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Joined: 5/20/2009

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Best friend was hitting on your spouse. What would you do? Posted: 10/28/2009 8:44:38 PM
This one is easy...If my woman, told me that my alleged "best" friend was totally hitting on her, I would simply beat the living s.hit out of him and probably put him in the hospital... PS Mona-lee..you are a "total" babe...hot..gorgeous...You have obviously took really good care of yourself and it shows!!!...

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What to do??? Advice Posted: 10/20/2009 12:05:29 AM
Op...Take it from a man of experience...Tell her to go F. herself and let her go.. A lot of women, especially younger women, pull this crap all the time... Tell her to leave you alone....make like you do NOT want to hear from her and she will start wanting you back...However, don't take her back...she has already been with your "best" friend and that is grounds for telling her to go F. herself. Be a man, don't listen to soft postings telling you to take your time etc etc...get on with your life and again tell her to go F. herself and you will be thankful for the rest of your life that you stood up to the little snot bag... and trust me, she ain't the nice girl, you think she is...

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the hardest thing Posted: 10/19/2009 11:56:05 PM
What the????...what is your point????...you say your fine with it all...what the?? I don't know OP and the way you couldn't get some high school crush out of your mind for that many years is definitely..."creepy"...You better work on those obsessional stalking traits before it graduates into something more serious..You totally come across as a potential stalker...man...someone else said that your posting is disturbing and i totally agree...get a good therapist and I am very, very serious...

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Never kissed a girl Posted: 10/19/2009 11:34:15 PM
hey there OP,,,usually when i see posts like this, it is very obvious why a person is having such poor luck with the ladies but, I looked at your profile and your photos and it just seem really strange to me that, such a good quality young guy would be having this type of problem...I don't even no what to say here other than, don't give up and upon meeting a woman, don't treat them with the intent of kissing them etc etc... That comes later, not sooner well, that depends on the woman of course...lol... You come across very well and I think you are destined to meet someone special, I am much older than you and have had many women in my life and your not missing as much as you think you are...lol...

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What does a guy want in a girl? Posted: 9/14/2009 4:34:59 PM
OP asks: What does a guy want in a girl? Well last time I checked we all are individuals, well at least some of us are and asking such a generalized comment that being, what do men want is a girl, is ridiculous. Some men, like older women, some men like younger women, some men like academically inclined women and some men like women, who are on the more simplistic side of life, some men like blonds some like brunettes ...I could go on and on...this question from the Op is way to vague.

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funny answering machine messages you have used Posted: 9/3/2009 3:26:10 PM
oh eeeeeee how cute,,,,eeeeeeee

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Would you accept back your wife/gf who moved with another guy Posted: 9/3/2009 12:56:06 PM
no, I wouldn't...she doesn't sound very nice to me...

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Just A Friend Or More? Posted: 8/21/2009 10:40:04 AM
Hey OP...I looked at your profile and I am wondering if the girl you are talking about, is the one who gave you, the nice testimonial on your profile?.. If it isn't her, Man, you should be goin' for her!!! Yum Yum!!!...lololol....

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Would you accept back your wife/gf who moved with another guy Posted: 8/21/2009 10:11:41 AM
no...I wouldn't...

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my bestfriend/my only love died almost 4 yrs ago Posted: 8/17/2009 10:21:52 PM
First off, I am so sorry for your loss. This is a difficult thread, it is sad. If you could get a good "grief' counselor whom is well versed in treating people who have been subjected to loss threw death, that would help also, meeting with others, in support groups, who have lost love ones to violence, could help as well. Please keep in mind that he would want you to be happy...and again I am very sorry that you were subjected to this...take care and thank you for sharing this with us...

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Just A Friend Or More? Posted: 8/17/2009 10:08:07 PM
NO don't ask her out...she is finding refuge in your "friendship" with her and i am very certain she will be quite hurt if you, start 'hitting" on her...Didn't you notice how she didn't even go near anything about dating you???..She is your friend, so treat her like one...

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Starting to hate women........ Posted: 7/26/2009 9:27:36 PM
Hey Op I cut and pasted this quote of yours: golddigging20kidshastoomanymalefriendsnotimeforaseriousrelationshipmarriedtotheirjobbabydaddydramaonlycallonceinabluemoonalwayswantstogooutandspendmoneyusessexasAbargainingch and I couldn't have put it better myself!...I think you are simply saying how so many of us guys feel and your the first one i have seen in these forums, who has had the balls to tell it how it really is...my man, I have had a few long term relationships and lots and lots of dates and as i always say, there is that common denominator with all the women I have dated...that is "selfish" "overly demanding" "double standards" "perpetual b.itching" and don't anyone tell me it is because of me or the women I date for, I have had lots of women in my life and it is always the same "BS" If there are some "genuine" non self absorbed, "sensitive" gals out there, please e-mail me. I am getting older...and like the OP, I have literally given up on these wonderful 'MODERN" gals....

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What women want??? Posted: 6/23/2009 2:46:59 AM
You do specify that you are looking for an "intimate encounter" the bulk of profiles on here, the women clearly specify that, if you have e-mailed anyone for an intimate encounter, then you can't contact them. Dude, your profile is AWFUL....and i foresee you dating a jar of Vaseline for the rest of your life...Geeeeezus....figure it out...

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Hes a cheat Im leaving hes taken my trust help Posted: 6/23/2009 2:28:39 AM
Fortunately, this particular "loser" falls into a minority of men. There are women, who fall into this category as well. The biggest mistake you could make is to, start generalizing and assuming tht everyone is the same. Nothing could be farther from the truth. There are many good people in this world. You simply met a bad one. Just look at it like this, is this guy worth you becoming so bitter that, you don't believe in good people? I am very sorry you were subjected to this. make it very clear with anyone else you date that infidelity will not be tolerated and the relationship will end.. Take care, I know this hurts but, keep telling yourself how much of an a.sshole he really is and that, you are way better with him out of your life...

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Why the ridicule & the look of disgust Posted: 6/17/2009 5:08:54 PM
Get a tattoo on your face and buy a Harley, that will tone down your tough guy looks...lol... well Op, your just a really big guy and if you carry yourself, in a friendly, polite, manner and smile a lot, then I don't know why, women are being so "rude" to you... Maybe it is where, your hanging out?...Your size shouldn't make women, totally intimated, lots of gals like big guys...

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