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NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Do ya wanna be in my gang? Posted: 6/6/2012 1:21:30 PM
I'm confused at this Rule 1 - upon checking the forum rules it appears to be that you are not allowed to insult anybody but that does not fit into the context that it is being used. You sound just like Data from Star Trek..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Do ya wanna be in my gang? Posted: 6/6/2012 1:16:57 PM
Well you're obviously in the wrong place then Avalon, aren't you?

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Do ya wanna be in my gang? Posted: 6/6/2012 12:53:16 PM
Jovan I have reported you. You cannot say that sort of thing in this forum.. I am now reporting you again for your edit.. this cannot continue. Belviso.. it's just a play on the name Nicola Six from Martin Amis' London Fields.. I think theoneana meant quiche.. there's quiche somewhere..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Do ya wanna be in my gang? Posted: 6/6/2012 12:46:10 PM
I always remember feeling like that.. but lately, I dont. It's odd.

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Do we hurt ourselves more than we need to? Posted: 5/18/2012 3:07:29 PM
I must admit I am unreasonably stunned when I find out someone doesnt like me. I dont know why I cannot immediately accept that not everyone will like me. I dont mean here on the POF forum, I mean in life in general.. When I am aware someone doesnt like me, I do find it does affect for an unreasonable amount of time. I wont obsess over it but I do dwell on it from time to time, ponder over, until something else takes my attention. No matter how long I worry I dont think I'll change the way I interact with people, I'm too old for change. Maybe, maybe not. As to interaction with others on this forum.. sometimes a response to what I or others have posted will initially elicit a reaction that isnt warranted. I have noticed over and over again that a person will post, read the post following theirs and think this second poster is responding to theirs and go off on one.. I dont think you can compare real life experiences to posting on a forum.. for one, you just dont have the familiarity, body language, facial expressions, etc., here that you usually have in your personal life.

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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3 Strikes and you are out! Posted: 5/18/2012 2:14:57 PM
There are a number of people with whom I have let our friendship lapse following situations I wasnt happy with but if they were to come to me after this to either reconnect or ask for help or whatever I probably would do as much as I could.. Maybe I'm lucky.. I dont think I've had anyone do something so awful to me that I wouldnt ever want anything to do with them ever again. When you say '3 strikes' or '1 strike' OP, what's your definition of a 'strike'?

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Coworker drama Posted: 5/12/2012 2:13:58 PM
Turn yourself or her over to the Friend Zone.. Can you not be a good friend at the same time as being a co-worker? I'd take a bet on it being better that way round.. Surely you know it adds so much unnecessary drama when you work with someone you have a relationship with? and I dont quite understand: 'cuz Im attracted to a woman who needs to be treated right'.. doesnt everyone, really, want to be treated right?

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Have you ever called someone the wrong name? Posted: 5/10/2012 1:30:57 PM
I did call one ex the name of a previous ex.. I remember asking.. What does MIT stand for *****? He was not happy but to me it was just a slip up in conversation, it wasn't as if we were in bed or anything. Only thing is I did call him the ex's name maybe about 5 times over a 18 month period so I sort of understand his displeasure. Another time, with a different man, whilst actually in bed I did call out his best friend's name.. that was odd..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Talking about a revolution... Posted: 5/10/2012 1:26:30 PM
'My dream is to make the whole world a paradise for motorcycle gangs.' via L. If that doesn't work, then maybe internet gangs..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Did you know what you wanted to do when you left school? Posted: 5/10/2012 5:25:37 AM
I left school at the earliest opportunity and I had no idea either what I wanted to do and have definitely drifted from job to job, mostly admin/office based with part time bar work/other thrown in for the extra cash. I know I have wasted so many opportunities to gain qualifications or different work experience - the only thing I do now is use my sorry self as an example to my children to encourage their further education and life/work experiences.

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Huge mole on face, or small scar from having it removed? Posted: 4/29/2012 4:42:53 PM
(am I turning you on yet?) Am sure you could turn anyone one on..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Huge mole on face, or small scar from having it removed? Posted: 4/29/2012 3:23:49 PM
I've just sicked up a bit in my mouth...skin tag my arse! Waaaaaaaaaah I'll have more of a complex after this then... but I've got to know, what TF was it's name... Now you've said all that I have to explain that my skin tag is like an.. O .. no bigger than that. From your description of your BF and comparison to mine I dont want aanyone to think I've got some sort of mutant on my neck..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Huge mole on face, or small scar from having it removed? Posted: 4/29/2012 3:10:00 PM
Actually I forgot I have a skin tag on my neck and these are really rather creepy.. I don't know about others but I can sort of pull the tag (mole) away from my neck.. (imagine taking a single hair and pulling it away from the skin.. it's like that..) it's not nice.. If I had to look at a skin tag on someone else I think I would try find ways of suggesting it's removal.. it's not a good look really..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Huge mole on face, or small scar from having it removed? Posted: 4/29/2012 2:52:28 PM
To put you or your friend's mole into perspective, did you see recent reports of the boy who had a mole removed from his back that was the size of his back? As for the OP.. I would, I think, have the moles if they were on my face removed. I have two moles on my body that if they were on my face I would definitely have had removed.. both are about twice the size of an O (as typed) and where they are dont bother me but on my face I would not be happy.. (then again not happy right now anyway...) I do look at people with moles on their face (that I have known and seen for years) and wonder why they havent investigated having them removed.

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Just be happy Posted: 4/29/2012 2:37:26 PM
Tonight I just dont feel very happy at all, in fact I feel just a little bit tearful.. I know I could cry if I forced my emotions.. and the thing is.. if someone said 'just be happy', it would make me feel worse.. right now dont want to feel happy, so I wont.. and dont anyone give me any bllcks about time of the month because that doesnt apply to me, had hysterics years ago.. So, my comment is, I'll just go with my emotions... and you too, (whoever you are) go with yours.. vvvvv tried to mail you but couldnt... Hysterectomy vvvv :D

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Dance Fever Posted: 4/26/2012 5:34:12 PM
Now, I am much in demand for dancing.... I can so agree with that.. any man who can move, in pretty much (I think) any style, on the dance floor will be a man in demand. I've watched the desire from the ladies watching this dancing man and I've watched the man myself with longing... .. to jive. If you're dancing with one particular partner this has got to be the best dance ever.. I wish I could this better than I think I can.. Is it awful to admit I do like dances like the macarena, the Whigfield one, the Timewalk and all those sort of dances.. yes, I guess it is awful in comparison.. but I can do these..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Dance Fever Posted: 4/26/2012 4:26:53 PM
I tried many many years ago to learn Ballroom and I think Latin with the then husband.. best part about it was that we were both as crap as each other.. We just could not do it.. Is the cha-cha-cha (or something like that) a dance in those categories? Not sure it's called that but I did enjoy that one but everything else was just so uncomprehensible to our (mine and ex) feet.. BUT I WOULD LOVE TO DO IT..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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age defying trickery??? Posted: 4/21/2012 7:27:36 AM
Thanks Pandora and Swan.. some things to think about if I definitely decide to do it. A cousin who went grey early dyes hers a more flattering white/grey and that's what I have in mind.. it's just taking that first step. One other thing I ought to look into is the individual semi permanent false eye lashes (does that make sense). Mine seem to sparse sometimes.

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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age defying trickery??? Posted: 4/20/2012 4:30:45 PM
I would like to strip my hair of colour - I pretty much know I am completely grey under the colour (my younger sister is) but I asked a hairdresser friend about it recently and she said it's very very destructive to the hair to strip colour.. somewhat very expensive and not guaranteed to strip it completely. She suggested I let it grow out... How did she think I was going to do that? Go live on a isolated island for how many months? Oh, sorry, forgot to buy the lottery ticket.. I remember walking behind a woman with a similar style hair do to mine and saying to my friend.. 'if I looked like that, I would do it in a minute..'

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Describe the last dream you can remember having Posted: 4/20/2012 4:11:53 PM
Dreams are just the way the mind files information. It does it at night so as not to disturb you, doesn't always work. You're right. Some of my daydreams would be absolutely catastrophic on anyone's mental health.. never mind mine. And considering daydreams.. the most 'efficient' one is the one where I drive 20 mins to work and dont, as I park, remember a single thing about the journey.. the bizarre thing is I also dont remember anything about my thought process during the journey.. What was I thinking about.. or dreaming about.. or what?

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Describe the last dream you can remember having Posted: 4/20/2012 4:02:37 PM
On the 11th of August 2007, a Saturday, I had a dream about Antony H Wilson... /snip/...Anyway, on the Monday I found out he had died of cancer on Friday 10th, which sent a bit of a shiver down my spine. I've had one similar dream and a friend told me of her dream which was pretty much the same.. it's mindblowing, isnt it? My most recent dream I remember was going to the library, processing my books, hitting the 'my account' button and seeing that I owed 1.00£. I then put coins into the slot but as I did the total owed changed from 1.00£ to 100£. I sort of remember being somewhat unhappy and letting the library staff know about it as they tried to explain how I owed that amount.. I dont remember much about the dream just a general sort of conflict in the library. I dont even remember who convinced who was right.. I do love it when I am just living my life and something ordinary happens which then reminds me of a wild dream I had and for a few seconds I am transported back to that unreality..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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do usernames put you off? Posted: 4/18/2012 2:44:08 PM
not sure what you mean there neither do I..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Long distance Posted: 4/18/2012 2:41:46 PM
sometimes when things go wrong distance is an advantage!!!! there's always a silver lining..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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do usernames put you off? Posted: 4/18/2012 2:34:56 PM
... it took me 12 attempts to come up with a name that hadnt been taken i was ready to give up and go elsewhere .lol I almost always like your posts, you are direct and say what you want to say.. so from a forum point of view I would look out for what you do ie if you have started a thread or were the last poster.. I would click on that particular thread... However.. (if your male counterpart had sent me mail) I would probably disregard it totally on your user name.. (Ihope you appreciate this is not aimed directly at you, just at the use of this type of user name..) Ugh.. no emoticons to lighten the mood? Guess what this one is then.. (-.(-.(-.(-.-).-).-).-)

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Do you need to live with your partner? Posted: 4/3/2012 1:19:18 PM
No I don't.. but sometimes I wish I did.. In my head (when I am driving around, which is the time I find myself awakening from a day dream {youn know what I mean}) I just want to have a relationship where I say every day at about 6pm ish.. 'Hello love, cuppa tea?..' Makes me feel good, sometimes..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Unsuitable partners Posted: 4/3/2012 1:16:48 PM
Don't really agree with the term FvckBuddy... It just seems like something people say to delude themselves into thinking, that they're not using someone else (or aren't being used) for sex. I always thought the term FvckBuddy was really actually used to recognise/annotate that each other was actually really using each other as a FvckBuddy.. what did you think they thought about each other?

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Unsuitable partners Posted: 4/3/2012 1:05:08 PM
I've had some very very very short term liaisons with some fabulous-at-the-time men.. sometimes (me) wanting more and sometimes Not.Ever.Going.There.Again.. but I've never had a situation like this lasting more than a few dates/meets.. No regrets.. there's some good memories looking back there.. even though he or I realised as good as it seemed at the time it wasnt enough.. or the attraction wasnt enough.. or there just wasnt any interest after that dalliance..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Under two years Posted: 3/24/2012 3:33:33 PM
If you’re in my age range say 35 to 45; do you think that people who have not had a relationship last more than a couple of years are worth dating? I’ve meet a couple of woman recently whose profiles stated that their longest relationship had been under two years; and to be honest it didn’t surprise me. Now I’m only talking through my own experiences here, but surely when you’ve been in the dating pool for the best part of 25 years and you haven’t been able to find someone you can get on with for more than a few months’ there has to be something going on? What are your thoughts on this? then you said: I don't ask about previous relationships but would you be offended if you were asked? So, do you as your OP, ask re prev relationships or not.. I'm not sure where you're going with this one..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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'Babe', punctuation, and one-liners - what irritates you? Posted: 3/24/2012 2:47:14 PM
awww i dont believe a word of it princess reported..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Under two years Posted: 3/24/2012 2:44:18 PM
What are your thoughts on this? I just think you have a negative outlook on life. Who knows what experiences anyone else has had until you meet them and get to know them.. The bit I dont understand is your interest in women who you are clearly not interested in, when you state: ... and to be honest it didn’t surprise me. Why are you so bothered about people you have such disdain for?

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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'Babe', punctuation, and one-liners - what irritates you? Posted: 3/24/2012 2:27:45 PM
Him...Hi babe where u frm xxxxxx Me....Hi I live in *** it's west of Newcastle. Where abouts are you? Jill Him...Gateshead babe xxxxxx Me....Ahh right. I've just got home. Been to the cinema with some friends to see **** . Great movie. Have you seen it? Jill x Him...no babe xxxxxx Me....Do you have anything good planned for the weekend? Jill x Him....no babe xxxxxx Have had similar too.. with same and different 'terms of endearment'. At a certain point, even though there's communication, I realise there's no going anywhere, at all... Cut Off. That's it. Sort of off topic... I really don't mind most greetings (as long as they're not like above) but got to say... I really hate someone younger than me calling me 'love'.. I would smack them if I could get away with it..

NicolaSeven

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Hiding Cigarettes Posted: 3/23/2012 5:53:35 PM
A groad* meaning a number that matters in the right here right now but doesnt matter when counting other stats...

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Hiding Cigarettes Posted: 3/23/2012 4:40:10 PM
Everyone knows smoking is bad for you and I do truly wish that the government would just ban it totally... The government has too much revenue from smoking to ever ban it. I personally dont believe a screen at a point of sale will deter any smoker. One usually starts smoking to fit in with peers or to prove something - it isnt about what is or isnt offered in the shop. As another posted noted most will know what brand they want or will just ask for the cheapest. This really isnt the best thought out idea but it will, as usual, make more work for someone else..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Slow response and changing mind Posted: 3/4/2012 3:04:03 PM
The whole not meeting because it is raining is bull, if they want to see you then they wont mess you about. If one has frizzy hair then the not meeting because it is raining is NOT bull.. it's because we do not want to have frizzy hair.. did you ever see that Friends episode?

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Is it uncomfortable for women to have sex during their period? Posted: 3/2/2012 2:14:48 PM
Some women do and some dont.. and for varying personal reasons.. and some women, it is alleged, feel ultra ultra horny during their menstruation.. I think once a woman (or a man) realises sex is sex is sex during a 30 day period (intended) then they'll have PIV if they want.. that is, as natural as menstruation is, there is definitely something you have 'get over' and as much as I'm not bothered I would always hope to have a shower after.. and I hope he can too..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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He doesnt like SEX? really? Posted: 3/2/2012 1:58:32 PM
I would just flat out ask him "what's up"? And can we "fix" this? If not....might be time to move on. Me too.. investigate any 'fixes', decide if there are over-riding compatibilities.. and stay or go.. whichever is more important to you.. Did I read you have been together for 4 years? If I did, I think you're blowing in the wind.. you must know if you can live with this or not.. maybe by the fact you're posting here there's an indication you're not happy.. so live with it or get out of it

NicolaSeven

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Is house ownership detrimental Posted: 1/27/2012 10:56:34 AM
Not when they reach retirement they won't... I dont understand why rent would halt because someone reached retirement. I've never heard of this. v v v v v Ahhhh, I have been informed. Thank you all for your responses there... v v v v v

NicolaSeven

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noisy eaters and people with bad table manners Posted: 1/27/2012 10:41:27 AM
Certain fruit can be quite hard to eat without making noise. Oranges are the worst. I'll let my son know.. might make him feel better I'll have to ask him whether the other housemates eat their oranges in the general areas or eat them privately too. One thing that really grates on me is the person who 'guards' their food. Using the fork, or spoon, only in one hand they spread the other arm sort of around the food as if protecting it while they shovel it in.. and eat as fast as they can. It's as if they think we've got the bad manners and are going to pinch it or something. My brother used to do this..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Is house ownership detrimental Posted: 1/27/2012 10:31:28 AM
Surely there must be some type of legal contract, similar to a pre-nuptial agreement, that can be used to protect your assets? If not, there should be. Wouldnt people source a water-tight hold onto your assets prior to entering into any relationship where a dissolving of the relationship would cause issues to arise. I cannot imagine - no matter how much I loved someone - not protecting my part of a house or whatever. And as Cinders said.. I would want my children to have some benefit from my legacy. No matter how small it is.

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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noisy eaters and people with bad table manners Posted: 1/27/2012 10:20:13 AM
...I'm only aware of it when she eats fruit salad at work. She makes a sort of chomping sound but I'm not aware of her having her mouth open so no idea how she does it........ My son does this and drives me crazy. The noise is so bad he actually admitted that he now eats fruit like oranges in his own room rather than in the kitchen or lounge area with his house mates. I thought I was a quiet eater until recently. I was sat in the lounge with my daughter, with no TV or radio on, while she did some last minute revision. I started to eat some plums.. they werent the softest but I didnt realise how much noise I was making until she played back the recording she had made of me.. I promise you I eat with my mouth closed but I'll definitely eat my fruit in private now too. The correct way to eat your peas sounds tedious. I suppose if you had been brought up to do that it would be easy but I have to admit I use my fork as a shovel to eat peas. Seems like I have bad table manners..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Weighty Issue Posted: 1/27/2012 10:00:52 AM
No subtext at all.. seemed to make sense at the time. All of us can list our preferences to til the end of time but IMO it's so personal it's hardly worth the question being asked. So many different opinons when the only one that matters is the person you may be interested in..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Quality of Television Programmes Posted: 1/26/2012 4:08:25 PM
So much utter rubbish, I cannot believe the BBC are making such programmes. When the BBC gives us programmes such as Sherlock (and others) I dont think we can complain when they use popular fillers such as SSS&P.. if a demographic watch these sort of programmes then the BBC as a service provider needs to show them.. otherwise the audience go elsewhere, maybe? It's meeting the user's need for the banal. As you mentioned, I think the proliferation of many many other channels and other media show the providers what the users want/are watching. I do actually watch a whole lot less TV than I did, say, 5 years ago. Mainly because my TV aerial isnt tuned in properly and I cant be bothered to get it fixed or more importantly have other things to spend my money on.

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Weighty Issue Posted: 1/26/2012 3:32:45 PM
I would be dating her BECAUSE shes a 5'2" size 8 with a nice figure, not because she weighed a particular weight LOL!! Fail.. Funny that you noticed that but completely missed the bit where I also said a 12 stone person with a decent figure would be more appealing than a size 8 with a spare tyre Reading what you want into something rather than whats actually implied is by far the more epic fail yeah but my reading/intepretation of your fail was funnier even if it was more epic..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Weighty Issue Posted: 1/26/2012 2:19:12 PM
I would be dating her BECAUSE shes a 5'2" size 8 with a nice figure, not because she weighed a particular weight LOL!! Fail..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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How do you see yourself ending up ? Posted: 1/26/2012 2:00:30 PM
I want to be one of those Grannies that every Grandchild loves.. White haired, knitting, cosy fire, a cat, sweets and biscuits in the cupboard.. and just a verybig welcome to any (hope there's loads) Grandchild coming visiting.. just want to have a smile on my face because it feels so good to have them around.. hahhaah I cant believe I just thought about that and wrote it all down...

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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for a man....is it best to have an affair or visit a prostitute... Posted: 1/26/2012 1:45:55 PM
I cannot read 9 pages of posts so I'm answering the OP: and now I see he has left the building, so I suppose my answer is to any others thinking the same.. If you ask a question on a forum you shouldnt expect anyone not to judge.. or have a different opinion to you.. not everyone will have the same values as you.. If you ask your partner this question, I think you will get the definitive answer. If you really cannot ask your partner, then I'll answer from my point of view. If there is no chance of us ever ever having sex again in our natural lives then let's part.. I dont want to be with someone who wants ssomething else and I dont want to be with someone who I would not want to have sex with.. there.. end thread...

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Weighty Issue Posted: 1/26/2012 1:34:31 PM
Everyone's criteria will be different.. But I think it's important.. a few extra, yes.. a lot extra, then no, I'm not going there. This is my criteria.. you never know how anyone else will react until you know.. You'll have to present yourself via favourites or mail or other methods here on POF to see if you get the reaction you want. It's up to you..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Removing full forum posts Posted: 1/26/2012 1:11:56 PM
Lucinda65, are you aware that if another user puts your name in the box, second box to right about half way down, on any forum page and then selects 'user name' in the next box.. all threads you have posted in will be shown..?

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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When bad things happen in life . Does it make a person stronger ? Posted: 9/17/2011 1:29:09 PM
{I miss my daughter every day every night i say morning and night night,and kiss her pictures,telling her just how much daddy loves her-that breaks my heart..] I know that seems a small thing to most...but it wrenches my guts every damn day..but there aint a damn thing i can do about it,cos the world always thinks the woman is in the right...Well let me tell you,there are some nasty feckin women out there....Dont get me wrong,there are good and bad in both,but women seem to have the edge when it comes to being just damn nasty...and playing mind games,it's like an inner trigger they cant switch off.... Your initial post isnt a small thing at all.. I can only imagine it would be heartbreaking if you're not with her compared to how much you would want to be with her. I think this experience doesnt necessarily make you stronger, it posssibly makes you more determined, resiliant, I cannot think of the best word to describe it.. but point is, dont stop your 'need' for her however awful the situation is... which brings me to the next part of your post: Other than the 'Dont get me wrong...' bit.. you sound awfully bitter.. maybe something that would need to be addressed in terms of making a person stronger.. It depends on the characters personality makeup and their outlook in life in general. I totally agree. Having gone through some 'life' experiences similar to a close friend, I have found it interesting to hear her take on our situations compared to how I respond to things. I am totally honest with her (she's a really really good friend) when I cannot comprehend her reactions and I think we have learnt from each other..

NicolaSeven

Joined: 5/21/2009

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Dates ruined by other people..... Posted: 8/26/2011 1:07:07 PM
I'm disgusted with the attitude...and if a child did ruin her meal by putting his/her hands in it..what does it matter, it's not as if she's starving to death and doesn't need to lose a few pounds. You're kidding? You have to be a (am lost for words actually..) twat to think that anyone, anyone, would think it's OK for your kid's hands to touch/into their meal.. I really dont understand why you think this is OK but am open to you telling me how/why.. ughhh.. On one hand I'd like to know.. on the other I cannot imagine what your life is like so I dont want to know..

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