Men my age who claim to have the libido of an eighteen year old are full of shit. Or they are the exception to the rule.

with myself.... because nobody knows my body better than me.
sure it's a little selfish but it's the safest sex you can have!

I am SO glad I decided to become a grown up.

Should I play hard to get?

You wouldn't put up with that from your Schnauzer, would you?

Well, they DO shame ya for it,

Just like trusting people in life, you do it in small steps & degrees.

We are human beings with the same vulnerabilities and insecurities women have. (That's right - I said it - we are just as insecure as you are when it comes to the chase)

Me personally, I refuse to give a blow job after it has been anywhere near my stuff. I wont even do it unless the guy just got out of the shower. And after a guy eats me out, I dont want him to be kissing me, not even on the lips until he cleans off his face so I wouldnt want to do that to him either.

Maybe some of those tv drugs would work- if they can lengthen my sword to the point that it takes two hands to wield it, why can't they add a few inches to my tongue? Lol.[/dreamer]

Dreamer
tv drugs never work for anything, but increasing the revenue for whoever is hawking them!

Isn't that part more important than the logistics of a ring and legal contract?

He gets jealous of any other relationships you have with other people, your family, your kids, even your pets. No kidding.

I'm looking for the package deal. Up close and personal. I'm a hands on guy, and I prefer them to be on her, not me.

What are peoples views on this?

Would you even date someone who has had multiple sexual partners, before you?

as long as I don't hafta worry about gettng spanked by her parents!

I never have developed a taste for "nervous sex".

So.... remind me... What's the downside of 50 and single...???

I realize there are some that have inner fortatude and dont succume to that,

Sheesh, if someone had the surgery complete, was living a reasonably sane life as a woman, and we had a mutual attraction to one another, why not? The older I get, the more I like to keep my options open.

also it seems as you get older it takes you all night to do what you could do all night long

I think sex is like a good wine, it just matures and gets better with age.

Beautiful hair, faces or bodies may attract me, but there's gotta be a lot more to sustain any kind of attraction.

This is not the way adults play together. Sex is a healthy
part of an adult relationship, without sex, you're just friends.

How do you tell your lover they`re too loud in bed?

Seems like in a certain segment of society many sexual acts, between consenting adults, are considered taboo. I wonder what all those judgmental folk think about when they're not imagining the wanton sex they're not having?

I've become quite good at faking it