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Hurting really bad... Posted: 3/7/2007 3:46:11 PM
You are right.........Time! ....is a "healing factor"....like a bee sting in time the hurt/pain go away!..............nows the time to really spoil youself...take care of number #1.. & everything else will fall into place...any consolation they say for every year.....will take 6 months...to heal...how true not sure! just read it somewhere...like he said above...its like a wound...or open cut...in time will heal....and sometimes when the heart is broken it takes tears to heal it ...watch sappy movies , listen to sappy songs (helps u cry) if you don't release the tears, they get repressed , than you will get depressed...do some soul searching...write in a journal your feelings.... power of prayer for strenght...hope I was of some help!....take care! my thoughts & prayers are with you

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profile photo's Posted: 2/6/2007 1:43:25 PM
help... cannot download my photo's on my profile my headshot & own photos of me...thankyou for your assistance...in past I didn't download photo's of me..cause I was told by you's you can hide them and then show them...but to much of hassle...in having people being added on my msn....and then getting viruses...now need your help...............so I can download my own headshots & pics of me......... thank you for your consideration & assistance

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Misleading profiles and bottom of the barrel acceptances Posted: 7/31/2006 7:22:35 PM
Conclusion Rivise your profile.....take care and keep fishing

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Misleading profiles and bottom of the barrel acceptances Posted: 7/31/2006 7:10:35 PM
Dear Friend, The saying : "theres a saying one bad apple in the barrel that ruins it for the rest ....may be true..some guys make it harder for you to meet others..they'll suck whats left of your "self esteem"&"self confidence "and run with it ..called powertripping...its a matter of "boundries" dear"restrictions"..set them....don't just meet anyone on here ...take your time ...brush yourself off..now get back on the saddle & ride....most times if you feel good about yourself thats the kind of person your going to attract...as for your profile...I'd say ...wow ....did you have to be that straight up...in life..or relationships most times you divulge that kind of personal information...when you meet the person or chat or when you gain their trust...."GIRLFRIEND WHAT YOU PUT ON YOUR PROFILE IS WHAT YOUR GOING TO CATCH...WHOOPS...."HOOK".......hint**revise your profile*** keep fishing it gets better...theres Plento-Fish..........take care of number#1 & everything else will fall into place....Have a good day!...at least try!...the sun will shine again...... .....

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she wasn't cheating exactly... thoughts please Posted: 6/14/2006 5:45:59 PM
You said she re-invented herself....so she must have been unhappy with herself...meaning maybe...specualtion :low self esteem /self confidence............then again she may have been feeling insecure....not sure what your communication was like....most relationships fall apart due to it....was she feeling unloved....what was your affection.. both...like... was she getting the attention she needed...most time in relationships people often take each other for granted... thinking they are going to be there forever....so I hope i gave some insight ....marriage counselling or some form of ... would have been best the 1st time around sometimes a trial separation is good...time & space make the heart grow fonder....as well guess you have to remember it takes 2 to tango...it should be a 50/50 relationship....not a 70/30....not blaming anyone ...just saying.....keyword.....COMMUNICATION....as well there are more factors ....my advice to you is grow & learn from your past experiences...life gets better...good luck in your future endevours.

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Should I trust this guy? I need a man and women's outlook here! Posted: 6/14/2006 3:58:45 PM
Here we go again ...read what you just wrote ...you answered yourself.... I am very attached to him..."but"......VERY AFRAID HE WILL HURT ME LIKE HE'S BEEN DOING!...I DON'T KNOW ,TOUGH ONE............there you go sweetie...you answered your self.....need more be said.....venture ahead...theres plentofish

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dating an overweight person? Posted: 6/13/2006 8:56:36 PM
I think it would be...." More to love" If you both have the chemistry & attraction....who cares?..... everything else melts together....you at least have love handles...

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Should I trust this guy? I need a man and women's outlook here! Posted: 6/13/2006 8:31:42 PM
sounds like he's uncertain...sometimes ....a person needs time to "think" or "space " ... if you read what you wrote your answer is in there....sounds negative to me..sounds like your settng yourself up for a fall down...so quit while your ahead...take your losses and learn and grow from them and move on....chin up... shoulders back..& keep smiling...it does get better...and the pain /hurt & aching all go away with time...just remember to spoil yourself your number #1...take care

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I don't want games...So sick of that comment Posted: 6/13/2006 5:59:51 PM
With all due respect to all your comments its all about ....FRIENDSHIP....COMPATIBILTY..ATTRACTION....CHEMISTRY... ifs its not there...then why can't you remain friends ...its not fair to call it games..its called dating.....the key words are .....be BOLD& BLUNT....often if 2 people are into each other there wil be nothing stopping them ...nor anything in the way....It will just feel right.. so basically what im trying to say is ...All's fair in love & war...may the best one win... hopefully this is some insight....and when it feels good ...you will KNOW THAT PERSON IS THE ONE......"BALANCE "another key word.....you have to be able to connect on all levels before you commit like EMOTIONALLY,PHYSICALLY,SPIRITUALITY.FINANCIALLY...... I don't want games...so sick of that comment..... Its not games...so yes I agree with ...it's a process you go thru in getting to know the other person NEEDS ,WANTS,DEMANDS,LIKES,DISLIKES,ETC......to see if you have common ground or if you could both melt together.....so basically look at it as sort of fun....and guess what... it will be fun..BEST OF LUCK.....just remember if it feels good ..then you know its right.....NEXT

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