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jay_22_norfolk

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What would you do??? very serious Posted: 6/1/2007 2:32:57 PM
My ex gf brought my son round to stay with me today and i said to her he looks stoned. She said no hes been crying and i thought to myself i know how drugged up looks and know what he looks like when he cried but still said oh ok. A little while later he started talking about her doing berties (thats drugs and long fags etc and described what i would say is coke) He was quite stoned bless him and hes only 4. Im scared what to do as i know i wouldnt get him as i have a bad criminal record and been on anger management and dont want him taken away from us. I have told her not to do drugs infront of him before but never seen him actually stoned and now really worried but dont know where to turn Help ppl i need some good advice Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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why do men go for the ditsy thin girls? Posted: 4/4/2007 5:01:43 AM
When a man is really actually looking for just good sex the dumb thin girl always works. I made a choice a few years ago between an intelligent average sort of size girl that was stunning and really thin dumb girl that actually wasn’t so pretty but was more sexy to me. I chose the ultra thin girl then as I wanted some good sex but a few years on know I made the wrong choice. Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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WOULD THIS WORK Posted: 4/4/2007 4:36:01 AM
I was in that situ with a girl. I didn’t text or comu with her until she did me as I didn’t want to hassle her and felt like I was and was just being careful not to seem too pushy but actually I really liked her and ended up with her for 2 years. Maybe he just doesn’t want to seem like he’s hassling you and just wants to tread carefully I wouldn’t stop the texting I think he would think you were not interested anymore so just carry on and things will turn out fine if there is anything between you both. Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/4/2007 4:28:10 AM
I can’t see why it would bother a man!! It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest to be with a woman that is carrying another mans child. However if she was either having an abortion or getting rid of the child id stay clear. Abortion or giving a child up are sick and selfish and I think all babies have the right to live and be with there bio parents. These days there are so many contraceptives and ways to prevent getting pregnant that there is no excuse and your problem shouldn’t be the babies’ problem. Anyway that’s how I feel about it all Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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Would you date a bi man?? Posted: 3/29/2007 10:06:01 AM
A question for the ladies. Id like to know what woman think about bi men?? And would you date a man if he admitted he was bi?? And if you would date a bi man would it be a turn on?? Its just I know a bi lad who dates loads of woman and is not really attractive and I feel it’s because he is bi. What do you all think about this?? Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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Favorite Shirts with Words Posted: 3/27/2007 3:05:59 PM
I saw quite a funny shirt a few months back it said. I am a bomb technician if you see me running try keep up lol Well I liked it

jay_22_norfolk

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When a women does not have vaginal orgasms Posted: 3/27/2007 11:27:34 AM
Hi I Have been with a girl that could have an orgasm but was very hard to get her to it. She didnt orgasm everytime and I personally hated it and felt it was my fault. Personally I normally orgasm just after the woman I am having sex with does so not only did I feel very sexually fustrated but sort of felt less a man. But never found a woman that cant orgasm just some like it a little diff to other etc or maybe a little harder Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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What should I do?? Posted: 3/15/2007 11:22:15 AM
She is not the mother of my lil man I broke with her just before I met Jem and Tyler lives with his mum. I do respect myself but that don’t make this easy as I also have a heart and just feel crap hurting people. Its not that I want to cheat on her either it’s just hard to leave and don’t really think she deserves my respect after all this and think I should put myself first and make it as easy on me as possible. Last night I was ready to end it but she started smashing herself in the head and crying really bad and said she would kill herself and allsorts and really scared me I don't want any of that on my conscience. I am just stuck really and want a way out without all this mess and it’s really hard she’s a nutter. Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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Hope this is the right decision Posted: 3/15/2007 11:11:15 AM
Seems like she was with the 11 year man then split to be with the chap that hurt her then back to the 11 year chap now the man that broke her heart is back around and she wants to go back with him. In that case like another said she has no heart to follow. I think she seems a very selfish person and the 11 year man should run while he still can because you are sick you just can’t mess with people’s heads like that and for a man that messed your head up in the first place you think its ok to shit on a man that must really love you seems really heartless and sad to me. If you don’t love that man you are with LEAVE don’t mess him about or make him second best to this other bloke. Stay single for a while and sort your head out. You deserve that man that broke your heart and I hope you get the same again and next time you don’t have the poor 11 year man to run to. Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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My god I am weak Posted: 3/15/2007 10:42:31 AM
I was trying to be firm but she was a mess and begged for a couple of days to see if I am ok and said she will help me over it blah blah and I gave in :-( I feel crap I was trying hard but even now still hate seeing her hurt she’s only 19 and I sort of feel responsible for her and I know she is going nowhere she’s just going to be a cheap slag and I love her I just don’t want to see her end up like that. I don’t want to hurt anymore I think I should move on. I read that the way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else so maybe if I fight fire with fire I will get there and let her ruin her own life and not mine and will maybe help me deal with it all. Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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What should I do?? Posted: 3/14/2007 9:35:11 PM
Thank you for all the advice. I have just sat down with her and had a good talk about this and told her I am feeling and not knowing really what to do. I have now asked her to leave and have tried to do things in a nice way. She is really upset and crying begging me not to end things with her and after it all I still really terrible for her I hate seeing her hurt and I keep trying to think of what she has done to me but I still feel really bad like its my fault :-( This is really hard she is now packing her stuff ready to leave but she’s in a right mess I don’t know what’s going on in my head its all mixed up really I am hurting that its over and still hurting bad over all what’s happened and don’t know what I am feeling I suppose lost is the best way I can describe it. I really will miss her despite what has happened but like 1 of you said I will keeping getting this time after time and really want to just settle down and have another baby but things like they are and have been would be cruel to bring baby into it all. I just hope I am going to be ok and get through this if not for me but for Tyler (My lilman) he needs his daddy in 1 piece not how I am now Thanks everybody :-) Jay

jay_22_norfolk

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What should I do?? Posted: 3/14/2007 7:57:48 PM
I have been with a girl now for over 2 years. In the first year she cheated on me with a friend and it hurt like hell yet I stuck with her thinking it was a 1 off. That time it took her about 3 months to tell me and that was only because I had heard things. Then about 3 months after that she done the same thing again with my old friend and I was still messed up over the first time she cheated on me and ended up having a break down yet I still stuck with her. Last night I found out 3-4 months ago she has slept with yet another man well I am a total mess I can’t sleep or eat but I still love her :-( I just don’t know what to do? I don’t know what would hurt more getting rid of her or staying and trying to get over all this mess?? I really do love the girl I really wish the pain would stop along with all the lies. She keeps saying she doesn’t want another man and she keeps getting lead into it but she’s not a sheep. What do you all think I should do? I don’t want to be hurt anymore but don’t know if I can face breaking from her. When I met her I had only just split with a girl I had been with nearly 6 years since I was young and had to face us splitting and me not living with my son and was in a bad state then all this has happened and now really need some advice.

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