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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: so, how many girls have you been with?  daurade Joined: 5/29/2009 Msg: 20 (view)   so, how many girls have you been with? Posted: 6/29/2009 8:20:49 PM You're correct in saying that it isn't an appropriate question on a first date. Personally I don't think it an appropriate question at any time. Those who ask such a question seem to be insecure about their own experiences and how they measure up.  daurade Joined: 5/29/2009 Msg: 19 (view)   so, how many girls have you been with? Posted: 6/29/2009 8:14:31 PM Tell her that you don't feel comfortable answering the question. It isn't her business anyways.  daurade Joined: 5/29/2009 Msg: 43 (view)   Hey do ya personally know any happily married people in real life? Posted: 6/29/2009 8:03:57 PM I know lots of happily married people personally. My parents (34 years), most of their friends (whether they've been married for 40 years or 5), my older siblings, their own friends. It's just important to remember that no married couple is happy all the time, that's the point of marriage. You go through life with each other experiencing all the highs and all the lows and sticking by each other in the lowest of lows then through your common challenges you grow stronger. Have my parents always been happy and not simply content? No. They provide an excellent example for their children. Marriage is a leap of faith.  daurade Joined: 5/29/2009 Msg: 1130 (view)   If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond? Posted: 6/28/2009 8:39:30 AM I wouldn't respond. Yes, pof is a casual setting, but how someone expresses themself in writing is generally indicative of their level of education and literacy. I've taught English and studied various languages, so personally poor grammar and literacy skills are a turn off.  daurade Joined: 5/29/2009 Msg: 50 (view)   When should the woman offer to pay? Posted: 6/27/2009 6:17:20 PM A woman should pay, not simply offer to pay, when she does the inviting. After a couple of successful dates of not paying a cent then a woman should offer to pay for drinks, or dessert or suggest a more economically sound date. Really. First dinner dates should be modest at best. You're there to get to know each other, not set a financial precedent you cannot maintain.   Show ALL Forums