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Joined: 5/9/2009

Msg: 38 (view)

REVENGE SEX. Posted: 8/20/2009 2:09:23 PM
Bad karma =more bad karma? Not. Why would anyone want to open themselves up to receive this in their aura? Call yourself lucky, you found out who she was. Move on and move up. That won't happen till you get past the anger, that's the way it works.

Joined: 5/9/2009

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Why men wont commit Posted: 8/20/2009 2:05:00 PM
I had that happen once, fell head over heals for someone, but then their goblins came out of the closet, you know the ones you only meet at 2AM after you've both been together for awhile. Little green fellows like criticism and anger, dismissiveness and lack of appreciation. Probably the worst goblin, maybe even a full sized demon in relationship to the male ego, is criticism. Nothing runs a guy off like this one, we want our girl to appreciate us. So when this stuff came up I pulled waaay back, found myself really busy all of a sudden,all the time, until poof, no more relationship. So when a guy backs off don't let it be for these reasons, let it be because he just wants to grab the fishing pole, golfclubs, motorcycle or what ever else makes him feel whole and spend some time with himself. Guys generally like doing one thing at a time, when it's you it feels good, when it's fishing it doesn't.

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Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 8/13/2009 11:13:45 PM
Yes lawyers have feelings ,but they are negotiable. I apologize, I really can't hate anyone on principal till after they graduate law school. How ever no bartender ever poured me a drink,scarfed 1/3 of it down, burped, handed me my glass and billed me for the rest.

Joined: 5/9/2009

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oh my god.....i'm over him Posted: 8/13/2009 10:40:40 PM
Your memory have just been over written.

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Msg: 42 (view)

Is it bad for me to want something I previously had? Posted: 8/13/2009 10:27:06 PM
I've often heard we never want what we can have. But when we can't have it, what ever the reasons, suddenly it looks much nicer. Joe Campbell once quoted,"Beware the coming of Christ, for he will not come again." Sometimes life is a one way trip and gravity wins. But supposing for a moment you get a secound chance, what will you do different? How do you express gratitude and thanksgiving? No one owes you anything. Tell you what, someone buys me flowers even once a month, I'd be very grateful for the next three home cooked dinners on me. While beauty and a good heart are nice if you can find them in the same place, given the toss up, I'll take a woman whose grateful for having me in their life, the heart outlives mere appearence by many long years.

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Msg: 118 (view)

Men with Trust Issues Posted: 8/13/2009 9:57:48 PM
It's called pattern recognition. Thats why certain moths and flys mimic bees and wasps. Been stung once and even the yummy ones go untasted. Men are no different, than any other animal. I lost a really good relationship because the woman was scary like my ex at times. Some ones who's been stung may not trust their judgment either, so you could be buttered toast and they might think,"Yeah but so was my last alimony payment." Now was there anything you did that tended to freak them out in a blast from the past?

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SHORT GUYS Posted: 7/7/2009 6:58:59 AM
Sex appeal is pretty much anything that worked back in the Paleolithic. Nice big hunter/aggressors types make good Alpha male breeding stock. Good for the tribe. Thankfully, some folks use their frontal lobes for mate selection, so there's hope my friend.

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Msg: 45 (view)

Can Anyone Relate to Dating a Woman who is Bi-Polar? Posted: 7/7/2009 6:44:08 AM
I was married to a woman who was bipolar and schizophrenic. She was a genuis,brilliant,warm,funny,that is whenever she wasn't trying to kill herself or defend herself in a corner from the hallucinations with a carving knife. It wasn't her fault, it's a disease. However you deserve happiness, it's unlikely you'll find it with someone who has this disorder in large doses. Call me gun shy. I will not date anyone who is taking psych meds for any kind of mood or mental disorder. For the same reason, I will not date anyone who drinks in excess or does drugs, which are frequent attempts at self medication for this problem. It's a tragick disease, but unless you want to be part of this tragedy find your happiness else where. It's not your karma, it's not your life. Ultmately that's the life you're responsible for. You're lucky she broke it off before you got so in you couldn't get out.

Joined: 5/9/2009

Msg: 200 (view)

What's your deal breaker? (re profiles first glance) Posted: 7/7/2009 3:20:31 AM
The obvious things, no job, no education, no real passions or interests. Not so obvious, do they smile or is their face on permeanent lock down? Do they have a list of prequalifications longer than todays home loan? Do they Really think sarcasm is a form of humor? Do they advertise their body like it was man bait? These make me join the Foreign Legion and head off to Algiers.

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Msg: 63 (view)

what have you learned from previous relationships about choosing a partner? Posted: 7/7/2009 3:09:19 AM
I'd have to say friendship comes 1st. Romantic hormnones have a shelf life, but real friendship, a respect and appreciation for someone and just finding them plain fun, that has no expiration date. Anyone can feel good in bed, but we spend a lot more time grocery shopping and washing dishes . Now how do you feel when you do this together with someone? When their hands are all sudsy and their elbow deep in the sink, that's the time you should be able to give them a big hug and grab a towel, that's when the moment should be beautiful too, in all it's poetic and glorious ordinariness.

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