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 Author Thread: Why do girls want A-holes?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Why do girls want A-holes?
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:04:43 PM

don't be too hard on us....we , I, had really good intentions at the beginning of the relationship that I had like that. I just wanted to be a nice girlfriend...or what ever it was that I was to him...

you men need to really understand that we women think with our hearts....sadly, the brain stops working when the heart gets in the way.

These men who treat women like they are nothing of value usually capture our hearts because most of us women think we can help them...fix them up......

you guys who are mansions, hold on...once you find a girl who figures out that the fixer-uppers are too much pain to handle,and we get our heads out of our buts, then we are ready for you real men...we never want the a-holes...its just a hard lesson that most of us have to figure out the hard way.

Keep being nice guys....you won't finish last.


I must disagree with this. The a-holes get to have you when you are still willing to take risks and have a little fun. By the time a nice guy comes along you are so cautious that you make him miserable.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Why do girls want A-holes?
Posted: 5/25/2009 4:06:20 PM
Well that is an a-hole for? Apparently those particular -girls- you are referring to enjoy being shit on.

There are other things that set them apart that aren't too difficult to spot. Why don't you start by looking at what kind of guys their ex's were. If you are priviliged enough to have a choice I'd suggest not picking the girl that has an angry temperment or the snobby judgemental type.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
can a relatoinship be without sex
Posted: 5/25/2009 4:02:11 PM
I was 23 dating an 18 year old last year. Reasons the sex stopped:
1) I didn't buy her something every time she wanted it.
2) I wouldn't drive 25 miles just to go have lunch with her at work one time.
3) I got mad at her for talking trash about my friend.
4) I was looking for a real relationship, she said she wasn't.

I'm going to be blunt. Your case sounds wayyyy too familiar just in a different part of life. Pay particular attention to #4. That is all.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
I'd call it a preventitive review.
Posted: 5/24/2009 3:58:24 AM
If you don't care then why are you asking for help with your profile? It's there to give an impression of you so a woman might actually want to talk to you. If negativity and defensiveness could be made into liquid form and marketed it would be called "female repellant."
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
I'd call it a preventitive review.
Posted: 5/24/2009 2:08:34 AM
Everyone else has given you good advice about your profile. I'd suggest implementing it. However, I must add that you shouldn't be making all of those negative posts. People can check your post history from your profile.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
what am i doing wrong. or is this website just not very good
Posted: 5/24/2009 1:59:58 AM
Ok ,first thing - don't be offended. This is only my opinion and I don't claim to be an expert.

The things you mention in your profile are fine; you don't need to take anything out. I think they just need a little editing. Try not to use the same words over and over and try grouping facts relating to the same thing together, instead of going back and forth from sentence to sentence. It just kinda looks like you wrote it in a hurry and didn't really edit much. I can't say for sure that it matters, but who knows? Your picture isn't bad either, but again a positive change you could make is having yourself centered a little better in your main pic.

When you're browsing profiles and you see a woman who has similar interests, talk about those in your message. Try throwing in a question or two about them. Questions show you're really interested and will provoke a response more often. More than half of the women I have contacted have responded, but then again I am on the other side of the ocean so maybe things are different over there. This is the first time I've reviewed someones profile and be warned I'm only 24 so what the heck do I really know? LOL. Hope it helps anyway though.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Sexy Toys+Alabama = Jail Time
Posted: 5/24/2009 1:14:51 AM
The real funny thing is that its mostly conservatives that come up with stupid crap like this and alabama keeps voting for republican white collar criminals. LOL wake up people!
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Friends Vs GirlFriend/Boyfriend
Posted: 5/23/2009 5:08:08 PM
...Most women I date are not into sports as I am, so then they can't give me a good tennis match, or they can't provide me with company to watch the game while drinking and screaming at the television.

No, guy time is very important.


You'll change your mind when you meet one that will also watch sports, drink, bbq, and scream at the tv, use a lawnmower/weedeater, and who's nearly your equal in physical strength. I used to be with one. There's a lot less stress over the time issue with a huge gray area like that.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Friends Vs GirlFriend/Boyfriend
Posted: 5/23/2009 4:50:48 PM
You shouldn't favor one over the other that's the wrong place to set your boundaries. The right place to set them would be not having friends dictate your relationship and not having a bf/gf who doesn't like when you go out with your friends. Both of those matters are up to you. Other than that if you make plans with one don't break them for the other unless its a special occasion - which more than likely will favor the bf/gf. Also, who says you can't all go out as a group sometimes?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 59 (view)
 
what woman really want!!
Posted: 5/23/2009 10:03:51 AM
Every billboard on the highway says about the same thing too. From my experiences women want a man who shows concern for what they want, and is unphased when he doesn't get what he wants. Ladies does that sound pretty close?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 177 (view)
 
Too Old, Too Fat, Too Ugly, Too Dumb!
Posted: 5/23/2009 9:48:27 AM
When I was a kid I was too fat. When I was a teenager I was too dumb. Now I'm too ugly. In the year 2045 I'll be too old. I wouldn't change a thing either because people are entitled to their opinions and I am entitled to my right not to be swayed by them. Well the point is everyone knows their flaws, you just have to act as if you have none and treat everyone else as if they have none. Isn't that what we all want?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 93 (view)
 
I'm out of your league
Posted: 5/23/2009 9:32:10 AM
It's psychological warfare used to weed out low confidence. I think they are trying to make it clear that you're gonna have to work hard, but they don't realize their approach can be counterproductive. They are just coming off as snobby or conceited to some. The best thing to do when you see that and you still are interested for whatever reason is walk right up like you dont give a flying **** about that little statement be geniunely kind and impervious to any attacks on character (or ignore it and send a message anyway if you are on this site). Then you'll find out whats behind that mask.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 522 (view)
 
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 7:43:08 PM
OP you sound like you would be happier in one of those countries where they make their women cover up from head to toe.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Will He Commit Or What
Posted: 5/20/2009 7:42:16 AM
The best thing you can do is not focus on or bring up any commitment ideas around him for a while and continue to get him more and more comfortable with you etc. Do not apply any pressure whatsoever, and definately make sure you know you didn't do anything to cause this. I'd say its worth at least another year and then if theres still no progress... yea, then its your call.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 513 (view)
 
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 4:04:27 AM
OP you cannot honestly say you never in your life checked out some eye candy while you were in a relationship. Everyone looks. Everyone has crazy stuff in their head that they would never act out. A nice escape from reality from time to time is nice. How else could we define sanity without insanity? Bottom line looking is harmless and practically everyone is going to do it. You are simply noticing the ones who aren't trying so hard to hide it. The only time you should worry is if the person starts flirting vocally.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Dating single women with children.
Posted: 5/20/2009 3:54:01 AM
Nope. You know you'd prefer not to have children for whatever reasons and are wise to seek out a relationship where there are none or will not be any - where you know you are more likely to succeed. You are also not expecting perfection though and seem like your open minded about it at the same time. Anyone that doesn't like your view should matter to you as much as the price of peaches in Afghanistan. You're not doing anything wrong at all. You won't hear as much from those who agree you have a right to certain preferences. After all, bickering seems to be a more popular activity than agreeing with people.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 38 (view)
 
OPEN Relationships.
Posted: 5/20/2009 3:35:34 AM
I guess I could say at one point I was in a one-sided on again off again relationship that lasted too long. By one sided I mean that now I can look back and see that we were never on the same page at the same time really. It was kind of like an open relatinoship at times because when we were apart we still had sex once in a while and even mentioned the term open relationship. Now I'm just like "what the heck was I thinking?" Stress relief maybe? A familiar face is always nice to have as company. IMO an "open relationship" falls into that big gray area along with friends with benefits, F-buddies, and on again off agains that never end. What gray area you ask? Well you have love then you have indifference. I speak of the gray area in between those two. So first comes love then comes sex? Sometimes it can work the other way around. I think most of the time an open relationship will end when one partner starts to feel something for the other. It seems to me it would take 2 strong willed or just plain cold hearted people to have one that lasts indefinately. It's bound to happen given enough time and then starts the jealousy and the drama bla bla etc. We are hard wired to pair off whether we like the idea or not. Unless you practically write out a contract about what you both expect from an open relationship from the very beginning you'll more than likely run into trouble when one of you gets caught up in the moment and starts having feelings. I'm no expert, but I've seen it and experienced it sorta - that's just me though.

 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Masturbation, How often is normal?
Posted: 5/12/2009 11:10:37 AM
I can't help but wonder if Shakespeare ever wrote about this stuff and they just never taught us about it in school. If you have lost a considerable amount of water weight in one day, if you have calluses on more than just your hands, if it is causing serious physical injury to yourself or others, or if you cannot remember how many times it has been since your last meal, then that may be going a bit overboard. Otherwise have fun.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Do women really bond with men just because they have sex w/them?
Posted: 5/12/2009 10:37:21 AM
I just thought that I would point out that men and women both have oxytocin. Women just USUALLY have more. It's the same with estrogen and testosterone we both have both.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Gals in commando
Posted: 5/12/2009 10:27:40 AM
Wow I didn't realize women had this issue. I think I'm going to wash every chair in my house now. Never know who it could belong to.


How do you recognize the commando lady?

Usually accidently.

Maybe you girls should just save the commando thing for your SO's?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Going down on her
Posted: 5/12/2009 1:58:51 AM
lol this isn't as hard as you are making it out to be. Definately DO NOT ASK. She will think you don't have a pair. DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. If you must have a lesson... I hope you at least start kissing before sex. Go from mouth to breasts and then slowly move down... simple. The last girl I was with WAITED UNTIL I WAS DONE to say "whoa! I wasnt expecting that!"
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Tear me a new one! LOL
Posted: 5/11/2009 4:55:16 AM
I'd like a bit of constructive criticism please. I think I did pretty well myself, but my own opinion is probably a little biased . So lemme know what you guys think of it. Fans, show your support. Wolves, rip me a new one.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 501 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/10/2009 9:08:39 AM
It wasn't a threat, I am entitled to my own preferences (a sweet woman), and I even specifically stated that a woman does not have to agree with me all the time. I also never said I was talking about YOU. You are a bit out of my age range. I just took a moment to scim over your post history and there is not a single post by you that isn't loaded with negativity about men. I hate to say it but please take a moment to reread what you have posted. You are making yourself sound sexist. The OP is a man, and you were trying to dictate what it is that he should have named his title. You also are doubting our reaction to a hypothetical situation just because we are men. You don't seem to care to understand what I am saying you just seem to want to win an argument with a man. Would you respond to me the same way if I was a woman? When are you going to start focusing this energy on those who oppose you and less on turning everything that I say around? I'm actually on your side. Read more carefully?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 498 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/10/2009 8:39:25 AM
Lol pay attention. You mentioned that men should be grateful that women are willing to forgive and forget any wrong-doing done by men yet you yourself are ranting about it. So you are not adhering to what you say. Being sweet and agreeable is your own choice. I certainly wouldn't see myself dating a woman who hated men or wasn't sweet, but she doesnt have to agree with me all the time.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 496 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/10/2009 8:05:31 AM
What I don't understand are the women that come on here saying that any man posting on this thread must be unhappy or hate women in some way. Go back and look at all the man-bashing a lot of women on here are doing. Those are the things I am addressing. It's a form of hypocrisy. I'm not engaging in a gender battle. All of this mess is caused by the simple fact that traditional gender roles are no longer gender dependant. The other point I was trying to make is that even though that is the case the genders aren't JUDGED equally for whatever role they take. A stay at home dad is looked down upon by a lot of people. And FYI I have a liberal viewpoint. -Takes cover-
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 598 (view)
 
for the ladies....can you TRULY say money ain't a factor?
Posted: 5/10/2009 7:30:08 AM
There are some that money is a factor for and some that are geniune. Nothing really wrong with wanting a partner with at least equal income though. An easy way to tell a money lover is if she tries speeding things up. You can't expect one to admit it on a dating site can you?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 481 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/9/2009 2:24:42 PM
LOL ~Babe In The Woods~ that's just gonna open a whole new can of worms.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Online dating doesn't work
Posted: 5/9/2009 2:09:23 PM
LOL you've been on here less than 3 months. I've been here 3 days... EXCHANGED emails with 10 different women, gotten a request for MY #, and I haven't given or received any confessions of love or marriage proposals. You just aren't doing something right. I also don't see how this form of "shopping" is any different than what you do in person other than feeling a bit less pressured maybe. Get DOWN off your high horse and tilt your chin UP.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 478 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/9/2009 1:37:20 PM
Finally a woman on this thread who gets what I've been trying to say!
My work here is done lol.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Will you marry me?
Posted: 5/9/2009 1:13:25 PM
I certainly don't think women want to hear that, at least not for a longg time and definately not over email LOL. I also don't say things just to deliberately impress women, I just speak my mind. That guy is just starving for attention or something. Ummm figure out some polite way to say whoa horsey I guess lol.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Can someone please explain what my ex is trying to accomplish?
Posted: 5/9/2009 12:14:28 PM
She's handing you a big ol dookey sandwich and you're gobbling it up and asking for seconds. This has been going on for what? 10 years? You've had issues since the beginning, and now that you've been apart for a few years she's still giving you just a hint of attention to keep you hooked. And you love every bit of it. Why? Because its not enough to satisfy it's just enough to keep you around and she knows it. She's cruel, manipulative, and doesnt mean anything she says. The garbage about missing you and talking about your plans of having kids or whatnot served its purpose. It kept you hooked. Why else would you mention it? You can practically recite every line she's spoken to you over these years of seperation even tho she claims you aren't even friends. And why would you want to continue to stick around and play games if you have gained he upper hand? Enough said. I've seen it and experienced it. Nothing good will come of it. SHES TROUBLE. If you have already distanced yourself keep it that way. Change your phone numbers IM screen names email everything. Even change your username on here since she recommended you hell she could be on this forum.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 470 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/9/2009 10:50:02 AM
Ok forumologist I got all of the points covered. ME: "Basically, if you want to be equal just do it, but dont have too much pride to help out your fellow man just as we helped you in the past."--- YOU: "Is this another one of those myths that men helped women. No, you did not...Although the majority of men opposed the idea of women voting in parliamentary elections, some leading male politicians supported universal suffrage." ---So if you were not allowed to vote obviously this minority of MEN who actually saw the big picture actually pressed for the majority to comply. Since you were unable to vote at the time who do you think voted to allow women's suffrage in the first place? YOU:"Please don't take credit for something you didn't do. I realise you want to distance yourself from the disgraceful behavior of men in the (recent) past and even in the present but that's not really my problem is it. I can't allow you to spread lies to suit yourself."--- If men didn't see the err of their ways and amend their laws then who did? Aliens? Since when did I say that I had any sort of problem with men? My problem is with women like you who think that we men of the present who actually believe that equality is a good idea are the ones that get run over by you women who are mad about the past and think we owe you something. Further supporting my ideology that we will experience too large a shift past equality and into feminism if those like you do not realize the err of your ways as the men of the past did.---YOU:"You lecture women about gratitude. Hmmm. If anyone should be grateful here it's you guys - grateful that we are willing to forgive and forget and you know it. I personally don't want or need your gratitude and I have no desire to disadvantage you. All I want is a decent attitude and an end to the put downs insisting we are inferior and you deserve to be top dog lol. It is you who have a problem with pride, not women IM not so HO. "--- If you are willing to forgive and forget then what are you so mad about? Lecture? I merely pointed out what you seem to not realize happend in the first place. When did I ever insist you are inferior and that we are top dogs? Weren't those the offenses of the generations of the past? Are we to be crucified for them? We're giving you what you want and you are complaining as if we owe it to you to punish ourselves. This only further supports my theory. If you have no want or need to disadvantage us then why are you pressing so hard to plunge this country and the rest of the world into a new era of feminism? Inequality balanced by inequality.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
i need serious help when it comes to talking to women
Posted: 5/9/2009 10:08:39 AM
It seems you already have one in mind; thats a start. If you know something that interests her use that as a conversation starter, but before you even approach her think of something you're really passionate about like your favorite music or a sport you're really into, or the most exciting thing you ever did that you could do again and just imagine how awesome that is/was to you. Then just go up and say hi while you're in that mindset. Even imagine her as the goal of that day or event if you have to. It will come natural as long as you keep that energy focused. Never start off talking about yourself. Progress from something she likes to mutual interests to the things your most passionate about. You'll lose yourself in your own interests once you get a chance to talk about them, so that confidence won't even be an issue. She'll love the enthusiasm you display while talking about your interests. Just don't go overboard about you. Get to the point and then ask her if shed like to do __________ or go to ___________ with you. At this point you'll already know what she likes.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 106 (view)
 
IS HONESTY A BAD THING?
Posted: 5/9/2009 9:03:19 AM
I don't think either person should expect the other to spend much if anything on a first date. You're just getting to know eachother... Do you think he would be "cheap" if you weren't little more than stranger? You said yourself you didn't feel any real chemistry. What do you want to fall in love with a person or some green paper? At least save that sort of judgement for a 2nd date. Did you pay for anything? Does that make you a tight wad?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 466 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/9/2009 8:50:21 AM
I may be wrong but look at it this way. You take a group that was oppressed at some point in history. Then finally they are given the same freedoms as the oppressors. There is no equality. It's just like the stock market it rises and crashes. You won't find a flat line anywhere. Same here. The unintended consequence may in fact be too big of a swing more towards feminism than actual equality. Basically, if you want to be equal just do it, but dont have too much pride to help out your fellow man just as we helped you in the past.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 464 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/9/2009 8:15:36 AM
I hate to break up the party here but you guys are all mostly 10, 20, or even more years older than I am and my post on the previous page is just about the only one on at least the last 3 pages that actually answers the OP and doesn't consist of arguing back and forth... OP: "Are Men Obsolete?" not "Feminism vs Chauvinism"
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 161 (view)
 
How to measure your D ick the correct way..
Posted: 5/9/2009 7:42:38 AM
Those of you measuring...LOL you're supposed to start at the aft of the shaft not the back of the sack.

 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 158 (view)
 
How to measure your D ick the correct way..
Posted: 5/9/2009 7:36:17 AM
ROFL, what does it say about a guy that has to advertise in the first place? Much less lie about it. More insecurities i presume? So you got a small one AND your a liar? Oh and then you became a disappointment. Thats strike three. Better luck next time. Oh and Holy Man wheres the study they did to find out what kind of people actually participate in studies? The more insecure guys are the curious ones so naturally those numbers arent gonna be accurate at all one way or the other.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Difference between a slut and a stud??
Posted: 5/9/2009 6:53:35 AM
It's not a double standard. The only reason women are criticized more for being a slut than a man is for being a stud is that it's perceived that submitting yourself to several partners would prove much less difficult than winning over several partners. The illusion is sexual prowess vs lack of inhibition. I don't think highly of either and I'm a 24 year old MAN. Have some respect for yourself guys and for the women too. We're living in the 2nd millenium not the stone ages, and don't come crying when your middle aged alone and noone will date you because of your track record and you've lost that charm you so wrecklessly exploited. If you wanna spread your "seed" so badly go donate to a sperm bank and save all that energy for one good woman. Honestly I cheated when I was a teenager and I felt like something that came from the rear end of a donkey. If you want a flip side version of it consider this. A stud is gonna break many more hearts than a slut because it's usually good hearted women that fall for the game so you're no better(maybe worse) than your female counterpart. Grow up both of you! lol.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
he kissed my hand
Posted: 5/9/2009 6:44:51 AM
IMO this guy just sounds like he may have been hurt in the past, be it your typical serial heartbreak story or just one really traumatic one - such as being falsely accused. Maybe everyone gets suspicious just as you are and eventually pull away and he has no idea why. Just relax. Your a woman and odds are in your favor that if there was something fishy it would surface. You obviously love every minute of it so why complain? This is the problem we men face. He's just showing you how much he really cares for you and how foolish it would be not to open your eyes to it. So relax and enjoy.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 460 (view)
 
Are US Men Obsolete?
Posted: 5/9/2009 6:20:52 AM
Ok lets be ridiculous first. If you want a conspiracy theory think about all the sperm banks. Theoretically we men really are obsolete because we really arent needed anymore. We've already given what is needed. Kinda like the black widow that eats the male eh, but anyway...
Actually noone should be laughing at this post really. The disadvantage that we men have is that we're becoming the victims of a double standard. It's by no fault of any one woman but just a consequence of an ever changing society. Women want to be our equals but the woman that cannot acheive her goals can still fall back on traditions which have been around since society told them they were not our equals. A man has a seemingly set path in life, to become self sufficient. This is by no means any fault to women but to society as a whole. There would be no trouble if all women wanted to be housewives, all women wanted to be independent, or the idependent women were all willing to take care of the less fortunate male partner and vice versa. It's the transition thats really got men in a bind right now. Women have every right to become our equals but they must accept the total package in order to do so.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Have You Ever Imagined being the Opposite Gender during Sex?
Posted: 5/9/2009 5:44:59 AM
My point exactly. It would be much easier to imagine the other person was also female. But I'm not supposed to go there. I certainly don't see any straight guy wanting to imagine interacting with that part of another males anatomy. As I said imagining how it feels is a totally different subject. He specifically said *during sex*. Some of the other posters started carrying on about switching bodies and then some of the guys went all crazy over it. That's what I was trying to shed some light on.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Joint Bank Accounts Good or Bad Idea
Posted: 5/9/2009 4:56:41 AM
If both partners are financially competent a joint account is ok as long as each of you also have your own individual accounts for personal spending. If one partner is bad with money it may be more wise to either, a) have the other partner in charge of the important finances or, b) require both parties present to utilize the joint account.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Have You Ever Imagined being the Opposite Gender during Sex?
Posted: 5/9/2009 4:30:58 AM
Let's break it down reality check style. 100% of people posting on this thread have had at least some form of curiosity of this manner, 90% of men would never admit it/are a bit homophobic (insecurity?), 0% of people on this thread are anything but heterosexual (how could this question possibly apply to anyone else?). However, because of the difference in moral standards and expectations between the 2 sexes, being a MAN going through such a thing without utilizing a blindfold would require many many years of therapy to cope with the PTSD that would be inflicted by submitting to yourself. Feeling what a woman feels is one thing (there are other ways of going about it), but no guy wants to imagine doing himself. At least thats my take on it, but what do I know?
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
women want real love,affection,romance, when they get it they bail. whats the deal?
Posted: 5/9/2009 3:57:03 AM
The thrill of the chase maybe? The fish already stole the bait so it looks for more bait. The harsh and cruel reality of it is after showing the bait you gotta set the hook and deny the fish what it wants in order to reel it in. If only 90% of women or perhaps all people in general didn't work that way we might all be a little happier, and there would be a few million less subscribers to sites like this one.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Ladies stop settling for bootycall status...
Posted: 5/9/2009 2:44:56 AM
Learn from it and move on.
 rockNracingUofA
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Ladies stop settling for bootycall status...
Posted: 5/9/2009 2:39:43 AM
LoL the problem is when the guy tries to be nice the woman runs over HIM. This is reality - it's a two-way street. If you ain't right for eachother one's gonna steamroll the other more times than not.
 
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