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baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

Msg: 62 (view)

Men who cum in mouth without warning Posted: 6/16/2009 1:39:35 PM
I believe that if you don't want the cum in your mouth but still are will to give a BJ, then you need to aquire the necessary skills to know when he is going to bust! Because if you are depending on us to tell you everytime...chances are you are gonna catch a few in your mouth. I would usually warn, but sometimes it is just feeling too good and I have to let it go....lol Plus there are some women that loose focus when you warn them. They stop sucking, they stop stroking, they get confused about which direction to shoot it, they are worried about their hair. That's too many thought to be going through someones head at that moment and usually screws up the moment..lol. Just take it in your mouth!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Stories of how you got a FWB Posted: 6/16/2009 1:12:42 PM
Good job with the rules! I just disagree with not being in public with ur fwb. You can hang out with your FWB. But public displays of affection is where you cross the line. FWB is more simple, less worries and stress and the is definitely little concern if the situation is monogamous! That's also where you start crossing the line. Now as friends, you may be able to discuss involvments with other people. If hearing about someone else begins to bother you then you are probably headed for or already crossed that line. Basically just keep it simple. No expectations, no disappointments!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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foot fetish Posted: 6/11/2009 9:45:25 AM
Oh boy..here we go again. I guess some of you are going to tell me that I have psychiatric issues and or going to hell for my desire to suck on a woman's yummy toes! Whatever! Lol This is something that has come to the surface for me about 5 years ago. I just love pretty feet, toes and heels! Not only have I not been called "sick" because of this, but I actually have beed called dangerous because of it. The only women that I have found to not enjoy it is women that have their own issues with their feet or ones that are extremely ticklish. I believe this also gives a woman a sense of power to have a man on his knees appreciating her feet and giving her toes the propper attention! Yummmmmmm Ok so who will be the first to recomend therapy????

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Men who cum in mouth without warning Posted: 6/10/2009 6:43:50 PM
OP...you know before you put him into your mouth, that the end result is he will climax...you need to take control of what enters your body, so you should have told him before you began, that you expect to be warned before hand. Exactly! My experience is that a woman that doesn't want you to cum in her mouth will definitely let you know before hand. If she doesn't then I will assume she is skilled enough to sense when its about to happen. I am also not so sure that you could be considered "good" because of how quick he came. He could have been extremely worked up where all you needed to do was breathe on him and you would have gotten the same result. But if you say it was your skill that made him cum so quick, I would have to disagree. That means that you probably just went down on quick, hard and fast which is not a way to start a BJ. That is more for toward the end. You have much to learn so make sure you continue to practice..

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Called a golddigger because I expect a man to buy me a drink? Posted: 6/10/2009 3:34:23 PM
I waited and waited for this chap to offer to buy me another drink and I sat there thinking he'll ask me in a minute and he didn't!!!, I got up in the end annoyed so much that a) he was late b) he was so ignorant to not offer to buy me a drink ....so I decided to make my excuses and leave and he then accused me of being so very very rude since he'd travelled all the way from Manchester, about 35 miles, 45 min drive I also don't have a problem buying a woman a drink. But what I do have a problem with is if it is "EXPECTED" of me to do so because I am a man. I also have a problem when it is referred as something we're SUPPOSED to do! Traditionally that may have been acceptable but things have changed and although alot of men usually would be the one to buy the drink, it is not a REQUIREMENT! You actually sat there using an empty glass as a hint for the man to buy you a drink for 30 minutes. If you were that thirsty why didn't you order yourself the drink? Also if they guy drove 45 min to meet you what exactly is the problem with him being 15 minutes late. If I was that guy and you gave me that type of attitude, you wouldn't have had to make any excuses to end the date because I would have gotten up and walked away from you. And you can find your own way home just in case you "EXPECTED" me to give you cab fare...."Princess"!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Society's views on interracial relationships Posted: 6/10/2009 11:00:48 AM
Well I believe I commented on this in another thread. Basically If being predjudice is a learned behavior and someone is raised to believe and think that way, then they are not really being ignorant because they are staying within their belief system. I do think society has come a long way and although it still exists, it is a little more obvious in those small towns and communities then it is in bigger cities. Belief systems are strong and can not be broken easilly!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 6/10/2009 10:35:51 AM
I think these are the types of things that probably be sorted out durning the getting to know each other phase prior to the actual relationship. The problem is that many choose to speed through this phase without really finding out what may be an issue for the relationship. Now the young lady above has a medical condition that prevents her from doing certain things. But we are talking about an issue that's stems from some form of molestation as a child. Now me being the man in her situation I would really have to take a look at the entire situation before I go forward. Ok she can't give me head. We can probably get past that. But my concerns would be has she received some type of therapy to deal with her trauma. What other issues have surfaced due to what happend to her.(and you better believe that there are more issues than just her inability to give head). Maybe I am not ready to take on those issues in my relationship. Or maybe I just can't see myself in anything long term with out regular BJs! I don't think I need to get over anything!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Spit or Swallow? Posted: 6/9/2009 9:00:44 PM
I smellOfPoop more than usual now. Ooooooooo Kay! Looks like someone is off their meds again!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Spit or Swallow? Posted: 6/9/2009 8:16:12 PM
I think the whole spit or swallow thing is not even important. While a lot of guys prefer a girl to swallow, I think it shows more effort and dedication if she just took it to the face! You have a woman that is a girly girl, takes pride in her appearence, always looking good, smelling good and she is willing to drop to her knees and squeeze the nut all over her face??? Yeah that is dedication! That is one that you want to keep around for awhile. Efff that swallowing sh*t! Its too clean! Lol As for dwelling on what she may or may not have done in her past...ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! Only insecure punks worry about that!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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How can we handle the situation when u go met someone from POF who we are chatting for a while? Posted: 6/9/2009 5:49:52 PM
I think placing high expectations on someone you have made a connection with by way of chatting always puts you at risk for disappointment.

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Women & Blowjobs Posted: 6/9/2009 5:21:40 PM
Bad head is still head. As long as you dont bleed who cares. You control how long you last, not her... dont care how good she is. Wish I was getting head right now lol Good or bad lol Spoken like a true "young buc" with a lack of experience. Good job there "Skippy"!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Anal Sex (Good for the Goose as it is for the Gander?) Posted: 6/9/2009 3:42:54 PM
Miss C - I cant wait for you to find an open minded guy who takes you up on your 'offer'! Don't make promises that you dont intend to keep. lol...you see what happend with the guy mentioned in an earlier post. He called her on her bluff and then she ran! 2 minutes later I believe she said...lol Sometimes anal sex is not always safe to bring up in a discussion. Alot of times you just have to feel your way to it. Once you cross a certain line she will either go with it, or make it clear that the ass is off limits. FOREVER! Now there are women that love it, there are women that are completely against it and have never tried it. Then you have women that have tried it once or twice and were traumatized by the idiot that tried to jam his c**k in there and continue to hit it hard. Thats not how you have anal sex. And if you are going to trying to coerce a woman to let you do it, make sure you do it right!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Cash For Sex Posted: 6/9/2009 9:20:50 AM
Well although there has been a few comments that went further than the scope of prostitution most seem to be focused on hookers, street walkers the whole "cash 4 sex" behavior goes way deeper and yes can even be practiced in some marraiges. Some woman agree and knowingly agree to accept cash, gifts, vacations and a little help on the rent. You also have women that are "kept" on the side and fully taken care of financially with the understanding that the one that is supporting her will be given sex when needed. And this behavior is not limitted to only women either.

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Blowjob buddy Posted: 6/9/2009 7:10:49 AM
there are women out there that really get a power trip out of giving bjs Soooooooooooooo true! And I forgot to mention that! Even though there seems to be alot of focus on men with power trips in many of these threads, The Blowjob, for many women, is the ultimate form of power!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Should foreplay be equal or mostly about her? Posted: 6/9/2009 7:07:23 AM
I think most of the concentration she be on her. Especially if she its difficult for her to have an orgasm. I usually have a goal for her to have at least 3 orgasms and foreplay plays a major part toward getting her there. Plus I find pleasure in giving pleasure so its mostly about her! Men, well we are less complicated. All you need to do is breathe on some of us and we're ready to go...lol

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Blowjob buddy Posted: 6/9/2009 6:55:12 AM
This does not sound normal to me. The majority of Humans just don't do something for nothing.. Not sure what we are classiying as "Normal" and the truth is most don't do something for nothing. But there are women that get extremely arroused and may even getting of from giving a man head!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Blowjob buddy Posted: 6/9/2009 6:24:04 AM
lol is it a rare thing? I've a relationship similar to it, but only because his girlfriend refuses to give him head, she knows (sometimes watches) ... I'm one of those rare ones that can get off giving head.... That is such an awesome idea! Nicccccccccccccccce! You're The Bestesst!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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question about interracial dating ... Posted: 6/9/2009 5:47:02 AM
Ok I really hesitated to post on this particular subject because I have alot of input on it and the topic of "Interational Dating" often opens up other areas but I am going to try to keep it as simple as possible. I am "mixed" and being a mixture of races has afforded me the opportunity to experience multiple qualities, views and opinions of more than one race. It also has allowed me to experience the ignorance withing my races and many others. I am glad that my parents found the COURAGE to go against the "norm" and decided they were going to just go with their heart instead of what was expected of them! First I think its important to know that racism is a "learned behavior"! Its not in the blood, its not in the genes ect, ect. We are a nation of multiple races that are FORCED to interact with one another at some level...work, school, supermarket, whatever. Although racism still and always will exist, it has taken on a different and more cunning form. There are people that may be racist and not even know it because of their forced interaction with other races. Despite their learned behavior, they would like to believe that they are not racist because they work with "so & so" that is a particular color, or even dated "so & so" who was outside of their race and usually state those things as a justification. Now on the topic of "interacial dating" (which I believe to be a term that should no longer exist to the amount of dating, family and marriages of mixed race these days) is perfectly fine and normal. We all have particular tastes! There is also nothing wrong with dating only within your particular race but I do believe that there are reasons to why someone would only limit themselves to a particular race or culture, which happens to be their own, and not finding the courage to learn about other people's races and cultures. If you believe that other races are a turn off and are somehow beneath you, then that means that you believe your race is superior and that makes you a racist! I find women to be beautiful in general and choose not to limit myself to a particular flavor! And for those making comments on how your parents/family wouldn't approve of you dating outside of your race, that is a nothing but fear and a lack of balls due to your "learned behavior"!!!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Kill a pedophile bumper sticker Posted: 6/7/2009 9:11:53 AM
You mean to tell me people actually still put bumper stickers on their cars? lol Anyway...It may be a better idea to become more active with the handling of pedophiles in your community, county or even your state! If its something that you feel that strongly about, then allow your voice to be heard! The bumper sticker will just look silly. For you and your car!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 6/7/2009 8:58:22 AM
How would u deal with someone who hates her feet? This could be a turning point for you as for your opinion of your feet. I also love nice feet and pretty toes. In my experience of dealing with women that are not use to having their feet getting attention, they either were totally blown away by the fetish, or totally resistant due to their own personal issues with how they feel about their feet. But it also depends on the man! If his primary interest is the feet then it may be a turn off for him. Hopefully he has other areas of interest that will still alow you to have some fun.

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Twice ...Wow, I had no idea... Posted: 6/7/2009 8:37:48 AM
There is a possibility that some women become less attractive after each round! lol If you are getting a guy to 3+ rounds, then you are doing something right!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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prison systems... for Young offenders??????? Posted: 6/7/2009 7:30:54 AM
Well I am really not sure what the question is but since this topic has already hit a few different angles. Prison systems for juveniles will always be necessary! But I believe they need to be structured with programs that address many different life areas. Someone mentioned mental health. Many juveniles that suffer from mental heath disorders are often not even diagnosed or properly diagnosed. So this may play a major part in the youth's behavior before we even start talking about the home, enviornment ect. So these programs should provide mental health assessments for everyone and ongoing psychiatric care for those in need. Substance Abuse treatment should also be part of it. Education, relapse prevention, support groups ect. Along with a mandatory after care follow up referral upon being released. Voc/Ed training. GED, computer, intro to college courses ect. Basically the approach needs to be more about behavior modification rather than institutional warehousing! Now many who say things like "its too late" or "they have it too good in prison" often cant seem to grasp the treatment approach. Although it may not be 100% effective, its all we got! It always amazes how people whom have never spent a day in jail, or are either in law enforement or maybe a little more "well off" then others, always seem to make comments on how easy inmates have it in prison...lol By the way gangs have always run the prison system! And the inmates are not the only gang memebers!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Have you ever been caught Masturbating? Posted: 6/7/2009 1:36:50 AM
Well I never been caught but......WAIT! Let me make sure this door is locked!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Not All BJ's Are Good Posted: 6/7/2009 1:22:52 AM
In other words.. old ****es like me give good head. Niiiiiccccccccccccccccccceee!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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So you want it rough, eh? Posted: 6/7/2009 1:03:05 AM
Well, of course they haven't. Heaven forbid you let your real self be known here. And, if they truly haven't had this experience, they're missing out. My guess is that a handful have experienced this and maybe continue to experience it and just don't have the courage to discuss it out in the open. Which is fine, but if thats the case, then don't say anything. And then there are some that are just to sexually "propper" and I agree, they are missing out big time!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Men Shaving... Posted: 6/7/2009 12:58:46 AM
I want my man to BE a man! F*ck that shaving sh!t! BE A MAN!! And I am sure he wants you to be a woman as well. Now go make him a sandwich, bring him a beer, don't block the TV set and close your mouth while the game is on! Thought I would throw that in there since there seems to be an old tradition view of what a "Man" should and should not be!

Baby Blue 09

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So you want it rough, eh? Posted: 6/7/2009 12:49:43 AM
But do you ever have one of those days when you are so incredibly aroused, so passionate about the person you are with, but you can't be with them for various reasons (people around, company, out dinner, etc) the tension is growing, the looking lingering more and more, and you just KNOW what's going to happen when everyone's gone? Yeah. Like that. Clothes being ripped off, hands touching, feeling everywhere. Pants, growls, gasping... You know. Moans, yelling, swearing, dirty talk, and a rough ride. Raw. Not brutal, not violent. Hands gripping her hair tight in your fists, or gripping her hips from behind, a swat out of the blue to make her catch her breath and whimper. Like that. Well according to most of the comments in this thread and others with similar subjects, most people have never ever experienced this. YEAH RIGHT!

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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How do you handle the freaks? Posted: 6/7/2009 12:37:46 AM
I guess the best thing to do is find out what the person's sexual appetite is like during the getting to know each other phase. This way you can determine ahead of time what you are and what you are not "down with". As for being a meat and potatoes type, just browse through these threads, there are quite a few "ol fashion" types that feel the same way you do.

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Women post pics in sexy sleepwear? Posted: 6/6/2009 9:49:56 PM
Men, would you actually seriously be interested in a woman with those pics for marriage Wait a minute! Hold everything! There are actually people on here looking for someone that they could possibly marry? lol

Baby Blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Difference between a slut and a stud?? Posted: 6/6/2009 9:46:13 PM
Ummm... What challenges????? It's easy to get laid.... Although it may be easy for some of us to get laid, for alot its not that easy. A woman can take a look at a man and decide whether or not she is going have sex with them or not. I am not sure who the "we" is that you are referring to or how long you have been out of high school and out of touch with some things. But I think it is pretty much common sense that alot or most men still praise each other for being a so called "stud", whether it be a high school, college, the office, the bar, or the bingo hall. It still goes on!

Baby Blue 09

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Swinging i don't get it! Posted: 6/6/2009 9:29:07 PM
Ummm no they haven't... Even the ancient Romans had orgies... it's nothing new. just same old same old... always was some group that could justify whatever sex behaviour and pretend it's the new thing.... Good point!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Is my girlfriend pregnant? Posted: 6/6/2009 8:27:27 PM
We're not planning on doing "the deed" again until we're married so we don't need those things Those things??? Its ok to say it! Look I will say it with you. C...O...N...D...O...M...S! "those things" are usually good to have around even when "the deed" isn't planned!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Hair pulling during doggystyle Posted: 6/6/2009 8:23:49 PM
Hair pulling is great during almost any type of sex/position! How men can not know this baffles me...... So very True!!!! YES!!!! Please spread the word because some of them are not getting it. OMG I think I love you! LOL

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Is my girlfriend pregnant? Posted: 6/6/2009 8:20:27 PM
spend 7 dollars and buy a test...or better yet see a dr Or you could have saved that money and just got yourself some condoms that are EFFIN free! We keep telling these damn kids to use condoms and they don't hear s**t!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

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Difference between a slut and a stud?? Posted: 6/6/2009 8:15:54 PM
There really isn't a differnce. Its just a matter of how people judge the two. A woman is "supposed" to be in control of the decision to have sex. Women are "supposed" to make the man wait and have some respect for themselves. They are "supposed" to present somewhat of a challenge. So when they failed to live up to those expectations they are labled a "slut". Now due to the challenges that men have to endure in order to have sex, including waiting for the woman's final say so on the matter, a "stud" is somewhat praised for his accomplishments....lol By the way, a "slut" is not always a negative term when it comes to some men. It is my experience that it is usually other women that crucify the "sluts" for not living up to what's expected of them.

baby blue 09

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Swinging i don't get it! Posted: 6/6/2009 8:01:53 PM
When you are in love you shoulden't even want any one else . Sex and all! You are still reading from an old book! Times have changed, people have changed! How can you say you love your husband or wife , but yet beable to share your love making with other people? When you really and truley love one person you don't want someone else touching them in that way. I'am lost on this i just don't get it! If you don't get it then its not meant for you to get it. If you don't get it....Don't do it! Don't even think about it! Then you won't be lost!

baby blue 09

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Should I just F**k him or try to date him? Posted: 6/6/2009 7:57:00 PM
How about trying banging guys she meets for the first time in OTHER places than bars? Like the park, a museum, the theatre, at the video store, etc. At least she'd be sober and making the decision. Something tells me that she wouldn't be struggling like this if she met men in other places and alcohol wasn't involved!

baby blue 09

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Plastic surgery turn off or don't care? Posted: 6/6/2009 7:50:18 PM
If some people are feeling that their body/looks are insufficient and they need to seek medical assistance to boost their confidence and self-esteem, then they gotta do what they gotta do!

baby blue 09

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Not All BJ's Are Good Posted: 6/6/2009 7:38:47 PM
I think the best Bjs are when the girl enjoys giving it more than the guy whos receiving it. My advice to all the girls, u gotta at least act like ur enjoyin it... worship it like u havent had any food in a week. EXACTLY! Thats what makes the difference between BJs. When someone is doing it because they feel obligated in some sort of way, then the BJ is going to suck. There are some woman that don't really like it but will do it to please the man. They get an A for effort but the BJ is still going to suck....lol Now you have woman that just love dropping to their knees! They can't get enough it. Those are the woman who get extremely wet from giving head. Their whole attitude is different and that is why they give the premium BJs. As far as giving the woman directions. If she is not into it, then she just isn't into it. There are woman that wanna barf at a slight taste of pre-cum...lol. Believe me, she doesn't effin care about your directions! And the same goes the other way around. Many men go down on a woman because they feel obligated to and because they want that BJ in return. Those are usually the ones that perform poorly!

baby blue 09

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Well slap my ass and call me Daddy...WHY? Posted: 6/6/2009 7:20:50 PM
Lgteyes... I am not sure if it has gotten popular or its just now out in the open more like many other sexaul desires and preferences. I think we are now living in an era where a lot people are no longer afraid to express that "inner animal" as they once were. A lot of people are no longer concerned with being judged.

Baby Blue 09

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Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 6/6/2009 7:13:44 AM
I don't only consider kissing an important part of intimacy, but I consider it to be the pathway and trigger for intimacy. Kissing can lead to a deeper connection. Its like connecting to one anothers spirit. I believe that when I get those butterflies from a kiss that a spiritual connection has been made which enables all sorts of emotions and feelings to follow. It is my experience that if I am not able to connect to someone on this level, the sex won't be great and my association with them will be limited. I also believe that anyone that doesn't like to kiss haven't really done much kissing or are just not good at it.

baby blue 09

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What do you all think about golden showers? Posted: 6/5/2009 8:03:56 PM
Ummmmm the thought of someone's hot piss being shot at me doesn't really stimulate me. That would be something I would consider observing though. Especially 2 women! Hmmmmm

baby blue 09

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Guys who carry condoms with them Posted: 6/5/2009 7:54:28 PM
That why I keep mine in my emergency overnight bag located in the trunk of my car! Propper Preperation Prevents Poor Performance!

baby blue 09

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Should I just F**k him or try to date him? Posted: 6/5/2009 6:26:00 AM
Just to give you a little more input on your moral struggle, most men do not patrol bars and clubs looking for potential wives and future mothers of their children. Do you think men offer to buy you drinks because they are just being a gentleman? Do you think clubs have ladies night and free admission for women because they want you to come and act as respectable ladies and find your husband? They do it so more men will come out and spend their money on woman in their pursuit to f**k later in the night! Lol I hope that can provide some clarity as your should'ves, could'ves & would'ves!

baby blue 09

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My bf and i want to try out a threesome. should we? Posted: 6/5/2009 6:10:13 AM
As I look over this thread again it appears to be a lot of emphasis on the boyfriend. Can you handle seeing him with her, her sucking him...blah blah. Did you ever consider that you yourself may be the one to overly enjoy this experience with a woman? So much that the focus shifts on the two of you. During the actual 3sum and thereafter. This is also very common and being that you are already "curious" it can definitely become reality. But then again, you are 21. You guys have been together for year and change and are not married with children. Maybe you are putting way too much thought into this. Go with the flow, enjoy your youth, take risks and be rsponsible! That all I have.....

baby blue 09

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Why do some women like to get choked while having sex? Posted: 6/5/2009 5:41:55 AM
I was with a woman a few years ago who ASKED to be choke during sex. I wasn't into it but she seemed to be so I tried it. I didn't find any pleasure in it because I seemed to be more concerned with the amount of pressure that I was putting on her throat. So I stopped "whoring" myself shortly after. We eventually moved on to Throat f**king/Gag sessions in which we discovered a mutual pleasure in doing! I was about 32 yrs old, she was 40. She spent her entire sexual like being the dom and in control but when she began to deal with me she discoverd a weakness that excited her. So yes she began to call me Daddy! Yes I would spank her! Pull her hair! And other "dysfunctional" acts that you can think of..lol I think its important to point out the word MUTUAL because somehow threads like this get turned into men agressively abusing a woman. Although in some cases I am sure there are men that have a sickness that causes them to abuse and humiliate woman but that doesn't apply to all men who engage in Dom activities and doesn't apply to this thread. I mean....the question in the title is asking about women.

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

Msg: 25 (view)

do you stay out off other peoples live,marridge Posted: 6/4/2009 11:53:27 PM
I do agree that the statements are inconsistant. However, it did raise some concerns. Whether true or not this is a case of domestic violence even though she wasn't physically getting her ass kicked. But she was being abused! Now in situations like this you NEVER break that confidence because in your efforts to help her you could actually hurt her or even killed her! As for social workers and crisis hotlines, nothing can really be done unless the victim makes the contact. And u don't write down phone numbers and give her pamphlets and shit for her to take home only for her husband to find it and kill her! But this story can be looked at different ways. She could have been strung out on pills and her husband could be using the pills for sex. Or she could have a mental health disorder and gave you this insane story she created in her head! Maybe its true! Who knows?

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

Msg: 35 (view)

My bf and i want to try out a threesome. should we? Posted: 6/4/2009 11:16:22 PM
Although 3sums can be hot and exciting it isn't something that I would want to do with someone I am in a relationship with. That is something that I would do with a FWB. And if that woman wanted 2 guys at once then I am all for it.

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

Msg: 90 (view)

What is it exactly about pulling hair?? Posted: 6/4/2009 11:06:10 PM
Lol...the permission I was referring to is the "inner animal" coming to the surface when you are not ready to let it out!

baby blue 09

Joined: 5/30/2009

Msg: 89 (view)

and AFTER eating pu$$y Posted: 6/4/2009 10:55:14 PM
I usually don't stop while the woman is cumming and have a strong grip on her legs so she won't be going anywhere. But there is a need for a pause once she cums due to the sensitivity. I usually spend that moment resting my head on her inner thigh or kissing her legs. Shortly after I return to lickin her but much slower and softer, then picking up the pace and most times the next orgasm won't even take a minute. Either that or she goes into multiples. Hmmmmmm I love it when that happens!

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