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nightrider757

Joined: 5/19/2009

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Meeting in Real Life Posted: 8/9/2009 8:45:47 PM
I'm going to go against everyone here. I think they're taking the wrong angle on this. Yes,,, get a wing man. A buddy, even better a group of guys to hang out with. You will meet more women if you are with other people, because you can expect them to be with other people. Plus, going out with friends is fun. So you don't even have to meet anyone. That puts a real good spin on things. Keep in mind, lone-wolfs prowling in bars can put off a bad vibe. Men hanging around friends having a good time puts you in a good light and shows some value. CHeers

nightrider757

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Train of Thought Posted: 7/22/2009 10:50:34 AM
Dude keep at it. Really well done. The last line hit it out of the park.

nightrider757

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For my Aunt Carmen Posted: 7/22/2009 10:38:49 AM
Wonderful. Very well said!

nightrider757

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When You Lost Me Posted: 7/22/2009 10:35:39 AM
Aces that was just wonerful. Very, very well done. I'm not sure how this forum works. Did you write that? Cheers, Mike

nightrider757

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Flora's Writings-Untitled Posted: 7/22/2009 10:28:01 AM
Stirring. Nice. Well done. I say hold on. Cheers, Mike

nightrider757

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What is going on here? Is it me or is he simply inexperienced? Posted: 7/22/2009 8:39:25 AM
Cmdrfunk, lots of truths there "The force is strong with you"

nightrider757

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No Confidence... Posted: 7/20/2009 8:28:01 AM
Hey OP you're taking a great step forward by posting the question. So join the club of what is probably,,,,, 1/3 of all guys! Nothing to feel bad about, especially when you're trying to get a handle on it. The best way I found to handle esteem issues is to get a handle on what's going on. In your case I'd suggest to sit down, go deep, and make an actual list of things that keep your esteem down. Bad conversation skills with women, weight issues, teeth, thick matted hair all over your body" lol!",, I don't know what yours might be. Just make a list of what they are. Then keep that list handy and rank one item as the most important and actually change it. Just one big item. Too much weight? Lose it. Yes, it will be one of the hardest things you've ever done but it's super worth it. It can change everything. You see, your brain is keeping you down, so you need to show it that change is on the way. Change is hard, so the "fuel" to make things happen is positive visualization. See yourself as the man you want to be and keep that in your mind,,,, all the time. It's sounds a bit odd, but as you start making progress on issues that are important to you, that upbeat mental picture will become a reality. Hey you are 6.2" lot's of women really like bigger men. It's a huge asset. ANd whoever told you you are not a good looking guy, your brain included, was telling you BS. Regards, MIke

nightrider757

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Question about women at bars/clubs Posted: 7/10/2009 4:12:20 PM
Hmmm ask a girl to dance!?! WOw,,, I've done that a couple times in my younger days. Let's see what I can remember... If my old brain serves me correctly, I believe that ladies who are actively looking at me and smiling are always prime candidates. As fun as chatting with the lads in a pub can be, I'll still periodically take a look around for ladies that I find attractive. If they see me looking and smile back... Once you've got that, you ought to know what to do. Even if she doesn't want to dance, you have the opportunity to meet someone new. Cheers

nightrider757

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Men why add me to favorites and not make contact? Posted: 7/10/2009 12:21:43 PM
Don't read too much into it. Guys cruise the profiles, like the ladies do. All of us, see someone they like and add them as a favorite as a reminder to write them later. It's one way to organize people to want to meet. Now for people who never end up contacting you.... Maybe they just like looking at your pretty pictures! Cheers

nightrider757

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Why do only the BBW's get an acronym to describe their body style? Posted: 7/10/2009 12:16:37 PM
There is an acronym for thin pretty ladies. It's "Person listed 157 times as favorite". It lacks the cool flow of BBW, but I'm sure it's not a bad place to be. Take care pretty lady! Cheers

nightrider757

Joined: 5/19/2009

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Is it my fault? Posted: 7/10/2009 12:13:12 PM
This is a good example that you can't have everything you want in life. Rolling with 10 guys is a bit of a fantasy. Enjoy it while it lasts. Show some sympathy for your friend. Cheers

nightrider757

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have i been played???? Posted: 7/10/2009 12:07:02 PM
Op sorry to see that. But I'm not sure that he played you. Do you think he lied about his interest in you? Whenever we date, it is a trial period for both parties. Either side can back out if they don't see a match. It can go either way. Maybe the lesson is to keep your emotional attachment more in check till you are more sure he's recipricating? Keep on the trucking. I see it as a normal part of dating. Odds are, next time, you might tell the next guy to take a hike and break his heart. But that is why dating is hard. We have to be selective. It has to be that way or we would end up marrying just about anyone. CHeers

nightrider757

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would you forgive your boyfriend if he lied Posted: 7/10/2009 9:20:38 AM
I would drop the guilt. Guys lie sometimes about drinking and fighting. If a lady can't handle that, then fine walk. That's one of the things we do. Man up. "Do you promise never to lie to me?" "Yes I promise, because we live in fantasy land"

nightrider757

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North American Women have impossibly high standards Posted: 7/6/2009 6:58:44 PM
Op here's the best advice I can give you. I read your profile, and it is funny. But I don't think it's going to really sell women anywhere. N AMerican or not. Blonde jokes? It's like the Speedo thing. You actually joke about it yourself! That's funny. I think every guy ought to have one thing women hate on their profile. Let's be guys right!?! Look man, don't blame the ladies. I can tell you are a cool dude. Just jack your game up. You're close. Cheers PS and Raiderfan, what do these men from other cultures do? Kill you with words and then split? Just kidding. You're cute!

nightrider757

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Why do guys pick fights? Posted: 7/6/2009 2:04:31 PM
If you are actually serious about this. Two easy ways to get things cranked up in a bar. Eyeballing another guy or leaning up on someone. Just like dogs, we gotta have that space. So it's either that, or you're loud talking. What is it for you?

nightrider757

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Why do guys pick fights? Posted: 7/6/2009 1:41:40 PM
I'll just mention my status as a former Navy pilot, current airline pilot and Harley Davidson enthusiast to lend credince to me saying that I have been in some of the worst bars in the world. I have never had a problem. Heck,,, at the all of bars I've been to, I really can't even remember seeing a fight. Maybe three at most in my whole life. Even at my last Key West Poker run, 3000 bikers, jam-packed into 1 sqaure mile of bars,,, no fights. Are you for real?

nightrider757

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Do Any of you Guys Do this? Posted: 7/6/2009 1:28:09 PM
OP,, that's sort of a bitter take on things. Sorry to hear it. I don't know what goes on at this site, but I know what goes on in real life, becuase I see it. Women go for those types of guys. Here's my homework assignment for you tonight. Do a search of men and pick ten guys to contact. The criteria for contacting them is that they must actually list themselves as "nice guys". They must all have so-so profiles that talk about their lives, their goals and looking for a nice lady to hang out with. They must not be fancy dressers, have fancy talk or fancy hobbies. They must be just regular men listed less than 5 times as someone's favorite. Try that out and let me know how that works for you. I promise you will have a better experience and view of men. Are you game??????? Cheers Mike

nightrider757

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Was It Wrong to Inquire about Intentions with Body Butter? Posted: 7/6/2009 10:42:22 AM
I think this boils down to a "Seinfeld" analasys. Now when he asked "Can I rub this Body Butter all over your body?" which word did he emphesize??? If it was "rub" and his eyes lit up like a Christmas tree, I would have been worried too! Lol!!!!!!!!!! ROLF!!! Good luck to you. There are a lot of crazy people, He obviosly should have let you know what he was up to before he brought the body butter out! CHeers

nightrider757

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First move? Posted: 7/5/2009 8:57:42 PM
Op, you claim to be cool on your profile, so be cool here. It was a joke dude. Without a couple jokes this place would be a real drag. Here's what I would tell you. You said you were bummed out about it. I'd suggest you get rid of that. Don't get an emotional connection with anyone on here till you know them well. Just fire, forget, see what comes back and have fun. It doesn't matter who you are writing to. They can and will disapear at any moment. In your case, you just got the early flake. No big deal. Cheers Bro

nightrider757

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How do you stay motivated Posted: 7/5/2009 8:48:12 PM
Kat you're looking great. Congrats on the progress you've made. If you're in a slump and lack energy, I suspect you may be carbohydrate deficient. Are you getting enough carbs? Some people on diets will avoid them like the plauge, but your body needs some carbos to burn fat. WIthout them, you'll lack energy and your body will shut down the fat burning process because it senses famine. You won't lose a pound, even with excecise. Here's a gym tip. If you're having problems getting pumped up to go. Then forget motivation, but go anyways. Get on the tread mill with no ambition and start walking at an easy gate. When your body warms up, your brain will kick and want more. Start your gym time with things that you enjoy. I start with stretching and ab work. So I don't fear the gym. I just dropped 20 lbs and here's one thing that worked for me, and it does sound weird. I quit tv as part of my diet. WIthout tv, I am now in the real world without comercial influence, so I've lost most craving for all those foods I shouldn't eat. It's been nice. CHeers, Mike

nightrider757

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Mudding? Posted: 7/5/2009 12:05:45 PM
Op you go about finding them by meeting a LOT of them. I checked your profile out. Look man ,,,, if you want to make this actually happen for you, scoot on over to the profile review section and make some changes. You'll have way more luck. CHeers Bro...

nightrider757

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Did you know this when you were in college? Posted: 7/5/2009 11:48:43 AM
In my opinion sugar daddies are a myth. I have not seen it. And I have seen way more than most. It may happen, but it's such a rare occurance, it's not even worth mentioning. Think about it. I am 45. Why would some 20 year old want to run with me? To hang around my pool? For some crappy dinner in a fancy restruant and disjointed converstion? I don't think so. WOmen today are pretty independant. Given a choice a pretty young lady will always want to hang with people her own age and just have fun. Even if it is eating pizza and drinking cheap beer. I don't blame them. Op, please do your part in not destroying our reputation as men with outdated fantasies.... CHeers

nightrider757

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Just looking for advice. Posted: 7/4/2009 12:06:51 AM
Op I know you are seeking advice from the ladies, so they will tell you the "secret". But just the same, if it's ok with everyone, I will chime it. I've got a couple more miles on me than you, and I will briefly share my thoughts. In my experience, I'd really have to ask you... WHat is so hard to understand about women? The more I get to know them, the more normal they seem to me. Think about that. Guys kill their chances with ladies because they invent this "mystery" and act wierd. Period. Close your eyes and imagine you are a lady with all these "sweaty", wierd acting guys always hitting you up. Wouldn't it be hard to treat them all nice? If you want to have more success with ladies, relax your vibe, get sex out of your brain, and come in as a bud. Just find something interesting to talk about. That's all there is to it. If she has an attraction to you, she will show it. If she doesn't, there really is not much you can do to change that. Unless you go level ten. But that's a differant topic. As far as what to say. Think of some stranger hitting you up to talk. How would they act or what would they say to make you feel comfy and chatty? CHeers!

nightrider757

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Where are the decent women looking for long term at? Posted: 7/3/2009 4:14:43 PM
Op speaking of superficial,,, is your shirtless photo an invitiation to peotry reading? Lol! Hey man, ease up on the ladies. I think you can totally figure this out if your really wanted to. If what you are doing is not working, do something else. Come in at a differant angle. It truly is a thinking man's game. Cheers and have fun.

nightrider757

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Unnecessarily mean rejection? Posted: 7/3/2009 11:44:12 AM
But Greg, also consider that your status as a windower has gone far to screen out some truly shallow people. WIthout that, ,,, you might have ended up being stuck with one of them. SO maybe it's not such a bad thing? Cheer mate

nightrider757

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Please HELP!!! Posted: 7/3/2009 11:34:05 AM
Hmm,, I really hate to do this, but I think I will all the same. A piece of serious advice. I admire and respect women on their intuition when it comes to relationships, but there is one thing you guys do that KILLS things. Quit over analyzing!!!! God gives you one day at a time. So take a break from the analasys, enjoy what you got and quit reading so much into it. CHeers

nightrider757

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The right approach to a female? Posted: 7/2/2009 11:07:41 PM
Op here's my take on it. The best way to appraoch women is the same way you'd approach a man, an old lady, a teacher or whoever you're not dreaming about sleeping with. Approach women to make friends. It's an easy "frame" to keep in mind while you're doing it. Get rid of the idea that women are impossible to figure out. They are super easy to figure out. They're just tired of being hit on. Women can smell the "pick up" a mile away. Instead, just go and make a new friend. If there is some chemistry, she will let to you know. If not, then it's cool because you are just chatting. Once you've mastered the art of just talking with and having fun with the ladies you will be ready for the next level. Cheers

nightrider757

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Making that first contact. Posted: 7/2/2009 10:51:14 PM
Cowboy's post ought to be a "stickey" I completely agree. That's about as well layed out as can be done. Also, clue into Bodypro. Being a man and not a wuss goes a long way. Women actually respond well to men being men. Cheers.

nightrider757

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To the Ladies! Posted: 7/1/2009 8:49:23 PM
Take it from a fellow pilot. You are too piloty. Your profile is single dimentional. Being a pilot is cool. But talk about yourself and things that ladies might find some commonality with. Music, hobbies, prison time "ok, maybe not that". But whatever. That's what attracts women, when you can find some common ground. Especially if that common ground is something cool. Cheers

nightrider757

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POF Men Photo's Posted: 6/26/2009 3:08:04 PM
It also pre-screens women who read too much into things. Bingo.

nightrider757

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Why do people not respond when sent a message? Posted: 6/25/2009 2:40:52 PM
In my opinion guys learn bad manners from the ladies. Men typically send more messages. So when they see the read/delete no response, they figure that's the way business is done. I respond to almost all of mine. But I think for everyone, the best idea is just fire and forget. Send messages, hope for the best and don't track it. The "sent" messages page is just asking for torment. Don't read it. How is it going to make anything better to see who read/deleted you? I never look at that page and things have been much more fun since. Just sit back and see who responds. If you're not getting what you want write more or write better. Cheers

nightrider757

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My fiance went with a hooker before he met me Posted: 6/25/2009 8:24:57 AM
It's sort of a sad question. How do we react when we find the humans we are dating are prone to human frailty.

nightrider757

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Say, ladies, what exactly are games? Posted: 6/25/2009 7:47:23 AM
#28 this is one of the most insightful comments I have read on these forums <div class='quote'> The only true power anyone has in all of their relationships is the power to give. The rest is just deception. And #29 this was very well said. I believe it is a very valid warning. <div class='quote'> People who do have this fear, probably play games themselves. As someone noted, a lot of people really mean "don't play games that I will lose" or "don't play games if I have my guard down". On my end, I will take a slightly differant view than everyone. In my opinion, the game is always on. We all play them. That is the reason the TV show "Survivor" was such a hit. Because it reminded us things we always knew where going on but did not want to admit. Because no matter how the players wanted to frame things, they could not avoid that it was a game. It was a reflaction of reality. Of everyday life. On an extreme inflated level, but a reflection all the same. If it wasn't a game, women would walk about town looking like they do when they wake up in the morning and us cavemen would still not be shaving and communicating with large clubs. So with that as a backdrop, I would say it is just a matter of finding people who play the game in a fun fair manner and avoiding those who are manipulitive, over bearing and cheat.

nightrider757

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jumping the gun Posted: 6/24/2009 9:01:42 AM
Op you seem like a really nice lady. Maybe you will do me a favor and answer a question. You've been seeing this guy for 4 months and you are not in love with him. How long does it take to fall in love? I don't know if love at first sight exists, but 4 months seems like a reasonable ammount of time to see if it is going to happen. Do you think it will happen for you with this guy? Cheers

nightrider757

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profile review pls.. appreciate the feedback Posted: 6/24/2009 8:26:29 AM
Just use it as an example that you can write anything. Just come up with your own unique format. No one is talking about copying.

nightrider757

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need some feedback Posted: 6/24/2009 7:38:50 AM
Op your profile is really cool. You went way out of your way to describe yourself and you are turly a unique and interesting person. Now, many of your interests fall outside of the "mainstream" which will turn people away, which is also fine, becuase the women who respond will be looking for a guy just like you and the ones who don't won't matter so much. Here's my take on the big picture. I give you a "10" for describing yourself and the cool guy you are. But, maybe your profile falls a little flat because it's all about you. If you want make it more attractive, I would lop off about 1/2 of it and write about the kind of girl you are looking for and the kinds of things you might do together. Would you sip wine on a moonlit night and talk about the kabala? Whatever it is, and I'm sure in your case it would be cool, say it. Let a lady picture in her mind what it would be like to hang with you. Look at your "first date" box. Ladies will actually look in there and try to find out your thinking on a first date. So talk about that and even other dates there. The anime can wait for later. Cheers Bro!

nightrider757

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Waste of Time Posted: 6/24/2009 7:25:32 AM
Op your profile is really good. So what is the problem? You say you are getting lots of resposnses. Are women disapearing on you in the messaging phase, or are you just not meeting someone you find interesting?

nightrider757

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profile review pls.. appreciate the feedback Posted: 6/24/2009 7:14:06 AM
Look at Mrwutziname's profile. It's one of the best profile's I have seen here. It's super original, he "get's" women and shows it, it's funny and interesting. Just use it as an example that you can write anything. Just come up with your own unique format. In your case, lose the life-jacket picture. Unless the girl already knows you,,, it's not a good look. You profile is filled with "I's". I this, I that. It really slows it down. Not to mention I is always capitalized. I know, it sounds like bull, but woman will be really distracted by that. Cheers

nightrider757

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Whats wrong with my profile? I've tried everything. Posted: 6/24/2009 7:04:32 AM
Your profile is fine. It's a bit flat. So you ought to be in the 10-20% response rate with your photos. What are you sending for messages?

nightrider757

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What's missing? Posted: 6/23/2009 3:51:29 PM
Hey, Miles knows what he's talking about. Look at his profile. It is long. But look closer, it's also interesting. People who get him will read it completely because he mixes stuff about himself with doses of humor. That's what profiles should be like. ANd it's perfect for another reason. With a rock solid profile like that, he can keep his messages short and fun becuase the profile will sell him. That is the way to do it. Think of it from this angle. Obviously to the ladies, if the profile is interesting, they will assume the guy in interesting. So Op,, yeah, if you want an idea of how to improve your profile, you got a perfect example. Cheers Hey Miles, nice shot holding that lady up!!!!

nightrider757

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Please help and review my profile Posted: 6/23/2009 10:46:52 AM
Hey Jan, that's looking a lot better. If you want to fine tune it just a hair more, here is what I would suggest. I see about five paragraphs in your profile. But it's broken into 2. If I was in your shoes, I would brake those paragraphs out and make sure there is a blank space between them. That will make it easy for us cavemen to read. Lastly,,, that song. I don't know sister,, I turned it on and it sort of startled me. Is that you? If not, pick something closer to your personality. Cheers! Mike

nightrider757

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Profile review - any advice? Posted: 6/23/2009 10:37:31 AM
I second that...

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Weird Creative...poof? Posted: 6/23/2009 10:20:35 AM
Dude I thought it was very clever. Keep on trucking. But I think you might have noticed by now that this is probably the wrong venue for that sort of thing. Repost it in the "story" forum. That's where creative writers like yourself test the waters and trade ideas. Cheers Mike

nightrider757

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Can Women help Women Posted: 6/23/2009 10:14:53 AM
So what's your point James? Shall we clear our posts through you in the future? He has a "nice guy" post. What is your agenda?

nightrider757

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my profile needs a little help.. i think Posted: 6/23/2009 8:07:32 AM
Op your profile is very brief. But it is good in it's own way. Good pictures, looks like you have some nice kids. I think that people will respect that you spend a lot of time with them. What I have seen people in your situation also mention, is that they are also interested in allocating extra time for a potential mate. So you might consider making a brief comment along those lines. As for your question about how long messages should be. Here's the thing with your profile, it's great in it's own way. But it doesn't say too much about you as a person. So that means your messages have to be longer and more in depth. And that turns into a real burden when most reply rates are 10% It's much easier to build your profile up and then your messages are mostly short and sweet. They should convey that you read her profile, saw something of interest or a commonality and and brief remark of interest. Essently the first message is an invitation to look at your profile where a lot of the work is done. Cheers, Mike

nightrider757

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Needing a Profile Review Posted: 6/23/2009 7:57:23 AM
I don't actually think that men outnumber women to that degree. But I do know that it is much more important for a guy to have a solid profile than a lady. It's a long story... ANyways, your profile is very short and does not say too much. Add to that, your interests... Always good to have. But you put yourself out as a regular fun guy and then add two of your interest are "sex" and "foreplay". Hey, it's your choice with that. But it is not something you see everyday. It also clashes with the regular guy thing. I would imagine women may be a bit put off by that. So put some work into you profile. Make it creative. Have you ever written a fun and interesting letter to someone? Do that here. As for pictures,,, I might lose the ones with the black shirt on. The other are better and enough. CHeers, Mike

nightrider757

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Profile review - any advice? Posted: 6/23/2009 7:47:43 AM
I don't see anything that would scare anyone off. I thought your profile was very well done. It shows that you are an inteligent, successful serious lady, looking for the same in a partner, who is also interested in a long term relationship. Those kinds of guys don't grow on trees. And since you live in Potstown, maybe the population is a bit more limited? Maybe it will just take more a patience as it stands. If you wanted to try something new and more broad, you might want to gear it towards showing that you are open to some casual dating . Someome to join you for some casual stuff, like antiqueing or the like. Two other things to consider, add more stuff to your interests box. It will show depth and say a lot about you. Lastly,,, message men that you are interested in. There is nothing wrong with that. CHeers, Mike

nightrider757

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Please help and review my profile Posted: 6/23/2009 7:34:06 AM
Jan you seem rather nice. But your profile comes off as a bit flat. Here's my generel guide. The most fun and interesting stuff at the top, the less fun stuff on the bottom. Talking about you dog was fun. Talking about perverts, not so much fun. SO along your lines, I would expand even more on interesting things about you and push that to the top. If you must include the warning to perverts, maybe make that last and a briefer statement so it doesn't detract for the spirit of the profile Add more hobbies interests. I do believe that people really read those too. Who knows, there may be another person in your area deep into some odd interest of your. Your stutus as seperated will limit you, no matter what you write. Cheers Mike

nightrider757

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Guys get passed over, does that mean girls are getting jilted? Posted: 6/22/2009 7:12:05 PM
Cutiepie is correct in her assessment. But it is not all bleak. People here have lots of fun. It doesn't have to be speed dating, or an interview process. People flirt, chat, trade stories and it is still fun even if they never end up meeting. It's like seeing a nice group of ladies at a coffee shop, they are looking over, smiling, telling secrets. We are looking back, grining, flashing our best smiles. It's all in fun. It doesn't mean we have to walk over to meet them and starting planning our future families. One day we will all meet our right person, here or wherever. Cheers

nightrider757

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Guys get passed over, does that mean girls are getting jilted? Posted: 6/22/2009 4:39:00 PM
Sgala,, My hat's off to you bro. With one week here, you are putting this puzzle together nicely. You are very close to "breaking the code". Spot on analysis. Props. Cheers

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