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flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 61 (view)

Needs & Wants Posted: 10/17/2009 4:18:13 PM
I NEED love and I WANT sex. I NEED a woman to make love and I WANT to satisfy her and myself. But could be vice-versa.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised... Posted: 8/10/2009 9:51:55 PM
It seems to me that participants in this forum who are uncut get so upset about people's opinion, i.e. the more prone to disease and sanitary issues. Bottom line is, it's easier to wash circumsized penis than the uncut. How do you clean the uncut anyways, do you actually peel the foreskin and start soaping the hell out of the inner flesh? That must hurt. At the end of the day, there must be a stinker inside that underwear that has to be wiped with alcohol or something strong to remove the odor excreting from it. Sorry, but everyone I know who is uncut tell me the same thing about the odor. Cheese head is what they call it. I still wish I'm uncut. So don't be mad at me.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 107 (view)

Does this drive all men nuts? Posted: 8/1/2009 10:47:22 AM
Hey Beth, I don't know how often you do this to your bf, but what you are doing is a "REASSURANCE." You're basically expressing your feelings for him. You are expecting him to do the same. It's ok. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't do it often. I say the same thing to my ex gf and she doesn't respond immediately not till I ask her. There are people that are passive about this kind of gesture. Just be patient with him and everything is alright.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 66 (view)

If he says he's into you, why does he still look at other profiles? Posted: 7/28/2009 9:18:30 PM
Whoever you are, I think you are one sad peanut. Don't chase someone who is not interested in you. He is using you as an alternative. Move on to the next chapter of your life. He is looking at his options. Face reality. Maybe you are what he doesn't want otherwise he he will be all over you. Move on girl.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Need advice on moving out / ending relationship Posted: 7/28/2009 9:10:31 PM
GET THE HELL OUT OF IT!!!!!! STOP BEING STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GET A LIFE AND MOVE ON !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DAMN STUPID KIDS. Think. Use your head. Good Luck...

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 65 (view)

Interracial Dating Posted: 7/28/2009 9:02:08 PM
why is everyone talking about interreacial bull in here. we all do the same thing and i don't see any point to this thread. we all get ours and satisfy our partners, i hope. so forget what color we might be and let's all have a blast. yeh? orgas_. and that's all to it.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 58 (view)

does size matter? my un-scientific observations Posted: 7/28/2009 8:52:58 PM
whoever is the author, man, you need some counseling. size doesn't matter and every girl knows that. it is the connection, chemistry that matters. even though you have an 11" tool, still doesn't make a difference. women go crazy over what you do for them specially in bed. they will remember you by what you do differently from their ex's. research and you will find out what drives these women out of their mind. i had an ex-gf go to a mental facility when i broke up from her. think about it, man.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Why would a guy leave the first and last encounter with me a two second explosion? Posted: 7/28/2009 8:42:05 PM
from the sound of it, he wasn't happy the way you performed. when the guy is done and got what he wanted, it all goes down from there. you didn't do your homework. sorry, but ....

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 67 (view)

good body or face? Posted: 7/28/2009 8:27:49 PM
i don't care about the body. I can always work my imagination. It's what it's created for, yeh? I would look at the face cos it's rude to put a magazine on top of it. So the body is what we are going for.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/18/2009 10:28:34 PM
I think she enjoys the attention she is getting. Beats the popcorn, ice cream, couch and tv. Sounds familiar. No, I hope I could be that way. Relaxing... There's way too much good responses in this thread that actually blew my mind.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Texting but never meeting.. Posted: 7/16/2009 5:19:33 PM
Very compelling. If that was me, several things I would assume. Her voice might not be good, maybe strong accent, she may not be ready to show herself and many other things like she is not as excited as you are with her. Good luck.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/15/2009 3:34:47 PM
I am so entertained by this lady and how people here reacted. It brings out the best of everyone.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 252 (view)

Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/14/2009 2:25:01 PM
Don't force the woman to give head if she doesn't want it. Swallow one's sperm is another story, I haven't seen that done to me yet, I thought that only happens in porn movies. If she is not horny enough, then probably you may have to work on her more to achieve what's needed from her.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/13/2009 7:35:40 PM
I don't even know why this topic got out of hand and calling each other names and insults whatsoever. Her question is why giving head is so important to guys. My answer is that giving head to a guy is just adding spice to sex. Women don't contemplate to this act normally. It all just naturally comes out and becomes an urge, that is, if the woman is horny enough to do it. And believe me, most women will do anything if the guy did his part in getting his woman in a great level of ecstacy. My ex doesn't give head to anyone at least according to her. But I got her so damn horny that she gave me a bj, accepted me from behind until she bled, and many more other positions that she can't even imagine doing it. It is the guy's part to get the woman in that level of desire. Most likely, the giving head business that came about in the conversation was too premature. Some women don't take this lightly but offensive instead. I think the guy just have to make her horny first before even discussing about a bj. It's like the profiles of most of the women in POF, they say in dating,... let's meet first and then we'll go from there, i.e. if there's chemistry. Then let's take op reaction, she took it offensively. Guys, let's make the girls desire something before we command. Men should be the captain and women should just follow orders. That is if you are awesome in bed...

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/12/2009 9:38:31 PM
I understand about the head thing. I had a gf that I fell in love with and she doesn't like giving it and found out that she is also cold. Not a good lover. She only cares about herself. In fact, when I gave her oral, she confessed that I was the first guy that she orgasmed. I 'd have to give her up.... Total waste of time.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised... Posted: 7/12/2009 9:09:03 AM
While most of the guys I have dated have been cut I prefer the uncut, it does seem like it is more sensitive..... And gives you a little something extra to chew on...lol Ouch! That must hurt. Bad girl! That's not made for you to chew on. I wouldn't want you next to me....lol

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised... Posted: 7/9/2009 4:13:41 PM
Anyone here knows how to uncircumcise a circumcised man like me? It sounds like having that extra skin moving around the shaft produce extraordinary sensation. I am mad that my parents had me circumcised. Help.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 65 (view)

Sex during your period? Posted: 7/6/2009 2:40:53 PM
my girl doesn't want to give me a blowjob because she thinks that it will rip her mouth apart. so i always have a problem with experiencing that nice foreplay.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 184 (view)

Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/6/2009 2:16:38 PM
The main topic here is if cheating is justifiable. Doesn't mean all the time but case to case basis. This is how I understood the subject. But anyhow, my answer and opinion to this question is yes, at times cheating may be justified. Everyone makes mistakes. Noone is perfect. Not even my dog , if I can recall. These people who says that cheating is not justifiable are all cheaters themselves. You cannot face this kind of predicament happenning to your life. It's bitter. I have been cheated on but I took it as my fault for neglect. I worked it out and accepted to myself that it takes two to make a mistake. If a guy handles his woman right, I don't think the woman won't even think of it. And this is just one example or analogy. Mistakes in life is always triggered by shortcomings by the same person or the partner. So, people accept it, you will be cheated on by your partner one way or the other. You will always prepare for this or the worse. Then it will not hurt as bad.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 7/3/2009 4:39:02 PM
These women just want the bad boy style. Too bad, I can't be one. It's hard to impersonate a bad boy when you are not one. To think that actually these guys get the hottest girls you can lay your eyes on.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 311 (view)

Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 7/3/2009 3:01:18 PM
I'm a decent guy. I'm not gay. I get nowhere with women. They all seem to prefer some gangbangin' type of guy. When I'm in a relationship, I usually get treated badly. Sometimes I wonder if there are any decent women who aren't old enough to be my mom! I kind of agree to this guy. I've met women and when guys treat them right, they usually abuse the poor guy and make them look like their own btch. Women usually look for the bad guy that would treat them like sht. I suppose these women enjoy being treated like that. It's sometimes difficult to understand what women really want. When they have a good partner, they look for something more challenging. Some guy that would turn their head upside down. I don't know what's happening to this world.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 296 (view)

Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 7/2/2009 8:24:27 PM
A good catch usually is somewhere in a mass of clouds. You will need to find and approach him. Otherwise, you would think he is gay. He is usually very reserved in every aspect. Quiet, observant, and if he talks, usually with short and direct thoughts. Find him.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Can you still remain friends after a long serious relationship? Posted: 7/2/2009 12:33:03 PM
cool off til you heal. depends on the intensity of your relationship, may take anywhere from a month to 2 years to heal. when your not bitter anymore then you can reestablish your communication with your ex. that's what i did with 3 of mine. we always help each other specially with advices. noone knows about you better than your ex.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 66 (view)

Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/1/2009 6:19:42 PM
I'll justify cheating. My ex cheated on me on grounds of neglect on my intimacy. I was working hard to give her everything I promised her on our wedding. She felt lonely and we had 2 kids at the time so she found her way on the internet chat. She cheated once and got caught right away. This happened on our 5th year. I got hurt and recovered after 2 years. The dark shadow she created had been lurking me and after another year I decided to loosen up. I opened up to her that I am not happy anymore with her since I feel that I don't trust her anymore. She said that she never did it again after that one incident. Well, I bought her everything that she had wanted in life and she said that she's grateful for everything. I expressed that should she wait till I learn to cheat on her because I seem to be lacking this intimacy on a partner? And she said that I can do whatever I want as long as I don't leave her. I found that awkward but what can I do. I met a girl in a business meeting and had an affair with her that lasted 6 months. Everytime I see this girl and come home, my ex would smell my hair like a motel scent. She ask me why my hair is wet and I replied that what she doesn't know won't hurt. Leave it as a puzzle since she's got a hint. I stopped seeing this girl and just faced my life with her as a condemnation. But like everyone else, I realized that I still have some remaining good years in me and time to move onto a divorce. I want to be happy again as well as her.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend) Posted: 6/30/2009 10:28:20 PM
My ex-girlfriend broke off with her vibrator and never had to use it since she start sleeping with me. She said that she gets so sore that she doesn't even want to lay eyes on her toy anymore. But the I suppose she reestablished her affair with it after we broke up.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 125 (view)

Which is the hottest zodiac sign in bed? Posted: 6/30/2009 10:20:52 PM
I'm a Leo and very passionate specially in bed. I don't give up too easily until my girl is all worn out and go into a deep sleep till she recovers and ask for more.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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What do you do to keep yourself busy in Palmdale? Posted: 6/30/2009 10:14:30 PM
go to my shop and get entertained. or go to Zebras, they have some smokin' girls in there. or maybe come see me and we'll have some beer and strippers over.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised... Posted: 6/30/2009 9:42:56 PM
I'm not sure, but probably some guys here might shed light to this issue. I had my circumcission when I was 14. My dad told me that it's better when you have sex because of certain things like being clean and nothing gets on the way during penetration. But on the other hand, some of my uncut friends told me that they have this nasty odor hidden in it no matter how well they wash it. They even told me that they have this cheese head kind of happening somewhere. They all decided to get the procedure after they couldn't stand the odor any longer. They also added that no matter how much they wash it, the odor excreting from it just is too apparent to the girl. One of my friends even did the procedure at 24. And he said that sex felt better after. I don't know if it's justification of not going thru the pain or inconvenience of having the procedure that men just defend their uncut penis or maybe there is truth behind their claim. Please explain.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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I knew She Liked Older Men, But Not That Old! Posted: 6/27/2009 9:27:08 AM
Chill out, man. Everyone has the right to find a new life. She probably made a mistake and she is looking for another one. You obviously have issues with your decision to see a woman whom you knew had a past relationship. I advice that you don't see this girl again because you will just cause her another disaster. Or maybe you are just looking for an easy sex since this woman has already a load. Leave her alone for the next guy that would acccept her past regardless. Sorry to say this but don't mess with women that you think you al;ready have issues from the start. Just my 5 cents.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Sex during your period? Posted: 6/20/2009 2:23:40 PM
This whole sex while on a monthly period is disgusting. My ex gf had sex with me while she had it and stopped her period. She had it for one day. It messed up everything. She was playing dumb that she had it till I found tampax in her purse.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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What women really want from a guy Posted: 6/17/2009 7:31:33 PM
Wow, that's a lot to ask from a man. I think you will need a psychologist partner to handle your needs, but even then, he may not keep up with you. Good luck.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Is ending on an angry note healthy? Posted: 6/16/2009 8:19:44 PM
that sounds sweet.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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I have just broken up with my first love and I was wondering... Posted: 6/12/2009 9:25:44 AM
Take your time healing that wound. Don't jump into the next person that will attract you because this is more fatal, it's called rebound. This will hurt you more because you will tend to pour all your energy and frustration to it. And you're feelings is more exposed and not holding back anything. Be careful.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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What women really want from a guy Posted: 6/12/2009 9:08:35 AM
For me, women want attention, affection and sex, then it goes on success, money, material things like a nice car, house, a lot of nice things to own, and on and on.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

Msg: 69 (view)

What makes women physically horny - Mental or physical stimulation? Posted: 6/11/2009 6:10:33 PM
From my observation, temporary attraction to sex(being horny) is driven by physical attraction towards opposite sex. That attraction however wears out overtime specially when the other discovers the flaws of the person which most likely turns that light off. On the other hand, mental attraction drives women crazy over a guy assisted by his good looks too. Well sometimes even if the guy is butt ugly, for the girl he is attractive enough because of his inner attributes and this keeps the light on for a long period of time and the woman keep on coming back for more. So I think if the woman is shallow, of course she doesn't appreciate the mental stimulation and instead satisfy herself with lust. Anyways, on an aquaintance of course physical is stronger than mental stimulation no matter how good a guy presented his wits to her, always there's a doubt behind her mind if the guy is just playing with her head and just wants to get into her pants. Nowadays, women learned too much from past relationships that made them more careful about what they hear from the guy. "I don't want to get hurt again" kind of thing. Some women from my experience, look at what's nice in the physical appearance of the guy, cleanliness i.e., shoes, clothes, finger nails, teeth, groomed hair, specially smell/odor, cologne or perfume he's wearing, tounge (lol), his manners, the way he talks if he is kind of rough on the edge like using F*** words, others. Even though the guy's face look average, if this looks fall under her category, the guy will instantly attract the girl physically. I also think younger women in the early twenties tend to go for the physical stimuli and the more mature ones in the thirties and up lean more on mental.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Is he playing me? Posted: 6/11/2009 3:34:35 PM
And why he stopped calling you, maybe he doesn't like women that's too controlling and nagging on small details. He might have thought that you are not trusting a word he says. I would be skeptical of a woman that treats me the same way you do. Please don't get offended by this. This is only a view from a guy like myself. Leave him a message asking him if there would be anything that you guys might have to sort out rather than the cold treatment. I hope that you guys clear things up.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Is he playing me? Posted: 6/11/2009 3:27:30 PM
I don't think he's playing you. For me, seeing someone for a month is not enough for a man to get chained to a woman that fast. But that is speaking in general. What binds a couple together is their honesty and devotion to each other. His being still around a site like this doesn't constitute cheating or infidelity to your relationship if that is what you are suspecting. Maybe he just let it stay the way things are for him for the mean time. If he would look for another woman, he doesn't need to go to any site, he will just find that anywhere. I don't think guys are stupid enough to shit where they eat...But again, that's just my 5 sense.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Interracial Dating Posted: 6/11/2009 1:13:21 PM
But things were perfectly fine for 9 years till she did that. White and Filipino race, I believe is a perfect match cos I know numerous couples like this and they grew old together and have harmonious relationships. Hispanic and Filipinos too as well. Certain races have their own morality and understanding level, tolerance, and others. But this is coming from me and what I have seen generally. Of course there would be some isolated cases like mine, lol.

flipwutever

Joined: 6/6/2009

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Interracial Dating Posted: 6/11/2009 12:59:55 PM
I'm a firm believer of this dating. I had a relationship for more than 10 years with a white girl but she cheated on me because of her admiration for law enforcement guys. I forgave her but when she decided to join the force, that prompted me to end it because I think she wasn't satisfied about the horrible thing she did and just pursued more. Or maybe she really did want to be a cop. I don't know to this point. I'm just puzzled about what the world can bring you.

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