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Women that say,I like nice guys with a little bit of a rough edge. Posted: 7/31/2007 9:15:59 AM
hmmm....I never really thought about it.....a person is a person... Maybe a bit of a rough edge means...a bit of a bad boy..though from my experience...when they find that...seems its the part they eventually dislike...so ...who knows.... Personally.....someone that is their own person....needs... no one....wants someone to share with...and takes into consideration their wants and needs...to be reciprocated of course..... As for the rough edge....may be what attracts them....but.....its what will separate them too....if one is being honest....have had many friends that have great fun with these men....but....it never lasts because ...they are a bit of a bad boy and do not want what they want....we women are never happy....lol... Oh well....to each their own....and as for not wanting to check out things that go bump....lol.....someone has to do it...:) good fishing...many laughs...and great......whatever...lol

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Is this even possible? Posted: 8/25/2006 12:24:47 AM
hi chap, first, I am an old lady...lol...but..I do have experience, and as she is young, I think she wanted to be in love, but found that it wasn't quite what she wanted. She most likely realized that she wanted to be alone, and date or go out with other people, but no....I don't think she had someone waiting. Its unfortuneate that you had this happen, but don't hold back if you feel you found someone new!!! A heart will mend, it is and always be able to be broken, and have the pieces picked back up, not that I would want anyone to try. If you never take chances, and love to your fullest in fear something will hurt, you are not going to be able to love fully and with all your heart!!! So, kudos to you for trying, and good luck, find the right hook, bait it, and reel one in until you find someone you can connect with on all levels!!! take care, darlin good luck Rhonda

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just a thought Posted: 6/6/2006 8:10:53 AM
in reponse to not getting an answer.....it is unfortuneate that you feel no one has the correct anwer for you....but....how can they? Everyone is unique...and what may work for them....will probably not work for you!!! Ideas....suggetions...all good....but the final answers.... have to come from within.....please disregard anything some one says about your situation...They are either bitter...and probaby won';t change,,,,,,,take care Rhonda

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POF Coffee Break in Langley Posted: 3/16/2006 8:22:05 AM
so...lets take the initiative and set this up...make it a weekly get together!!!! K girls...its up to us!! we can let papaG know...and post it on the correct forum..let me know...maybe a few of us can figure this out and get it done!!! I'm in!!

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being alive Posted: 3/12/2006 11:20:59 PM
hey nursekay...awesome insights!! Its true...you choose to live with joy and happiness..and you choose to live...period. Too many people are living for tomorrow..and not experiencing today. I have found an exceptional man to share thoughts and laughter and the higher meaning of life. We share a friendship that I hope remains for the rest of my life. While it is true that we all need love in our lives...self love is essential...as is love for your fellow man. For me ...being alive is appreciating and enjoying all god has given us...from the sun in the sky to the rain that washes everything clean..I can find happiness in a single snowflake...or a smile I see on a childs face...each day brings its own rewards...if you have the heart to be open to them!!!! God Bless...and carry on..you are a wonderful lady..and I love your soul...take care ...and thanks for the heartfelt message!!!

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Silence Of The Night Posted: 3/12/2006 11:08:32 PM
frailty of our life abounds... in the dark, we all hide our breaths, so stark there are no other sounds lonliness creeps into the night the deafening roar, of nothingness and above all else, we implore.. for someone to shed some light from the magnitude of thought the lack of trust unfolds mankind has taken a step back for the love that was...is now not we have all been shown the way and yet still, we stray from the path in the silence of the night or until we awaken..to a brand new day we all face moments of lonliness and the night can magnify the intensity of the feeling...maybe its the dark...or the absence of love..in our own hearts..but one thing always makes it feel better...and thats the dawning of a new day...filled with renewed hope and expectations!!! I love you all!! take care..cosmic hugs to everyone!!

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why love? Posted: 3/12/2006 10:51:44 PM
hey rockbilly...so true...I also believe we are all here for a reason...and part of that reason is to learn that in this universe love transends lonliness... We need to allow love to grow in our hearts..and sweep out the fear that resides there!! Too many of us are afraid to love another for "fear" of rejection...but if you allow god and his universe to guide you ..love will always conquer...and lonliness will be a forgotten entity!! I wish everyone the best of luck...in finding "love" in whatever capacity they are searching for!! Peace all..and god bless!!

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I coming to prefer it when women don't reply Posted: 3/6/2006 10:45:12 AM
giopa...first..you can't fault all the women..and..maybe it was the tone..and though you meant it as being flirtatious...she viewed it differently. sorry it went badly for you! But hun, can't close the book...lots of ones that you may not want to read...but many more that are going to be intrigueing....so darlin, re bait that ole hook!!!!! just watch the barbs....hahah Joydivision...i just love the popping...heehee...it makes me giggle...so...if you find one...happy popping!!!!

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Anything Goes... Posted: 3/5/2006 9:18:45 PM
separated...thanks a lot..will take a look...:)..may you have fun composing...and the words and ideas keep overflowing!!!! you all rock!!!!!

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Anything Goes... Posted: 3/5/2006 3:13:25 PM
om-thank you!! it truly was a first..after reading some of the poetry on here...and i know I am bad...more thought should have been put into it...seriously...I hit post reply and made it up...lol..took about 5 - 10 minutes...but when my mind does decide to work...the thoughts just flow..and I really do love poetry..so had to try!!! again...thanks for the encouraging words!!! in Arnies famous words.."I'll be back"..:) might be fun one day to pick a subject...and have these wonderful authors make up poems spur of the moment to see what we could all come up with!!!! what do you think? Anyway...take care...have fun..and above all...Keep smilin'!!!!!! ciao for now!

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Anything Goes... palindrome; Separated Posted: 3/4/2006 9:28:38 PM
that was very good!! I love poetry and this has been awesome..while I had never tried my hand at this...i decided to give it a whirl tonight!! thank you all for wonderful thoughts and insights...its incredible!!! And Om ...great job!!!

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Anything Goes... palindrome; Separated Posted: 3/4/2006 9:15:28 PM
natures way waves crash upon the rocky beach stars watching the storm unfold light, now ebbing, is beyond reach but the night is a sight to behold the moon dances on the watery lochs the light luminous in the dark sky beads of water upon the jagged rocks leave a trail of tears they cried the wind whips the sand and stones sticks that it scatters about like a graveyard of sunwashed bones then settles giving a final shout leaving in its wake a landscape revamped waves diminished,the suns rays are warm the rocks upon them now have stamped salty reminders of the storm

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 11:37:11 AM
Jumpy Congrats!!!!!!! gotta go...its been enlightening...take care all...and have a wonderful day.. .

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 11:19:31 AM
bioscis...you are smart young lady!!!

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 11:17:53 AM
jumpy, thats good...:)..the not flogging her i mean...lol.. I hope now...you both know you can trust each other...and yes..mistakes are always made .. and you (and I) will probably make many more before we are done!! for all the self help books and all the direction we are given..we can still be such dorks about some things..but ..if you find that right person ...to forgive your faults ..and move forward..leaving them behind..then hang on to her ..and her to you!!! Its great..

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 11:06:22 AM
hey jumpy.. Again...I am sorry you have had some bad experiences...not all women are like that...and as for creating another e-mail..or being inventive to do something sneaky..I too have seen that..and the excuse is generally that they feel they have to hide things from their spouse..because they can't trust him/her. This is really not an excuse..again...it should be talked about and resolved...there are no excuses for manipulating a situation to meet your needs. Anyway, hun...not passing judgement...so don't take it that way please...I just wish more people would realize..that whatever you do or they do...should not be scrutinized and if you are willing to do it...should have the fortitude to stand by your convictions...and accept critisism...or praise...and be accountable..on all levels. Guess I may be dreamin..but...gotta believe there are people out there like this. Take care...and good luck to you!

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 10:51:48 AM
little devil...proud of you darlin..takes courage to do that... as far as giving someone control or relinquishing control...you aren't...you're allowing them to make decisions..based on their morals..and letting them know they can trust you. Everyone makes mistakes...its just a part of life and learning..but..if you can learn from your mistakes...its all good.. trust starts with you...if you want to be trusted ..you have to be willing to trust someone else I would hope..that in every relationship I have..that my friends, partners, business partners....have enough trust in me...that if something came up..that they were not sure of..that they could trust me enough..to know that they could question me and know that they were going to get an honest answer.. So...good for you...and good luck..you've taken the first step!!

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 10:43:53 AM
well..jumpy...I'm glad you are still together...quick question?...does she know you did this?.. and as for not trusting women..I'm sorry you have reason to feel that way... there are people ..men and women..that create the generalization that one sex or the other can't be trusted..has to be more individual..sorta like innocent...till found guilty..have to believe in someone hun..all the way..

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 10:36:44 AM
so...jumpy...my question is....why would you look in the first place? I agree with bandito...if you love someone...you just don't do that...hell.. I didn't love my ex..and I still wouldn't do it..its just a matter of morals and respect of another person...good or bad. And..when you found that she was saying good things about you...how did that make you feel?

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 10:28:43 AM
hmmm...not sure creating another e-mail is right either...you are being dishonest and avoiding the issue...and will this solve anything in the long run...no!! If there are trust issues...it needs to be dealt with...or questioned...you can't put a band aid and expect to stay on forever...yes...its a quick fix for some..but there will always be more and more things that crop up...then what?... you can't say you trust someone...then invade there privacy...what kind of person does that make you?...sorry all...have to have privacy...I expect it...so I give it..simple as that!!

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How many of you would read your lovers private e-mail ? Posted: 3/3/2006 9:46:10 AM
I read through a lot of these...and some condone it...I'm sorry..if you can't trust your partner..and you feel they are hiding things from you...then the relationship isn't stable anyway...and if you read her/his private mail...it brings you to a level that I myself would never go. If you have any suspicions..then put them on the table..its pretty easy to tell if a person is evading the issues...or is fabricating excuses.. Its like your wallet or my purse...its private ..I have nothing to hide..but it's my right to share or not share every little portion of my life. And sad as it may seem..I want that right! And I would expect that my partner deserved the same respect for his/her privacy. If asked, or if I had suspicions..then I obviously don't trust who I am with.And that would be a sad way to continue with a relationship...always questioning..and having your imagination creating scenarios..that may totally unreal. so...ultimately..no I would never read my partners e-mail. It just shows a lack of respect for him/her..for it to happen...and no relationship is going to stand up under those circumstances...even if it is done with reason...

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has anyone had an effect on you even though u never met them? Posted: 2/9/2006 10:54:56 PM
I agree, I am relatively new to this..but if it weren't for the internet..and the great friends I met..I would be stuck in the life I had. I met several of my on-line friends..one in particular made a huge effect on me...I loved his zest for life and we talked and laughed....and though we may never meet...he and I will remain friends forever...its been like 10 months of talking to these people...and we are all close...and...I am heading to england to a wedding for my adopted on-line son!!!! These are real people on the other end of the chat...and if you remember that..and treat them as such...its all good!!!! When I say i chat...its not a date line or a chat room...but...bizarre enough...it all started out on a poker site...lol...and progressed to friendships through yahoo or MSN...totally awesome people out there!!!

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