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 Author Thread: Clit Peircing?
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 137 (view)
 
Clit Peircing?
Posted: 7/11/2009 6:10:50 AM
Be careful getting it done just above the clit. My ex had it there for a while before we met, she said it looked fantastic but she could not 'help herself' (if you know what i mean). So she got rid of it. She still had her lips done down there which was simply fantastic.
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Is it okay to want to meet new men when...
Posted: 7/5/2009 3:18:14 AM
OH YES GO FOR IT

Any man worth your time wont care about your back story.

Go out, Have some fun. Laughter and happiness are some of the best medicine there is.

I agree with whats been said before, leave it off your profile. Perhaps mention it on a first date or just before in messages. Don't open communication with it or it will sound like it is all that is on your mind.

To a_little_nervous; remove your block on older women, that block is there to stop pervert old men coming on to 18yr old girls, who you clearly are not.
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Is this to much to ask?
Posted: 7/5/2009 3:05:35 AM
When I am a SO (which I assume is significant other) I'm always very interested in what my partner is doing. If your SO is not interested in your life it is not unreasonable that you should want him to be. Particularly if you are going through a tough college course. He should take an interest. It is not 'faking an interest', as suggested earlier it is taking the trouble to support you properly.

It is a matter of supporting you in your endeavors. College/uni work is hard and having someone as a sounding board, even if they know nothing about the subject, can be very useful. In this way he should be supporting you.

On the other hand some people do like to compartmentalize (I think that is the term) and as long as your both happy there is no problem.

All this is my humble opinion. At the end of the day, if your happy, that is all that matters.

Graham
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
New to this
Posted: 5/24/2009 11:46:14 AM
Relax

If you want a little fun after the date go for it! Just say things like "I can't believe I am doing this on a first date" Let him talk you into it. then the next morning playfully give him a hard time about how he talked you into it. He will still respect you and you will have 'Got yours'.

Although I am more into than but that's just me,
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Virgin or not a irgin?
Posted: 5/23/2009 5:15:39 PM
I have had 2. I did not go out looking for them because of that, understand, I'm not some perv. Things just worked out that way.

In any case, on both occasions it was far more intimate than with a more experienced woman. More Close and personal perhaps.

On the other hand someone more experienced is great as they just know what they are doing.

I would not say better or worse just a different experience. Depends what a guy looking for I guess.
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Undecided/open about wanting children - what do you guys mean?
Posted: 5/23/2009 5:04:05 PM
Lots of women put the same thing, so i would suggest that this is not a gender issue.

For me, i Don't want kids but if i met the perfect woman and she wanted kids i would probably go down that path to make her happy which in turn would make me happy. If that makes sence.

If having children is a life goal then put it, don't remove it.

The better question is, what is "other relationship" the list of possible relationship types is fairly extensive so whats left to come under "other"?

Graham
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
do i come off as a ditz?
Posted: 5/22/2009 5:43:24 AM
Great profile, you sound wonderful.
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
accused of dishonesty
Posted: 5/21/2009 4:32:53 PM
He sounded a little odd to say the least. Having read some posts on this forum I have seen that there are some really strange people about so be careful about responding at all.

Although I agree that it looks like he has chosen the strangest way to complement you.

You do look young for your age you look like you are in your early twenties.

Happy hunting,

Graham
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 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
My Turn
Posted: 5/21/2009 4:24:59 PM
OK I have made some more changes, Thoughts anyone?
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
My Turn
Posted: 5/21/2009 4:23:59 AM
Hi Lily

ok thats great thanks

i do indeed mean quiet. Thanks for that. i shall expand on the rest later.

thanks
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Made some changes
Posted: 5/21/2009 3:47:25 AM
Any help please. I'm having lots of views but no incoming contacts and few replies when I write and thought it may be my profile. I have posted on here and made some changes but want a little more advice.

Am I too wordy, desperate or just come across as weird?

Please be constructive and honest.

Thanks in advance

Graham
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 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 44 (view)
 
WHAT SHOULD I DO, MY GIRLFREIND DEVESTAED ME!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 12:40:12 PM
To clarify, she stole your car yes, that was wrong. but a firearms charge! Carjacking! these are serious crimes. which she did not commit.

Think of those kids first what is best for THEM?
stuff your needs,
stuff her needs,
only focus on the needs of those kids,
If that means you got to do time so be it
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 43 (view)
 
WHAT SHOULD I DO, MY GIRLFREIND DEVESTAED ME!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 12:35:19 PM
People have talked about who is the victim here. HER KIDS ARE!!!!!! for crying out loud you put a mother in jail (even if only for a little while) for something she did not do. Way to screw up some kids! You say you love those kids yet not they have a view of the criminal justice system where it took away their Mum for something she did not do.
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
My Turn
Posted: 5/20/2009 12:31:24 AM
ok thanks

that is helpful thanks. Changes made h hope i have found a happy medium between what you both put
Graham
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
My Turn
Posted: 5/19/2009 5:18:04 PM
Any help please. I'm having lots of views but few replies and thought it may be my profile. Am i too wordy, desperate or just come across as weird?

Please be constructive and honest.

Thanks in advance

Graham
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 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
I would like some opinions.
Posted: 5/19/2009 5:09:16 PM
OK I'm another guy so feel free to ignore the following and am ill equip to 'rate' another guy;

First smile in your photos!!!!

Next I agree with other posts you're a writer, flex those muscles. Write something that is a joy to read. I know it can be hard to write these profiles but a writer should be able. start small and expand it as time progresses. A bullet pointed list is a bad thing.

Lastly kill those random facts here is why for each;
-Vodka is the nectar of the gods, with tequila being a close second.
(ok thats not too bad funny which is good)

-Tomatos make me sick.
-I can not stomach spicy foods for the life of me, but the cold hardly affects me.
-Rap is not music, but is a blight on society created by some malicious being as a punishment for the human race. Other than rap, I'll listen to virtually any sort of music.
(these 3 are negative about what you don't like negative is bad)

-I suck horribly at racing games.
(games + women = bad combination)

-I will be the first to say, I am NOT a photogenic person. It's damn hard to find a picture of myself that I actually look half decent in.
(don't put yourself down your actually quite good looking, SMILE, silly photos are good show you have a sence of humor.)

-I am an insomniac. Need someone to talk to late at night? Call me, I'll probably be awake.
(may make women think "so how much fun is sleeping next to you going to be? ")

-It's pretty unlikely I'll contact you if you browse my profile and don't send a message. I will assume you are not interested.
(year women wont generally make the first move)

-I'm done tolerating immaturity. If you are a drama queen, or act like a high schooler, don't expect me to wait around.
(don't say it until it happens)


Hope that helps.
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Review my Profile??
Posted: 5/19/2009 4:51:55 PM
I agree with aj_the_lad, loose the first paragraph and just delete e-mails from people you don't like. Pervs exist deal with it!

You can't possibly be seriously interested in all those things? Cut the number of interests back 10 is good.

Saying what you are not looking for can only put people off and puts a negative cloud over your profile. say what you look for and what you like. it is positive and encouraging. For example don't say "and if your old enough to be my Dad or just want sex,again DON'T BOTHER" Saying "DON'T BOTHER" is totally negative and will make people not bother even if he is exactly what you are looking for.
Try as an alternative; "I'm looking to make a real emotional connection with someone close to my age." That sentence says exactly what yours does but in a positive way that does not put potentials off.

The key is to tell people about yourself and make them want to go out with you so be positive and approachable. Currently you seem to have put together a shopping list of what you want. Try a more chatty approach which is easier to read.

Graham
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 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Do me do me do me!
Posted: 5/19/2009 4:32:58 PM
I like your Profile, it is upbeat while still being to the point, it lets guys know what you are looking for and what they should expect. It also shows honesty.

I love your photos too. You have an amazing smile. A photo displaying that smile really should be your primary.

If I were what you were after and lived in Kansas or the US for that matter I would be e-mailing you not posting this reply.

Graham
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 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 231 (view)
 
STOOD UP by a P.O.F. MEMBER
Posted: 5/19/2009 7:31:45 AM
WOW someone as attractive as you got stood up! now I have heard everything!

His Loss.

Glad you have found someone javascript:smilie('')
 wellg
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
~ Bournemouth Summer Meet Spanish Style ~ Saturday 4th July ~ 8 til Late ~
Posted: 5/13/2009 12:59:46 PM
WOO HOO Party! count me in!

Is it a problem that I'm not Spanish?
 
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