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Joined: 2/5/2006

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Talk about False Advertising......... Posted: 5/17/2006 3:36:23 PM
I cant live this way, and nor can I put my children through it! ANY SUGGESTIONS??????? YES!!!!!! find a local alanon meeting an go an listen......just give it a try...you will hear so much of what you are feeling......from other people.....Try several different meetings till you find one u feel really comfortable in...al meetings are not the same...they have differetn personanalities but all of them can help with the confusion you feel now and can help you put things in perspective. good luck

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Talk about False Advertising......... Posted: 5/15/2006 4:52:23 PM
Now your left with the guilt that if you break it off completely....he will drink himself right into his grave! This sucks....As i was nothing but 100% honest from the start! Beleive me he will drink no matter what you do or dont do!!!!drunks drink casue thier team wins...or they drink casue thier team losses... they drink cause the dog died...they drink cause the dog didnt die.... A drinker is going to drink no matter what else is going on in thier world... learn from this and listen to your gut.... learn from this ....every thing happens for a reason and maybe this happened so the next time you meet somone you will know some signs to look for.... i know i look at alot of different things about someone before i meet them. good luck

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23 Years and I get thrown away! Posted: 5/14/2006 6:55:24 PM
Maggie hugs girlfriend.... I know how it feels...after 24 yrs of marraige my ex had an affair with his best friends wife....when caught he blamed it all on me an the weight i had gained during the marraige. I felt betrayed an worthless i kept thinking if the man that promised to love an honor an cherish me didnt love me an wanted a divorce then who possible could ever love me? Well girl its been 7 yrs and i now know he did me a favor ..I am happier than i have ever been i have met some nice men over the last few yrs and I am now seeing someone that seems to value me as a person...yes it is hard to trust again but i am trying....Everything i have been through the last few yrs has made me the person I am today and today I like the person i am today. Before you go out looking for another man take time to get to know you...what you like and what u dont like...be the person your are meant to be. And beleive me being alone isnt as bad as you might think.You will be ok ... And if that isnt enough to get you thru....remember this Living a good life is the best revenge there is....everytime he sees you getting on with your life an loving every minute of it you will feel a certian satisfaction and yes it is GREAT!!!!!!!!

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A 2nd chance after INFIDELITY? I would really value all opinions!! Posted: 4/8/2006 9:49:20 AM
No way will i ever again stay in a relationship after being cheated on...I was married to my high school sweet heart for 25 yrs...found out he was cheating on me with someone....left him....he blamed it on his drinking. He went into treatment for it...i took him back...his councler said" as long as he isnt drinking he wont do this again...but if he drinks again i wouldnt give a plug nichol for what he might do"...long story short....after 13 yrs he still hasnt had another drink....but 3 weeks outa treatment i got this gut feeling things werent right and yes he was cheating again...so no i will never trust someone that betrays my trust again. once the trust is gone its not worth having. I have a hard time to this day trusting my judgment about men....but i always listen to my gut...it never lies to me...

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VIRGINIA Posted: 3/11/2006 4:28:48 AM
Hi Ya'll central virginia here....

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anyone ever met crazy/insane people off the internet? Posted: 3/11/2006 4:13:06 AM
"He hasn't taken off his profile, but runs like the wind if he thinks I am going to IM him. I give up. What could possibly have happened in that poor guy's head that could have made him do that in the space of 24 hours?? " Sorry to say this luv, but he sounds like he is the type to see how many women he can get to fall for him...then just drops you.Its kinda like they have this quota they have to make.And you were just another #. Hard to beleive there are those types when you are open an honest..but remember not everyone has the morals you do...took me along time to learn that. There are all kinds of crazy weird people on here... just listen to your gut..if there are red flags waving look at what there is behind that..if things feel strange then stop look and listen...., I kinow i sound cynical but after meeting alot of men on here beleive me i know what i am talking about..

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howdy everybody Posted: 3/4/2006 11:33:20 PM
well jamieray im sorta kinda new here too....best of luck to you in the pond.

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Hit me baby Posted: 2/27/2006 7:16:41 PM
thanks for the review..but i must be doing something wrong here.....lol and it isnt just my username..its my name and i am in Va so if my profile is ok then it must be me...what a dreadful thought..i have a good profile but i suck as a person?

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dating an overweight person? Posted: 2/26/2006 9:59:20 AM
Island girl^5 to you. i weight issuesand probably always will have them...I know that and i also know alot of the guys on here that say they would date an overwight woman are just kidding themselves or are trying to kid us. Its ok in thier mind to "hook-up" with a bbw if know one knows...late at night...in the middle of the week...but never ever ask her out on a friday or sat night....OMG someone might see them together! But you know what...us BBW's have big hearts along with the rest of our size....we dont need to be used for a good time and then forgotten about when you want arm candy. Me? I like me....i know what i need and i am doing what is healthy for me...staying away from men that are embrassed or scared to have a real realtionship with a real woman in a real size.

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HONEST reviews of your profile PART 2 Posted: 2/26/2006 8:10:57 AM
how about doing mine? i need HELP!

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does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 2/24/2006 11:07:50 PM
here ya go sambucadawg...if you cant find yours use mine .

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