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 Author Thread: A quick checkup...
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
A quick checkup...
Posted: 7/25/2009 5:22:14 PM
i dont see a problem with you wanting a family, i mean you are only 22. maybe put "in a few years" or something like that.
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
A quick checkup...
Posted: 7/25/2009 1:30:09 AM
Get a better pic and smile in it... give it time, you've only been on here 2 weeks. By the way you should beable to see that I viewed your profile so if it doesn't show then there is something wrong and I don't know how to help you with that.
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
I could use a hand
Posted: 7/25/2009 1:23:56 AM
I didn't see anything wrong with your profile so now I'm wondering what your messages say?
I hate the ones that say "Will you marry me?" and that's it. It's like, I don't know, that's the first thing your going to say to me and you wonder why your single!
So I guess if your saying something dumb like that then that may be the reason.
Try commenting on something in her profile and ask her a question about it then she may be more apt to reply if she's answering a question you have asked rather than you just stating something. When you respond to a girls message are you only answering the question she asked? If so, she may think your not interested in her and just being polite by replying, you have to show some interest in her too. It's hard to tell you when we don't know what the messages say or an example at least. Good luck, your young and cute, it shouldn't take you long to find a couple girls to chat with and get to know better....
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Hand Washing--too much to expect?
Posted: 7/10/2009 10:14:57 AM
this is gross, working on a car getting all greasy then sitting down on furniture getting it all greasy how is that acceptable and not washing his hands after going to the bathroom, i wouldnt want his hands on me at all... yuk! yes some bacteria is good but this guy goes above and beyond that!!! get rid of him, let him find a dirty girl to be with
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 250 (view)
 
STOOD UP by a P.O.F. MEMBER
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:51:01 AM
i just got stood up 4 the first time last night... he had both my home and cell numbers but never called, we've been chatting online for over a month, actually since day 2 of me joining this site, anyway i had been asking for his number or for him to call but he never would call or give me his number. He was online this am and is now ignoring my emails. I asked him, why r u on a dating site if u dont plan on meeting? I dont get it either. burned on my first "date" after 20+ yrs of marriage. doesnt feel very good at all and i had to make plans for a babysitter to watch baby till his dad got off work... I'm madder than hell. mind games hurt people
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
NSA fun ??????? or not
Posted: 7/1/2009 2:14:14 AM
13571113, If she knew it was to be NSA up front then I think that girl as major problems, suggest she see a psychologist.... Can you say "Stalker"?
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 146 (view)
 
first date sex
Posted: 7/1/2009 2:06:03 AM
I can count the men I've slept with on one hand but have had a one night stand that turned into marriage,,, I grew up with him and knew him though and what's the point of getting to know someone for a long time, really care for them, then have sex and nothing is there, then what, where do you go from there. Test drive that car but I'm assuming you have talked on the phone for awhile or emailed enough that you feel like you know them...... Guys have sex on first dates all the time, are they sluts????
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 133 (view)
 
first date sex
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:01:29 AM
I had a one night stand once and it turned into a 20+ marriage.... You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it would you? Sex is huge in a relationship, if ur not compatable in bed why not find out right away, just be safe about it....
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
NSA fun ??????? or not
Posted: 6/23/2009 12:11:33 PM
I just looked at your profile and no where did I get the idea that you were just wanting sex, that is wrong, change it from dating to intimate encounter or at least say what you mean in your profile. No one likes to be lied to.... Do you?
 candykay38
Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
NSA fun ??????? or not
Posted: 6/23/2009 12:07:09 PM
Well, I think if I found out a guy was leading me on and really wanted no strings attached, I'd be pissed because that is not what I'm looking for. that's why the long term is checked on my profile, not an intimate encounter. It's dishonest if you let her get to know you and then you tell her you just want to screw her and that's it. Honesty is the always the best way to go. If you want no strings attached, go to a bar and pick up a drunk, loose woman, there are several that hang out in them...
 
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