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Has anyone ever been dumped via email? Posted: 6/22/2005 6:48:34 PM
------------------------------------------------------------------------------- right on! now to just find a nice, cute young man to enjoy my sex drive!! ================================================ All I can say is where are women like you when need them. I'm a very sweet, decent single man looking for someone like you. You don't have family out near Oregon do ya. lol. I'm tired of dealing with most of the women I seem to meet here in Oregon. Either ya get the "I'm at least 95% into belongings you buy me & have slept with at least 10 guys a year" or it's the "I'm into the pot and all peace and love revolution". it's very unattractive here to me. Don't get me wrong I'm not a prude, I just like to know where you've been in the past and if you have slept with that many people have ya got some medical to tell me your not carrying something around with ya. ahh maybe I'm just too picky about things like that. I dunno anymore. just tired of being a loner out there. As far as the whole dumping someone in e-mail, yeah that's pretty shameless as far as I can see. I'm sure it somewhat depends on how long you've been with the person and how you would be able to reach them in the first place.

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july 4th bonfire Posted: 6/20/2005 9:44:40 PM
If you tell me more about it, I'll see if I can't get myself and maybe my cousin to go out that way. Certainly would be nice to be at the coast during the 4th of July, just don't know how the funds are going to work out this year ?!? Anyways I'm interested. Adam.

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Introduction and some fun events in the area Posted: 2/24/2005 8:29:53 PM
Hello out there. I'm a single 27 year old male living in the Eugene/Springfield area of Oregon that currently works 2 part-time jobs. I've got many different various interests in Asian culture, psychology, art work and lots more. It would be great to get to know others out there from this site in a good casual place, and I would have to say that getting to learn Tango has been very fun for me and I think many others would enjoy it. www.tangocenter.org. Well maybe in the future there will be 2 plenty of fish Oregon events that get held for people to meet, one in the Eugene/Springfield area and one in the Portlandish area, eh?? Adam.

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Taking it Posted: 1/2/2005 12:57:46 PM
Dating this guy but he is scared to shag me as much as possible/ as much as I would like him to. He finally confessed it was because I am already a mother and he is scared to get me pregnant again. I had to sit there and explain to the 21 year old that its the year 2004 and Im enlightened on the technological advances of contraception (pills/ condoms together)..and that I had a child by choice. All things said and done, Im still not getting much sugar even though we have done it before, should I keep taking it slow with this guy? I enjoy his company but dont just want a friend, Im a nympho. Sheesh. I sure would like to be in his shoes. I'm not too sure where in Canada ya live, but it would seem to me that I've got the same kind of problem. Unfortunatley my biggest problem always seems to be the money issue to keep stability with many of them. lol. As long as your financial stable with this guy and you have feelings and wants from each other I see no reason why you wouldn't want to give your partner more. All I can think of is that he can't keep up and/or is trying to avoid from telling you something.

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Women Dig Jerks Posted: 1/2/2005 12:13:42 PM
PS. I hate meat markets, but most people within a certain age range tend to congregate at them. Again, not everyone, but it is more common than, uncommon. Why can’t ‘the ladies’ just tap me on the shoulder at the check-out counter when I am buying my toilet paper and oxy pads… whoopsies looks like I am getting some hemorrhoid cream… how socially awkward of me. Why that’s not mine…. It’s the guy in front of me, he just forgot it, I swear. Why can’t they just grope me in public? I said your lousy words, now I want back like in the deal. Ya know I couldn't agree more with you on the meat market prospects. Unfortunatley in the North American continent more than anywhere in the world people in general get fed that bull of you have to look gorgous, drink alot, and be able to party hardy. And you wonder why we have such a messed up society people. lol. Earlier in life most seem to want to have parties drink alot and lots of sex, I didn't say all. Later in life after the majority has at least one major disfunction that the system we pay taxes to has to provide the cure for we are stuck in that same cycle. So I guess what I'm saying here is that if your independant of your own thoughts, don't buy into all the media glitz and glamour and keep true to your self and the person your with things will work out for the better in the end. No promises or refunds after 90 days, consult your doctor after taking this medicine. Side effects may include a good household income, a better understanding of your mate and a more stable relationship.

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Back Hair.. Posted: 1/2/2005 11:27:44 AM
i do the same... shave the legs constantly, as well as under my arms and then i have my eyebrows waxed. we both know we wouldn't get a second look if we stopped shaving and waxing... come on! who wants to snuggle up to some hairy freak? definitely not me and i wouldn't do that to my partner either. and you're definitely right about the nair... it takes forever to get that stinky, slippery crap off the body and you still have to shave or wax after you use it. how many men out there would go get their privates waxed to please their partner like women do? probably very few! While I do agree that looking like the ape from the prehistoric era isn't ok, I don't think that having no hair on any of your body is a good look either. Ever seen an albino?? lol. That and if your looking to look like a porn star and go into acting I say go for all the hair removal you can get so that the camera man and the "touch-up" computer person has less work. heh. As for the whole waxing of your private parts here's the thing, females I can see as a possibility and why it's because you have your privates on the inside. Males on the other hand are on the outside and I would have to refer for women that getting your nipples dipped in burning wax is probably what the equivalent would be. If your turned on by that go for it.

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Health Care in the US Posted: 1/1/2005 5:17:55 PM
bells: if something like that happens.... you get sent to one of an ever decreasing number of county hospitals in the US and the county will pick up your bill if you have no means to pay for it; OR, you can just skip out of the US and nobody will come after you for it. Yeah the problem is if you get hurt any more for any reason, you might as well just try some of your own "home" medicine. lol. If you don't have Id and no proof of insurance pretty much what happens is. 1.) If the police find you in time or someone calls 9-11 you will get to #2. 2.) The hospital that you are admitted to will ask for someone to fill out the paper work on who this person is. If your a jane/john doe (anonymous) you had better pray that someone pays for your bill, or you have alot of family. Depending on the county and the hospital your at is how much work you may or may not get. Much like when I got my last wisdom tooth in, it pushed into the side of the gum where my other tooth already was. I had to have it extracted. That cost us $750 (my parents paid. good thing) to do that. If you want a crowning it costs $400 at Oregon Health Science University (in Portland). the cheapest. which I still need done but can't afford.

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Health Care in the US Posted: 1/1/2005 4:38:54 PM
Here's an idea PAY FOR YOUR OWN HEALTH INSURANCE! If the government got out of the health business insurance premiums would be affordable and paying for health insurance would be no different than paying your homeowners insurance. And don't even talk about canadian healthcare as being the model to follow because i've heard quite a few horror stories from up there as well. Shouldn't we be responsible for our own health care? Yes I agree we should BE ABLE to pay for our own health insurance. The problem as I see it is that medicine here in the U.S. is sold as if it's a retail market. You buy however much you think you need and is perscribed. The catch is that not all states interpert the information on how to pay for insurance costs. That is part of the problem. A nice standard would be nice. I'm NOT saying Canadian. Certainly the U.S. is a different situation in many ways. There needs to be a model that is straight across all fifty states for a base value. No inflation due to the country we are importing anything from would be a good start. And yes the Government is everyone. So if you take the government out of the health business you would have more Privitization. Are you suggesting that the more privitized health care is the better solution???

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oooh gosh! the big bad haters are coming to beat me up! I'm so scared! Posted: 1/1/2005 4:11:18 PM
I'm an idealist too and I think Bush is a good man. He is fighting the war on terror by removing the sources of terror,Shithole mid-east despotic regimes which stay in power by inflamig their populations Islamic hatreds.Until democracies are intstalled there it will be the same sh*t over and over and over again.And if some American corporations get rich in the process, so what.I'd rather see them getting rich than the French,Germans,Russians,or Chinese all of whom were quite happily selling these nutbars nuclear technology. Just wondering there bud, but I see that you happen to live in Canada. How is allowing some American Corporations getting rich going to help you?? It seems to me that I remember something about our president being called an incompetent fool by your prime minister. So does that mean you would want to move to America to enjoy this ???

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Boycott corporate America... Posted: 1/1/2005 3:56:06 PM
Other ways to "dmn the man": - Free software. There is a bunch* of it out there. The most obvious is Linux (replace Windows), but a few others that are very good are OpenOffice (replace MS Office), Mozilla Firefox (replace internet explorer), and Mozilla Thunderbird (replace MS Outlook). They're all free and they're all open source, both of which are good things when trying to d*mn the man. Just wanted to add to your list of GPL (General Public License) here. It's a good start. Certainly the price of software privitazation has gone waaay overboard and people don't really even pay attention to it. Back when I started in the Atari (yeah I know quite a ways back) days of computing I went to the local computer outlet that sold disks as Public Domain and the idea was that you were giving fifty cents to your local store to help with it's business. That gave me a whole magazine to read and alot of extra fun "goodies" to play with back then. Now you pay $200 for the latest upgrade of Microshaft windows to find out your computer may be incompatible and the major bugs that are the important one's that are able to give you device driver support are so unstable that it crashes every other day. lol. http://sourceforge.net -- SourceForge.net is the world's largest Open Source software development website, with the largest repository of Open Source code and applications available on the Internet. http://www.mysql.com/ -- The MySQL database server is the world's most popular open source database.

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Is Bush mentally ill? Posted: 1/1/2005 3:16:18 PM
As for Clinton and his economics LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!! Yea thanks for the economic bubble that's burst Enron telecomm anyone? That doesn't happen in a 1yr, the 1st yr of Bushes office. As for Clinton not being as corrupt as Bush, maybe if you spent as much time digging up dirt on Bush and spend it on Clinton, you would see how wrong that statement is. This is always a two way street. Certainly this is true in policits in general and I would like to say that it seems like all the more recent within the past 10 - 12 years of Presidency in the U.S. likes to think that the easiest way to get yourself out of a dillema is just to "throw money at it". Yeah this is true in all the President's that we have had, but it's more so a problem in this 21st century than at any other time that I have seen. Part of the problem that america as a whole, Repbulican, Democrat, Liberal, Green Party (and any other's I can't think of at the moment) has. Instead of making another round about way of avoiding what we have that dosen't work in this country it would be nice to think we don't just introduce new bills to "overlap" what we previously did. There is alot of overhaul that I can see that would make this country alot stronger than it already is.

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Is Bush mentally ill? Posted: 1/1/2005 2:40:52 PM
I was thinking a bit about this Bush and goverment thing... I really do believe Mr Bush would be wiser if putting more effort on social sector and education. Now his decisions are very narrow short-term interests based. Like he would not be interested what will happen in future, just what looks good at this very moment. Actually I'm really glad that you brought up the whole education issue. It's really funny to see how the current president wanted to make the No child left behind act a mandatory part of all schools in the U.S., but yet there is no funding for this ??? More recently that has been funding for new school education in the health and wellness, calling for abstenance. putting 115 million dollars into telling children that you shouldn't have sex until your married. that's about the dumbest thing I've heard. lol. It goes a bit something like this for a comparison. Your at work and you happen to get a paper-cut or hurt yourself working with the equipment that you use daily, so you go to your foreman/boss/supervisor and tell him you need a bandage for your cut and him telling you "No that can just wait" it's ok. When you get done at the end of the week we will look into the possibility of giving you something.

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Is Bush mentally ill? Posted: 1/1/2005 4:38:21 AM
his religious devotion, and his staunch stand on national defense This is something I find to be very funny that you bring this up. If you happened to notice over the years that Bush has been in office and the changes in voter turnout in his own republican party, at first the majority was Evangelical Christians on the first time he made it into office. Now they only make up about a good 45 - 50% of what it used to be. hmm. is that partially due to the fact that before invading Iraq, when the Pope decided to try to talk things over and help with the whole resolution of this situation and before John Paul was able to fully be told that our forces were entering that area that the pope could litterally "Kiss our ass" as far as that was concerned. My second point on the National defense issue here. Very recently (only a few months ago), Bush has not upped security in the most vital area that fighting something such as a possible "terrorist" threat would be possible, which would be the borders around america. If you look on the Government's own web-page's within the Department of Homeland Security there are many many holes that are being allowed to go on. I have printed out one and would be more than happy to lead you to the link (from our own government remember) that allows any Mexican immigrants that have traveled into Arizona illegally to be (instead of being detained like you would think) escorted by the department of homeland security by being provided a bus ticket back over the border to mexico. I would like to hear what all of you think about that...?? Oh and one more minor note I would like to add is that in the senate this is the first president since Richard Nixon has held office that I have ever heard of or seen actual fights break out inside of the senate committee. Just my two cents so far.

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Yahoo Personals Posted: 1/1/2005 1:47:54 AM
Yeah I agree, yahoo had a LOT of very local people, as in people that live 5 minutes away, that somehow I hadnt run into before. It would make me consider paying. That's actually the main reason why I tried the whole Yahoo Personals in the first place as well. I haven't seen very many places that had local people within the same city or just a few miles away from where I lived. I did the first 3 months for I think it was $34.95 or something like that. I met two people on there that were local. One I met at the laundry mat that only lived about 2 miles from where I live, which was neat but I tried to IM and write a normal e-mail only to find no response after. The second one I tried to date and she just wanted to be friends. I thought after seeing her tattoo's and the piercing and helping her in moving to the Eugene/Springfield area things were going good and she mentioned her birthday was coming up. So I went out and bought a nice present and a card. Said I missed hearing from her. and apparently she got a job and a boyfriend in the meantime. What a fun experience. NOT. Couldn't call either cause she didn't have a phone hooked up yet and her cell phone got disconnected due to a big bill. women I tell ya. heheh. can't live with them, but can't live without them. Oh and to end it I noticed that about 35 - 40% of the local saved profiles in about 2 months became inactive or deleted themselves. lol. All that much more reason to leave.

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Anyone Else Gets E-mails Like This? Posted: 1/1/2005 1:11:14 AM
yea i know wut u mean...i havent had problems on this site with that...but on another site i go into chat..and theres this girl who always tries to hit on me and i've told her im not interested at all because im 100% straight...she just keeps it up every time she finds me tho...it's even gotten to the point where i've had to be rude to her but she still doesnt care at all...guess maybe this lady has an attitude like these male *holes we've been talkin about lol and yes im aware that not all men are holes lol =P It seems like this must go both ways as I've been in chat rooms and have all these gay males that are instant messaging me as soon as I enter the room, even though my profile does state in Yahoo (on both) that I am looking for WOMEN. lol. I've had the opening stupid phrases such as: "You look hot, wanna cam with me sexy". grr. nothing more annonying than people that just don't listen, and when you explain that I'm straight and I don't want anything to do with gay men they respond with something worse like " I would give you $100 to date you". Uhh. didn't I just say I wasn't interested. lol. Makes me want to just take that lovely little IP address and block it all the time, which I do from time to time. And I agree about some of us guys not being **holes. heh. I'm nice and easy to get along with, just need to find someone that is willing to chat and get to know each other more.

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Re: Why am I single?? Posted: 1/1/2005 12:25:33 AM
Im single no one here wants to date me. If any one reads this and thinks im hot and is welling to move here were i live let me know Well I certainly would like to know more about you. I'm in Eugene, Oregon here and could always use more female friends and if I know you alot more possibly a date. I'm not too sure where this Cave Junction is exactley as I'll have to pull up a map to be certain. What are some of your interests in life?? Is there any place you would like to visit in the near future or future at all?? I've got a profile filled out here as well as on Yahoo for you to take a look at for curiosity. Under Yahoo it's http://profiles.yahoo.com/isoconetic and http://profiles.yahoo.com/single_iso. Send me an e-mail or instant message when you get a chance.

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Should I settle? What should I look for in a man?? Posted: 12/31/2004 10:51:18 PM
don't settle for anything...you are beautiful why settle.. This is something I always find funny that is almost 100% of the time what I see or hear of on the North American continent. What is it that looks always seem to be one of the first things that happen to get noticed. That's one thing that has always bugged me about people here. Maybe that's why they always have that saying "All my ex's live in Texas". Their ego's are bigger than their heads and they think everything always needs to be bigger. lol. I believe that getting to know someone for who they are (socially and intellectually in situations) as well as their personality make up what I look for in women. And I would love to see this more often for both sex's in the U.S. and Canada. Yeah I'm sure sex is fun and yes I'm sure it's fun to drive fancy cars etc... Just seems so superficial to me.

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How long is too long since last dating ??? Posted: 12/31/2004 8:17:00 PM
Yeah I know what you mean. either 1.) They are looking for money or 2.) They want a guy that will treat them like sh*t and expect favors in at least one way or another. Seems like if your gunienly nice and try to keep it that way they thing there must be something wrong with you. lol. It's really pretty sad to say the least. That and I don't watch tons of T.V., so I suppose I must not be in the populus. hehe.

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How long is too long since last dating ??? Posted: 12/30/2004 10:16:55 PM
I'm curious to know how long is too long since the last time you have dated?? Yes I know this sounds somewhat stupid, but I've always thought that the only stupid questions are the one's you don't ask. heh. It's been quite some time for me here and am curious what people think. I mean is over 1 year not very healthy?? iso...

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