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Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Her Orgasm Posted: 11/19/2009 7:32:00 PM
Yes. Everyone is different and exploring will only take you so far without a little help. Communication is the key here and it makes sex and the rest of the relationship better.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Was it Something I said? Posted: 11/19/2009 7:28:23 PM
He found someone else or he got scared. Be happy it happenend before you were in a relationship and move on.

Cknugget1978

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Why can't he just be honest? Posted: 9/6/2009 6:36:53 PM
He may be trying to avoid appearing overbearing. Talk with him about it. Have you meet this person in real life yet?

Cknugget1978

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correct me if I'm wrong... Posted: 8/12/2009 9:00:03 AM
Your in your 20's there are still plenty of good men available they just may be harder to find. As for the other part about the name calling your still dealing with boys not men.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Work For It Posted: 8/7/2009 12:24:58 PM
No I don't care for the chase. It has always seemed to me that gals like the chase enough to make a guy really work at it get a thrill out of it and get bored with the guy to easily if he does manage to catch her.

Cknugget1978

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What do you generally think about a women posting on the date night feature? Posted: 8/5/2009 6:27:07 PM
I have seen a few women on there. Read/delete for my mails to them. I have also posted on there. A few profile views out of it but no contacts or dates. Since there are exactly 15 women within 15 miles from me that are active weekly in my age range 24-37 I wasn't expecting much. It is a good way to get attention drawn to your profile even if you don't get a date that night though.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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question for the guys Posted: 8/5/2009 3:35:34 PM
Wouldn't bother me personally. It might be distracting for a while if she has better power tools than I do until I get to play with them all

Cknugget1978

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profile length Posted: 8/2/2009 8:50:10 PM
If you want more guys to mail you send them mails first. The guy you might be looking for may miss your profile or just need a nudge to get him looking closer at it. Your ideals on a relationship are fine but I have looked at five others today that are almost identical. It either needs to stand out with more individuality or your going to have to make the first move more often to get the contact rate up.

Cknugget1978

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What effect have sexual harassment laws had on behaviour? Posted: 8/2/2009 8:07:35 PM
Would a man really ignore the possibility of a fantastic relationship because of work? Yes. Things went to far the other way and if you value the job all women there are off limits. All it takes is a simple flirt taken wrong by just one and your unemployed. Its not worth the risk.

Cknugget1978

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What u guys think? Posted: 8/2/2009 7:54:55 PM
Texting is fine after an intial phone call but not for a conversation. Five minutes on the phone is better than twenty texts and usually faster to get to know someone. What is the relationship type girl and the sex type girl ? Common vertical interests. If there is very little decent conversation and interests shared your going to be classed as a sex type for that guy.

Cknugget1978

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Why do they want to call them and then nothing happens? Posted: 8/2/2009 7:25:01 PM
Your managing to weed out the weak or imature guys without having to sit through a bad date. I think thats doing okay. Skip the text and go with a call first. Sending a text first would make me think she has a low level of interest but wants a backup guy in case the better fish gets away.

Cknugget1978

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How do I know what he is looking for? Posted: 8/2/2009 7:15:53 PM
If he has been working nights for years it may be subconsious. Other than the few people you know that work the shift you don't use your phone much since people are usually busy during the day. Give him an idea when he can call and not disturb you during the day and he may be more active with the phone. Also find out when he is sleeping during the day, it may be when your getting off work or otherwise available. As for touching grab the guy and kiss him for no reason. You may be in for a shock. Working that shift you have very little human interaction and just become used to lack of touch.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Why Do Guys Think Its Cool To Be Rude And Crude?? Posted: 8/2/2009 5:42:47 PM
We find it funny. Guys do know its a turnoff, at least those of us that have lived with a gal for a while know it. Count yourself lucky if you find a guy that won't dutch oven you and just ignore the rest of the antics.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Being approached by a woman (complete stranger) Posted: 8/2/2009 2:23:07 PM
Walk up and say hi. As long and you remain confident it doesn't seem desperate rather its friendly. The only way to find out if a guy without a ring is single or not is to ask him. I go out to coffee shops and such to meet people otherwise it would be better to stay at home if feeling antisocial.

Cknugget1978

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Do all of you want a trophy or a Barbie doll? Posted: 7/31/2009 11:36:27 AM
Its something to get used to. For guys the response rate is around 1 in 10. Would you rather spend time getting to know someone only to have them tell you there not interested after investing a fair amount of time? Keep trying and you will catch a good fish soon enough.

Cknugget1978

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Why is it ok for a girl to be a few extra pounds? Posted: 7/30/2009 1:06:12 PM
Everyone is attracted to different physical types. You should know that by now.

Cknugget1978

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Just wondering what I can do better. Posted: 7/30/2009 11:54:40 AM
You want your profile noticed make sure you are mailing guys your interested in. We can't read minds and there are no body language cues on the net. Also head over to profile review. Yours isn't awful but the barbie doll comment makes it seem like you have low self esteem. Guys can see what you look like from your pics so there is no need to bring it up in words. Good luck with your fishing.

Cknugget1978

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should you still have fantasies? Posted: 7/17/2009 12:48:09 PM
shouldn't be only here you think about when making love? Or is it okay to fantasize about another woman? Do you men have fantasies about women you are friends with? Its okay to think about others as long as he isn't acting on it. That can actually heat things up with your partner quite a bit. Answers for the second part. Yes if you have a decent imagination you will have fantasies about female friends, strangers, coworkers, neighbors and anything I have left out that involves seeing or being near females. As long as your not acting on it, it falls under the heading of no harm no foul.

Cknugget1978

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How far is too far to travel for a date. Posted: 7/17/2009 9:08:18 AM
I don't have a car but do have a fairly new motorcycle. If its above 50F 350 miles each way otherwise it takes a hotel stay for a night. During the four months its below 50F on a consistent basis my limit is 10 miles since that’s the distance across town and as far as bus service in the area goes.

Cknugget1978

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Do you feel love differently after you've been really badly hurt ( cheated on)? Posted: 7/17/2009 6:06:43 AM
It might work but after you have your trust destroyed once its not as easy. Since he recognizes the problem and is getting help there is hope. Good luck.

Cknugget1978

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Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 2:17:12 AM
Simple. To find a nice guy go to the grocery store. If you see a guy with a lot of foods for a slow cooker he is probably single and has been for a while which would indicate he is nice and can cook POF is a decent forum and a nice way to get rejected while your drinking your morning coffee. Nothing starts the day better than a little dose of reality.

Cknugget1978

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Crazy girls - anyone like 'em? Posted: 7/16/2009 12:06:05 AM
When they are medicated well you can't tell the difference. If the meds are not correct then there can be problems.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Would you date someone who wore braces? Posted: 7/15/2009 2:44:21 PM
The braces are no big deal. Welcome to the world of the initial contact your not going to get very many responses guys deal with this all the time on here. Two things though One: Profession Carer. Being from the states I have no idea what a carer is. Either it’s an unheard of job here or a spelling error. Two: Set the pic of you with your boy to private. There are way to many odd individuals to put up a pic with a kid on a dating site. Good luck with your fishing.

Cknugget1978

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what do you mean by friends? Posted: 7/15/2009 1:28:12 PM
Friends here seems to fall under either a FB or friends leading to more most the time. Thats why most the time they would want to see a pic as the FB group is a lot more prevalent with the guys. If you looking for someone to talk to that shares similar interests you may be better off with dating rather than friends as your section choice. Otherwise using meetup.com to find groups near you with common interests to find actual friends would be a good choice.

Cknugget1978

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Love Posted: 7/15/2009 1:15:24 PM
It took me a long time to come up with a working definition for the word love. Love is caring more about the other persons happiness and well being than your own. Using that definition true love and in love are bulls### used by people that have no idea what the word means but like the idea. Either you love the person or you don't there are no gray areas of word usage with this definition.

Cknugget1978

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Do I have a chance at finding someone? Posted: 7/15/2009 1:03:03 PM
Yes they exist. If your in an LTR for several years most people aren't going to wake up one day say your fat now I'm leaving you. It would be helpful if you put up a pic of just yourself on your profile. I have no idea which of the two gals in your current profile pic is posting this message.

Cknugget1978

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Where do you go? Posted: 7/15/2009 12:45:26 PM
This comes up both here and on ask a guy. Reasons that are most prevalent 1. Someone perceived as better came along 2. After further contact the person is no longer interested 3. The person is flaky and you’re better off with it ending like that 4. Chance that they aren't here to actually meet someone just to check out options. 5. They have fake pics up and aren't going to risk real life rejection once you spot this. Relax your doing great so far. Internet dating takes time.

Cknugget1978

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Havent dated in 10 years....help? Posted: 7/14/2009 10:52:05 PM
how important are looks for a guy? When you find the right guy you will look good to him. how do you talk to a guy? Look at his face and talk. Remember we are not just eye candy we do have brains also.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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A guy from work.... Posted: 7/14/2009 10:40:55 PM
Unless one of the two of you would be willing to change jobs if things didn't work keep things as they are. I learned this one the hard way after things went bad while dating a coworker and she tried to run me down with a forklift. That was years ago but I have stuck with the policy to never date coworkers since.

Cknugget1978

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GIVE ME THE ANSWER I SO DESPERATELY NEED!!! Posted: 7/14/2009 8:49:41 PM
You have kid/s. Read what you wrote about this guy and state openly to yourself what part of any of that you want them around. Wow he is the classic bad boy, I am sure you found that attractive before you kid/s and still seem to. Now its time to grow up and look for a decent man not a bad boy though.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Do women do the same? and with what? Posted: 7/14/2009 6:58:13 AM
When they post a pic with their kids. I know they are important in the gals life but if they are that ignorant of internet safety I have to question how responsible they are in real life also.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Why is it that men pretend as if though they are a knight in shining armor Posted: 7/13/2009 9:13:20 PM
If that is the type of men you attract on a regular basis than you might want to look in the mirror to discover your problem. Or since your god is always number one it could be that he/she/it is testing you. Have you thought about that?

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Do you guys jerk off wearing a condom? Posted: 7/13/2009 9:01:10 PM
Yes. Its the same as using Lefty for stranger danger. Its not a regular thing but its nice to change things up once in a while.

Cknugget1978

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Should I wait?? Posted: 7/13/2009 8:42:07 PM
Just plan on it staying in the friend zone. He may get over the other gal quickly or he may not, until it happens though he is not going to be fit for a relationship.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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A question about guys of course Posted: 7/13/2009 8:24:57 PM
You had a couple of bad dates, the second one was bad due to lack of a response for a follow up date. Keep fishing and hope for better luck next time. He always went to Branson and to a social thing in Jeff City by himself. Do you really think a man with no money concerns would actually do these two things by himself? Yes. From having experienced numerous trips solo it can be more fun when your doing your own thing in an area you like. You have to be confident about yourself though, which from the sounds of it he was.

Cknugget1978

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Haven't a clue to this behavior Posted: 7/13/2009 8:15:39 PM
He was hoping for a piece of tail that night. If he had any contact with you after that night I would be shocked.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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He told me He loved me and now.... Posted: 7/13/2009 6:14:07 PM
You got hit up by a guy that says love anytime he wants to get into a gals pants. Live and learn. Sorry about the callous response but you got played badly.

Cknugget1978

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Sending the wrong message by accident? Posted: 7/13/2009 6:44:55 AM
More than once after reading the forums for a while I have had to log back into the dating half of the site. I think they are separate. The only ones that are going to spot you always being online are the ones that are on nearly as often. Don't worry about it either way.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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It's not your profile.... Posted: 7/13/2009 6:40:33 AM
Relax as its been said you have been here for less than two weeks you can't expect miracles. Make sure you're making first contacts yourself also.

Cknugget1978

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What Would You Be Thinking? Posted: 7/12/2009 9:34:15 PM
If thats the best conversation she can come up with I would be out of there. Who wants to spend a lot of time with someone who gives the mental stimulation of a plate of steamed brussel sprouts. Sex is fantastic don't get me wrong but there is so much more to see and discuss in life than just the one topic.

Cknugget1978

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What is the best way to judge how you really feel-what tell us or what you do? Posted: 7/5/2009 6:39:15 PM
Go with actions. Most guys are not as articulate as women. Its just not the way most of us function on a day to day basis.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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What to do??? Posted: 7/5/2009 6:10:44 PM
Your not wrong. Look for a different type of guy. If you were attracted to them all for very similar reasons your choosing the ones likely to do this.

Cknugget1978

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Need advice please!!!!!!!! Posted: 7/5/2009 3:02:43 PM
I would drop you in a heartbeat. If your trying to change what I wear early on you may have preconceived notions about trying to change me in other ways if we are together for a while.

Cknugget1978

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Is he interested in her or me? Posted: 7/5/2009 1:25:57 PM
I have never meet any single guys that owned a chihuahua that were straight. Take the text at face value and go from there.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Normal for a guy to offer money to woman he's used? Posted: 7/5/2009 1:19:33 PM
That is not normal as far as I have seen. You're not being overly conservative on this, its just not commonly done.

Cknugget1978

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When should we talk money? Posted: 7/5/2009 1:10:53 PM
Money should not become an issue unless your talking about moving in together or taking a vacation together. You can mention the cool job but leave the $$$ out of the discussion. Now if those are dealbreakers for you and not the other way around find out what he does for a living and use msn moneys wage calculator for your area to find the average wage range for the line of work. That will give you an idea of if your incomes are vastly different without much time or effort.

Cknugget1978

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Is a younger age daunting? Posted: 7/4/2009 4:53:57 AM
At 19 yes I would skip over your profile. From about 18-22 most people finish maturing and change a lot over those years. If you are looking for someone older you may have to be the one to make initial contact. There are some folks that finish maturing younger and are ready for a LTR at 19. Going in another direction, do you instantly think ''one night stand'' or ''hook up'' when you see my age, or ''a relationship''? Age plays no role in this question. Its how you present yourself in all contacts for how you are going to be viewed.

Cknugget1978

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Is it me? Posted: 7/3/2009 7:59:25 PM
Men do. You have pulled a couple boys out of the fishing pool. Relax and know you can do better.

Cknugget1978

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Is it me? Posted: 7/3/2009 7:57:36 PM
The meets haven't gone as well as they said initially. They then chickened when you contacted them again. Keep fishing there are better ones available and just be glad it didn't go on for more than a single date.

Cknugget1978

Joined: 6/3/2009

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Do tall women intiminate men? Posted: 7/3/2009 7:50:22 PM
Nope, I would have no problems with it. They would need their own motorcycle though since I am 5'10 and 145 lbs and a bike handles a lot better with the larger person at the controls while riding two up.

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