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PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 17 (view)

Pansexuals and dating Posted: 9/9/2009 6:42:55 PM
I like how you're all about telling you what "we" pansexuals like or don't like, do or don't do, etc. How about getting out from behind your label and just saying what YOU like or don't like, do or don't do?

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 52 (view)

Re: what is the most perverted thing that you have ever done? Posted: 9/7/2009 7:26:42 PM
I don't use coupons at the grocery store, specifically on days that they double and triple them.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 80 (view)

ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends? Posted: 9/7/2009 7:21:56 PM
If you want to keep things of that nature, then I would highly advise putting them away; as far away from prying eyes as possible. I understand keeping bits of the past and agree to a certain extent, but it would be extremely disrespectful to show those pictures unless it was her idea. Even then, I'd probably leave them stuffed in a box on the top shelf with a lot of dust on top.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

How do you let a guy know... Posted: 9/7/2009 7:17:33 PM
I'd say that it's a safe assumption that you like sex since it is ingrained in our psyche to like it. Survival of the species necessitates it. I'd probably just make light of the questions or change the subject if you feel that it's a bit early to talk about it. Who knew that the first date was too early to ask a girl if she'd fancy being blindfolded and tied to a ceiling fan and then spun around with a beer bottle up her a ss and flogged with a cane? Women are such complicated creatures.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 121 (view)

Women with multiple cats - sign of mental illness? Posted: 8/4/2009 10:59:51 AM
Sometimes I read threads like this and I laugh. It's not like the crazy hoarders are going to jump up and say "Yup, I'm ***ing nuts, I definitely wouldn't recommend dating me." Everyone thinks they're more or less "normal", but I* have found that most women that have more than a couple of animals are a little odd. See also: referring to animals as children, etc.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 73 (view)

The Four favourite questions guys love to ask.... Posted: 7/29/2009 10:23:00 AM
They're just feeler questions, jeesh. A guy is trying to get an idea of how you are sexually. If you answer NO, NO, NO, NO and just for asking, NO! then we know that you're boring. Anything other than that let's a guy decide how much fun you could potentially be.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 221 (view)

Women Peeing In The Men's Room Posted: 7/29/2009 10:19:11 AM
I think it's funny. :) It has happened plenty of times and they always seem to be having fun with it, so it's all good.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

No Upload link on the Images page? Posted: 7/4/2009 2:13:26 PM
thanks for the input. i got them uploaded, but it would be grand if it worked. Someone probably turned it off a while back because I had a hat that said F*ck on it and they got pissy.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 3 (view)

No Upload link on the Images page? Posted: 7/3/2009 3:18:21 PM
Yeah, that's what it used to look like. Now it's not there. I still see the old style page but with no upload link. Just a couple of minutes ago, after deleting all of my pictures there was a small upload banner above my inbox, so i used that. However, the images page is still not working.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 1 (view)

No Upload link on the Images page? Posted: 7/3/2009 2:40:25 PM
What's going on? I wanted to upload some new pictures, and there was no upload link. I tried deleting my old ones hoping it would allow me to throw new ones up there... Unfortunately not.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

Stuck at Coffee Posted: 5/28/2009 8:55:05 PM
maybe he just really likes coffee and assumes you do also. It's certainly not the most creative series of dates, but who knows. LOL

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Is gay cheating the same? Posted: 5/28/2009 8:53:13 PM
In my eyes, cheating with the same sex is worse than with a person of the opposite sex. If a person isn't upfront about their desire for people of both sexes, then how could you assume that they'd be truthful or upfront about anything? I.E. Girl comes home to her dude banging another dude. Now not only has he cheated on her, but he's also lied to her (by virtue of omission) about having homosexual tendencies. I'd consider it a betrayal and move on.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Question about shaved heads Posted: 5/4/2009 10:39:25 PM
From a dude who recently shaved it off, I say to hell with razor bald and viva la clippers! Velcro head is no joke, it sucks putting a shirt on when you shave it that close but can't get it squeaky clean. I just use some decent hair clippers with no guard daily and that seems to get me the most positive response.

PardonMeMiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 105 (view)

BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured?? Posted: 4/28/2009 9:03:24 PM
Why is it so hard to feel good about being fat? Seriously? Because it's unhealthy, in many instances unappealing to others and according to your response, yourself. If you're comfortable in your skin, then rock on! If not, then you need to find out why. Do a little soul searching and see what you find. If you are who you want to be, then the opinion of the masses won't be but a fleeting thought to you.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 195 (view)

Would you date a Tomboy ? Posted: 3/30/2009 7:46:55 PM
I'd actually prefer a tomboy in most cases. Most of my hobbies are active or related to the outdoors, so it seems to work out a bit better.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 101 (view)

Do you guys think this is fair? Posted: 1/23/2009 4:59:47 PM
The dude is a cheesedick. Not only because apparently you two have some sexual issues that neither of you seem to care enough to work through... but for the fact that you broke up with him 5 times and he didn't move along after breakup #1.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

How to Dominate? Posted: 1/17/2009 1:25:56 AM
Ha, telling someone how to dominate you. For some reason seems a lot like backseat driving.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs? Posted: 1/13/2009 9:11:28 PM
Different strokes for different folks. I happen to enjoy receiving them thoroughly when she's good at it.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Whats the polite way ..... Posted: 1/13/2009 9:59:18 AM
Try "Hold that thought, I'll be right back" and possibly throw in a "Keep yourself warmed up. "

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 318 (view)

HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 1/9/2009 9:59:54 AM
SassyButterfly2 or whatever, you sound pretty bitter. I'm guessing you've had more than one load shot in your mouth from a guy who never called you again. LOL @ the cup of piss.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 1016 (view)

Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/8/2009 8:40:31 PM
bigbrown- perception and reality are often quite different. You should understand that by now.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 978 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 1/7/2009 4:57:49 PM
coldlogic, that's solid logic! A good plan B is a huge plus.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

Sexy vehicles... not for looks, but what vehicles you had sex in. Posted: 1/6/2009 1:08:03 PM
I'm a big guy. Most cars are cramped with just me in them although I've put my Z71 to use a couple of times. It's just not optimal.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

oral Posted: 1/6/2009 12:00:43 PM
He can shack up with kittenhere, that way nobody is happy!

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 949 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 1/6/2009 1:30:23 AM
Good job on taking the high road after countless posts of name calling and condemning others for their opinions.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Reconstruction of male organs Posted: 1/4/2009 11:21:24 PM
LOL. Some of you folks should watch more HBO. I don't think you can just go buy a bigger pecker. I watched an interview with a guy who had one and it sounded like WAY more of a pain in the ass than any good that could come from it. And seriously folks, it's probably a good thing that they can't just bolt on a thunder**to every guy who wants one because we'd obviously hot rod those things like everything else in life. Guy A: "My robo-cock-a-saurus has 3.5 horsepower and a noise free pneumatic drive cylinder" Guy B: "My**o-danger has built in vibrators and will run for 9 hours on a charge" Guy C:"I've got you both beat, I bought the one that takes out the trash and washes dishes. My wife loves it!"

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

Does dating really mean sex with no committment? Posted: 1/4/2009 11:04:50 PM
Your definition is spot on in my opinion. In some instances of the "getting to know each other" process, sex can be part of it. So people who want to see the opportunity for sex without commitment will.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

Will you Miss Me? Posted: 1/4/2009 11:01:58 PM
Yeah, that's retarded. He wants some other vagina.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 67 (view)

lesbians who use toys Posted: 1/4/2009 1:27:46 AM
Ummm. Toys are not a man. Girls have holes, and often they feel good when those holes are ahem filled. As for the strapon query, I'd say that since having a phallus attached to your pelvis has worked REALLY well for a long time for men, that art was imitating life on that one. Again, a girl with a dildo does not equal a man. That's how life works. If it's not a man doing the filling then I don't see where the question comes in.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 124 (view)

When a Woman Isn't In the Mood: Posted: 1/3/2009 10:18:58 AM
Intents, she said "I can count on my hands the number of times I've said No while in a relationship..... and I would say 90% of those were medically related. " She could be counting freckles on her hands.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

Woman On Top & Male Orgasm Posted: 1/2/2009 2:40:03 PM
Hey razorface, stick to taking pictures. Talking trash is obviously not your specialty.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 779 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 1/2/2009 1:39:51 AM
Kittenhere is a retard. I'll come out and say it. Everyone in here has tried to have a tit for tat discussion and she regularly stoops to calling names, mis-quoting, etc.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 6 (view)

Do you prefer the older woman or the younger girl? Posted: 1/1/2009 2:48:32 PM
Obviously you don't, as most people don't believe their behaviors are strange. Why do you like men twice your age? Not condemning, just curious.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 73 (view)

Group Sex Posted: 1/1/2009 2:05:04 PM
See, that's the thing. In that instance, everyone ideally would be working for the common good. If the girls aren't interested in each other, then there is no point, at least from my naive point of view.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 70 (view)

Group Sex Posted: 1/1/2009 12:54:06 PM
I've never played that game because the variables were never right. Either the woman I was with was rowdy but had no interest in the ladyfolk or seperately, the girls that I met who were into that sort of thing were ... not my cup of tea.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

Who makes the moves now? Posted: 1/1/2009 10:05:53 AM
I've never once gotten upset that a girl I wanted to see again called me too soon.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 93 (view)

Condom Debate... Posted: 12/31/2008 2:48:03 PM
Good news! In Texas we have a device called a Sense of Humor. The good news is that it can be taught, although apparently it's a regional thing as it seems to flourish in the U.S. Hopefully it will be making its presence more widespread throughout coughCanadacough

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 87 (view)

Condom Debate... Posted: 12/30/2008 8:17:49 PM
Wow blonde, what a creative and entirely original thought?! I can't believe that millions of sexually active men haven't figured out that when you're having trouble climaxing due to a condom, that finishing it off with a blowjob works out pretty well!

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 1001 (view)

Men don't like TALL women Posted: 12/30/2008 12:59:20 PM
It's understandable though. To women, a relationship is all about the perception of security, and height plays a role in that. So do many, many other factors, but height is one that is very apparent and very easily discussed so it often takes the blame.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 382 (view)

how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 12/30/2008 12:54:07 PM
Does no one believe that sometimes it just doesn't happen to a guy, and as he gets older it gets harder for him to develop relationships?? Or are most of you too ignorant to understand that/refuse to acknowledge it. Dude, it doesn't "just happen" to anyone. Nobody is just walking around in the mall and stumbles into a naked girl bent over the water fountain. You don't just wake up with a vagina on your lap. It requires communication, self confidence and sometimes, if only the slightest bit, EFFORT. Get the ** off of your pity party bandwagon and go out and TALK TO GIRLS! Find the one who is worth waiting for, since sitting in your house jerking off isn't going to lead Miss Wonderful to your door. FWIW: Miss Wonderful in most cases would prefer that you know what you're doing with your**than be a virgin. Sorry, but it's the truth.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 731 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 12/30/2008 12:49:14 PM
That's an exciting little outburst of capitalization, poor grammar and improper punctuation! Thanks big_sexxy.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

Woman On Top & Male Orgasm Posted: 12/29/2008 1:19:21 PM
Some women are like baby giraffes when they get on top. No thanks to those, but bravo to the ones that put it on ya!

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 988 (view)

Men don't like TALL women Posted: 12/29/2008 1:17:29 PM
He's mad, maybe he feels threatened by your "athletic" thread.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 371 (view)

how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 12/29/2008 12:56:46 PM
A good friend of mine was a virgin up until this Christmas, at the ripe age of 23 he let that social stigma go. Every adult virgin I've met with the exception of 2 or 3 (religious reasons) were that way because of definite social problems and a lack of interaction with people. Some worse than others, but a good example was my friend. Completely incapable of talking to a woman that he did not know for any amount of time. Knock the shy mess off, get out more, get social. Go do something that forces you to interact with others (male and female) and eventually you're bound to meet someone who wants to talk to you. That's the first step, there are a few between, but that can eventually lead to gasp sex!

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 69 (view)

Condom Debate... Posted: 12/28/2008 10:16:00 PM
Vrb1955 "Good news, her mouth can't get pregnant!" And neither can yours! Are you saying that men should suck their own****? That's pretty creative but not terribly likely.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 3 (view)

Unable to post in a particular thread?
Posted: 12/28/2008 9:03:08 PM

Doh! Thanks for the answer.

Redundant - Closed Thread

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 1 (view)

Unable to post in a particular thread? [CLOSED Thread] Posted: 12/28/2008 8:55:20 PM
I was trying to post in the "horses a turn-0ff" thread in the ask a guy forum and for whatever reason it won't let me. The message wasn't exceptionally long or short. Any ideas? Thanks

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

When can you ask someone you're dating to leave POF? Posted: 12/28/2008 8:49:40 PM
LOL. Communication is just so hard sometimes, isn't it?

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Woman On Top & Male Orgasm Posted: 12/28/2008 6:09:53 PM
LOL, keith, that's rough. FWIW, it's spelled eclectic, OP.

pardonmemiss

Joined: 2/4/2006

Msg: 88 (view)

Briefs and other silly sexual turn offs Posted: 12/27/2008 11:45:29 PM
LOL. how long do most people wear their jeans? I can say mine are freshly laundered, but it appears I might be in the minority. Mmmmmm... spring fresh.

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