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michaelrallen

Joined: 5/27/2009

Msg: 79 (view)

Dating a Gemini Posted: 9/28/2009 7:57:14 PM
I am a Gemini and I don't believe that my fate is determined by what date I was born. I don't follow the Chinese calendar either (Rabbit). I don't think I have ever been called Bi-polar and I don't think anyone has ever said I have a multiple personality disorder either. I do admit I can be charming at times, when I want something:), but I doubt every Gemini has the same qualities. -Mike

michaelrallen

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why woman get mad!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 9/21/2009 10:46:33 PM
I look at girls breasts all the time at school. I don't stare and if the girl catches me and gives me a bad look big deal the other nine out of ten enjoy the attention, trust me. -Mike

michaelrallen

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what is your greatest dating fears? Posted: 9/19/2009 8:57:26 AM
My greatest fear would be fear of rejection within a relationship. It is funny how that fear of being hurt or losing someone continues even after I am with someone for awhile. When I first read the OP's post I immediately thought of meeting a girl who is really a guy, lol, but that would be really unlikely to happen. My radar is pretty good for weeding out these types, or those deemed mentally ill. -Mike

michaelrallen

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guy does all the talking Posted: 9/4/2009 11:15:27 AM
In my opinion, it could be lack of interest, lack of personality, in a rush, or too shy. If it was me I would move on quickly as there are lots of interesting people in the pond that you could talk to instead. -Mike

michaelrallen

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introvert Posted: 8/25/2009 5:35:29 PM
I consider myself a social introvert so I like to be out with people every day, but then I take time out to work on projects alone ie. working on the car, painting and I find this grounds me. Most of my closest friends are introverts, as well, 'cause I don't like being dominated in a conversation, which is how I generally experience extroverts. I also prefer dating introverts, but I have been on a few dates with extroverts. So, finally getting to the OP's question: yes I like quieter girls/women. -Mike

michaelrallen

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ok... any ideas about why i cant walk up and chat with a guy i think is cute? Posted: 8/23/2009 10:14:28 PM
Actually that is good advice from intellect4u 'cause if you flirt with the cute cashier guy at the supermarket they get paid to be friendly back, lol. Try it out. -Mike

michaelrallen

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For a Laugh- What movie would you base your life on as of now? Posted: 8/23/2009 11:35:11 AM
"Falling Down" with Michael Douglas or "Fight Club" with Edward Norton 'cause I am so twisted;)-Mike

michaelrallen

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The no-chemistry conversation Posted: 8/4/2009 7:49:35 PM
I think the OP needs to know how to use paragraph spacing (3-4 sentences then a new paragraph). -Michael

michaelrallen

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Is it ok to for a guy to window shop whilst out on a date? Posted: 8/1/2009 12:20:58 PM
The body sometimes gives people away. If a man is looking at other women or around the bar he is either bored, not interested in his date, looking for some excitement, or a whole list of other things. Call him out on it if it bothers you. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Msg: 385 (view)

What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 7/30/2009 11:29:58 AM
Like most men I don't like wearing condoms and I also don't like playing Russian roullette with my body. So, the best option for me is to get to know a dating partner, including their past, and to use condoms initially, but at some point the gloved love has to come to an end, in my opinion. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Msg: 249 (view)

Penis Names Posted: 7/30/2009 11:14:05 AM
Mr. Wiggles. -Mike

michaelrallen

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good body or face? Posted: 7/26/2009 7:36:37 PM
Face first then body. Where do spend 90% looking when you are talking to someone? -Mike

michaelrallen

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Sexiest occupation (job profession) Posted: 7/24/2009 11:21:07 AM
The sexy Molson girls at car races or auto showroom girls at local events. These are two of my favs'. -Mike

michaelrallen

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what's your perfect man/woman? Posted: 7/24/2009 11:16:21 AM
To the above poster: your description sounds like Red Sonja. For me I prefer 5'4" to 5'5", b cup, long curly hair, blonde and for personality I like someone to be flirtatious, outgoing, compassionate, intelligent, ambitious with an independent flair. And not missing any teeth:) -Mike

michaelrallen

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Women That Wear Thongs... Posted: 7/21/2009 4:50:27 PM
Thongs look great especially in a skirt. -Mike

michaelrallen

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ok boys which do u prefer boobs or butts? Posted: 7/21/2009 4:47:26 PM
I am an ass man and proud of it. -Mike

michaelrallen

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What lessons have you learned from online dating? Posted: 7/18/2009 6:05:45 PM
I have learned that women are far too passive, as a generalization, in making first contact. I have also learned that women rarely respond to messages and if they do it is with a sentence or two of garbled English. -Michael

michaelrallen

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 7/16/2009 11:54:05 AM
I personally believe rejection is a confidence builder. Sure if you ask someone out they might say no and it stings for a second or two, depending on the experience, but then you move on with the thought/feeling of at least I was brave enough to try. -Michael

michaelrallen

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Rude people Posted: 7/16/2009 11:39:40 AM
I have gotten one or two rudish messages before and I generally laugh them off. Sometimes, it is fun to respond with a snarky message back and see if she wants to continue the sarcastic banter. Laugh then move on. -Michael PS Damn, you do look a little like Stephen King.

michaelrallen

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A story I thought I'd share Posted: 7/16/2009 11:21:51 AM
This sounds like false advertising to me. I would have headed for the door pretty quick like you did. -Michael

michaelrallen

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Got strung along again. Posted: 7/14/2009 7:06:20 PM
I would say she is a player and you got played. It is a good thing you found out early and now it is time to cut then run. Also, you don't owe her anything with a call explaining why you have not been talking to her; she is not your friend. -Michael

michaelrallen

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Girls In Glasses Posted: 7/12/2009 9:36:13 PM
Girls with glasses are definitely a turn-on. The naughty librarian or secretary look requires a set of specs for me. -Michael

michaelrallen

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Men who wear sunglasses in their profiles Posted: 7/11/2009 11:51:57 AM
Haha, another funny/picky thread: 1. sunglasses on - it is sunny out 2. pictures with a bunch of women - he is heterosexual 3. pictures from far away - showing off the landscape 4. no picture - working on it I think there is no point in focusing on the negative on a profile and instead I look for things that I connect with in the person. Too many people focus on the little details that don't mean a whole lot when the bigger picture is. -Michael

michaelrallen

Joined: 5/27/2009

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What are your messaging ratio's? Posted: 7/9/2009 7:57:13 PM
From messages sent I think I have a 33% ratio for responses and it varies from week to week. I still have not managed to move from a conversation online/phone to a date though. There must be a gentle art to this that I am not aware of. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Are women who don't need men likely to ever find one and be happy? Posted: 7/9/2009 1:28:53 PM
I agree with one of the other posters: love is a need. I need friends, a feeling of belonging, and companionship. I think anyone who cannot admit this is in denial or dealing with issues and I would gladly pass a profile stating "I don't need a man" for someone more honest. -Michael

michaelrallen

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Do you tell a new partner about recent sexual encounters? Posted: 7/8/2009 11:40:10 PM
I would say no even if she asked. -Mike

michaelrallen

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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies? Posted: 7/8/2009 11:36:22 PM
A girl or woman who has been with 70+ partners is gross. In my opinion this shows poor character and very little love for her body. If you stay with her definitely ask her to get tested. I would say the same goes for a guy. -Mike

michaelrallen

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What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 7/6/2009 11:16:01 PM
Dirty talk:) -Mike

michaelrallen

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why do most men judge women by their number of past lovers? Posted: 7/6/2009 11:08:53 PM
I am not really interested in how many men a gf has slept with. The past is the past, why dwell? -Mike

michaelrallen

Joined: 5/27/2009

Msg: 587 (view)

Most Wild Place You Had sex! Posted: 7/5/2009 5:48:39 PM
On the hood of my car twice and in the backseat near the beach with people driving by.

michaelrallen

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Is Intercourse or Oral more Intimate? Posted: 7/5/2009 5:28:08 PM
I would say oral is slightly more intimate as a male is more vulnerable in this position, physically. -Michael

michaelrallen

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Why do you have sex? Posted: 7/3/2009 10:07:13 PM
'Cause it makes me and her feel good.:)

michaelrallen

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nosy boyfriends mother. Posted: 7/2/2009 5:27:11 PM
Yeah, I don't think you want someone who puts momma first in a relationship. Get him out of there or get yourself out of the relationship. On a side note, I know guys in their late 20s who still live with their mom. What is up with that? -Michael

michaelrallen

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Funniest comments made during sex..... Posted: 7/1/2009 7:59:02 PM
Haha, this was funny: "take your thumb out and stick your****in ?" For me, early in my sexual career, a girl said to me "you're missing," oops. -Michael

michaelrallen

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What is your number one fantasy? Posted: 7/1/2009 9:17:19 AM
I like the naughty student/teacher fantasy and somebody mentioned cheerleader that could definitely be fun too. -Mike

michaelrallen

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The morning of the one-night stand Posted: 6/29/2009 11:36:30 PM
Here is a tip for a one night stand: if you have been drinking heavily the night before do yourself a favour and do not look at the girl face to face the next day, trust me. -Mike

michaelrallen

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first date sex Posted: 6/29/2009 2:31:01 PM
I have had sex two to three times on the first date and only one encounter turned into a relationship. I think you take your chances, but if you want to know why he left communicate with him and if he does not want to talk move on. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Tan lines. Hot or not? Posted: 6/28/2009 7:44:00 PM
Tan lines equals hotness especially thong lines but spray on tans, I agree, look funny. -Mike

michaelrallen

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How does a woman keep her class but attract a man on a dating site. Posted: 6/28/2009 2:16:28 PM
I don't think one needs to pose in skimpy underwear to get a guys attention. I generally pass by the girls who are overly provocative - too obvious. However, I prefer full length pictures to mere headshots and why not state a few sexual preferences in your profile ie. I like sex to be a total mind/body/spiritual experience? Focus on the positive rather than the negative in what you are looking for sexually or otherwise. -Mike

michaelrallen

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How freaky are you? Posted: 6/28/2009 10:41:24 AM
I would say I am a 6.5 - handcuffs, outdoor sex, dirty talk good - bestiality, necrophilia, being peed on bad. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Celebrity one-nighter Posted: 6/28/2009 10:27:53 AM
Lady Gaga - I want to poke her face.

michaelrallen

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How to tell if a woman is horny?? Posted: 6/27/2009 7:01:36 PM
Haha, from the first page: "When she is dry humping the table leg to the sound of your voice." Yeah, I think that would be a clear sign to go for it. -Mike

michaelrallen

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do some guys really like a really big AZZ? Posted: 6/27/2009 6:43:42 PM
A nice round ass is great - nothing too flat. -Mike

michaelrallen

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casual sex or friends with benefits Posted: 6/27/2009 6:36:53 PM
Casual sex is okay in my books as along as everyone knows what is going on. -Michael

michaelrallen

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Whats an instant turn on for you Posted: 6/27/2009 6:26:18 PM
Thong underwear and a white dress. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Date thought I was taking advantage of him by asking him to get me a pack of gum Posted: 6/26/2009 10:52:35 AM
This is not about gum. This is about a guy spending money on a girl and not getting anything in return. Unsurprisingly, he feels used. So, this is a great example of why a first date at a restaurant, pub, club is a bad idea. Keep it simple the first time out or continue to get burned while walking away with a used feeling. This is his mistake and he needs to learn from it then move on. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Vagina names... Posted: 6/24/2009 9:37:00 PM
Axe wound. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Younger European girl my house - attraction Posted: 6/24/2009 12:57:56 PM
Come on man take the risk and ask her to do something alone. Otherwise, you will be kicking yourself for the rest of the summer. No more excuses just ask her to do something, anything. Even if she says no you were brave enough to try. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Dating cliches Posted: 6/23/2009 9:26:14 PM
Yes, as soon as I read something like "ust love long walks on the beach..." I am like next and the "must love animals" line. Why do I have to love animals? I would rather eat them. -Mike

michaelrallen

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Is woman's sexuality more selfish than men's? Posted: 6/22/2009 12:15:14 PM
"Unlike men, women can go on, and on without sex if they choose to." No, man needs to read this. I would like to see women initiate sex more often. Are they selfish? Possibly or generally less expressive sexually. Also, I would like to see more women initiate first contact 'cause I get tired of asking girls out 90% of the time. -Mike

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