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passionspurpleessence

Joined: 2/4/2006

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I FOUND THE ONE! Posted: 5/30/2007 12:41:48 AM
I think your missing the point here chainsaw, if someone finds the person that makes them feel like they have butterflies, cant wait to see each other at the end of the day, gets excited even when the phone rings and its them, and they feel that way about you too then by all means you have found THE ONE. Sure it doesnt mean that there is not someone else out there who may make you feel all those things too but once you have what you feel you were looking for all along you dont need to find that other one, your search is over. Weather they are out there or not doesnt really matter any more if you are both happy and in love thats all that matters. Congrats to all of you who feel they have found their true mate, gives hope to all us hopeless romantics still looking... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Expain the phrase My children are my top priority? Posted: 5/6/2007 2:06:12 PM
I think in a sense anyone who puts that in their profile are only trying to tell the potential person they want to see is that the children will at some point be included in outings. Our children should always be the focus in our lives, especially those who still have young kids. A lot of men on here only have their kids for a certain amount of time weekends every second week and so forth, some women also for that matter. Its just a heads up that you may make plans to do something together and because of commitment to their kids may have to change or cancel the plans. Also to let that other person know that its important at some point that you wouldnt mind the kids be involved depending how far into a relationship you get... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Am I over reacting? Posted: 4/14/2007 10:33:00 PM
sorry to go off topic: congratulations bucsgirl, I have known you here for those two years now and know how happy you two are from all your posts through that time. Glad its working out for you. Enjoy... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Local Bands Posted: 4/13/2007 1:40:42 PM
Aging myself here but along with Rush I have seem Chilliwack, April Wine, The Guess Who, some went on to be BTO, they all played my high school and went on to be great Canadian bands and still around for the most part making the club circuits awwwwww those were the days..... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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When your just not attracted, to, well....anyone Posted: 4/13/2007 12:44:44 PM
I think you tend to be a very creative person, unfortunately we get bored very easy. Not only with things we are doing at any given moment but the people we are seeing or hanging out with also. someone you find attractive one minute may get on your nerves the next. I know you understand what Im saying, hang in there you will get your mojo back. Take time for you do something new or someone... lol... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Am I over reacting? Posted: 4/13/2007 11:34:39 AM
Dont give up there are a lot of honest women here who do want to find a genuine man who says what he means. Your right Jackie talking to someone for that long does not make a relationship but it does give you the right to expect that your on the same page, I have mentioned in previous forums about honesty there are far too many people here who are not being honest on their profiles ( nothing new) not even being honest when they start to chat or talk on the phone, you even meet and get the same story then all of a sudden after investing time in getting to know one another its not what they want at all cant speak for the women here but a lot of the men just want a one night stand, if thats the case why not say so Im tired of time invested just to find out these men are not honest in what they say and want. So I guess it works the same for women just wish some out there would stop wasting the time of us here who are really looking for someone to share good times with and have a real life together... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Good girls.... do they exist or are they all gone by the age 24 Posted: 4/13/2007 12:27:57 AM
Once said by the infamous Mae West (was known as a real sex pot and way before her time).... When Im good Im very very good but when Im bad Im better... I really dont think any woman is just good or bad hopefully we are decent people with a touch of badness for when its called for... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Is there really someone out there for everyone? Posted: 4/12/2007 7:16:21 PM
I agree with some of the others, your so young still slow down take your time have some fun. I too believe there is someone for everyone you just have to know how to recognise it when he finds you. Believe me he will find you dont try to look so hard it has to happen naturally, and you will know when it does, a certain feeling you get when he just looks at you the butterflies when you kiss all the signs will be there... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Not honest on profile Posted: 4/11/2007 2:45:05 PM
My biggest disappointment on this site is the fact that people are not honest. I have met several men who have certain things in their profiles, you have an expectation after talking a while that things are going well you meet it seems to being going well also have a nice time together. All the time you have invested in chatting and meeting you think you have things in common and want the same in life and BAM your not inviting him to your bed the first date thats it your not going to hear from him again. I can not understand why it is so hard for a man (or a woman for that matter, I cant say about them cause I havnt dated one) to be honest up front just want a friend with benefits or when your talking let the other person know this, there are women out there who will be willing to go out with guys anyways not looking for anything long term themselves. I think if those type of men were honest and not saying they want long term when they dont they will find it easier to meet someone on the same page. Men and women want a lot of the same things plenty of women are willing to just date have a guy or two they have sex with, as well as share good times out. I just wish more people out there would say what they really want it would make the whole internet dating experience a lot healthier, more fun, and less wasted time... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Has anyone emailed someone that they wouldn't date? Posted: 4/11/2007 2:28:27 PM
I have sent e-mail to several people who I thought their profile was written well or that I felt we had things in common, not that I wouldnt date them necessairly but that they were probably far away. I have even sent mail just to tell someone how attractive I thought they were... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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can men fall in love after a couple weeks??? Posted: 4/10/2007 2:19:40 PM
Thats not love Amanda, thats ownership. Your lucky you got out in a couple of months. You dont want to be with someone who confuses possessiveness with love... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Is there such a thing called LOVE? Posted: 4/9/2007 6:39:40 PM
Well Mike just my opinion Im not sure about the other ladies but when you put other relationship as to what you are looking for some may not even bother to read further cause it seems other is just another way of saying your looking for intimate encounters. Now I know that isnt necessarily so other can mean your looking for a partner for the gym etc you get my drift, but be more specific in your about me what your looking for in a woman... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

Joined: 2/4/2006

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can men fall in love after a couple weeks??? Posted: 4/7/2007 12:23:22 PM
I think yes you can fall in love at first sight, its when you start to know more about the person that you can fall out of love just as fast. Love at first sight is just a physical type of lust, happens all the time. If you fall in love quickly just make sure its real take the time to get to know the person and see if its the whole package not just the physical... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

Joined: 2/4/2006

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How many messages a day do u get on average? Posted: 4/7/2007 12:16:28 PM
I only get one or two a week, but thats from people I chat with that I met in the forums. A couple of people from here I keep in touch with on the phone or through messenger, been here off and on for a while now and made a few friends... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 4/6/2007 10:37:28 AM
I was married to a man for 29 years who was and still is a pot ( preferably hash really) smoker and I was not, it didnt have any effect on the relationship he was not a drinker at all and used to tell me you never see a guy have a few tokes and cause a fight but there are plenty of guys who will drink and cause one. He is a hard working man and a great dad and I didnt see it effect our relationship at all. So to answer the original question yes there can be a relationship between a smoker and a non smoker. As for some of the other threads I read here concerning this I agree completely with Edwardo about the whole BC economy I have been here for 16 years now from Montreal and even in the lean times its been better than back east... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Trying to post a testimonial for a favorite man Posted: 3/30/2007 11:44:37 AM
I posted a testimonial for someone and it went on their profile right away sorry dont know what the problem may be for you. I know that only you or the person you posted for can delete it, admin can probably delete also if they dont approve. Good luck hon hope you get that fixed... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Trying to post a testimonial for a favorite man Posted: 3/30/2007 9:28:44 AM
Did you ask him first if he wanted a testimonial, some people dont and they can delete it if they choose .... Im not positive but I think thats how it works, anyone else know more... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

Joined: 2/4/2006

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Does everyone in this world really have a soulmate? Posted: 3/27/2007 12:33:45 PM
well dusty knight your soul mate is not a clone of ones self where did you ever get that idea. Yes you can have similarities but usually opposites attract. Like you I was married a long time 29 years, I know he was not my soul mate part of why I chose to be single after all that time, and nowhere is it stated that a soul mate has to be your love mate, your best friend for life you can also consider your soul mate, some people do. Just my opinion... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Should women stop wearing sexy underwear at age 35 ? Posted: 3/27/2007 12:15:23 PM
A woman of any age should wear what she feels comfortable with. I think most woman will agree here that we have different undies or teddies whatever the case may be for different occasions. Being a rounder curvier woman I prefer teddies or high cut briefs but by all means if you feel you have the body for a thong you go girl no matter what your age... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Read this and you will know for sure about soulmates! Posted: 3/26/2007 9:20:04 PM
Noun soulmate 1. Someone with whom one has a special, almost spiritual connection. as defined in Wickipedia... dont give up believing lost soul, if your soul mate is out there you will be found... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Does everyone in this world really have a soulmate? Posted: 3/26/2007 2:56:42 PM
Yes I truely do believe. I believe in destiny and kismet, there is someone for everyone out there. I also believe you have to let it find you, sometimes it takes a while. I also think that you may have found who you might think to be your soul mate but if that other person doesnt believe in soul mates it still may work out for you, but if your both believers thats where the fire works happen. Just my opinion but I think a lot of people also believe... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Sex chat too fast Posted: 3/22/2007 3:02:55 PM
I dont think there is anything wrong with sexy flirting all in fun when your getting to know someone here and on the phone, but at least you know early into it if a guy is just asking you sex questions and preferences and wants to cyber that hes not interested in anything more no matter what else he tells you. Cause if he wanted a serious relationship it wouldnt necessarily be with a woman who will cam or cyber on a first meet (there we go with those double standards again) guys do it its fine women do it were hoes. Dont get me wrong there are plenty of women out there who enjoy that sort of thing, sex is awesome when its with the right person, phone sex can be fun, but I agree with some of the other posters theres nothing as good as the real thing... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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TRUE INTENTIONS? OR WORKIN ME OVER? YOU TELL ME Posted: 3/9/2007 3:19:16 AM
Well bobsleder I think the intentions remark might have been directed at me.I do not think nor did I say that she would know what his intentions were after just one message or writing in the sand, I said if she was planning on keeping in touch with him and chatting she would in time know if his intentions were true. Sorry I should have been more specific, its late. We dont know what he wrote in the sand but she seems to be taken by it, just be careful whatever you decide... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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TRUE INTENTIONS? OR WORKIN ME OVER? YOU TELL ME Posted: 3/9/2007 3:01:38 AM
The romantic in me says he is very sweet and wanted to take your mind of your bad date. Reminds me of Johnny Depp in Benny & Joon. Just what I pictured when I was reading your post. But yes do be careful, keep a distance till you know him better. If he is maybe interested in you, he knows you just had a break up or a bad date tell him you want to take it slow get to know him first see where it goes, if he is true to his feelings he will let you have your space. You will be able to tell by his behavior what his intentions truly are. Good luck... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Racism....Is everyone in some form or other a racist? Posted: 3/7/2007 3:41:49 PM
ARE WE GREATER THAN THE SUN THAT SHINES ON EVERYONE. RED, YELLOW, BLACK OR WHITE, THE SUN DOES NOT DISCRIMINATE... Read this a very long time ago and loved what it says. I have always lived my life and treated others the way I would want to be treated. My best friend is Muslim, I have dated men because of who they are not what color or religion they may be. As far as I am concerned we are all the same we all bleed the same, hurt the same may have different views and opinions on things but thats what makes the world so interesting. If people would just educate themselves a little on something that may interest them about a different culture we would all live in a better place... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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troubles saying i love you Posted: 3/1/2007 11:18:30 PM
I think its important to let the people in your life know how you feel about them. I know its not always easy, when I was younger I kept my feelings to myself a lot of the time. As I got older I realized that I may not be here one day and the ones I love wouldnt know how I feel about them, I try to tell them each chance I get. I love both my daughters and three grandkids with all my heart, I love my mom and both my brothers are very dear to me. I love you to sexxxy, (you know who you are) It does get easier, just remember what you have lost in the past because of it and that may give you the courage in the future. Good luck to you... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Sexless Dating Posted: 3/1/2007 4:20:15 PM
I dont think there is a simple yes or no answer to this question. I have gone on plenty of dates where there was no sex involved, then again I have dated where there was. It really all depends on the person your with, how long you have been with them, what is the level of attraction. I would not be the type of person who could be dating someone for an extended period of time and not have sex, it is an important part of a relationship to me. There is also the lusty attraction factor that may happen on a first or second date at times (it does happen to all of us) not all react on it but it happens. So therefor I have to say depends on the people involved... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Plentyoffish turns 4 years old today. Posted: 3/1/2007 3:55:33 PM
Happy Birthday POF and many many more, thank you for all your hard work and keeping it free the forums are great and addictive as most here already know. I have yet to find my soul mate, but have made a few life time friends and love going to the forums regularly, keep up the good work and congtatulations on your sucess... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Online dating and the dreaded Valentine's Day. Posted: 2/14/2007 12:39:10 AM
remember when you were in grade school and everyone gave out those little valentines day cards to everyone, and at the end of the day you and your friends would count them and see who got the most. And that special guy you got the special card for (there was always one bigger in the package and one for the teacher) and was so shy to give it to him you just knew even back at that age he was something else cause of the butterflies you used to get when you saw him. Even if you dont have anyone special in your life at the moment you can still go get a pack of those funny little cards and give them to friends and family put a smile on someones face... HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ALL THE FISHIES Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Plentyoffish, Now with Flowers. Posted: 10/28/2006 8:02:27 AM
Having advertisers like the flower people on here is what keeps it a free site, if you don't want to spend money on flowers noone is forcing you. As for those who may be communicating or seeing eachother a while here its a nice idea, more convienent than having to find a shop in the right area. You may not know the address of the person yet, also and they can do that for you. Sheeeeesh people arn't happy here unless they have somthing to complain about... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Well, you be the judge--warning. Posted: 10/28/2006 5:08:13 AM
first of all how long did you communicate with this guy befor you agreed to meet him. A late dinner with a stranger from out of town seems little risky, I agree with funny girl the red flags were there right from the start. I don't think I would have gone to meet him but if I did I certainly wouldn't have stuck around after showing up and hes with two other woman, it would have been see ya have fun lose my number buddy... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Why do some guys think we can't handle it...Double Standards Posted: 10/25/2006 1:24:53 PM
"A girl should be able to have her cake and eat it to...." ^^ Fair enough. But change it to "Both should be able to have their cake and eat it too ..." Yes both should be able to be in a non committed relationship, freinds with benifits what ever you want to call it, hang out but unfortunatly with the double standards its ok for the guy to do this but the minute a woman does she gets labeled a slut or hoe as soon as other know. Now I'm the type of person who doesnt really care what others think I'm a big girl and follow my own rules, but it is still unfortunate that double standards do exist. Men have been having their cake and eating it too for a long time... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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80% admit to supplying false details on their profiles Posted: 10/23/2006 10:07:33 PM
I think if you are genuinely looking to find someone here, especially for a long term relationship as I am, then you have to be honest about who you are. What would be the point in telling false things about yourself or what your looking for? Thats never going to find you what you want... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Is sex over-rated ? Posted: 10/22/2006 4:59:51 PM
Not over-rated at all, if your with the right partner. Sex is awesome and amazing and I wouldn't want to ever live without it... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Is he being honest with me? Posted: 10/22/2006 1:37:46 AM
from what I have noticed with mine if your idle for about 15 minutes or so it logs off automaticlly, you can be chatting with someone on your Im even and the site will close on you just Im stays open so if someone tells you he wasn't on just always logged in I don't think thats true. That is just my observation Im not positive I think admin would know about that... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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It really works! Posted: 10/19/2006 1:13:05 PM
Congrats to both of you, its nice to see a positve outcome from time to time. To all the haters WOW why so negative, everyone deserves a chance at happiness sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't at least they are getting a chance to try and deserve the well wishes its not easy out there to find someone you want to have a second date with so if you think you found the one great, who are we to rain on that, good luck to all the fishies who found their mate and better luck to us who have not yet... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Why are some guys nervous about meeting Posted: 10/19/2006 12:43:27 PM
I too think its a bit funny that hes not ready to even talk on the phone, after three weeks on here you should be ready to at least do that. Maybe he is seeing a couple of people at the same time and your on the back burner till he sees if the other is working out right. Maybe he is married or living with someone, that is the only reason I would see that hes not willing to give you a call. He may be just a very cautious or not too secure person either, afraid the same spark may not be there in person, that happens all the time hope you get this resolved in a manner in which you are happy with... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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So what do you go out to do by yourself? Posted: 10/17/2006 5:50:42 PM
I enjoy going to the movies alone, I can sit front and center noone talks see whatever I want to see no discussion, and best of all stay for the credits to roll, I take my movie going too seriously lol. I do also enjoy going with someone from time to time don't get me wrong but thats pretty much my get away alone activity, escape from the real world a while... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Woman Analogy. Posted: 10/16/2006 4:10:29 PM
good observation foof... Too many men look at the wrapping paper instead of the gift.... This is very true but don't forget the wrapping paper usually gets thrown out real fast, its the gift inside thats the keeper... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Have you ever had a passionate kiss that rendered you unable to walk? Posted: 9/30/2006 3:06:47 AM
east side eddie you always put a smile on my face... I love reading you... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Have you ever had a passionate kiss that rendered you unable to walk? Posted: 9/28/2006 7:18:48 AM
Oh Yes !!!! I have to say I don't think its possible to ever find someone who kisses better than this certain guy, very hot passionate and can't get enough kind of kisses make any girl swooooooonnnnnnnn. Shawn you know your the best kisser ever... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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I have this problem.... Posted: 9/27/2006 2:59:22 AM
well if you go to google and then to ask.com you get two different answers to your question so if I were you I would drive a little faster give up eating meat and only fill up on the way home from places then you have a chance with both the ladies... lol this thread is too funny and all the answers were a great laugh thx... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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DONE WITH THIS Posted: 9/26/2006 6:07:21 AM
well I think you have to give it more than two days first of all. As you say yourself you had a slightly provocative picture that doesn't help, I used to have a cleevage pic in my profile and used to get a lot more attention than I do now, it wasn't the kind of attention I wanted so I took it off. I never saw your profile or picture so I can't help you there but you might want to just give it another try with maybe a better pic and some of your interests listed... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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How does one cope.... Posted: 9/26/2006 4:29:46 AM
I know exactly how you feel sweet m, I met someone quite some time back we became friends hung out had fun but he is at a place in his life that he cannot commit to any one person right now or so he says. So you have to value your friendship and move on you never know what could be around the next corner. As each day passes I feel less and less at a loss because of how I felt about him, I dated other men and just recently met someone who may just have the key to make me forget him alltogether... Carmella

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what do women think of guys who are really into football? Posted: 9/23/2006 8:43:39 PM
CFL BC Lions rule, love nfl and college ball too its all good. I beging to go into football withdrawl about January waiting for the new seasons to begin. Bring it on... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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How available are you? Posted: 9/23/2006 12:39:31 AM
well thx suelynn but I dont see that the door is closed at all, we talk and see eachother, and like I said I am available I'm dating you never know he may be ready for me one day and I won't be available any more who knows. There are endless possibilities as to what happens in the future, I live my life for me being single is great. I have good friends and family so whatever will be will be... que sera sera... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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How available are you? Posted: 9/22/2006 6:11:42 PM
I have met someone here that I care about deeply, we have become friends and I would like more in the relationship but I have to wait till he is ready. He tells me also that if it were a few years early that we had met I would be the one, but he is at a place in his life that I think he needs his space for now so I will be there for him he knows how I feel and we will see what the future brings. Until then I am available to date although I do care about him I have to think of whats good for me, my dream man may be round the corner who knows... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Can you be friends with a EX? Posted: 9/22/2006 2:55:03 AM
It really all depends also on the circumstances in which you broke up. We were married young at 17 and 18 for a very long time 29 years, we grew apart in the later years. Work work work less shared interests, being too tired to go anywhere. When I first left he was surprised and angry but quickly grew to understand why I did. Yes we have been able to stay friends, my mom took the breakup harder than he did lol. because we have 2 beautiful daughters together and 2 grandkids a 3rd on the way and were friends for so long befor the break up no reason not to be now. We have both moved on with our lives he moved back to Montreal 2 years ago but visits, we talk from time to time and I am fortunate to have him as a friend... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Why are you on here? Posted: 9/21/2006 10:28:50 PM
Well originally I came here thinking I just might meet the man of my dreams... what was I thinking??? I have made a couple of friends who will remain friends forever, dated one man who I thought was a possibility and wasn't but for the most part met men who lie cheat and will try anything to make a new conquest, so why am I still here?? Well I do love the forums, and being the hopeless romantic that I am I still think he may be out there so I will stick it out, read and write in the forums and you never know maybe he will find me so for now I'm not going anywhere... happy fishin all... Carmella

passionspurpleessence

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Why is it ok for a men to date 4 or 5 women at a time.......... Posted: 9/9/2006 7:20:24 PM
I didn't realize it wasn't ok for a woman. I date who I want and when I want and if I happen to see two guys in one week oh well, its a bit pond out there how will you know when you found the right one if you don't sample the variety. I don't live by double standards, as far as the name calling be more descrete its noone elses business what or who you do. Other people will talk no matter what, its your life have fun with it, were here for a good time not a long time and as you get older you realize this is true. I'm not say that you shouldn't be selective as far as who you see but there is nothing wrong with a couple of dates in a week... Carmella

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