I recently had a date that went... ahem, well - very quickly. Wow. Afterwards, she said we should keep in touch, then as she was getting out of the car, asked if I had any money! [quote/]

Well, we are in a recession.

A friend of mine once told me that his girlfriend loves to have her hair pulled when they have sex doggystyle...and that she was the one who had actually asked him to do it.

and if I say no to having sex I just deny myself and missed a good chance....And I only have about 5-10 minutes to make that decision!

pansexual is new to me but im polyamorous and bi. my sexuality seems to be a problem too the ones who have a prob are not gonna be in my life. this is a hard question but like the 1st reply said ppl fear things they dont understand. i would say find someone who will understand u

eroticizing an inanimate object or particular body part is a FETISH
Nothing to do with pansexuality at all!!!!!!!!!!![/quote}

Hey darlin' didn't say it was the same thing..."it reminds me of it"

I've often wondered, since this was just a coffee date, if I had called and said.. I forgot my wallet and have to go get it.. what she might have said.. and if she said, it's ok I'll get it.. if she would have really meant it. Hmmm

he lays on me that he isn't willing to get married unless I'm willing to have a threesome, once a month!

So you meet that girl you connect with and your making out and its getting to the rip the clothes off part. You realize you dont have condoms and she whips one out in a heartbeat. Is that a good thing? I guess it is as far as the safe sex part goes but does that mean she's perhaps a little too sexually active?

In my city, the doctors dont give you any type of paper form you can leave with as proof that you are clean!

asual bj's are not that big of deal, it seems the younger generation of women prefer bjs before actual intercourse

I'm sure I'm not the only one that is shocked - shocked! - that a 23 yo bi-sexual woman with 4 kids, lots of tattoos, smokes like a chimney, and the worlds longest laundry list of what she does NOT want in a guy can't do better than this.

When the bills comes it almost always comes to me. After a few dates go by which I pick up the tab and I have no problem doing, the ladies always say “do you want my credit card” or “do you want me to pay half”? I mean if you really wanted to pay after a few dates wouldn’t you just say “I want to pay for this date since you have paid for the last few” or “here is my credit card or cash for my half”. By having to ask me that question kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth seeing that if you really wanted to pay or contribute you would not be asking. I would never actually say “yes give me your credit card or yeah, sure give me some cash” to a date.

For the ladies I don't think they realize how dangerous it is for a man to piss on them while having an erection...you stand to lose a contact or two and not to mention it has enough force to strip off all that lovely make up you were wearing.

And, yes, it will be a glorious day when you realize that you were wrong all along.[quote}


Glorious day? WTF? Although I read and enjoy the teachings of Buddhism, I do read about the teachings of Christ..mostly about his life on earth not focusing on his death. That latter has no meaning to me. Well, I suppose I am in the category that is going to hell. Too bad I don't believe in hell and satan. I really can't imagine thinking that others are doomed for what they belief. What happened to focusing on Love. Isn't that what Jesus would want us to do? The essence of who he was is much more important in how I live my life that pulling out scripture and living my life only by words of the bible. I wonder what Christians would think about the time Jesus spent in Tibet...meditating with others there? There are some Christians who believe that meditation is wrong.