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bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

Msg: 85 (view)

from one dater to another: 'show me your drivers license, please' Posted: 11/9/2009 11:27:21 PM
Dirtsearch.org is a great way to find out it someone is REALLY married or divorced.

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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The type of people you attract here? Posted: 10/4/2009 9:28:55 PM
Retired men old enough to be my dad. College guys looking for a MILF Real life is waaayyy better!!!

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

Settling for somebody your own age? Posted: 7/21/2009 12:36:28 AM
I have yet to meet a 20 yr. old with the wisdom of a 40 yr old. Wishful thinking!

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Making bets with your girlfriends Posted: 7/15/2009 7:06:30 PM
One of my neighbors has a daughter in 20's that hits the clubs every weekend. The girls have bets against each other to see how many drinks older men will buy for them. They flirt around for the free drinks: them move on to the next club. So it does happen and it happens alot in Scottsdale.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Asking for professional advice Posted: 4/19/2009 4:49:41 AM
Don't worry about women seeing $$$ signs because they see you are an attorney. Believe it not, there are plenty of women that are not after a man's money. There are just better thingsto do in life than look for a rich man; the ones that I have met have been very shallow and rude....think sooo highly of themselves. NEXT! They are looking for some free legal advice and not much more. Every time I tell someone that I sell merchandise on e-bay they want to know all of my secrets. I have learned my "secrets" on my own and am NOT sharing. Get my upcoming book~LOL~!

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Woman won't tell me her last name Posted: 1/8/2009 12:35:51 AM
Because a complete background check is available for a mere $39.95 on the net. There are search engines that will locate your place of residence for free. Had a few loonies from social network sites land on my door at the old place so I never answer the door unless I know them. So "classmates" is the only site I will put my entire name on.

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Last date Posted: 1/7/2009 8:56:54 PM
The last one looked nothing like his picture. I barely recognized the eyes and nose. Plus he had really bad breath. I got out of there in 10 minutes and joined my friends at the piano bar. Yep, online dating requires a very thick skin and you have to assume everyone is lying about something; unless proven otherwise at the first "meet". haha.

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

Msg: 184 (view)

do men like to be approached first? Posted: 1/6/2009 11:10:02 PM
The two most fulfilling relationships I have had in my life were when I approached them. They were just shy. :0) Maybe I should try it again,eh? How I miss the old days when were all too young and dumb to concoct all of these schemes; everyone was just who they were. I'm thinking the internet gives us too many choices.

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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With all the Must Not Mail Settings.... Posted: 12/3/2008 12:57:36 AM
MUST look like Prince William or forget it!

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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A lil advice ladies Posted: 3/8/2008 1:30:12 AM
Do NOT ever mix work with romance!!! Don't get mixed up with stupid young girls; they are just using you for attention.

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Why, do some rather gorgeous women put up with abuse? Posted: 3/5/2008 4:28:52 AM
There is NO situation where I will tolerate any abuse of any form! I have a very healthy high sense of self esteem and would rather be single for the rest of my life than get involved with an abuser. FEMALES....don't put up with it! Greener pastures always come around when you least expect it.

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Anybody had any success with Craig's List? Posted: 3/5/2008 4:05:33 AM
Love to check out the "free" section! Looked at some the men's ads looking for females and it really just a hook-up thing. Good for laughs though! Peace to all!

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Why don't you age? Posted: 3/5/2008 3:56:46 AM
Genetics Mary Kay Microdermabrasion and skin care products (I sell the complete line) Hydroderm Staying out of the sun!!!! This will age you faster than anything else!

bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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What have you learned about online dating here? Posted: 3/1/2008 12:05:14 AM
Men over 40 are delusional! They are hoping to land 25 yr.olds and don't realize that they're being viewed as "creepy old guys". These are the same ones that will not allow a woman a WHOLE year older to message them. Get real guys...or would you rather be alone???

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Clues that he's an online player .. Posted: 10/12/2007 5:08:46 AM
Google me and.....you will still not find my real hangout! Wowies... too much peach rum!

Bestestfish

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Msg: 186 (view)

Why do men copy/paste Posted: 10/10/2007 1:24:41 AM
If you are truly interested in a woman take the time to create an original e-mail!!! GUESS WHAT...it does not need to be lengthty !!! Please read our profile (haha)....if we are not interested in smokers; do not try to change our mind!!! I have never received 20 or 200+ e-mails in one day.....who came up with this fallacy???? Don't assume automatic rejection due to "numbers". Most of us are looking for a monogomous relationship. We want a nice guy nice guy that will treat us right and we will kick the players to the curb. Time to ZZZZZZ!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Dating someone they met on this site and their still on here Posted: 10/10/2007 12:00:15 AM
He is looking to see if other females still find him attractive. The worst thing you could do is turn into a whiny controlling female that tells him what to every second of his life. That's when they cheat.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Contact rule broken Posted: 9/25/2007 5:04:44 PM
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. (Dr. Phil ) Move on. I got back with my high school sweetheart and got ditched again. She is just looking for attention from a warm fuzzy from the past.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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I'm needing objective advice Posted: 9/7/2007 4:49:50 AM
Why are you having sex with this AZZ?? Never make someone your priority when you are only an option! Better to be alone than put up with this nonsense....I do know what I'm talking about! Feel free to contact me! OMG It's bed time!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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do women like men that a reserved? Posted: 8/25/2007 1:10:09 AM
The love of my life was shy and reserved. It was frustrating at first, but what a loving,kind and generous man he was! I will always have a special place in my heart for him. He even sang love songs to me...awwww...!!!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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How many bad dates before you give up dating for awhile? Posted: 8/25/2007 1:03:15 AM
The same thing happened to me in my chat line days. We got along great on the phone; when we met he was extremely silent! He said he looked like Leonardo Decaprio...well maybe int the eyes! Chalk it up to the trials and tribulations of the dating world. Don't give up...that is giving up on yourself!! Never allow another human being to make you feel bad about yourself. You are the only YOU on this planet; always trust your heart and intuition.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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are there any guys out there who are actually on here for more then just sex Posted: 8/19/2007 2:43:34 AM
Yes, they do want the nymphos...then they can't figure out why the nymphos cheat!!!! I have been trough 2 Vegas guys still hung up on cheating nymphos/skanks/ex-fiances!!! Maybe you guys will finally get it in your forties!!! Such a simple concept...but ya still don't get it! You are not interested in a woman that will treat you right and not cheat. Have fun jacking off to your porn!!!! Catch me if ya can!!! Yeppers. I do tell it like it is!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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volunteering Posted: 8/19/2007 2:27:53 AM
I am a board member of a singles club...many people will say that they will show up; yet few actually do! THIS IS ONE AFTERNOON FROM YOUR LIFE!!!! The homeless shelters do need all of our help. Get off of the couch; watch your boring DVD tomorrow and get involved!!! Even if we feel that we are in a crappy point in our lives.....show up and see the smiles generated from those that are less fortunate! NO BRAINER!!!!!<3

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Rules of the dating game? Posted: 8/19/2007 2:16:14 AM
Most internet men are dating multiple females ....do the same! DO trust your inner voice as it will never be wrong. Tooooo many men looking for fack buddies when they are married...claiming to be separated!! They can't/won't leave their wives because of the almighty 401K....contact me for more insight as I know this game much too well....:) YES, I did great on my 401K! Too many wasted years with an azz....FINE now!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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When do you give up Posted: 8/19/2007 1:53:52 AM
I was diagnosed with intersticial cystis in the 90's and believe me DMSO treatments are not fun! The urologist explained to my ex-husband that he would have to accept my disability and that it was likely that I could not hold a REAL job for the rest of my life. He still thought there was nothing wrong with me. Much name calling and such! HOW INTERESTING that I went into complete remission just 5 days after I left him to be with another man. The other man was a bigger control freak than hubby so I kicked both of them to the curb and am as healthy as can be. Stress can truly bring upon many diseases.. Find a support group and they will lift your spirits and give you so much hope that you may go into complete remission as I did. Best of luck! Always take care of #1!!!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Why do most women ask for honesty if the chances are they are going to lie? Posted: 8/19/2007 1:39:51 AM
Because we know that the majority of you are dating several women at the same time and we are doing the same! GONE are days of sitting at home waiting for ANY man to call :)

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Coming on to strong or not??? Posted: 8/19/2007 1:33:02 AM
Meet ASAP!! I was e-mailing someone local for 4 months and we just couldn't catch each other on the phone at the same time. He was supposed to take me up for a helicopter ride in two days; talked 2 nights before and I was informed the night before that he had given the ticket to someone else. WTF??? I just moved on and wondered what could have transpired in an hour of conversation to make him bail! Two months later he's trying to add me as a friend on my space. Go figure.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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What do guys think of a woman who goes out by herself? Posted: 8/19/2007 1:21:36 AM
HEY! I went to Jackass 2 alone because it was too gross for my female friends and I wasn't dating anyone at the time. Laughed so hard the soda came out of my nose; the teenagers around me thought I was pretty cool for one of those "adults" that are supposed to be old and boring!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Relationship Role Models Posted: 7/8/2007 3:22:40 AM
I am happy to say that I have broken away from my family tree of alcoholics! The men I attracted were GONE the minute any medical problems surfaced. Now that I am healthy I attract quality men in real life. (Online is another story ~LOL~!)

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Doesn't anyone REALLY want to meet? Posted: 7/8/2007 2:56:19 AM
My findings exactly! My beta fish is livelier than most of the online men that want to send one sentence e-mails back and forth forever....!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

What do you do when a guy you are talking to talks about his ex all the time? Posted: 6/25/2007 5:31:37 AM
I had one talk for 1 1/2 hours about his cheating ex 2 years ago...how he followed her; caught her and all of that. He was clearly NOT over it and I could not see myself investing my time in this. He kept e-mailing me wondering what haappened to me. At this OLD (haha) age I don't have time for nonsense. Coem back when you are over the ex.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Intimidated by contacting muscular and athletic guys .. ..Is there a need to be ?? Posted: 6/21/2007 1:56:19 AM
I am fearless and am not intimidated by anyone. They seem to be intimidated by me :( but it is what it is. On here "average" is always overweight. Wish you guys would just be honest. It will save you alot of heartache in the long run. This also applies to those posting pictures that are 15 years old...

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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okay'we all make mistakes' what would you do differently? Posted: 6/21/2007 1:51:02 AM
Not to pursue a married man; even though he said he was going to get a divorce. I'm sure he pulled that on the last one! Good riddance!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Long hair on older women Posted: 6/20/2007 2:44:29 AM
I will have long hair forever.....and it is to please me....who cares what the men think! I'm my own person (therefore very intimidating) and am fine the way I am!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Do women really get abused as much as they say or do they make it seem worse then it actually is? Posted: 6/20/2007 2:02:28 AM
Emotional abuse is as bad, if not worse than Physical abuse. I was called a stupish*t on a daily basis and had my own (Locked) bedroom for 10 years. He cuddled with the dogs on the couch instead of with me. He was camping with his buddies in Tucson every weekend instead of being with wife. I was at the (male) strippers every Saturday night. He thought it was fine to throw/destroy my Mary Kay baskets because they were cluttering up the dining area. I was constantly called a freeloader in spite of the fact that I was running 2 businesses. Why did I stay? I was very close with his mother; as my mother has beeen very distant and critical. His mother dis-owned me immediately and took his side. WARNING LADIES.....it never gets better in spite of all the tearful promises. Kick these guys to the curb sooner than later...never look back! Hold your head high with dignity and move on. Forever single is always better than being abused.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Paying for dinner date with 2 for 1 coupon. Will she be impressed? Posted: 6/20/2007 1:19:22 AM
Anytime we can save money is fine by me. I'm not a snob and do not require fine dining unless the gentleman insists. I purchase everything I can at Walmart and regularly contribute to my savings account. Smart blonde!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Not honest in profile Posted: 6/3/2007 6:22:37 AM
Once a pothead; always a pothead! My ex-husband has been smoking it for 20+ years and could get fired if there was a hair test conducted. I wish to keep my alimony, so I will be silent! Seriously. I finally had to ask a doctor about the long term consquences of this habit. He said that if you are a type "A" personality it will make you much more of a type"A"; meaning more hyper and nuerotic; this was exactly the case. He had to smoke it in the morning to calm down and be functional. Mr. Honeywell executive; mind you!!! The type "B" personalities will get much more layed back. I am so happy to have this chapter of my life closed. May have some fun when the alimony ends. The $50,000 profit on the house will always be in the back of mind. What to do; what to do!!! The jester lovers to jest!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Stood UP on First Dates Posted: 6/3/2007 6:05:04 AM
I was stood up on a second date. If was fine for me to be around HIS buddies; but my former TALL club pals scared him off. He had a very BADDDD car oxident (egyptian accent). Ran into him at the clubs later on.....he wants to know why I don't have a boyfriend yet and thinks I need him for the night....PASS forever! heee! Skeet-zone!!!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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ultravoxgurl Posted: 6/3/2007 5:46:43 AM
Let's put ourselves out there folks; as it is what it is! I am very loving, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same. I will not tolerate liars, cheaters, serial daters and...married men looking for a dish on the side. I am very confident in myself and if you do not treat me with the respect I deserve you will be history. No second chances here. Have your life and finances in order as I do. I am everyone's jester; nobody's fool. I know that I have scared many off; but I am really looking for the ONE fish to grow old with; and all of that sappy stuff!!! My main men have always been taller than myself...so 5'11" or taller; your occupation is not that important. Just no welfare or disabled cases. Best of luck to all!!!! What is this banana all about? haha!!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men? Posted: 6/3/2007 5:33:42 AM
I am not intimidated whatsoever! I am very confident in myself and have found that I intimidate men....so what is all of that about????? Double standard, eh? Contact me if you are confident; as I have no room for cowards and wienies. I will treat you right. My male friends say that I am everything a man wants in a woman and I tend to trust their judgement; as they know the REAL me!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Online Dating is a Farce Posted: 6/3/2007 5:26:31 AM
If 40+ men would stop chasing 18 yr olds they would fare quite well IMHO. Too bad the fragile ego is ever present! Don't whine about young girls disappearing; it's normal for them to see what they can get away with. What on earth will you be able to converse about..do you really want a KID????? Short term gain = long term bachelorhood. I tell it like it is; appreciate it, learn, move on.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Why can't men say I would rather not see you again Posted: 6/3/2007 5:17:05 AM
They are cowards; nothing more, nothing less! I was dropped in an e-mail a year ago...good riddance....have a grand life being a coward! I deserve better and moved on rapidly! There is always someone out there that will treat you with respect you deserve. Take care of #1!!!!!! Brutally honest as always.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

Msg: 64 (view)

Why do women love dancing so much? Posted: 6/3/2007 5:09:04 AM
I have always been a girly girl and loved to dress up to the max with rhinestones. I am not a show-off (maybe a little bit!) or looking for a one nighter. Dancing is my greatest weight loss technique as I have lost 75 lbs. in 7 months. Please make an effort to get out on the dance floor...we don't expect perfection by any means...just move and have fun! You will be surprised at how many new doors will open to females if you just get out there and do it! Do it and have a great rest of your life!!!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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Kind of a delicate situation... Posted: 6/3/2007 4:57:30 AM
Friends = always friends; so that's all it will ever be. Don't push it and remain friends! I wish my "friends" had not POOF*DISAPPEARED! I miss them!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/3/2007 2:51:53 AM
"I want to bite you and lick you....in a hotel in Mesa!" True story!

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

Rachel's Guide to Online Dating Posted: 6/3/2007 2:24:53 AM
And: Spelling is very important. Many nut jobs on Singles net...! Dont expect many responses when you say.... whatup? or how ru? hey sexy how u doin?

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

Msg: 46 (view)

Rachel's Guide to Online Dating Posted: 6/3/2007 2:19:53 AM
Please add: NO usernames about "Best Catch in the Universe". If you are such a catch, why have you not been caught? Females despise arrogance. Also add: Forty-somethings seeking 18 year olds... you will be completely dismissed by rational and loving females. Have fun getting played by the girlies. They will take you for every cent and run off hand in hand with thier girlfiends laughing about how the played the old guy. I did the same thing when I was 21; so I know what I'm talking about.

Bestestfish

Joined: 2/12/2006

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fellow women: a question Posted: 5/22/2007 11:38:53 PM
Never get obsessed over any man. That sends them running for the hills every time. "Nice" girls are boring; they love a challenge! Tell me I'm right, fellas!

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