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Joined: 2/13/2006

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Oral sex the first time you make love Posted: 5/20/2006 4:11:09 PM
Why not. I've found for me, (a recovered Catholic), that it was a gradual liking. Absolutely love it, giving and receiving. Take it slow, enjoy and explore. There may be a few other places that may suprise you...behind the knees, sides...lick and blow softly...ok, time for a cold shower. By the way kobie, I laughed hard and long at your response on 3/11. Thank you.

Joined: 2/13/2006

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Ever have a good date....To never hear from them again....? Posted: 5/20/2006 1:56:08 PM
Nope and I'm not being arrogant here. Could happen down the pike. I've gotten to the point where I'm not trying to impress them and I'm myself. I listen and look at body language. Body language is a pretty good sign. Drinking is out cause it impairs my ability to clearly see things for what they are. Can't see reality thru a martini glass. One more thing I'm working on, haven't mastered: not having an expectation. Look at it from a standpoint of call or don't. There's another bus after that one. There are no wrong trips to be taken. It is a learning experience.No worries. In the grand scheme of things I'd figure it wasn't meant to be.

Joined: 2/13/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

Opinions Needed Posted: 5/20/2006 1:18:24 PM
Ok, for starters you made a list of the things she does that shows she's attracted to you. Turn the tables around; what are you doing...or not doing ie:she asks for your help, you know she knows how to do it - you engage in chatting - BINGO - you're doing your part there. You know what you're doing too. Have you stated that her behavior is inappropriate at the workplace? I'd guess a no there. What I'm getting at here is you sound like you're choosing to play the victim here. There's a payoff in being passive and dancing her dance. Your are her manager on the job; act like one. As far as the texting, it's your choice to do it. She has the choice to respond or not. It doesn't get any deeper than that. Yea, so you reply every time when you get a text. That's your choice. Not everybody does. Be the powerful man they selected to manage your team. The other salespeople and I might add, the other managers and on up the ladder are noticing too. Talk about trickle up effect. Ever consider transfering her to another team? Or yourself? You do have that option. Attraction, well there's another domain. As woman, I can feel an attraction to a man or men. I don't have to act on it. My choice. I alone am responsible my thoughts, actions or inactions (passivity). Not making a choice is still making a choice.

Joined: 2/13/2006

Msg: 38 (view)

Alpha and Beta males-how to reconcile? Posted: 5/16/2006 8:51:35 PM
I was told MANY times to write down what is important to me in a man. Didn't do it; didn't define, (in my head I did); the results were nill. When I actually wrote down what is important to me (it changes a bit with time/age), it opened up my clarity of who I was and what I want. No waffling there-it happened-money back guarentee. I truly believe we get what we believe. Go for it big time-be bold and outrageous (sp?) in everything you want. If it scares you - you're on the right track. Like attracts like, male and female. I am so inspired by the people I "choose" to hang with. You'll inspire them. Jump and the net will appear.

Joined: 2/13/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

Relationship Question Posted: 5/14/2006 1:23:23 PM
In addition I wouldn't call her or send any messages via internet. If it were me I'd tell her it sounds like she needs some time to sort out her business. In my opinion, not fact, but she's using her personal conveyer belt of men to feel good about herself.

Joined: 2/13/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

Relationship Question Posted: 5/14/2006 1:18:24 PM
My instincts never let me down. Listen to your guts not your mind. The drama playing out now with the entire cast of charachters is just a part of the bigger issue. You know...you're just choosing not listening. It's better to have end with a little misery than misery with out end.

Joined: 2/13/2006

Msg: 620 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/14/2006 8:22:52 AM
Good for you. I've gone out with fellas with no pics. I don't have one up myself because of the type of responses..."Oh, your so beautiful, WOW those green eyes, your smile...." I decided to see if there are men out there that are reading my profile and not just looking. Yea, I know men are visual and the chemistry thing. I want interaction to be on a different level other looks. KEY here is really listening to what and how they say things, internet as well as text and on the phone. Useing the instincts has never failed me. Seriously. Recently, I've been talking with a fella from this site. He has pics and I don't. The conversations have been on a larger scale - depth. Very cool the energy exchange.Not about the Broncs or Avs. We haven't met. Don't have to. It is what it is and I'm enjoying it.

Joined: 2/13/2006

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Relationship Question Posted: 5/14/2006 7:51:22 AM
I've been there. I used to do it. Usually for me, it's an unresolved issue and or feeling and there isn't closure. I now say to the person, "It sounds like you are still hanging on to something. From what I''ve been hearing you say your topic is typically your ex." Past is past. If I got one leg in the past and one in the present, I'm pissing on the future. I don't choose to be in relationships with men OR women that drone on. Serenity sappers; no solution and that's their choice.

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