have been on approximately 20 dates in the 3 years I have been on here. Sometimes we meet after a few emails, sometimes after emails and phone calls. Most of the dates were not to my liking. Most had lots of emotional baggage. 3 were married but claimed not to be. There were a couple i liked really well but they weren't interested in me... How to approach me? With honesty, sincereity and no discussion of sex right off the bat. Tell me about yourself and what you like to do for fun.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 82 (view)

are women willing to look past a mans flawed teeth. Posted: 5/25/2008 5:20:33 PM
not me . and I wouldn't kiss him either..yuck!

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 643 (view)

Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 5/25/2008 1:24:42 PM
WHY DO MEN DUMP MEN WHO ARE NICE TOTHEM?

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

Good man says goodbye Posted: 5/11/2008 9:11:43 AM
maybe that was your problem...this IS REAL LIFE...NOT A GAME

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

Can one be traced to their ISP (computer), Posted: 5/10/2008 3:20:34 PM
However I don't think the two incidents are related. I would be weary of the man you saw at the store.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

Can one be traced to their ISP (computer), Posted: 5/10/2008 3:18:32 PM
Yes anyone computer savy can access your ISP. And I don't think you are paranoide at all.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 96 (view)

Would you date someone on antidepressants? Posted: 5/7/2008 1:01:03 PM
If you wouldn't date someone on antidepressants especially women, that only leaves 5 people you could date...

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

How long after a POF date doesnt work out is appropriate to see someone else on a date site? Posted: 5/2/2008 6:08:48 PM
if you are married to him or pregnant by his baby, you owe him no loyalty. 0ut with whomever you wish.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

Women, Would you? Posted: 4/26/2008 3:02:43 PM
I have known people with epilepsy. It is a controlable ailment. If I were younger, I would certainly date you. I dated and married a wonderful man who was bi-polar. We had 25 great years together until he died of cancer in 1994. Of course there were problems when he didn't take his medication.. I give you credit for not driving. We had a friend who had severe episodes of epilepsy where he would black out for sevral minutes at a time. His doctor allowed him to drive. He tooks his meds faithfully. One day on his way to work, he blacked out and drove almost 1500 feet before he hit a 16 year old girls car waiting at a traffic light and shoved her under a semi. she was killed immediately and David was and is still devastated. He went to prision for 3 years believe it or not..like it was his fault. I am so sorry that people are so shallow and cannot see you are a real person who happens to have a physical/ailment. I sometimes have the same problem with being fat. We are who we are and no one is perfect except God. good luck

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

At what point do people marry for money instead of true Love? Posted: 4/25/2008 8:16:56 AM
how much money we talkin about here? Just kidding...money is nice but I have turned down wealthy men after one date because they did not appeal to me .

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 235 (view)

Kids packed her bags!! Posted: 4/20/2008 6:40:28 AM
Your grammar is so baaaad..You sound like a 3rd grade drop out...and the disgusting way you use " my boys". this is between the wife and you. You have a caveman style personality. I see you wasted no time getting your sorry butt on a dating sight...

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

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Am i an a*hole? Posted: 4/17/2008 5:08:55 AM
seriously why you are at it, what is PUA and PAT.

loveisclickaway

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Msg: 682 (view)

Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 4/16/2008 2:16:39 PM
you bet....if he hits her first . hit him with everything she has, baseball bat, skillet..whatever. My late husband never hit not even once although there were brat attacks that warranted it. I told him when we first married that if he ever hit me, he better never ever go to sleep again because he wouldn't live to see the morning

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

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is drinking >3 times per week really considered often? Posted: 4/16/2008 5:02:08 AM
if you drink 3 times a week, I would not be interested in you.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

what makes a women smile?? Posted: 4/13/2008 5:24:44 PM
lots of attention, lots of orgasms on a regular basis :-)

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 83 (view)

Does it take longer to recover the loss of a loved one through divorce or widowhood Posted: 4/11/2008 10:43:47 AM
There is a lot of guilt associated with death...there is also financial hardship. As a divorced person there is always that chance however slim that you might get back together...at least you can still see that person. Your children can stil see their father or mother...mine could not. I just know I am not qualified to judge your pain and you certainly have no right to judge mine.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

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Avocado Creme Brulee Posted: 4/9/2008 1:38:07 PM
who are you feeling? an army...32 egg yolk, l 1/2 poung of sugar, 8 avocado's...not nutritious in my book, maybe on a small scale

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 79 (view)

STOP BRINGING UP YOUR EX...GIRLS AND GUYS!!!! Posted: 4/9/2008 9:56:43 AM
I was married to my husband for 25 years before he died. he was my childrens's father. He is a part of my past...I'm over him but I will never forget him. If you arenot interested in my past life, and vice versa...you are not my type of man... enough said

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 121 (view)

Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have? Posted: 4/5/2008 9:40:10 PM
Yes me. And he is the love of my life too...and I know he belongs to someone else. Believe it or not I believe him when he tells me he loves me. I also know he loves her. He makes no promises and I expect none. We live 2500 miles apart so it makes it easier. I have no intention of trying to break up their marriage..but it doesn't stop me from thinking about him and dreaming about him, and wishing he were mine. I am trying to move on but unfortunately, I think I am looking for his clone...

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 129 (view)

is there faithful or decent men out there Posted: 3/25/2008 6:40:41 PM
Of course there "are" faithful decent men out there as well as women who use proper English..Your comments contain many errors which lead me to wonder about you and the kind of men you seem to attract...

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 163 (view)

Clean shaven = trustworthy? Posted: 3/22/2008 11:05:30 AM
Nah! cheaters come in all styles...but I personally think clean shaven men are verrrreee sexy....woo hoo!

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

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In response to the popular Woman's 50 Rules for Men... Posted: 3/7/2008 4:10:27 PM
digital nights...I think you are a jerk...that being said, I don't know what the 50 rules for men is and I don't care. It is ridiculous to make rules for other people unless you are an educator or a prison guard. People are who they are. They don't change for you or anyone else no matter how much they love you...if you do not find the traits you want in a man (or woman) move on. Some of the rules you have for women show a lack of consideration no wonder you aren't married. Its all about compromise...Women certainly know how to work the toilet seat, after all if they waited for most men to clean it, it would be crawling with all kinds of nasty germs. The idea of putting the seat down is a polite thing to do, nothing more...however, I have laughed my butt off when occasionally my late husband would forget to put the seat down. Getting up in the dark to potty and lowering yourself to the seat is like falling and when your butt hits the cold porcelin, it is quite a shock...nothing to get upset about...

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 72 (view)

Not kissing on the first date.....why is that a problem with some men. Posted: 3/5/2008 5:13:34 AM
This past Sunday I had a dinner date with a man I met on another site...He fixed me a wonderful dinner at his home. I had told him upfront that I expected him to behave as a gentleman which he did. But after dinner, he asked me to sit on the couch next to him. He asked me to give him a kiss. To me a first kiss is more like a smooch than a tongue thrusting trying to swallow me whole kiss. I have to admit that I was not attracted physically to this man at all. Needless to say I felt quit uncomfortable with the intensity of his kissing. I also confirmed what I suspected all evening; and that he had no top teeth...what a turn off, lol! Plus he did not brush his teeth after dinner...gross! I pulled back from him and I told him I felt uncomfortable kissing him on the first date and could we just talk and hug and get to know one another...he said he wasnt interested in talking...so the moment got a little stressed. ...then he asked me to leave... whew was I relieved... Also he lied about his age, he was 10 years older than he said...what's up with lying? Do people who lie think they will get away with it?

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 310 (view)

Is it ok for a overweight person to reject another overweight person, solely based on them being overweight? Posted: 3/1/2008 8:44:42 AM
omg you are so prejudiced...To even think that a fat person cannot reject someone for size is insane to me.. does this mean that I have brown eyes that I have to go out with every brown eyed person who asked me when I like blued eyed people? A lot of very thin men like BBW women, does that mean they have to go out with skinny women...you are nuts

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 46 (view)

THIS SITE WORKS!! Found my boyfriend in less than two weeks!! Posted: 2/27/2008 11:57:10 AM
well if it works, why are you still here? You been posting this for weeks...we really don't care, let us know next year if you are still with him. goodluck

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 179 (view)

Any bbw hypocrites? Posted: 2/17/2008 12:04:44 PM
I guess I'm a hypocrite. don't mind bald, a belly, a gut...but no 300 pounder or long hair...

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

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Having no luck here gotta go Posted: 2/9/2008 10:50:25 AM
guys just got back and read your post on this subject and others...no wonder women don't respond...and for every woman looking for a free meal there are 100 men looking for free sex...nothing in this life is free!

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

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Having no luck here gotta go Posted: 2/9/2008 8:23:54 AM
What is the point in leaving? You don't have to make this site your only avenue of meeting people. You can do both...lol! Sometimes I think some of you feel the need to tell us you are going because you love drama and want us to feel sorry for you. I have been on here a couple of years and I'm still fishing...doesn't mean that I "have" to meet someone from here...people just come into our lives, we don't go looking around every corner or bush for them. That shows a desperation that is easily diagnosed from a potential suitor. I have met many men from here and just because we meet doesn't mean we click...sometimes I like them and they don't like me and vice versa...it's life, sometimes fair, sometimes not.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 450 (view)

Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 2/8/2008 9:22:23 AM
multiple orgasms maybe???

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 309 (view)

It can happen to men too - no photo should mean no date !! Posted: 2/5/2008 9:55:38 AM
Dang! you ARE tall dark and handsome. if you were in the stated I would tell you that I am 63, overweight, sexy and find your terribly appealing. I have no trouble getting dates from here because I don't lie about who or what I am. and yes it has happened to me also...I am one of those women who wont talk to you unless you have a pic. I figure if I have to put my self out there for the world to see, so should others. But in only one instance did the man look better than his picture

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 67 (view)

So he wants your phone number.... Posted: 2/4/2008 12:23:22 PM
p.s. some of you go out with someone without a phone number...I think that's insane

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

So he wants your phone number.... Posted: 2/4/2008 12:21:54 PM
this is my position on this...since one man threatened to kill me because I wouldn't meet him...per the police's advice, I no longer give out my home phone unless I know him pretty well...I give out my cell phone because the police say it cannot be traced. If the man calls me and does not show up on caller id, or give me his # , I move on. Most men on here just want to get off by talking dirty to you...if they are serious, they will give out their number...simple as that. Most of the men I've met on here don't eve want to date, they want to go straight to bed...I say no and never see them again...their loss.

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

A new great sandwich Posted: 2/1/2008 10:04:04 PM
ya all make McDonalds sound REAL good...yuck!

loveisclickaway

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Msg: 379 (view)

Men posing with cars Posted: 1/31/2008 7:43:09 AM
hmmmmm yum, fried pepperoni on good Italian bread is awesome...

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 378 (view)

Men posing with cars Posted: 1/31/2008 7:42:29 AM
I think the picture of them posing with the car is to impress you and make themselves seem important. But as I've said to many men who send me a picture that shows their cars and I have to squint to see him...if I wanted to date a "car" I would put that in my profile. Most of us (at least me) are not that shallow. geeeesh!

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

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Have you ever met someone who rejected you Posted: 1/29/2008 8:35:34 AM
Yes I've been rejected in person...hurts for a little while...but that's it. I always let them know up front I am overweight. If they don't want to give me a chance, is their problem not mine. But in all humility I must confess I reject men about 20 to 1. I've only had 1 or 2 look better than their picture. Most are so fat and or bald, 20 years younger that I don't recognize them. Of course I don't reject them because of that but because if I don't feel some chemistry..I wouldn't go out with them again and I don.t

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

How do you tell a scam (female) Posted: 1/28/2008 4:17:04 PM
POF will delete their account and everything about them if they suspect a scame I don't know about women but these are some of the signs for men. 1..usually around 47 2. Widowed 3. One child age 14 4. calls you all kinds of silly names (in his first email) such as angel, precious, light of his life etc, tells you he loves you, adores you and want marry you...ad nauseum 5. Usually types in 'broken' english 6. Makes big bucks 7. drum roll please......almost always lists himself as a 'native american'

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

A Dramatic POF Tragedy - Real life! I swear! Posted: 1/26/2008 10:50:16 AM
I am sorry but you crossed the line to damage his truck and get him fired too?? You need some serious help to help your grow up

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 232 (view)

What if you meet someone on here thats bipolar and is an alcoholic? Posted: 1/24/2008 5:43:08 PM
I can't believe you have to ask.....

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 354 (view)

why do women shy away from guy that doesnt drink?? Posted: 1/22/2008 3:57:11 PM
In my case, I ain't met one yet. after 200 men and 20 plus dates

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 167 (view)

My ex is on POF!!! Posted: 1/21/2008 1:10:17 PM
not only is 'your' ex on POF, so is 'his'...stay out of it

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 218 (view)

Ladies....would you wear a t-shirt, flip-flops, and shorts 1st time meeting someone? Posted: 1/13/2008 2:07:12 PM
sure if was an informal meeting why not? Better than your pink bunny outfit

loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006

Msg: 57 (view)

Broken up via Email: How cowardly! Posted: 1/7/2008 4:23:14 PM
what's the big deal, you met on line, you can break up on line. sometimes people just don't have the courage to hurt you in person. Accept and move...she doesn't sound like at 35 she is wrapped too tight...consider that she probably did you a favor. good luck!

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