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bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

Msg: 83 (view)

Men, what makes you cry? Posted: 11/26/2009 5:09:09 PM
^ Walts, the true wusses are those who hide behind the armour, and I know you're not one of them. Big boys do cry.

bella™

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Your buddy Spud Posted: 11/26/2009 12:30:25 PM
Thanks for the update, lovely. You too, are an amazing friend with a heart of gold. Spud adores you. I think we're long overdue for one of those breakfasts, with Spud as our guest of honour.

bella™

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Song and the Lyrics of what you're listening to right now... Posted: 11/25/2009 10:22:50 PM
*No One Like You - Scorpions* Girl, it's been a long time that we've been apart Much too long for a man who needs love I miss you since I've been away Babe, it wasn't easy to leave you alone It's getting harder each time that I go If I had the choice, I would stay There's no one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just wanna be loved by you No one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just wanna be loved by you Girl, there are really no words strong enough To describe all my longing for love I don't want my feelings restrained Ooh, babe, I just need you like never before Just imagine you'd come through this door You'd take all my sorrow away There's no one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just wanna be loved by you No one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just wanna be loved by you There's no one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just wanna be loved by you No one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just wanna be loved by you

bella™

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Your buddy Spud Posted: 11/25/2009 8:02:57 PM
It breaks my heart to hear that Spud is still not at home. Warm hugs and positive thoughts always..

bella™

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What's the one place you would love to have sex in? Posted: 11/25/2009 7:59:25 PM
In my lover's arms.

bella™

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What do you video tape? Posted: 11/25/2009 7:57:50 PM
Anything I watch is taped - I hate commercials and prefer to fast-forward through brain-permeating jingles. Not quite how I would word it, but that pretty much sums it up.

bella™

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The Happiness Project Posted: 11/23/2009 3:47:07 PM
Do it!

bella™

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You know you are not in the big city anymore when.... Posted: 11/23/2009 3:44:28 PM
.. when you fall asleep to the sound of silence and not sirens.

bella™

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What constitutes a Work of Art? Posted: 11/23/2009 3:38:44 PM
Covering it with chocolate

bella™

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Is a new romance like a new pair of shoes? Posted: 11/23/2009 3:37:24 PM
Is a new romance like a new pair of shoes? It would explain a lot ... I wear flip-flops ten months out of the year.

bella™

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Is Faith a dirty word? Not Religion.. Posted: 11/23/2009 12:02:11 AM
To me, faith is trusting in oneself, as well as believing that everything is as it should be and/or that everything will always work out for the best. Even if it doesn't necessarily work out the way I'd like it to.

bella™

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Should men and women live together? Posted: 11/22/2009 9:29:10 PM
My (ex) husband and I lived together for 18 years, and we complimented each other quite well. I look forward to having that with someone again one day. Yet, when I lived with one of my best female friends, it wasn't long before that arrangement came to a screeching halt. I think it's less about gender, and more about personalities.

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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commercials that set ya off! Posted: 11/22/2009 8:59:10 PM
I record most of my programs so I am able to just watch the show and fast forward through the commercials. Otherwise, I tend to channel surf while they're on. Off topic: JustSimply, I like your new profile pic.

bella™

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Chocolate Lovers - Whats the best??????? Posted: 11/22/2009 9:42:46 AM
The best dark chocolate with chilis I've ever tasted is sold down at the Lonsdale Quay.

bella™

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Washing your hands work. I have not had flu this year. Posted: 11/21/2009 10:55:53 AM
and i have to admit, i'm not a good hand washer May I suggest you add that to your profile? Washing your hands is just good hygiene and common sense. And not only during flu season. Would you want someone who doesn't wash their hands preparing your food or touching your body? And I agree with Mr Really Handsome above me, using paper towel to pull the door open (and turn off the faucet) is smart, not ocd.

bella™

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Chocolate Lovers - Whats the best??????? Posted: 11/20/2009 11:24:24 AM
Nothing dark. What a difference three years makes... I love dark chocolate now! As for what's the best, I think we should have a chocolate tasting contest to help us answer that question.

bella™

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Commonly Held Beliefs? Posted: 11/19/2009 12:08:19 AM
............................................................

bella™

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How important is having Internet access to you? Posted: 11/15/2009 12:40:18 AM
On a scale of one to ten, I'd say it's about a twelve.

bella™

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mma(mixed martial arts) coming to Vancouver, what do you think? Posted: 11/13/2009 12:22:50 AM
I'd prefer to wrestle ...

bella™

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Why Do Guys Quit Dancing after 40? Posted: 11/13/2009 12:02:29 AM
gonna look into it... any interests? Absolutely! I took line dancing years ago.. so much fun! Salsa would be great, too. And then of course there is burlesque. I think if we ask her real nice, a certain fishy may even be willing to give us a group rate. o/t I don't recall the problem being so much that men over 40 don't dance, it's more like not be able to get them off the dance floor!

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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What to do with old wedding rings? Posted: 11/12/2009 11:46:45 PM
I kinda like mine, I'm thinking I might start wearing them again.

bella™

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all season vs all weather tires - who knew there was a difference? Posted: 11/12/2009 11:42:50 PM
Doesn't belong down in the lowermainland until Dec 20th Don't you mean Dec 24th? I just like to "BELIEVE"....even though Bella will get mad at me I can hear you! I've never put snow tires on my vehicle, but I do have four wheel drive, does that count?

bella™

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Your Buddy Spud Posted: 11/11/2009 3:49:09 PM
Great news! I look forward to seeing him back online soon! Thanks, lovely. ..

bella™

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Jaws and other behaviour-altering movies. Posted: 11/9/2009 7:27:57 PM
other behaviour-altering movies. Such as porn?

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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Using a self-serve checkout at a supermarket. Posted: 11/9/2009 7:21:40 PM
It's bad enough I have to bag my own groceries at some stores, now you want me to scan the items, too?

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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H1N1 vaccine. Are you getting a shot? Posted: 11/9/2009 7:17:14 PM
H1N1 vaccine. Are you getting a shot? Nope, not this kitten.

bella™

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Is it true that ALL Scorpios are totally concerned with SEX?? Posted: 10/27/2009 8:06:01 PM
double checks her birth certificate

bella™

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Your Buddy Spud Posted: 10/27/2009 7:24:56 PM
Thanks for the update, darlin.. I'm so sorry to hear he's having such a rough go of it. I pray he will see better days real soon! Please give him a hug for me when you see him?

bella™

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In what environment do you get most creative? Posted: 10/23/2009 5:51:11 PM
Around water.

bella™

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What's up with the BBD (Bigger Better Deal)? Posted: 10/22/2009 11:18:34 AM
hopefully he is exploring you fully.

bella™

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What's up with the BBD (Bigger Better Deal)? Posted: 10/22/2009 11:09:27 AM
Can this type of site contribute to the "never satisfied" attitude Absolutely. It's that kid in the candy store mentality; I refer to it as 'hedging your bets'. Personally, I would rather know someone is exploring something with someone else, than have him string me along until he decides which one of us he wants . I know in most cases, this is not realistic on a dating site, but that is just me. I have been overwhelmed by emails and don't quite know how to tell people that that I'm not looking for another girl until I meet with this or that one to see if there is any spark You just said it, and you can respond to your emails along those same lines. "Thank you for your email but I'm currently talking to someone that I'd like to focus on getting to know a little bit better. I don't feel it would be appropriate to start something new with anyone else at this time." I know, I know. I live in a fantasy world. Maybe that's why I don't play the dating game?

bella™

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2010 Winter Olympic medals Posted: 10/17/2009 6:51:23 PM
There must be melted chocolate in them If there was, I might like them a whole lot more.

bella™

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So whats your plans for this weekend? Any POF dates? Posted: 10/16/2009 6:42:43 PM
Any POF dates?

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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So whats your plans for this weekend? Any POF dates? Posted: 10/16/2009 6:37:58 PM
Trying to kick this cold so I'll be well enough to make it out next weekend.

bella™

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Photos - Powell River - McKinney's Pub Dance, October 10, 2009 Posted: 10/13/2009 7:10:47 PM
Perhaps a car pool can be arranged for the next event. Car pooling is so last year Great photos, OP .. congratulations on another successful event!

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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To pay or not to pay?? Or to have sex on first meeting?? Posted: 10/13/2009 7:04:27 PM
Hmm whats wrong with me ? I PAY and PUT OUT...... So essentially you are getting screwed twice.. When the tab came I threw down 20 bucks on the table and HE TOOK IT!!! I admit haven't read the entire thread, so I'm not sure if anyone addressed this or not but.. why did you throw down the money if you didn't want him to take it? Were you testing him? I agree that if he invited you out, then he could have paid the bill and refused to take your money. But you played the game, and you got burned. At least you found out early on and it only cost you twenty bucks. Next time someone asks you out, just let them pay. If there is a second date, you can either pick up the tab or pitch in then. As for having sex on the first meeting.. only if that's what you're looking for.

bella™

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If love is the answer, what is the question? Posted: 10/12/2009 1:26:44 PM
What do I feel? when I look into my children's faces That pretty much sums it up.

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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Being Thankful Posted: 10/12/2009 12:18:22 PM
There have been ongoing challenges, and many changes, but overall, this year has been a year of answered prayers and dreams come true. I am thankful ... that my daughter safely realized a dream of hers this past summer, a dream she's had ever since she was a little girl that my son is still in school, primarily due to the generosity of those who have nothing to gain but to see others realize their dreams for the honour of standing beside a dear friend on the day she married the man of her dreams that someone I care about is now cancer free that for every door that closed, a window was opened for good days .. and good memories for all this October sunshine! and last but never least, I always thankful for my children, my parents, my family and friends. Happy Thanksgiving everyone.

bella™

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The google street viewer, what's your opinion? Posted: 10/10/2009 12:07:35 PM
I was kind of creeped out at first .. but then last night I had plans to meet a friend at a restaurant I'd never been to before, and it was kind of cool to be able to not only get directions, but actually see what to look out for. I like that they blur out people's faces and license plate numbers if they happen to be in the picture.

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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new tv shows this fall Posted: 10/4/2009 8:06:05 AM
^ I nearly peed myself watching Modern Family! And Glee is musical and quirky, so I may continue to watch that. I found both Cougar Town and The Good Wife disappointing, and the eye candy in Eastwick and the new Melrose Place may not be enough to keep me coming back. ( I can't believe I've actually watched this much television!) I may just stick with what I already know and love .. Grey's Anatomy, Desperate Housewives and Brothers and Sisters, Turner Classics and the Food Nework.

bella™

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Comfort or Mountain, which bicycle style? Posted: 10/3/2009 3:55:41 PM
Congratulations on your new bike, OP .. I just recently invested in Norco Plateau and so far I am loving it! I, too, was concerned with the strain on my lower back and shoulders, so I went for a comfort style bike that comfortably distributes the weight between my hands and my hips. Although I won't be doing any crazy stunts, I really wanted a bike that I could ride on or off road so this one is perfect for me. I don't know the difference between the different types of brakes, but mine are v. And according to Fizzy, that's a good thing. Enjoy your new bike!

bella™

Joined: 5/7/2009

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fitness Posted: 9/30/2009 11:21:49 PM
Water aerobics has always been my exercise of choice, but I have to admit I've slacked off quite a bit when it comes to exercise. My treadmill still gets used quite regularly, and I took pilates and core classes in the Winter/Spring, but due to health reasons, never renewed my membership. I'm currently in the market for a cruiser bicycle and plan to go back to the pool. I bought the bike ...and I've gone back to Curves!

bella™

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TUESDAY NIGHT BOWLING ABBOTSFORD 7:30-9:30 Posted: 9/30/2009 10:28:02 PM
^ Wear your kilt

bella™

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How has on line dating changed the way we look for love? Posted: 9/30/2009 10:27:04 PM
How has on line dating changed the way we look for love? Yes, I have to squint now because it looks so far away ......

bella™

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Your Buddy Spud Posted: 9/30/2009 10:15:18 PM
Hope you're feeling better real soon, Spud!

bella™

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12 STEPS CULT OR CURE?? Posted: 9/27/2009 5:03:48 PM
I think support groups are great for overcoming addiction but I just dont see the need to inject religion into it. I know MANY whose lives have been saved, or whose loved ones' lives have been saved, directly as a result of their involvement with a 12 step program. ...and not one of them would I consider a 'religious' person. Some don't even believe in a God. But they do have FAITH .. whether it be in themselves, or in a higher power, or in the program, or in the unity. We should all be so lucky to have the power to believe. My son belongs to a martial arts club, and the club is often criticized about being a cult simply because members bow to a flag, and a grand master, and practice certain (in my opinion, silly) rituals. So what? It does not negate the fact these members are hard working, well disciplined, talented and successful martial artists. I guess I just don't care for the word 'cult' being used with the intent of making something good, look bad. I dont really care what it means..... Amen.

bella™

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Are men shallow or just cold hearted? Posted: 9/27/2009 4:21:55 PM
Neither, they are dumbasses.

bella™

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Do you remember....??? :)) Posted: 9/24/2009 6:52:54 PM
Why are we here anyway ? I don't remember.

bella™

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What has most changed your life journey? Posted: 9/24/2009 6:50:12 PM
* At the age of 5, my Daddy's car accident (changed my family's life forever) * Taking on the role of step-mom at the age of 21 * The passing of my Aunt, who was like a mother to me * The birth of my son * My health situation; and having to quit work * Leaving my marriage * A loved one's addiction

bella™

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Country Music ..thumbs up or thumbs down ? Posted: 9/24/2009 10:51:44 AM
I do remember the good ol' days of 8 seconds The good ol' days indeed .. Country Music ..thumbs up or thumbs down ?

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