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plentyofhumping

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Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 8/30/2009 1:07:40 PM
"Erghhh can one compare a medical examination to an intimate, between two people experience?!? " Sometimes you can compare it to laying on a couch all day only more relaxing.

plentyofhumping

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Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 8/30/2009 1:03:37 PM
Child molesters say their perversion is 'fun' too but you don't see society approving of THAT perversion do you? And we all know where the greatest concentration of child molesters are to be found....... YEAH...CHURCH!!

plentyofhumping

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 8/24/2009 1:35:16 PM
cw35 "You're obviously a user of a lot of drugs since you seem so angry and defensive about it." So because I chosse to educate myself on a subject that makes me a user? "Paragraphs upon paragraphs trying to rationalize why drugs are so great. Why? That's just sad." Oh that's what I was doing, I thought I was debunking the myths people like you are spouting on here with out a shred of evidence. Things like your next comment. "Bottom line is no drugs legal or otherwise do anyone any good and only cause harm. That's just the facts. Who cares which ones are legal or what famous people used them?" Who cares? How about the 600,000 Canadians and millions of Americans doing prison time for possessing pot. "Even so, there's no way to prove these historic figures used anything unless you were there anyway. "Hey, Michael Vic is famous and he beats dogs. I think I'll go kill a dog now since popular people do it". What idiotic reasoning. " You see Mr. cw35 only an idot and a LIAR like you would come to that conclusion from my post. Want proof? HERE from your own profile description.."I'm a good listener and value my partners opinions as well." You value no opinions but your own sir and further proof is in the testimonial posted on your profile. "We started out ummmm, errrr disagreeing almost totally but soon won each others respect." You're going to have to somehow replicate some brain cells and get educated on this subject before you'll gain my respect!

plentyofhumping

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 8/24/2009 12:01:39 PM
"Let's just say that I'd much rather date a pot smoker than a drinker or cigarette smoker. It's the least harmful of the three, in my opinion." It's not just your opinion, it's fact of course you'll never hear the media or governments tell you this because they rather have you live in fear...there's no other reasonable explanation!People accept alcohol so that they can have an excuse for their actions in the morning!! Opinions is all the nay sayers will give you for pot use! This article is over 3 years old...how many have heard of thes findings? Study Finds No Cancer-Marijuana Connection By Marc Kaufman Washington Post Staff Writer Friday, May 26, 2006 The largest study of its kind has unexpectedly concluded that smoking marijuana, even regularly and heavily, does not lead to lung cancer. The new findings "were against our expectations," said Donald Tashkin of the University of California at Los Angeles, a pulmonologist who has studied marijuana for 30 years. "We hypothesized that there would be a positive association between marijuana use and lung cancer, and that the association would be more positive with heavier use," he said. "What we found instead was no association at all, and even a suggestion of some protective effect." Federal health and drug enforcement officials have widely used Tashkin's previous work on marijuana to make the case that the drug is dangerous. Tashkin said that while he still believes marijuana is potentially harmful, its cancer-causing effects appear to be of less concern than previously thought. Earlier work established that marijuana does contain cancer-causing chemicals as potentially harmful as those in tobacco, he said. However, marijuana also contains the chemical THC, which he said may kill aging cells and keep them from becoming cancerous. Tashkin's study, funded by the National Institutes of Health's National Institute on Drug Abuse, involved 1,200 people in Los Angeles who had lung, neck or head cancer and an additional 1,040 people without cancer matched by age, sex and neighborhood. They were all asked about their lifetime use of marijuana, tobacco and alcohol. The heaviest marijuana smokers had lighted up more than 22,000 times, while moderately heavy usage was defined as smoking 11,000 to 22,000 marijuana cigarettes. Tashkin found that even the very heavy marijuana smokers showed no increased incidence of the three cancers studied. "This is the largest case-control study ever done, and everyone had to fill out a very extensive questionnaire about marijuana use," he said. "Bias can creep into any research, but we controlled for as many confounding factors as we could, and so I believe these results have real meaning." Tashkin's group at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA had hypothesized that marijuana would raise the risk of cancer on the basis of earlier small human studies, lab studies of animals, and the fact that marijuana users inhale more deeply and generally hold smoke in their lungs longer than tobacco smokers -- exposing them to the dangerous chemicals for a longer time. In addition, Tashkin said, previous studies found that marijuana tar has 50 percent higher concentrations of chemicals linked to cancer than tobacco cigarette tar. While no association between marijuana smoking and cancer was found, the study findings, presented to the American Thoracic Society International Conference this week, did find a 20-fold increase in lung cancer among people who smoked two or more packs of cigarettes a day. The study was limited to people younger than 60 because those older than that were generally not exposed to marijuana in their youth, when it is most often tried.

plentyofhumping

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 8/23/2009 11:26:32 AM
"being a doped out addle brained zombie is not what America should be about. we need clear thinkers, people who can help us to become a greater nation, not wastoids laying on the couch getting the munchies! good grief!" Good grief the moronic statements put out by non users. Let's see who those doped out addle brained zombies are who use or used marijuana: - Abraham Lincoln Loved Smoking 'Sweet Hemp' (Friends (L)/Abraham Lincoln) 13 Feb 2009 - President Obama’s political roll model, Abraham Lincoln smoked weed too. Historical documentation leaves little doubt that the 16th president of the United States was a proud pot head who praised smoking cannabis to unwind and have fun. The legendary US leader, who was honored by Obama during his presidential inauguration, loved to play harmonica. Hohner Harmonica Company in Germany learned of this, and had sent a couple of them to Lincoln as gifts. In the thank-you note from 1855 to the harmonica builder the US president not only expresses his fondness of the instruments, but surprisingly also of (what we now know as) marijuana. Lincoln writes: "Two of my favorite things are sitting on my front porch smoking a pipe of sweet hemp, and playing my Hohner harmonica." -Al Gore´s Marijuana Use Exposed (Friends (G)/Al Gore) Questions about Al Gore's use of marijuana first arose in Gore's campaign for Congress in 1976, but only in an off-the-record conversation with a reporter from the Nashville Tennessean. Not until his presidential run in 1988 did the matter force significant public comment from Gore. At a 1988 press conference, Gore admitted to experimenting with cannabis a few times during his Vietnam years and immediately afterward. But this, he argued, needed to be understood in the context of a great "period of change" in the nation, as well as in himself. "Like many others in my generation," he said, "my life reflects the times." The matter seemed to be over before it started. -US Presidents Using Cannabis (Friends (U/V)/U.S. Presidents) Eleven United States Presidents who grew and/or used cannabis (hemp and marijuana). George Washington John Adams Thomas Jefferson James Madison James Monroe Andrew Jackson Zachary Taylor Franklin Pierce Abraham Lincoln John F. Kennedy Barack Obama -Brad Pitt, David Letterman,Bruce Willis,Calvin Klein,Hunter S.Thomson ,Queen Victoria,Anjelica Huston Yep just a list of a bunch of fycked up people many of whom you chose to run your country....at least now we know whwere you're coming from...

plentyofhumping

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 8/23/2009 10:46:32 AM
"while we're legalizing marijuana why don't we just legalize all mind altering drugs and flush America down the toilet faster?" Tom bimbo would have been a more appropriate nic. So why is it you think that? I can only guess that you think everyone is going to turn into a meth zombie or something. So let's go over some facts....You can go to cato.org to find this. 1.While other states in the European Union have developed various forms of de facto decriminalization — whereby substances perceived to be less serious (such as cannabis) rarely lead to criminal prosecution — Portugal remains the only EU member state with a law explicitly declaring drugs to be "decriminalized." Because more than seven years have now elapsed since enactment of Portugal's decriminalization system, there are ample data enabling its effects to be assessed. So as you can see it's has been done already several years ago so they have some results from their study of what happened. 2.Except for some far-right politicians, very few domestic political factions are agitating for a repeal of the 2001 law. And while there is a widespread perception that bureaucratic changes need to be made to Portugal's decriminalization framework to make it more efficient and effective, there is no real debate about whether drugs should once again be criminalized. More significantly, none of the nightmare scenarios touted by preenactment decriminalization opponents — from rampant increases in drug usage among the young to the transformation of Lisbon into a haven for "drug tourists" — has occurred. You wouldn't happen to be on the far right are you? Guess the first thing they noticed was that your statement is pretty stupid and ignorant. So what did happen? 3.The political consensus in favor of decriminalization is unsurprising in light of the relevant empirical data. Those data indicate that decriminalization has had no adverse effect on drug usage rates in Portugal, which, in numerous categories, are now among the lowest in the EU, particularly when compared with states with stringent criminalization regimes. Although postdecriminalization usage rates have remained roughly the same or even decreased slightly when compared with other EU states, drug-related pathologies — such as sexually transmitted diseases and deaths due to drug usage — have decreased dramatically. Drug policy experts attribute those positive trends to the enhanced ability of the Portuguese government to offer treatment programs to its citizens — enhancements made possible, for numerous reasons, by decriminalization. Please make note how I emphasized the "particularly when compared with states with stringent criminalization regimes" since the US is the worst one of them all. And what do you get for the gazillion of dollars you spend on stuffing privately owned prisons with non violent drugs users? The US has 10 times (per capita) the hard drug users (cocaine, meth, heroin...etc) then the next highest country. Yes, 10 times! Her's some more facts for you from:http://www.drug-rehabs.org/drug-statistics.php Cocaine: -1out of 4 Americans between the age of 26 and 34 have used cocaine in their lifetime. -According to the Minnesota Institute for Public Health and drug prevention resource center, 5,000 adults in the United States try cocaine for the first time each day. (1985) -The annual number of new cocaine users has generally increased over time. In 1975 there were 30,000 new users. The number increased from 300,000 in 1986 to 361,000 in 2000. -In 1988, about 300,000 infants were born addicted to cocaine. Marijuana: _According to the UN's estimate, 141 million people around the world use marijuana. This represents about 2.5 percent of the world population. -600,000 Canadians have a criminal record for simple possession of marijuana -65% of people arrested for marijuana related crimes are for simple possession. Heroin: -According to Drug Abuse Warning Network, or DAWN, heroin and morphine accounted for 51% of drug deaths ruled accidental or unexpected in 1999. -Heroin is a highly addictive drug, and its use is a serious problem in America. Current estimates suggest that nearly 600,000 people need treatment for heroin addiction. -The number of ED visits involving heroin/morphine increased 15 percent, from 84,409 to 97,287 -In 2000, as part of DAWN's year-end emergency data report, heroin related emergency room visits increased 15% from the last year. -According to the University of Michigan.s Monitoring the Future Study in 2002, 1.6% of 8th graders, 1.8% of 10th graders, and 1.7% of 12th graders surveyed reported using heroin at least once during their lifetime. That study also showed that 0.9% of 8th graders, 1.1% of 10th graders, and 1% of 12th graders reported using heroin in the past year -The heroin addict spends between $150 to $200 per day to maintain a heroin addiction. I could go on but I'm sure ignorant morons like you think things are just great the way they are since you're not affected. BTW you might think twice about handling your money since 90% of US currency has traces of cocaine on it. You wouldn't want to get addicted paying for your snobery everyday!

plentyofhumping

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Need a Males opinon Posted: 8/22/2009 3:29:57 PM
I think it's stupid to think someone is out of your "league" or putting people on a scale and approaching them based on these things. I've met and talked to some amazing people (Pres. Reagan, Rob Lowe, Pratrick Swayze....just to drop a few names you might recognize). I never would have had the experiences if I thought they weren't human just like me and you or thought they were to good for me. The same thing applies to potential dates. Your going to miss out meeting some great people because you decided to judge them and not give them the chance to the very least just say no or as on POF, ignore you! Now I'm not on here looking for anyone, otherwise my profile wouldn't be as it is but I get emails from women telling me I'm funny and just as many calling me an a$$hole and they haven't even seen how ugly I am yet...LOL There's one type of girl I have always stayed away from though...VIRGINS!

plentyofhumping

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 8/22/2009 2:47:30 PM
"OMG! It is always so blatantly obvious when I read a post from someone too young to really have anything at risk for breaking the law!" Or thinks the law is wrong or is it just poor people that smoke pot? "First, let me be completely upfront and agree that should the day ever arrive when the isssue of whether or not to legalize pot is on the ballot in Oregon, I will be leading the stampede to the ballot box to vote "yeah" for the legalization of pot!" Unfortunately you will never get that chance since governments prefer that their citizens live in fear and since you didn't elect Hitler or Saddam Hussein, western methods have to be used. Besides, many countries would like to legalize drugs but can't because of treaties signed with you geniuses south of the border. "If marijuana was legalized, it would be possible to purchase a product from a legitimate businessman (rather than a criminal on a street corner). The product purchased would be produced under controlled conditions and there would be no question what the product was 'cut' with (unlike purchasing from street corner dealers who may cut your pot with anything from oregano to crack cochaine); " OMG! It is always so blatantly obvious when I read a post from someone too ignorant to know any better.

plentyofhumping

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Need a Males opinon Posted: 8/10/2009 3:49:06 PM
I think you changed your description which sounds better too...the last pic with your boy is best..though...LOL

plentyofhumping

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Need a Males opinon Posted: 8/10/2009 2:51:58 PM
Your pics are way better then when you first started this..you should be getting more messaging...your current profile pic should have the caption "This is what you want eh baby?".

plentyofhumping

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There's something about polyandry.. Posted: 8/4/2009 3:29:26 PM
tacitta "Lets put it this way. If several men want to love me and be with me, that would be ok, but I am far too jealous to let that situation be reversed." If there's an jealousy on anyones part the thing is doomed from the beginning. There are many advantages to this type of lifestyle and many arrangements in the polygamous life but a person has to be prepared to communicate and compromise twice as much as in a monogamous relationship.

plentyofhumping

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There's something about polyandry.. Posted: 8/4/2009 3:23:09 PM
"One to do the dishes One to do the laundry One to clean the bathroom One to clean the kitty litter box One to keep the house tidy One to mow the lawn One to take care of the kids One to massage my feet when I get home from work One to massage my shoulders when I get home from work One to draw me a bubble bath when I get home from work and one to make sure supper is on the table when I get home from work " Any man should do these things for his woman if he's been sastisfied himself...care to guess what that takes most of the time? Most women have it engrave in their skulls...**** about it most of their lives and say men think about nothing else...but yet half of all relationships fail and most of the other half have selltled for what they have rather then what they wanted...Just an example of how things are with two people, once you start adding to the mix it of course makes its success more difficult. Although those that make the conscious effort and are better suited can always make a go of anything!Then again changing the conscious mind is the key to everything. It's why people with life insurance live longer!LOL

plentyofhumping

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when a man meets a woman !!!!!! Posted: 8/2/2009 1:09:24 PM
heartfelt "you can't control love, for some of us love is beyond control, something bigger and more powerful than we are, no matter how hard we try to hide it. once found, love seems to lead us where it wants to go, not where we want to go. it can be confusing and even painful at times as it weaves through our lives. as love leads us onward in life, different questions arise : how do we deal with the disappointments of love ? do men and women differ in their notions of love and loving behaviour ? how can we make love endure ? what does loving another person mean ? " I have to appologize...at first I thought that you had been smoking some really good sh1t and was just in a dillusional stone...turns out after checking the profile that you suffer from a very common condition called "tight bandana" syndrome... I know it's even harder to quit or give up then drugs and it's effects on the brain or much more damaging but try loosening the bandana up a little at first. And after recovering some primal brain function move onto wearing baseball caps and pretty soon you'll stop fantisizing all the time and leave the fairy tales to the next victim of "tight bandana" syndrome!! heartfelt "what does loving another person mean ?" You're here cause your last girlfriend ran for the door when you farted in bed aren't yah? Quit reading them Harlequin Romance novels while you're at it!! Check out Manswers on SPIKE for all your questions!!

plentyofhumping

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when a man meets a woman !!!!!! Posted: 8/2/2009 12:33:08 PM
heartfelt "well love is not the complicated mess that lot of book writers and movie makers would have us believe it is ........ love is as natural to the human race as rain is to flowers. " Again, I gotta ask what flowers you puffin on ?...Love has got to be one of the most complicated things otherwise half of all marriages wouldn't break up...sure you can fall in love looking at a profile...hopefully you have your blinders on before the warts start appearing. Unconditional love which is need for a relationship to last takes time and alot of compromise...if you feel like you have that after viewing a profile and exchaging a few emails then best of luck to yah! I'll still give yah a PO Box to send those flowers too though!

plentyofhumping

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when a man meets a woman !!!!!! Posted: 8/2/2009 12:21:31 PM
heartfelt "when a man meets a woman here and they chat, exchange phone numbers and enjoy each other "company", then how would you ladies know that this person maybe right for you ?" I'm no lady but wouldn't meeting and going out for awhile be the prudent thing to do before jumping into love issues or if someone is right for you....maybe even live together! heartfelt "how do you decide that he's worthy of your love ? and when do you start "suggesting" that you maybe in love with him ? do you wait till he says something first ? maybe he's waiting too ? or do you still wait to meet face to face ?" I really hope you're having issues with someone and not asking for advice cause this sounds like school yard stuff..LOL...You mean that you're even considering these questions before meeting someone??? "PASS THE PIPE BUDDY" I gotta try some of what your having...You're on here fishing...when you fish, even perfect fish get thrown back....cause you're not ready to eat them!!

plentyofhumping

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Why do guys insist on telling women theyve got a tight vagina? Posted: 7/28/2009 3:30:51 PM
bosox "What about nipple placement, size and color? That's another kind of weird compliment I've received. Do guys discuss that amongst themselves, or is it a silent observation? The only time I've heard my female friends discussing penis size in when it was ridiculously bigger than average to the point where it was painful instead of enjoyable." My friends were completely stuck up and only complimented girls that can tickle the back of their necks with their toes...and my pal apologizes profusely to your friend but he did warn her no cartwheels!! We were wondering if you wanted another opinion on your nipples though!! ...goes off to start a new thread!

plentyofhumping

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Why do guys insist on telling women theyve got a tight vagina? Posted: 7/28/2009 1:33:43 PM
darciewalker "thank you for the insight....i'll def def do that next time..lol " I betcha you have a hard time even convincing men to look down at your vagina!

plentyofhumping

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why are women surprised when you do what they ask Posted: 7/28/2009 9:14:11 AM
savona "Well your profile says you are only looking for friends. Say what you mean, mean what you say. " It does say looking for friends cause "Sh1thead who can't read and think at the same time" was not an option!!

plentyofhumping

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why are women surprised when you do what they ask Posted: 7/28/2009 9:06:37 AM
inbruges "It is so naive to think that women arent going to test you. or to say that testing you is 'playing games'. Most women are sweet and don't want to hurt your feelings yet still have to know if you're the 'real deal'. This girl is not going to come out and say "I want to have sex with you all weekend if I can prove that you don't just want me for sex". She's going to say what she said... Once you know that women are going to test us men, and that they are going to test for the rest of their life to prove you are worthy, then you can relax a little and just be the man, cause that's what they want ( I think!) So get over that its a game -- its a test. It sucks that most women can't be as direct as men, but its a fact of life --" Yes inbruges you're a woman guru...but I don't get paid to play chris angel mind freak !especially after the 30th date...not even to a 5 language, harp playing, cheerleader that can almost beat me at pool! And believe me she had many front row table pounding gurus like you pay her many $$$ just to stare...LOL...I don't play that game either! inbruges "Sexy lingerie and flirting means you should have gone for the kiss at least, then let it happen -- why didn't you? Because then I would've been just like you...I'm not gods gift to anything but she wasn't the first woman I had to stand my ground with not even the first dancer...LOL...I made sure she new it was the most difficult of decisions though....

plentyofhumping

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Nipples! Posted: 7/27/2009 2:01:33 PM
I personally am voluteering my time to any female out there that wants to test the OP's theory...

plentyofhumping

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Nipples! Posted: 7/27/2009 1:59:46 PM
Oh honey come see..someone likes playing " Come in Tokyo" too....

plentyofhumping

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Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 7/27/2009 10:48:54 AM
^^^^ Experimenting....hhhmm....I got some firecrackers and a tub of pure lard...comin over?

plentyofhumping

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Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 7/27/2009 10:38:46 AM
OP "Iv noticed some guys get offended an upset if you ask them do they enjoy recieving anal from a female alot reply "im not gay" or "i dont want to be with a guy", " I really can't believe how many threads I'm relating to today...OP I know everytime I'm offered to have my balls licked (after bleaching the area of course!) how I scream "NO! NO! I'M NOT INTO BEASTIALITY! I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH A DOG!"

plentyofhumping

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Why do guys insist on telling women theyve got a tight vagina? Posted: 7/27/2009 9:10:00 AM
OP "I mean Im serious every guy seems to think this is the most impressive compliment they can give a woman." I feel your pain... I only wish women would quit saying how much their vagina is so tight with me....I 'm praying for my first loose vagina!

plentyofhumping

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Why dont people learn to meet their own needs Posted: 7/26/2009 1:43:19 PM
pamperpooch "Is this a serious post or just a note of sarcasm? Sometimes people can have 'no' partners, and manage somehow to live with it. Doesn't make it perfect, but it's allot better than settling with a person who is completely wrong for you just because you 'need' some kind of companionship." I just started a collection and website where you can donate.... www.vibratorsfortheworld.com Think of all the lonely people we can help! You can start a side business charging $8 for AA batteries!

plentyofhumping

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Why dont people learn to meet their own needs Posted: 7/26/2009 12:06:47 PM
"Really i dont understand why so many people dont know how to be alone,and be happy with their self. " waaaahhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa,,,waaaaahhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh... somebody get me some diapers I can't stop pissing myself from laughter...waaahhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... You can't be serioues honey....you are so happy with yourself I betcha you don't even remember what you hair color is? Whaaaaaahhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhh!! Come on tell me how the boobs were to make someone else happy...whaaaahhhhaaaaaaaaa...where's the damn diaper????

plentyofhumping

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What DoI Do Next?WinXP Issues Posted: 7/26/2009 9:31:21 AM
No rant "Derry King"...If the woman wants to keep the damn thing learns to back up her stuff and format the sucker not only takes care of her problem and since it's advisable you do it at least once a year...there's no need for all the other crap to cause the same problem.......but then again what do they say about "a sucker born......"

plentyofhumping

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Need a Males opinon Posted: 7/26/2009 8:33:40 AM
LVGIRLY25 Forgot to mention if you go to your mail settings...top right you'll find this: Allow a user to see that I viewed their profile: (HELP) Yes No comes in handy so you don't have to put up with idiots wondering why you looked but didn't contact them....

plentyofhumping

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How important is money? Posted: 7/26/2009 8:28:54 AM
varinia Do an advance search and go to the bottom...then pick how big a liar you want!

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Need a Males opinon Posted: 7/26/2009 6:55:47 AM
You're a gorgeous lady with beautiful eyes and you have the "I would like to stick a pitch fork up my ex's...." look down pat!....but that's ok...you shouldn't be worried about the number of guys contacting you to begin with...you only need one perfect one! And I mean perfect, not one with a bunch of flaws you think you can fix because he has certain qualities you like...LOL...BTW you're not out of any guys league so don't prejudge, they could only be so lucky!

plentyofhumping

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What DoI Do Next?WinXP Issues Posted: 7/26/2009 6:17:22 AM
Oh is that all you have....just 3 browsers, 4 antivirus.....then absolutely don't do what I told you just follow the computer guru's reccomendations...yeah that 's it emptying the recycle bin...,.free up some space before you start wondering why it's in there to begin with and you start putting them back......next I would try going into the registry and just delete whatever you feel doesn't belong like they tell yeah! Run a few defrags cause one might not do much and you want to give it the cummulative effect.....but before trying any of this I would definitely try installing more anti virus ,spyware and malware software to keep these guys and your nervous friend in Europe happy since they have to put up with your slow typing all the time. Hey I know....you'll have to live at least on the second floor or higher but you can always fling the Inspiron 5100 out a window or balcony to chech out its flying capacity. I betcha it will never move any faster.....

plentyofhumping

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Worst Date. Ever. Posted: 7/25/2009 1:54:58 PM
tf...."It only made me stronger! yay!" Glad to hear that but you shouldn't have felt that way to begin with. First you have been watching what you eat and being active according to your profile for 6 yrs, so I take it you are the way you are and didn't change after meeting this guy. Trust me we all know what kind of looks we prefer in a woman as he did long before you came along...he never should have let you get to those feelings and then tell you to lose weight or else. Something you might never even be able to do and there's the rub of an excuse to break up( remember many girls that are toothpics can eat and drink you under the table and remain that way)....you're only eighteen...take your time . A guy that will find you his sexy turn on WILL COME TO YOU! and when the time is right make him work for it!!!

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delayed gratification Posted: 7/25/2009 12:02:46 PM
"(quote)Also let's face the fact that some women will put a guy in the friend zone if he doesn't move fast enough, so that is also a factor in why guys move so fast.(/quote) That is a very true statement. One I completely agree with, but on the other hand, moving too fast makes me feel like the only thing I'll be in is another notch on your bedpost and I want a relationship." That's bull...a woman will make you a friend if she doesn't want to sleep with you not cause your too slow..shouldn't the decision of when to sleep with each other rest on both parties?

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delayed gratification Posted: 7/25/2009 11:12:47 AM
RMH "well, i'm currently talking with a man that we've been chatting/calling/etc. for about 2 weeks now ....Maybe I'm the cazy one here - but if he is everything I think after all the time we've spent talking - I WANT to sleep with him. Not becuase it's all i'm after, but becuase I'm intensely attracted to the man (and no, there has been absolutely no "dirty" chat) mostly becuase we just have so much in common."" A whole two weeks....you must be dying to fling that chastity belt aside....hopefully you won't break his fly in haste only to find out his python's really an appetizer wiener! Crazy...no.....foolish.. !! Any man worth having will gladly wait whatever time .

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Msg: 7 (view)

delayed gratification Posted: 7/25/2009 10:46:33 AM
ashweegrl what you're describing should have been discussed prior to meeting these guys...if you're going to meet guys off the internet or anyone for that matter don't you want to use that distance to your advantage first before wasting your time meeting guys that are not what you want right off the bat! You should feel good about your wants and needs in a man along with being confident in their looks to meet in the first place and that's after speaking for awhile on the phone!! Next time you can always say something like" seems some guys just want to jump in the sack right away...I'm not like that and the amount of time really depends oh how special you are but I'll let you know that!!" The other thing I can't emphasize enough if I was looking is one red flag ( I call em 2x4's) is one too many..people who are meant for each other make no excuses to each other!!

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Msg: 44 (view)

Worst Date. Ever. Posted: 7/25/2009 10:00:48 AM
tishyfishy "Thats sad... I've been turned down because of my looks before... its a terrible feeling." You have to quit chasing down the coma victims at BC Memorial dear!

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Msg: 43 (view)

Worst Date. Ever. Posted: 7/25/2009 9:53:08 AM
OP"I eventually asked what she looked like. She gave the vaguest answer. (Red Flag #2.) " By the 2nd 2x4 I would of said yes I'm superficial as I tend to like to be turned on by my date!

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Msg: 18 (view)

Need a Males opinon Posted: 7/25/2009 9:23:07 AM
With such a good looking kid it would be nice to get a smile out of you...and try posting that!

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Msg: 17 (view)

Need a Males opinon Posted: 7/25/2009 8:42:04 AM
That's way better with the pictures!!

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Msg: 9 (view)

Very Confused Posted: 7/24/2009 5:25:18 PM
When starting out one dumb move is good enough to catch my attention to move on...women are not wired for that...women want men that they think they can change,,,men want women they hope will never change...now you know why were wrong 50% of the time...add the "internet factor" and you're throwing alot of crap up against the wall before anything starts sticking around here ( and believe me because of annonimity factor and shear numbers there's lots more crap to go around here). Many like yourself would have a much easier time finding someone in person...I notice you have game playing on your profile as many do..I was wondering if you had done anything like this story or at least said something when in fact you didn't mean it: "This is not recent but I'm sure it happens all the time...I took out this girl quite a few times and invited her to a trip to Montreal for the weekend. Before leaving she turns to me in the car and says " I'm just going as friends and don't want anything to happen." Ok no problem...and despite the sexy lingerie and flirting back and forth all weekend I stay true to my word! So why is it I get asked afterwards why nothing happened? Why say anything if you don't mean it?" Didn't mean to turn the thread on you just interested in an honest answer....

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Msg: 29 (view)

why are women surprised when you do what they ask Posted: 7/24/2009 9:48:33 AM
outmind "Women want to deflect the responsibility of the seduction to the guy that way they do not have to feel like they had premeditation or that they are a slut. This is quite normal actually. In fact, several guys when writing about seduction have mentioned this particular event. And in my case it has happened almost every single time" POH "I'm sure it happens all the time" thanks for backing me up! But how about the ones that jump your bones as soon as you open the door...many of those too! ot "where at one point the girl tells you no, or tells you that she wants to but doesn't want to come across as a slut, or pulls back. What that simply means is that you need to pull back a little, make her feel at ease, then move forward." What if she was a dancer (as in pole) and slut had nothing to do with it... Turns out Landra2 got to show us what a great communicator she is.. Your spot on thereason...notice how many don't play them though in their profile? cinsav "You're 46 years old - why are you playing games like a teenager hoping to get lucky on prom night?" I guess you fall into the majority of those on here that can't read and are just skimming....btw you're 37 yrs old why you here? still trying to graduate? carolann0308 "Sounds to me like she likes to play the virgin game." Oh so you played it before and have a name for it too? "You on the other hand get some twisted joy out of calling her bluff. " No...If you read my marathon of a profile you would have seen "I only have one motto and that is you'll get back twice as much as you give me....good or bad!" You can't help but play games but I'm twisted for playing along? Blondie109 "I hope you did not pay for this trip! If you did get your money back." ROTFLMAO you guys are on a dating and can't even read a simple paragragh...LOL Although this was 25 yrs ago I guess I was still "old school " back then...I've never had a women pay for anything in my life especially not someone I invited out for the upteenth time with no expectations. Obviously she wanted something to happen...she new me well...she agreed to go....she "packed" before hand...she chose to stay in the same room..all before even sniffing any alchohol! ashlybstn They say it takes a kid to speak the truth but as you can see you're wise beyond your years....I see you're from bohhston...great place,,I also found it one of the easiest to get lost in...LOL....If you get a chance, one of my favourite places in the world is right across the harbour from you....if you go to the tip of cape cod to Provincetown they have some of the best sand dunes...restaurants and shopping...the whole town is gay but they are swamped in the summer especially during pride week...BTW I almost fell into the pit laughing histerically where plymoth rock is held...for some reason I had something more grandeur in mind other then a 5 foot bolder with a date stamp...LOL

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Msg: 33 (view)

How far to you go in your search? Posted: 7/23/2009 3:26:02 PM
Are you kidding mortalez. I would plop myself down on the couch and make them come to you...apparently women like communication as well so make sure you send them a map to your zipper with every invitation!! 10 miles taks me from 350 homes to 1500....I've lived in bigger condos!

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Msg: 18 (view)

why are women surprised when you do what they ask Posted: 7/23/2009 2:59:35 PM
"So you don't talk about birth control or STD's or anything? I'd check your profile for your age but I'll assume your under 24 if this is your thinking. " Why would I waste my breath asking someone if they are going to be like you and not answer the questions posed to them and instead do the I'm better then you shtick. I take it you're over 40 and have your questionaire ready....

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Msg: 13 (view)

why are women surprised when you do what they ask Posted: 7/23/2009 2:23:53 PM
"If you mean you wanted to have sex, then obviously her telling you a weekend trip was "as friends" should have been your first clue that she either wasn't interested in you or wasn't ready to "move the relationship along". " So I take it you go on weekend trips with guys you're not interest in? "Did you not discuss becoming sexually intimate prior to your trip, or were you crossing your fingers that you'd "move along"? " I'm not one for discussing my sexual conquests ahead of time. I like to take them by surprise... Or should I have sat her down and whipped it out to make sure it was ok for her so she wouldn't be dissapointed? It would be great if you answered my original questions instead of trying to make it like I was the culprit...

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Msg: 7 (view)

why are women surprised when you do what they ask Posted: 7/23/2009 1:54:28 PM
"Women want to deflect the responsibility of the seduction to the guy that way they do not have to feel like they had premeditation or that they are a slut. This is quite normal actually. In fact, several guys when writing about seduction have mentioned this particular event. And in my case it has happened almost every single time, where at one point the girl tells you no, or tells you that she wants to but doesn't want to come across as a slut, or pulls back. What that simply means is that you need to pull back a little, make her feel at ease, then move forward." I was looking for a first hand answer from some ladies. Of course it happens and it's normal I just want THEM to tell us why!! Isn't what you're describing usually saved for after you get the room...LOL

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Msg: 5 (view)

why are women surprised when you do what they ask Posted: 7/23/2009 1:36:31 PM
"I'm wondering why you'd go away on a weekend trip with a "friend" . What was the point of that? " How about I was trying to move the relationship along...what's your answer now?

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Msg: 1 (view)

why are women surprised when you do what they ask Posted: 7/23/2009 1:05:03 PM
This is not recent but I'm sure it happens all the time...I took out this girl quite a few times and invited her to a trip to Montreal for the weekend. Before leaving she turns to me in the car and says " I'm just going as friends and don't want anything to happen." Ok no problem...and despite the sexy lingerie and flirting back and forth all weekend I stay true to my word! So why is it I get asked afterwards why nothing happened? Why say anything if you don't mean it?

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Msg: 14 (view)

Need a Males opinon Posted: 7/23/2009 12:21:28 PM
Yeah I have something to hide...I'm a zillionaire and made my money dispensing advice and opinions. I can write english too. Since you didn't like my last experiment try this one. Draw a long pointy black hat on top of your head on your profile pic and tell me what you see....were you in the Wizard Of Oz?

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Msg: 160 (view)

How important is money? Posted: 7/22/2009 4:42:56 PM
varinia "Nah - income is not a searchable value, so it doesn't make a difference.' " I beg to differ...you can certainly search by income if you want.....

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Msg: 9 (view)

Need a Males opinon Posted: 7/22/2009 10:03:16 AM
Well I tried to be nice so lets be more direct..... "Ok there is a ton of people on this site and we all can see who views our profiles." No I can easily make so that you can't see me look at your profile but you're a genius so I'm sure you'll figure it out sooner or later. "I have no problem meeting people when I go out for the night but not intrested in meeting some drunk person who probaly won't remeber my name when they wake up lol." Really, then I suggest you try meeting people that aren't drunk! And what makes you think this place is any better. "I meet people in random places better then on this site" Wow that's a revelation....since I meet people once I step out my door , but have to go through a bunch of hoops and dances to meet anyone I have seen here. "One guy on here explained to me that alot of guys will look at a womens picture and immedalty judge is she is "out of their leauge" and this is why I was told I have a tougher time." Dream on honey...the guy was being kind to you just like I was trying with my first response! Any guy looking at your pictures and reading your profile is going say "**" and move on! "Does that really happen with guys?" Yes it does but since this is the internet people tend to feel more emblazoned (look it up) so they are less likely to not contact you because of that. "I know i've done it a time or two but i'm just curious?? " Of course you have, if you weren't so insecure you wouldn't be starting such a forum after signing up for ten days! "If so does that mean us girls need to put ugly pictures up lol" No it means that you might want to find a picture that doesn't make you look like a ** and change your profile to make it more inviting.

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