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simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

Msg: 7 (view)

A Knights Prayer Posted: 8/23/2009 3:26:20 AM
Why don't you venture to another kingdom and find a "Princess" who want's and deserves you?

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Tramp stamp Posted: 8/7/2009 2:55:43 AM
Not sure.. I got mine there because of the stigma. I did it because it would fit.. Basically it's a tat of a clover with the words "Pog Mo Thoin" under it, meaning "Kiss my Arse" in Gaelic. I thought it was pretty funny, but I guess you had to be there.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Dating deal-breakers and cardinal sins Posted: 7/30/2009 12:35:30 AM
If they A) Talk constantly about their ex's B) Talk about their past conquests with other women C) Say anything which contains "You should excersize more" or "A woman's place is.." D) Gloat about hurting animals.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Do most woman want a guy that doesnt have kids? Posted: 7/30/2009 12:27:04 AM
I would love to date a man who had children as well. It would be a really good bond.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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I love the way my child.. Posted: 7/30/2009 12:25:47 AM
I also love that first smile when you get them out of the crib in the morning. I also love how he grabs my face and looks at me like I am the best person in the world. I love his sounds and I love his smell. I love his laugh and the way he "coo's".

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Friends over relationships Posted: 7/29/2009 11:58:17 PM
I refuse to choose my friends over my relationships nor my relationships over my friends. If they can't get along thats fine, but they both have to realize I am not going to give up either one. Now, I have defended one or the other to whichever one criticized but I would never choose.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Control freak or Perfect mate? calling all men & women..Help! Posted: 7/29/2009 1:59:28 AM
3 days? hahaha! No way! Seriously, he is going a bit too fast. The point of dating is to date! RED FLAG ALERT.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Going out with a cop, a good or bad idea? Posted: 7/28/2009 6:47:19 PM
I'm not sure, but man whenever I see a cop in uniform something in me goes crazy. Maybe it's the handcuffs.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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David Deangelo Double Your Dating - Any feedback? Posted: 7/28/2009 6:36:08 PM
The Jerk thing doesn't work. Trust me. I have said this a zillion times, when a woman falls for a man he isn't a jerk at first, but become's one when we are already attached and sucked into his drama. That is where the myth women like jerks comes from.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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My child told me something disturbing. What would you do? Posted: 7/28/2009 3:05:52 AM
More than likely your son is NOT making this up. Don't take it lightly.. I would tell your son that if anything happens he can ALWAYS come to you, call you ect and let you know what is going on. Don't make the mistake of leading the conversation and pressing issues, just listen to him first. I would make a point of letting your ex wife know that is NOT acceptable behavior and if you find out things like that are going on you aren't going to allow that person around your son.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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A wedding and a funeral Posted: 7/28/2009 2:47:44 AM
Hi sweetness, I just wanted to say I feel for you, and it does get easier with time. I lost my first love to death over 10 years ago, and though there isn't a day that goes by where I don't think of him the pain gets better. I lost my Father to cancer in april. It was 3 months after his diagnosis till his death. When it happens that fast it is almost impossible to come to grips with. You are too busy going through the motions to mourn. I am sorry for your loss. Again, it will be hard but you will pull through. It IS ok to remember him and cry if you need to. I think our biggest mistake is we fail to let out our grief in healthy ways.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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How do I absolutely without a doubt let a guy know I am NOT interested without hurting him? Posted: 7/28/2009 2:42:24 AM
Well you can't. You have already given him enough hints - looks like he doesn't really care what you want/feel. And at the age of 46, he deserves to get hurt. Hit him where it hurts the most.... BAM! So you are saying I should invite him over for a date, then kick him in the crotch when he shows up? lol

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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How do I absolutely without a doubt let a guy know I am NOT interested without hurting him? Posted: 7/28/2009 2:14:57 AM
I have this very good friend whom I chat with online, and have so for several months. I was very open with him as I saw him as a mentor (Him being 46 or so, me being 28) and got kind of close to him. Problem is, he started hinting at a relationship and I didn't know if he was joking, so I let it go. That has now turned into full on flirting. I turned him down several times but in a very nice way. . He will go for several weeks now and not say anything and then BOOM! He makes a wild comment, and takes it even further. Honestly, he's freaking me out and kinda taking advantage of the fact that I let him in. I don't want the friendship to end BUT I do not ever think I can trust him enough to let him in like I did before. My question is what is a firm yet still nice way to turn him down? He's pretty fragile so I really don't want to be a total meanie. Any suggestions guys? Thanks! -K

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Asking out a coffee girl Posted: 7/27/2009 6:46:09 PM
Yes, walk up to her and run your hands across your hair, lean on the counter and say "I would like a grande frapp, add a shot of "Love" and can I get the whipped cream on you baby?" Actually, I'm not sure. I would feel her out first and see if she is interested back.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Height/weight issues.. does it matter? Posted: 7/27/2009 6:29:55 PM
I think when your front butt matches your real butt, then you are a bbw. No, thats not a slam. I am a bigger girl too. =P

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Do you get jealous when Posted: 7/27/2009 6:27:09 PM
Nope. Unless we are together, then I break his windshield. (Kidding, Kidding....maybe.)

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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How do men feel about married a married woman dating? Posted: 7/27/2009 6:22:26 PM
Get a divorce and move on as you have obviously done so.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Does anyone else feel like they weren't meant to be a Californian? Posted: 7/24/2009 4:40:49 AM
Yes, the "Show me" state is very friendly. I stayed there for several weeks in missouri and loved it.. Except for the old ladies whom thought I was a Satanist. lol

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Must have car and job=gold digger? Posted: 7/24/2009 4:28:20 AM
Yeah, we just don't wanna be someones caddy nor do we want to be their sugar momma. Sheesh sorry for askin you guys to be self sufficient.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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When someone on the street ask you for money, what do you tell them? Posted: 7/19/2009 4:00:33 AM
I ALWAYS give it. Here in Cali alot of people are in hard times and I figure if my crappy dollar can help someone else out and make them feel better then that is the best use I can put it to. I am trying to set an example by being helpful to those when I can.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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mmmkay giggle giggle Posted: 7/14/2009 11:13:54 PM
Farts I bet that just lost me "Points"

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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this is for men and woman, whats going on with photos in the bathroom? Posted: 7/14/2009 11:10:24 PM
It's easiest place to do it when you don't have anyone to take a pic for you.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Does anyone else feel like they weren't meant to be a Californian? Posted: 7/14/2009 6:09:02 PM
LOL yes, but most of these immigrants are not here legally and have different ethnic values. It's true we all came from somewhere else long ago and immigrated here, but the majority of us worked hard and did it legally.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Women and their kids Posted: 7/13/2009 9:16:21 PM
I think we are choosier because we realize anyone we date will also be subjected to our children.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Does anyone else feel like they weren't meant to be a Californian? Posted: 7/13/2009 9:10:55 PM
It's expensive, congested and there's no real "town square" or sense of belonging. That's a very good point landra2

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Does anyone else feel like they weren't meant to be a Californian? Posted: 7/13/2009 9:08:31 PM
I beg to differ. You are making a generalization in which Californians are rude versus folks from other states No, I am going off of what I found to be true in my own experiance. The majority of the people I ran into in other states are simply friendlier. I get almost ran into by crazy rude drivers on a daily basis here whom simply ignore I was even there and don't have the balls to even look at me after they nearly run me off the road. 9 out of 10 times the person in front of me will not hold the door open, and 9 out of 10 times they will knock me over to get in through the door before I can get out. It is COMPLETELY different from what I experianced in other states.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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men that love big women Posted: 7/13/2009 9:01:45 PM
So you like chubby chicks because they buy you drinks? LOL I'm chubby but I wouldn't buy a guy a drink..I'm not that desperate.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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friend has a short fuse with her kid, is it driving the guys away? Posted: 7/13/2009 8:58:34 PM
Tell that chick to take some parenting classes before she severely affects him (Which she will, trust me.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Finding Out Your Wonderful BF has a Record and a Dark Side Posted: 7/13/2009 8:54:28 PM
Count your lucky stars and get the hell away from him as fast as you can. If you care to make sure the kids have a way to get ahold of you without their father knowing if he does something to them and get them to safety.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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out of your leauge? Posted: 7/13/2009 8:49:41 PM
No, generally they are out of my league.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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She's religious, I'm not. How do you balance this?? Posted: 7/11/2009 6:04:04 PM
It won't work unless you both decide that religion is an "Off topic" for the both of you. However, if it works long term you will have a helluva time figuring out how best to raise your children and what beliefs to instill in them. I just wouldn't bother unless she is willing to give a little too.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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anti blasphemy laws Posted: 7/11/2009 5:56:10 PM
Tell ya what..I will switch you homesteads. I am sure you won't like it here anymore than you do there.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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nosy boyfriend's mother Posted: 7/11/2009 5:52:30 PM
Just shove her down some stairs or something...

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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what have you learned from previous relationships about choosing a partner? Posted: 7/11/2009 5:51:07 PM
I will be alot more careful and notice the "Red flags" which I should have noticed in the first place.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Does anyone else feel like they weren't meant to be a Californian? Posted: 7/11/2009 5:48:49 PM
I deal with rude people on a daily basis, most of which I really didn't realize were rude until I went out of state for a few weeks.. I remember the first time someone opened the door for me and smiled. I was completely blown away and thought "Wow, what a friendly person!" I realized later it wasn't just one friendly person, but several. People in other states are much warmer and personable than we Californians. I even got "cut off" while driving and when I rushed up to yell at them they just waved at me lol. Why do you think it is that we as a state are unfriendlier than others? Frankly I am sick of the behavior here..it seems people here are more worried about themselves, their looks, what car they drive, their bed size, how massively and unnessicarily big their house is.. Anyone else feel lost here too?

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Cheating- can you forgive? Posted: 7/11/2009 5:41:24 PM
Nope..I can't. I believe once it is done it is even easier to do a second, third, or fourth time. Cheating ruins lives and ruins people. I tried taking back a cheater once, but I never did trust him again and what they say about "No trust=no love" is true.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Dating a Married Man Posted: 7/11/2009 5:39:26 PM
I know how.. Send his wife pictures of you two together. That will end you two and most likely get the poor girl who is married to him away from him and his b.s too.

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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NOT FAIR! Posted: 7/11/2009 5:30:07 PM
an hoed me the 2nd night, he puts his thing infront of her Please tell me that doesn't mean what I think it means...

simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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what does the word or title wh*re mean to women? Posted: 7/11/2009 5:14:58 PM
Wh*re is bad, but not the worst by far. I have been called this by ex's as it seems to be simply a word some men seem find with throwing around, and I in most cases dumped them and wouldn't speak to them. It's not funny, its not cute, and it's just mean.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Why is friends first so bad? Posted: 7/10/2009 1:43:36 AM
Friends first is the best way to go! I never got the whole "I don't want to ruin the friendship" thing unless there were boundries established in the first place.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Newbie Question Posted: 7/10/2009 1:39:02 AM
Personally I think the "Rules" are different for everyone. If you feel the need to explore your options then more power to ya. Good luck, and I am sorry you had to go through what you did.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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How do you tell someone you love them but want to keep your options open? Posted: 7/9/2009 8:19:07 PM
Wow..thats love. I remember in story books they spoke about "Going to the ends of the earth!" and "Waiting until the end of time!" I can't get a guy to drive a few counties away to meet me, and till the end of time apparently means till he gets bored and his eyes meet some other chicks arse. I'm sorry that happened..you didn't do anything wrong though..he just seems like a nar nar.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Help! Women, Visa cards and my 5th grey hair at 28! Posted: 7/9/2009 6:02:37 PM
I have been taught to never expect anything from anyone and when you recieve a gift from someone you most definatly do not criticize it. A gift for the most part is just something that lets someone know you were thinking of them..so no matter how big or small it should be appreciated. Ithink the one time I got mad at anyone over a gift was at xmas I bought someone a really expensive gift and recieved nothing.. I was more mad that he didn't even TRY.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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I'm really finding it hard to not turn bitter.. Posted: 7/9/2009 5:54:11 PM
Yeah, I fell for that already once desert, and I will not do that again. You were absolutely right when you said they never change and just do the same stuff over and over again even when they promise you they "have had time to think" and "will appreciate you more now". It's like they have an abuser handbook they all get this stuff from or something.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean? Posted: 7/9/2009 1:53:39 AM
Thanks CEO. You never know, stranger things have happened!

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean? Posted: 7/9/2009 1:53:00 AM
See, exactly cause thats what made me second guess it. It was odd too because he had this weird penetrating gaze. Wish he would have just said "HEY! I KNOW YOU!..you were the girl that.."Insert crazy thing I did in the past here"

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean? Posted: 7/9/2009 1:48:52 AM
I hope that was it, and it wasn't that he was sizing me up to be his next murder victim.. Wow I am paranoid.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean? Posted: 7/9/2009 1:43:38 AM
So I was at the local staters with my good girl pal shopping for our movie and popcorn extravaganza and as we approach one of the isles this guy looks at us in a dead stare. We walk by him and I smile and quickly look away. His head follows us as we walk by and he keeps staring, but it's a really odd look. Kinda creepy and almost like he is dumbfounded...it gets stranger. We walk down a few more isles and pass him a few more times. He is obviously shopping with his mother as it is an older lady. He keeps blantantly staring at us and completely turning around to keep us in view as we walked by. My friend comments "He was pretty hot" and I just couldn't help but giggle. She found him hot, but I was creeped out. I thought "Oh my god that guy must know me from somewhere" but I wasn't sure who he was staring at. A few moments pass and we get in line..lo behold! It is the same guy in front of us. He keeps looking back. I tell my friend "Stay with the cart, I forgot soda." I walk to get the soda, come back and he stares at me. He then nudges his mom and blantantly points at me. I turn away but glance back a few times kinda freaked out.. What the heck does this mean? The guy looked about my age, maybe older but not at all familiar. Any ideas what this was all about? The whole thing kinda freaked me out and I can't stop thinking about it.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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Fear of women with swords? Posted: 7/9/2009 12:10:06 AM
Hides sword Well..at least I'm not from Az.

Simplykendra

Joined: 5/22/2009

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I'm really finding it hard to not turn bitter.. Posted: 7/9/2009 12:00:30 AM
Icsvortex: You are right. I am not "Looking" but I am keeping my options open. I don't want to absolutely close out my options right now but I am most definatly not scowering the town looking for love interests. I do however love the forums here and they help me vent. I have also met quite a few interesting people and am happy I decided to put a profile up here.

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