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oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

Msg: 804 (view)

older women younger men Posted: 2/19/2007 10:56:16 PM
I definately agree. I am a hopeless romantic and any sexual act out of passion and romance is likely to make me swoon, haha. I have spoken to many males about this and around half of them feel this way. Not only a matter of circumstances (affairs perhaps?), but also a matter of a male trying to live up to his "masculine" side in releasing their sexual tension and energy.. they end up becoming addicted.. why? not perhaps because of the sex with one person in particular.. they can go elsewhere, but perhaps a deeply subconcious fixation of loving somebody (at even the smallest degree) that starts at the moment of sex.. in other words... yes, sex can be dangerous AND/OR productive... lol.

oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

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what is wrong with my profile? Posted: 8/21/2006 11:56:48 PM
hello people, I either have a poor profile, am being judged, or I suck at chat/introductions. It is quite rare for somebody to respond to an introduction, and even more rare for somebody to initiate a message. Of course, I'm only referring to people in my local city. can some people please review my profile and give me other constructive criticism.

oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

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USA boy says Aussie girls are hot! Posted: 8/21/2006 11:43:18 PM
I'm Aussie. I like Aussie girls, they are cute and on the same wavelength. Perth girls seem so stuck up though. Maybe I should either move interstate, or turn gay. Plenty of male attention if I join a sex chat.

oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

Msg: 57 (view)

do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex? Posted: 8/21/2006 11:21:02 PM
maybe I'm missing out, but I'm totally lonely when I'm not in a relationship, because I think for most males there is no such thing as "casual sex". At least for me. It'd be nice to sex when not in a relationship, but there has to be some form of communication. how can I find somebody for mutually casual hetro sex? :)

oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

do women like being made love to anymore, or is it all about sex? Posted: 8/21/2006 11:17:14 PM
for males at least, I believe to fu3k is to grow closer, but one doesn't need to be in love. The more fu3king goes on, the more the man falls in love, at least for me. It's a bit childish to expect to be in love before the first series of fu3ks. It's like falling in love in a distance-relationship (over the phone) or something.. not real.

oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

Msg: 246 (view)

raped or not ? Posted: 8/21/2006 10:55:02 PM
Rape is a very broad term. what about a woman consenting to sex and saying don't cum inside me right at the very end. is this rape? What about a woman having sex and then deciding afterwards that she did not want to have sex. Is that rape? Are some people that dense? I heard that like 1/3 women are "raped". If everybody didn't make a big deal out of it then the victim would not feel abnormal and wouldn't feel so sorry for themselves (because they got raped). Get over it.. you're not dead or disabled! My first love had been raped twice and because her mother didn't make a big deal of it, she accepted it straight away. I asked her why.. she said.. I didn't feel any different. It's attention. rape is evil, but not the end of the world. some people say a rape villain should be hung or killed or whatever. that's a bit silly though. Perhaps this could be considered after a string of rapes. I think this line of reasoning is illogical, but people still employ it because they are comfortable being sheep.

oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

Msg: 87 (view)

Do straight guys secretly yearn to kiss another man full-on? Posted: 8/21/2006 8:48:02 PM
I've kissed guys, after requested by my girlfriend. not really nice. How can a person claim to be in love with their [opposite sex] partner, whilst still wanting to fool around with guys/girls. It seems way too common for bisexual females. To be honest, it disgusts me. For some strange reason, I dislike bisexual people! I don't want to, but it's just an implicit reaction. I guess the most reasonable explanation is that a bisexual woman does not respect a male because they think they have no role to play in the relationship. How can a woman offer another woman the qualities that only a male has to offer? I think it's all an act to tell you the truth.. almost as if it's "cool" these days to be called "bisexual".. a label.. to fit in with everybody else. I find that majority of 25- girls declare themselves "bisexual". I avoid these. Why would I be with somebody who could possibly in the near future turn lesbian?

oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 8/21/2006 8:18:04 PM
I have some photos and don't think I'm too ugly. I get depressed and even resort to drinking because I believe that there is something wrong with my looks or my profile. what can I do?

oceanborn333

Joined: 2/2/2006

Msg: 64 (view)

nice guys dont usually approach strong women...why? Posted: 8/21/2006 7:29:16 PM
perhaps a "nice" male is worried that if they attempt to approach a woman, they might be unsuccessful and hence need to keep trying on other women. Perhaps this idea is stereotyped as being a sleaze, by continually chatting up women. Althought I don't approach anyone, in my own thoughts, I tend to ignore the more painted people (makeup, common dress). I call these people "plastic".. barbie dolls. Almost all of my experiences with these people have been negative. It is a protective mechanism now that I see an overly good looking woman and am almost instantly disgusted with this preconceived "experience" that they have bad attitudes. Perhaps these negative attitudes will persist through any relationship that these socalled "plastic" people have and the relationship is doomed. I can almost imagine that a gorgeous woman will pose serious relationship problems to anybody they meet, so I attend to avoid such people. I have had a few relationships with older women that have worked out very well, except circumstances were not ideal.. I want kids, she doesn't want any more. It seems that majority of people online already have children, or are not a match for my personal preferences. Having said this, I am not a member of any pay sites, so I have only access to free services. How is being "strong" different from being an "introduction whore". Is my choice too wide, or should I simply ask more people? I seldom get responses from the more attractive people on the site, so I can only assume that they have better choices.

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