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Main Site Error Posted: 2/28/2009 12:59:32 PM
ok thanks - just making sure it wasnt an issue on my end (since i didnt see any mention of it i wasnt sure)

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The Main Site is Up and Down - Check for Updates Within Posted: 2/28/2009 12:51:04 PM
Hi, I can access the forum just fine but on the main site I get "Bad Request (Invalid Hostname)" also switching browsers doesnt help nor using a proxy. Look for Admin remarks throughout the thread for updates regarding the main site status. Just be patient. Click here Last Update From Admin No need to keep posting a core dump of the system message - ADMIN is aware of the situation. -

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Single mothers advertising sex on their profiles Posted: 8/1/2008 11:18:15 PM
how do you think they ended up with kids?! If you go to meet em don't forget your condom :)

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Ex taking our son and moving... Posted: 6/17/2008 8:20:41 PM
glad to hear it and good luck :)

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profile with face in the picture
Posted: 6/11/2008 7:45:10 PM

happened to me today, my image with me in it (that was on my profile for well over a year!) was deleted because it said it didn't show my face....which it did.

So will the one you currently have up too / Ticketoride

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Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers? Posted: 6/10/2008 9:04:09 PM
the reason he didn't get custody is because he has a penis

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Wait another year for Kindergarten? Posted: 6/10/2008 7:17:38 PM
forgot to ask, also is he going to be going to the same school, with the same kids? If you hold him back a year now instead of doing it before is that going to mean all of his friends will be a year ahead of him when he goes back?

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Do You Want Children? Posted: 6/10/2008 6:36:54 PM
The deal breakers for me are:- 1/ The man has an appalling parenting style 2/ Has abandoned his existing children 3/ Just plain does not want to take on a child that's not his "own", (my child). At least to the point of being kind, consitent and fair in his treatment of him. The deal breakers for me are:- 1/ The woman has an appalling parenting style 2/ She tries to keep the father from THEIR existing children

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What would you do? Parents are over 3 hours late Posted: 6/10/2008 6:33:20 PM
There would be no more playdates or sleepovers with that kid. so because the parents did something the child should be punished?!

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Msg: 11 (view)

opinon on this... Posted: 6/10/2008 6:28:21 PM
I wouldn't! Thats not really a place or celebration for CHILDREN.

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Wait another year for Kindergarten? Posted: 6/10/2008 6:24:24 PM
so if he is struggling and having problems then why would you want to hold him back from getting an education and learning? what will keeping him out for another year do?

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Whats more important for a boy, a bad roll model biological father or no male role model at all? Posted: 6/10/2008 6:17:43 PM
oh look...its another bad dad thread! Some of the mothers out their are not perfect angels either and yet have the kids for the simple fact that they are the mother and we all know how courts tend to side with the mom.....even if the dad didn't do anything wrong and the mother is a crackhead (not that my ex is but that is just an example of some of the things i see in the news)

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Narrow minded men Posted: 6/10/2008 6:11:04 PM
I have no problem dating a woman with kids, but after some personal life experiences i may be a little more cautious about it then i have in the past. For example, I may not want to date a woman who cuts the children's father out of their lives...now i know that plenty will say that the father doesn't want anything to do with the child, and yes in some cases sadly this is the truth - but i know sometimes it is said but it isn't exactly the truth and the mother is denying access to the father or something or saying the father is this or that. And yeah the relationship between parent and father is not my business but after three years of my ex putting up one obstacle after another to try and stop me from seeing my son I know i don't want someone else as cruel and heartless as her. Now I am not saying all single mothers are like that but it seems to be alot of them!

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What kind of a father doesn't get his children Christmas presents? Posted: 12/28/2007 12:42:39 AM
By any chance did he have to spend all his money on lawyers fighting you in court to see his children? That can get pretty costly

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Do guys like single moms? Posted: 12/10/2007 2:21:56 PM
I like single moms....just not my son's

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Boys need fathers...Period Posted: 12/10/2007 2:17:29 PM
I think its important to have a male influence not neccessary a father! so i take it you are one of those mothers who denies the child access to his/her father? I had to deal with one of them once (well i guess i still do lol)

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Why have your child call your new boyfriend or girlfriend mommy or daddy? Posted: 11/18/2007 8:52:51 PM
I wouldnt do that....I may not be to fond of her lol but my son already has a mother

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I don't like his kid...NOW WHAT? Posted: 11/13/2007 1:04:49 PM
parents refused to have children with A-holes which again explains why you have none... anyhow, how come someone with no kids sits around posting in a forum called "single parents"?

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dad spoilling kids Posted: 11/8/2007 10:34:31 PM
he is a drug dealer oh of course he is.... funny how i read on here that everyones ex is this or that....a druggy, a drunk, an abuser...so what the heck did you hook up with them and get pregnant for?!0

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Non working? Posted: 11/8/2007 8:47:48 AM
Hey if you can afford to stay home then all the power to ya! But if you wanna stay home and have some one else pay for it then no...if you can't afford kids then don't have em!

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dad spoilling kids Posted: 11/8/2007 8:45:13 AM
I agree...like heck even a part time job and let the kids spend some time with dad

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Msg: 42 (view)

dad spoilling kids Posted: 11/7/2007 11:44:57 PM
or mom could get a job

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3 year old boy and his interest in....boobies! Posted: 11/7/2007 2:53:56 PM
In time he'll grow out of it lol not likely

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dad spoilling kids Posted: 11/7/2007 2:51:03 PM
why should he stop buying things for the kids just cause the mother feels bad that she can't buy the stuff too. Gee maybe he should just not buy them anything....but then there'd be a **** fest about that. Damned if he does and damned if he don't.

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Sorry, just need to rant! Posted: 11/7/2007 12:12:18 PM
And as for the comment about mom's making the best parent. i believe it was sarcasm

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MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?! Posted: 11/7/2007 12:08:31 PM
MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?! hiding so they don't make you mom of 7 lol

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Msg: 117 (view)

My ex is pregnant but doesn't want me in the picture, gets complicated... Posted: 11/7/2007 12:07:35 PM
Ive noticed a trend with these types of posts. They always resort to gender fighting posts. and thats usually the time you show up lol

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Sorry, just need to rant! Posted: 11/6/2007 11:36:38 AM
but seriously this thread is almost as bad as the other one i just read where the mother was whinning cause the father always buys toys and clothes for his kids...omg its the end of the world!!!

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Sorry, just need to rant! Posted: 11/6/2007 11:35:21 AM
Come on, now. We ALL know that women are ALWAYS the better parent and, therefore, know what is best for the kids in every situation. How could you even bring up such a silly thing? lol...sometimes us men forget that

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Msg: 190 (view)

Online Dating............. Posted: 11/6/2007 11:26:53 AM
Possesive after one meeting are ya? lol well hopefully any guy who considers a date with you will find this thread first!

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dad spoilling kids Posted: 11/6/2007 10:08:28 AM
as he is trying for full custody oh ok so now i see why you have a problem with him! lol. Can't have a father try and raise his kids now can we...

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dad spoilling kids Posted: 11/6/2007 10:07:04 AM
coz i think he is the dad u THINK he is the dad? hmm obviously there is more to the story then your telling us. God forbid he is buying his kids toys and clothing! How dare he do such a thing!

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Why so many Dads not involved in kids life Posted: 11/3/2007 8:29:25 AM
Why so many Dads not involved in kids life Because alot of spiteful mothers try to cut the father out of the childs life....(mind you I fought and am involved in my son's life)

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Single Parent Forums Posted: 11/1/2007 9:39:07 PM
If you don't like certain kinds of threads on certain topics then heres a thought....don't read em

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Why do mothers have all the right to the children? Posted: 11/1/2007 6:11:20 PM
However, I do see that you are able to give hearsay on previous cases where the judges were 'unjust'...... hearsay? pick up a newspaper and read it.... Good Father Not good Enough for the State It would seem, however, that the Durham CAS is doing everything it can to give the children's mother more chances than she deserves to straighten out her life than it is willing to give the children's father even one chance at trial custody. STEADY JOB And here is what he has to offer, as compared to the woman he divorced several years ago. He has a steady job that earns him $65,000-plus a year. He is married to a woman who holds an executive position as the general manager of a Holiday Inn and who wants, and has said so in writing, to be the stepmother of his children. For full story click: http://www.torontosun.com/News/Columnists/Bonokoski_Mark/2007/06/19/4272293-sun.html

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Why do mothers have all the right to the children? Posted: 11/1/2007 6:06:12 PM
here's another forum you can visit with fathers who are going through similar ordeals. Its based in BC but has lots of info http://www.fathers.bc.ca/Forum/index.php plus you wont get bashed by women who think the current system 'works'

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Why do mothers have all the right to the children? Posted: 11/1/2007 12:52:34 PM
Well, well.....here we go! Another poor me, woman are evil thread that COULD be solved IF the poster used the system which is at his disposal instead of whining, crying and complaining about it. Ok buddy.....first of all...Edmonton contains a phone book. It is large (very large) and filled with about 30 pages of lawyers who would be happy to give you a free consultation. Second....The Alberta mediation offices are in Edmonton. Again..if you pick up said book and call them, you can make a FREE appointment to file for custody, visitation or whatever relationship it is that you wish to have with your children. Yes..you will have to deliver the papers to her yourself or hire a server...but, it's regarding your children and I'm sure you can take a few days to get the papers to her. The Mediation workers are wonderful for helping you fill out the paperwork. They will explain the process that you will be facing after filing...they will answer your questions...but here's the trick.......you have to call!! Now...can we let the thread die? The mediation ppl WILL take care of this gentleman..but ONLY if he chooses to utilize them. Otherwise...he is only using us as a means to complain. Sorry...but sick of hearing it...not buying it.....move on! get off his back and leave the guy alone. Its true that when it comes to children and parenting guys tend to get the shaft in the family court system. Do a little research on the subject. Heck I've read stories where the father took great care of his children and supported them and the mother was hooked on crack....guess who got the kids hmm...the mom. Why cause the majority of the time the courts will side with the mother. Then god forbid the women says oh by the way my ex abused me...even with no proof and if it happened or not, she tells that to the police then wham the guy has even more problems....and yeah I know it happens cuz my crazy ex did that to me and I spent four days in jail and months in court before finally the crown attorney ended up dropping the charges. And by the way if your "sick of hearing it" as you say well I believe no one is forcing you to read these posts!

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Long Distance parents; What would you do? Posted: 10/31/2007 1:05:14 AM
I have to agree that post

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Long Distance parents; What would you do? Posted: 10/30/2007 9:09:11 PM
well I moved over 900km to be close to my son...he's worth it

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CAN ANYONE OFFER ADVICE WITH CUSTODY BATTLE Posted: 10/29/2006 10:40:06 AM
seems in Canada you have a hard time getting custody of your child even if the mother puts it up for adoption... http://www.cbc.ca/canada/story/2006/10/28/sask-custody.html

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CAN ANYONE OFFER ADVICE WITH CUSTODY BATTLE Posted: 10/8/2006 12:59:09 PM
here's another forum you can visit with fathers who are going through similar ordeals. Its based in BC but has lots of info http://www.fathers.bc.ca/Forum/index.php

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Help Dad Trying to Take My Baby Posted: 7/24/2006 4:31:34 AM
lol, it always is isn't it

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Help Dad Trying to Take My Baby Posted: 7/23/2006 6:22:36 PM
Help Dad Trying to Take My Baby and? what makes you are the better parent then him that the child should be with you? Just because your the 'mother'?

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I got served today..... Posted: 7/15/2006 10:37:28 AM
like I said.....welcome to Canada. I've read cases where the mother was a drug addict and they took away the kids and sent them with the father and yet the Judge still ended up deciding to give the mother another chance over the father who did nothing.

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I got served today..... Posted: 7/15/2006 6:20:35 AM
I'd worry....you live in Canada and your male

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right on Posted: 6/10/2006 6:24:47 PM
What will it take to win custody? if you live in Canada and your just the father it will take a miracle.

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Smokers: Would you quit smoking for your dreamboat? Posted: 6/2/2006 12:57:40 PM
actually....yes I would quit, wouldn't be an issue for me.

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Does Fairy tale love really exist?? Posted: 5/14/2006 6:24:14 AM
no...but loving someone and getting stabbed in the back exists

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is he the one? Posted: 5/4/2006 8:33:17 PM
which I could answer that. I seem to always meet 'The Wrong One'....lol

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Service Unavalaible Posted: 5/4/2006 8:29:36 PM
Is the site over loaded tonight or having technical issues? I keep getting 'Service Unavalaible' - everywere except the forums.

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