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 Author Thread: Lip gloss
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Lip gloss
Posted: 5/28/2009 12:05:36 AM
Kissing a woman wearing lipgloss or lipstick is kind of like kissing a crayon. Try it and you'll know what guys feel.
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
what does a Christain woman want from a Christian man?
Posted: 5/28/2009 12:03:30 AM
A good christian woman wants what every other woman wants. A carpenter to build stuff for them and a guy that can turn water to wine. Most guys would probably love that from a woman as well LOL
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Would really like some feedback
Posted: 5/27/2009 11:40:14 PM
Honestly for someone new to this site, you've got a pretty good profile. Pics are good, shows a good variety of you.

Try adding some about the type of girl you'd like to meet. You have some in there but try expanding on it.

The about you stuff is good. Very informative. Good stuff about your hobbies and interests.
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Can the police be blamed for hastening her death?
Posted: 5/27/2009 11:33:52 PM
Wow its sick how people will try and get money even out of someones death.

Some people are just plan STUPID and GREEDY
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Equitable Paternity: Child Support Paid By Non-Biologically Related Person
Posted: 5/27/2009 11:29:01 PM
Either that or the people that want the post deleted have tried to do a similar thing in this case.
Personally I think the whole thing is a load of crap. If the kid is not yours it should be your choice whether you want to pay support or not. If you do choose to however it should not be reversable same for if you choose not to.
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Am I overreacting?
Posted: 5/27/2009 10:53:08 PM
Ok no your not over reacting. He is your son and that is your job not the new mans.
This is definatly something you need to talk with your ex about. When it comes to stuff with your son you come first before the new man does.
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 125 (view)
 
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:57:15 PM
Unfortunatly my parents just happened to walk in on me when there movie was sold out. I was definatly not impressed LOL
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
how do nice guys get dates?
Posted: 5/26/2009 8:14:51 PM
heres a question, if you don't like the nice guy threads, WHY DO YOU READ THEM AND THEN POST!???!

Holy freaking crap, stop b!tching about them and just skip them already.
 snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Subjective/Objective
Posted: 5/26/2009 8:08:32 PM
Everyones tastes are subjective. You like what you like and no one should be able to tell you differently.

Personally speaking, I make my own decisions. I don't let my friends opinions alter my perceptions of the person i am with. Ultimatly its my relationship and not theirs and I'm the one that has to be with that person. So yes I will listen to their opinions but I don't let it effect my overall judgement. Besides the woman I'm with is beautiful to me so who really cares what anyone else thinks LOL
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
stay on a dating site?
Posted: 5/23/2009 11:48:08 PM
I'm with someone right now. Shes reading this and smiling, I can see her out of the corner of my eye LOL
If your on here for the forums then put that and only that in your profile, don't leave it as single looking for whatever. I like the forums, they are pretty entertaining and sometimes just downright stupid, but its still fun. So if you have fun cool, just watch what your profile says.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
What do I need to do different?
Posted: 5/23/2009 11:26:55 PM
Ok, first things first. Pics. SMILE!! its not a mugshot man.

Second, you need to talk about yourself, who you are and what you like, then talk about who you would like to meet and what you would like them to be like. Be specific.

Last, get rid of the AIM info. Trust me on one is going to add you. I'm not saying this to be a**** Take a look at my profile. That little quiz. little **stard never got me one number LOL
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
How many people have you met without a clear picture?
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:14:47 PM
Thank you Lil_brooker for finally stating what some people are either to immature or to stupid to realise. Yes there does have to be attraction there but attraction isn't limited to the physical. Once you realise that and start giving guys a chance and actually talking to them you might realise they have alot more to offer you then just a pretty face.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Foreign Wives
Posted: 5/16/2009 12:15:29 PM
Wow, there appears to be a fair amount of angry people with this post. No one ever thought that the OP just wanted some information. I have noticed that most of the anger of the issues of american women is comeing from non other then women and then the anger on the entire issue of the women being american is coming from the guys. Holy crap, calm down.

OP Your going to find the same type of women in America as you will find in any other country. Its just weeding through the ones that don't fit with you to get to the ones that do. The whole mail order thing is probably over rated and not worth your time. Good luck on whatever you decide.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Am I in Denial here?
Posted: 5/15/2009 10:47:48 PM
Ok I've worked out in the oil feilds so I know what its like for him. I don't think hes playing you based on the fairly obvious fact that you stopped contact with him in the first place. So if hes put himself back on this site to look for dates theres really nothing you can say about it.

If you want to start a relationship with him and actually give it a chance then make the time to see him before he leaves for work. The last person he sees before he leaves will be the first person he wants to see when he gets back. Its your choice, take a chance and see what happens, or don't and always wonder what could have happened.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How do I explain to my three year old dateing ?????
Posted: 5/15/2009 10:34:06 PM
keep your dating life seperate from her untill you know for sure its serious. Thats the best advice I can give you.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Participation in Sports - Troubles with the Ex
Posted: 5/15/2009 9:31:17 AM
Ok, I'm Canadian so I can help you out a little bit. First your ex is damn lucky that the CRA isn't charging her with fraud so she needs to consider that before she goes nuts on you. Second, If her day is thursday then its her day, but she can not prevent the kids from going to sports or anything like that. If she has a problem with it then she needs to switch her day to when they don't have sports. Third if shes unwilling to do this then you can go to your lawyer, but you have to document it. DOCUMENT everything. Get letters from the coaches and the leagues on how many times they have missed practises or games. This is all due to the fact that you have PRIMARY custody.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Trying to move on...
Posted: 5/13/2009 6:58:52 PM
Ok, trust me your 21 things will get better. No one says there is a time limit on how long it takes you to get over something like that. You don't need to go out and date if thats not what you feel comfortable doing. If you just want to take time for yourself and focus on whats making you happy then do that. The rest will fall into place as time comes if you let it.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Lawyers say Alberta’s plan to sue criminals for health costs is unenforceable
Posted: 5/13/2009 6:40:15 PM
personally I think its a good idea. Only issue is, what happens if they don't/can't pay. Do the victims go without the care they need?
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Would you date someone sick?
Posted: 5/13/2009 1:52:38 PM
Yes I would stay with someone who was sick. If I was with them and loved them I would have no issues at all. Starting a relationship with someone who is sick is kind of iffy. Depends on the the illness I suppose.

As for the pole to delete this post. People need to back off. This is a public forum for people to ask whatever they want. RELAX
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
PHOTOS????
Posted: 5/12/2009 9:30:55 PM
If I see a half nude pic posted, I don't bother reading the profile or even sending a message. Sometimes I'll check out the pics, but thats about it.

Last time I was on here I did a small test. Women always say they hate shirtless pics on guys profiles, so for the hell of it I put one up. WOuldn't you know I got about 10 emails in one day and about 30 profile views. I put the one I normally had back on and nothing. Gotta love that.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Am I nuts?
Posted: 5/12/2009 8:24:46 PM
You probably should move on. If hes not answering you or calling you back or replying to texts then I would assume that hes no longer interested.
You could however move on to the nice snowy northern part of the world. Edmonton in particular ;)
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
does the word MARRIAGE scare guys off?
Posted: 5/12/2009 8:21:36 PM
Personally, I don't mind the whole marriage thing. Bringing it up on the first date however will make me wonder. Thats kind of like asking a guy to have kids with you on the first date...And sadly, yes it has happened.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Now shes invaded my dreams!!!
Posted: 5/12/2009 1:28:06 PM
This subconcious in this situation is such a ****....
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Now shes invaded my dreams!!!
Posted: 5/12/2009 12:54:41 PM
Rick no resentments. Hes still young and thinks Daddy lives in the computer. His mother and I have a good friendship so she puts him on webcam for me. He calls me on the phone as much as he wants as well so its cool. He has the normal tantrums that one his age does, but other then that hes a good kid and has a good mom so everything works. My parents still live close to him and he sees them usually every other weekend so hes got that connection to my family.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Now shes invaded my dreams!!!
Posted: 5/12/2009 10:43:03 AM
I know how you feel. Been there done that and it sucked just as much as you say it does. How did I get over it... Well I was engaged to this girl for 2 years, planning the wedding, all that stuff. Lived in a relativly small city and we had a child together. Thats the back story. How did I get over her. Well I moved around a bit in the city and just couldn't get away from the memories or the dreams. Ended up getting laid off from my job and decided to move 2ooo miles away. It sucked leaving my kid behind, but he needs food and a roof over his head just as much as I do but being that far from her made things extremely easy. Stopped thinking about her, nothing reminded me of her and when I went back home for a week to visit my kid there was no lingering feelings. Its just what I had to do and my son and myself are better off for it. He will never have to want for anything and I don't have to worry about being in love with his mother anymore.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
WOW to the YOWWWWWWWWWWWW!
Posted: 5/12/2009 10:22:26 AM
Awwwww Muffin, thats so cute...

I'm just messin with you. Congrats.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Best time of day or night for sex
Posted: 5/12/2009 10:08:12 AM
I love spontaneous middle of the night sex. Where if one of you is up for no apparent reason and just decides its time for some lovin LOL

Second fav is welcome home sex. After work or something like that where you just get jumped and aren't expecting it.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
how do I get a player to see he's a player?
Posted: 5/11/2009 9:07:38 PM
Put him in contact with the kids he doesn't know about, that usually works
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Whats wrong with my kids not living with me?
Posted: 5/11/2009 8:49:54 PM
My kids don't live with me either, its also job related. Some guys might have an issue with this, but I don't. You made a choice for what you felt was best for your daughters. To me thats very honourable.

Some guys may see this as you not being fit or whatever to care for them. Those are the guys you don't need to waste time with. Or if your in for some fun you can totally mess with them Your choice.

Good luck with your search.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Do men really enjoy chasing after women?
Posted: 5/10/2009 11:38:47 PM
Ok, texting and calling is cool. If your up for the chase so are guys. You chase me I'll chase you. All is cool.

About this "need" of yours. Comes off as a bit stalkerish to me if its like an addiction or something. If you call or text like 40 times asking "Whatcha doin, where ya at, how are ya..." That drives guys nuts. EFFING STOP THAT!!!
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
The Cookie Rule, Or whatever you may call it.
Posted: 5/10/2009 11:34:47 PM
hmmm cookie rule.. Well I've never dated an ex's girl. Just not my thing...
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
First Profile Ever Created -- Advice Welcome
Posted: 5/10/2009 10:42:07 PM
ok, lose the part about its your first time first profile blah blah blah.

Second, your pics are great.

third, you have nothing in there about what you are looking for in a woman.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
My tattoo, your thoughts
Posted: 5/10/2009 10:02:46 PM
Ok, its your body. Decorate it any way you want. You have no need to explain yourself to anyone for any tattoo you put on your body even if it is a name. Anyone that tells you any different doesn't deserve your time.

I'm sorry for your lose man, thats harsh. Losing someone you love sucks. Take it from someone who knows. And yes I have a tattoo for that very reason.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
i dont kno what to do
Posted: 5/10/2009 9:51:44 PM
Ok first of all chief. Lose the ebonics. You sound like a 6 yr old.

Second if they are on a break and still seeing each other shes not into you.

Third. You do not EVER and I seriously mean EVER!!!! Date your friends ex. Its very very uncool.
Enough said.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Happy mothers day from random strangers?
Posted: 5/10/2009 9:40:04 AM
oh wow, ok time to explain. No I'm not trying to honour all the mothers out there. I just mean if your out at the mall or something and of course I'm not stupid. If I saw someone who had children and happened to be passing by me or just standing in a line or something.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Why do some rush and others I have to chase??
Posted: 5/10/2009 9:28:38 AM
Its because you don't live in Edmonton ;)

Some boys, like to play there games. It happens. Its unavoidable. My advice, when you see something like that happening. Don't play the game. Pretty simple. Just do nothing and move on.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Why go back to an ex??
Posted: 5/10/2009 9:26:19 AM
I've had this happen to me. She didn't go back to her ex, but always talked to them. It was annoying. I mean I don't care if they are friends, but theres parts of your relationship that need to stay in the relationship.

Guys will do stuff like this just to proove that they can. Its kind of like an ego boost especially if they weren't the ones to end it.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Happy mothers day from random strangers?
Posted: 5/10/2009 9:24:02 AM
Hi, I was just wondering if you hear a happy mothers day from a random guy, does it make you smile, or weird you out. I only ask because I'm rather friendly and I feel that every mother should hear it at least once today even if it is from a stranger
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Why the mind games?
Posted: 5/9/2009 7:29:16 PM
I'm gonna tell you a secret, something I've learned through experience. GIRLS play games, just like BOYS play games. WOMEN and MEN are real, honest and straight forward with their intentions. Anything else is just a little child trying to play in the big leagues.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Just a question
Posted: 5/9/2009 12:51:48 PM
I've been in your situation before. Its not cool at all. Basically what you need to do is just let it go for a while. If she wants you back she will come back, if she doesn't then you've already started your life again.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Will you marry me?
Posted: 5/9/2009 12:42:11 PM
No you don't come accross as shallow at all. I'm just telling you what would be running through a guys head.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
HOW DO I GET THIS OFF MY PROFILE??
Posted: 5/9/2009 12:34:45 PM
Can't get them off your profile. Advice on this, just watch what you say kind of like in the real world.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Annoying neighbourhood kid
Posted: 5/9/2009 11:38:58 AM
You know its really sad that parents will let their kids come to this now a days. You can hear the language and see the way they dress. Its pathetic. In your situation, call the cops, they do have to come in and at the very least talk to her. Then its on record. If it continues call Childrens Aid. His mother is obviously not teaching him and not taking care of him. So its time. Don't worry about the bad blood or warfare crap. Odds are if the cops are called she will probably end up moving to get away from the big bad you LOL Good luck
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Dating Litmus Test
Posted: 5/9/2009 11:31:34 AM
Hmm tests for me. I'd have to say if we decide to go on a date and shes not ready when I get there or shes late. Thats a deal breaker for me.
Lies for sure are a big deal breaker. And its very easy to tell when someone is lying to you, even the best lier has a tell.
In general thats about it
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
More than four years without sex...am I doing the right thing?
Posted: 5/9/2009 11:20:06 AM
Patrick,
Honestly I wouldn't bother looking for an intimate encounter. Sure a few hours of fun may be worth it at the time, but in the long run it will do nothing for you. You should probably center your search on finding a relationship. Its more fullfilling in the long run to have sex with someone you actually care about.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Will you marry me?
Posted: 5/9/2009 11:00:36 AM
Sounds like you have been talking to some pretty insecure guys. If they are telling yous something like that right off the bat its probably because they like you and judging by your profile they should. Odds are though that they think your going to go to the next better thing that comes along. Now I don't know you and I'm not saying thats something you would do, just what is most likly going to the insecure guys head when hes talking to you.
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Review and advice requested
Posted: 5/9/2009 10:52:52 AM
Het Doyle.

From what I can see on your profile it looks really good. The only thing I would change is the part about your morphine pump and your neurostimulator. I'd save that for a conversation later on.

As for your subject lines in emails. I agee the standard Hi or hello type thing is lame and isn't exactly original. I'd put something that grabs her attention, makes her wonder, that sort of thign. Like if theres a quote in there try and work that into it. If all else fails and you can't find anything for your subject, try something goofy.

Good luck buddy, lord knows we all need it on this site LOL
 Snowman_x81
Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
So I am seeing a cop and...
Posted: 5/9/2009 12:56:13 AM
ok something you need to know about cops right off the bat. When you deal with the scum of society on a daily basis it tends to skew your outlook. You develop a very dark sense of humor that not to many people understand. Cut the guy a little slack, give him call and see what happens. I wouldn't bother bringing up the comment. If he wants to see you again he will.
 
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