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apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 18 (view)

Is this enough to ditch her? Posted: 8/18/2009 10:34:25 PM
Seriously. invite her over and get her wasted. She needs an excuse to let go. IF she does not let go, then you have wasted your time... If she gives you something that you need, then pursue it.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Is this enough to ditch her? Posted: 8/18/2009 10:19:09 PM
Get her wasted, and give her an excuse to let go. Give it to her. Never mind her objections. Make some sort of connection first, though.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 8/15/2009 9:49:57 PM
I cooked for my family for many years and LOVED it; I love to cook for good eaters, lol!! Seriously, I long to cook for people who appreciate it!!@ yah.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Two girls who know each other. Posted: 8/15/2009 9:43:49 PM
If it has been OVER for a while, then you need to move on. Why bring up the past???

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Two girls who know each other. Posted: 8/15/2009 9:41:30 PM
In fact, I HATE soap operas... If I were R, I would like to know and I would move on...

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 10 (view)

Two girls who know each other. Posted: 8/15/2009 9:40:26 PM
You think R is a lucky woman???? He is trying to dump her in a polite way because he likes her friend. I would NOT like to be R.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Two girls who know each other. Posted: 8/15/2009 8:51:46 PM
Seriously, OP. If you were not that into her, then why worry about all that other stuff. I would fess up and let her off the hook and move on.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Two girls who know each other. Posted: 8/15/2009 8:28:55 PM
Don't be a typical A hole. Let her off the hook. You already told us ALL that you arent that into her. Who cares who she knows, etc, blah, blah, blah. You are only hanging onto her for your own ego gratification. Bad... No one will ever like you for that. AND, yes if you do things like that then, people will talk. You have a guilty conscience, I think. Let her go by telling her up front what you just told us (half the planet!). Chicken...

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 2 (view)

Stop judging and start loving ... Posted: 8/15/2009 8:25:34 PM
Dang, Lady Di!! Uh, well... I think it would be lovely if everyone stopped judging each other. Glass houses and all that.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 7 (view)

Femine Ego - How dangerous can it be? Posted: 8/4/2009 1:08:22 AM
I go for FACE! I have to like the face and I have to like the character. As for a few extra pounds, a bad haircut, etc. I could care less, really. I am NOT into vain, vain, vain people who have NO life except for feeding their own vanities ----- WHICH MEANS, that they are very, very insecure and have not develped their personalities. Just my opinion.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 13 (view)

In a tie: Which is more important, her body or her face?? Posted: 8/4/2009 1:01:35 AM
900,000 words, omg!!! You are totally stressing me out, man! I am having trouble coming up with 200 lol!!

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 12 (view)

In a tie: Which is more important, her body or her face?? Posted: 8/4/2009 12:58:57 AM
Edwin. You also are pretty interesting, I liked your answer too. All you guys - thanks for your responses. Now, if I saw a guy whose face I really liked (Let's say, like John Travolta - I always liked him), then I agree, if he had other faults, I could forgive him if he had a great face and a great attitude. I think that's a keeper. I cannot stand people who have no character. Just wondered if some guys felt the same. Thanks for your responses.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 10 (view)

In a tie: Which is more important, her body or her face?? Posted: 8/4/2009 12:52:44 AM
HAHAHAH! Krebby, you crack me up! Good stuff man. /clink

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 9 (view)

In a tie: Which is more important, her body or her face?? Posted: 8/4/2009 12:51:42 AM
Thanks for your contributions. They are very much appreciated. I hope you are enjoying your experience here on, "Plenty of Fish". Sheesh...

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 7 (view)

In a tie: Which is more important, her body or her face?? Posted: 8/4/2009 12:49:04 AM
Pfffffthhh !! Okay, I agree, same with guys. If he has a good personality and a lot of other great traits, such as intelligence and a face I like - then a few pounds or a bad hair cut can be (either) cured or overlooked...

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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In a tie: Which is more important, her body or her face?? Posted: 8/4/2009 12:34:47 AM
Just wondering....blah, blah, blah (am I at 200 characters yet????????? )......... la, la, la, ooh blah dee, oh blah dah!!!! hmmmm... Body or face? huh? whaddya say, guys??? Damn, still need a few more characters to post, what BS if you ask me.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 10 (view)

Giving Good Cunninlingus Posted: 7/22/2009 2:06:08 AM
Your efforts are appreciated, Im sure. Way to go!! I think sometimes women try to underestimate the efforts of the guy because they are not sure about the relationship. If they are secure in the relationship, they will become more responsive. Don't stop making the effort. Kudos

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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what do i do? Posted: 7/10/2009 1:42:59 AM
Gosh! You kinda screwed up!!! Leave her alone for awhile. Let her think about things. Get yourself in control. Get yourself in order. Get your life in order. Get to a place where you are confident and don't NEED anyone. Be happy with yourself. Let her get herself in order, too. It will have to be awhile before you call her again. Then, say Hello - How are you doing? You will have start all over, from scratch (assuming that she will still be available and that she will actually listen to you and answer the phone or your email.)

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 64 (view)

Someone stop me..PLEASE Posted: 7/7/2009 3:08:02 AM
Mr/Ms Tee!! You are being a little bit obnoxious!

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 437 (view)

What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 7/7/2009 2:56:23 AM
Yeah, hot doggie sex. Clean up in the am.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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How many is too many? Posted: 7/7/2009 2:48:21 AM
It's all Relative. Depends upon attractivity and availablity and reactivity and attraction. For an 18/19 year old??? They might have experimented, here and there.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 120 (view)

but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows? Posted: 7/7/2009 2:37:46 AM
Yeah, well my name is Markus and this thread is unacceptable and offensive. Take it to the street, dude!@ Unless you eat the same as you get...

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 12 (view)

Do all women change 100% after committment is achieved? Posted: 7/7/2009 2:28:07 AM
Were you pulling our leg?? Not nice...

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 94 (view)

SHALL WE TELL THE TRUTH? Posted: 7/7/2009 2:17:57 AM
I love people who tell the truth with a Big Heart. Nothing better in the world than that! I would love to meet a guy like that.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 62 (view)

Someone stop me..PLEASE Posted: 7/7/2009 2:06:13 AM
My heart goes out to you because you really care. I believe that you are ready to put everything you have into a solid relationship. Good for you, I hope you can find someone to trust in. Good luck, sweetheart. You have been through terrible times and trials and you are now ready to give, Salute!

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 9 (view)

What drives you crazy in bed about your partner? Posted: 7/7/2009 2:02:38 AM
SO! Some of you are happy & getting it and rubbing it in our faces???? WTH! Harumphhh!

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 47 (view)

sex questions... a somewhat awkward situation... Posted: 7/7/2009 1:56:50 AM
Take charge means that she doesn't want to have to GUESS what you want. If you take charge, then - there are no guessing games. She wants to know what YOU want. sigh... Anyway, she is willing to accommodate you to the best of her ability. She is willing to give you what you want Only If you let her know what that is!?? Go for it and good luck! Message #26 has the answer. Good answer, #26!!! Oh! PS: Your gf is not coming faster than you. She is not... cumming for real... She is making a show for you.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 51 (view)

Marriage vs LTR Posted: 7/7/2009 1:50:18 AM
Marriage is for the other people you love: Your parents, your siblings, your kids, your neices and nephews, your grandchildren. Marriage is about Family. If you get married, it means you commit and everyone who loves you both can understand that you will be together. Like a team, a couple, etc. If you are just roomies or F buddies or palsie-walsies, then - how is everyone else supposed to know who you two are? Marriage is a commitment you make and, an arrangement you make for the sake of all the other people you love.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 49 (view)

Marriage vs LTR Posted: 7/7/2009 1:49:00 AM
Marriage is for the other people you love: Your parents, your siblings, your kids, your neices and nephews, your grandchildren. Marriage is about Family. If you get married, it means you commit and everyone who loves you both can understand that you will be together. Like a team, a couple, etc. If you are just roomies or F buddies or palsie-walsies, then - how is everyone else supposed to know who you two are? Marriage is a commitment you make and, an arrangement you make for the sake of all the other people you love.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Marriage vs LTR Posted: 7/5/2009 2:41:36 AM
It is not just about 2 people. It is about how 2 people affect everyone they know. I CANNOT BELIEVE HOW TWO PEOPLE THINK THAT NO ONE ELSE WILL EVER KNOW...

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 17 (view)

How important is money? Posted: 7/5/2009 2:27:36 AM
Quite profound. It's so lovely to hear such profound thoughts. You present some serious issues.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 10 (view)

Do ANY guys make love rather than F***ing? Posted: 7/5/2009 1:12:15 AM
Not all women are into the "love-making". Personally, I like sexercise. I like fukking! All that other stuff is actually boring to me. I would rather DO stuff with my guy. Then, when the chemistry hits, head to the bedroom and fuk!! Yeah, then go back to what we are doing. Like, sitting around the campfire and shooting the breeze or watching each other play video games or online poker, or heading out to 7-11, lol. Who wants to spend 2 hours in the bedroom going, mmm, ahhh, oh baby, ok, yeah, um that way, yeah, ahhh... sigh. It's fun to have a shower, rub each other down and head to the bed, then go back to other things. Just me.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 88 (view)

Where are the decent women looking for long term at? Posted: 7/5/2009 1:02:52 AM
Wow! hmm. Most women are waiting and yearning to respond to honesty. They are interested in someone, but he is too busy playing games and won't say how he really feels. What is she supposed to do??

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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How important is money? Posted: 7/5/2009 12:58:12 AM
Independance and self reliance is extremely important. You don't want someone who has no idea about what money means and keeps sucking everyone dry. No one wants someone who can't even look after themselves!

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 14 (view)

Excessive marriages?? Posted: 7/5/2009 12:55:31 AM
Serial monogamy to the extreme, I would say. Did any of the former spouses die of suspicious causes??

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 52 (view)

Would you ever consider? Posted: 7/5/2009 12:53:18 AM
If I could figure out how it would work. It would depend. Like, how would it work?? I think that if a person is in a wheelchair, they should educate people and share their condition with others. I think we all need to be really honest with each other.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Needy People Posted: 7/5/2009 12:48:45 AM
She's jealous and looking to get out of her situation. You need to yell at her and tell her to piss or get off the pot. She made her choices. Now, she is using you to provide some way to have fun. She's got two kids. Too bad, so sad. Try and set aside a couple of hours a week to spend with her. Phone her and let her know when you have time to hang out with her. Then, she can look forward to it and hopefully, she will stop bugging you all the time. You need to schedule the time for her. Either that, or, cut her as a friend.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 7/5/2009 12:42:51 AM
Heheh Message #43^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Yeah, well he was a responsible person, a good provider, and an ardent and decent lover. That's about it.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Sex with a older man Posted: 6/23/2009 1:43:19 AM
He's an older friend. YOU are the one who pointed out to us that he is "Older" - which means that it is always on your mind. Let the poor guy off the hook. At least he has taught you some things that you find important in a relationship. Move on and thank him...

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 16 (view)

Loss of sex drive at 21? Posted: 6/23/2009 1:36:46 AM
You have realized that meaningless sex is too much trouble. Good for you. (Not to mention, a health risk!~) Find someone who makes sex & life meaningful.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Too old fashioned..? Posted: 6/23/2009 1:33:32 AM
I agree with Grey. Guys chase, girls choose. THat's how it begins. Guys, do not wait for girls to call you. Unless, you want some girl to chase you.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me. Posted: 6/23/2009 1:08:48 AM
Hey op, you need to get on the ball. I had 3 kids when I was your age.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me. Posted: 6/23/2009 1:07:49 AM
I know! It scares me too!! I guess that I have tried and found that it is not worth the trouble, really... BUT: on the other hand, I would like to find My guy. My guy, who I can actually LIVE with and LOVE!! and, who will love me back - sigh... It hurts to put yourself out there and also, there is the time issue. We are all so busy.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 17 (view)

Am I living in the shadow of my ex? Posted: 6/23/2009 1:03:53 AM
Some people find excuses. His ex is his excuse because, he was There, until you spoke your mind. In other words, he wanted to check you out and then, decided not to persue you (who knows what his reason is), but he used his ex as an excuse. No worries, move on to Mr. #2.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 7 (view)

O'Sullivan's Meet & Greet Sunday June 28, 2009 Posted: 6/23/2009 12:59:08 AM
I see a couple of interesting people!! I hear that the prime rib is pretty good. Yay!

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

Msg: 17 (view)

Am I ugly? Posted: 6/14/2009 1:36:52 AM
Dude; you're a baby. 20. omg. Get some years, some experience and some scars. Then ask us. In the meantime, date someone your own age, hehe.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Dating life as a hermaphrodite? Posted: 6/14/2009 1:31:58 AM
And you are on this site, because???

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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How does one present their flaws confidently? Posted: 6/14/2009 1:28:48 AM
Hmmm, yes we ALL have flaws. We do not point them all out before we have met someone. We cannot judge ourselves too harshly, sometimes what we deem as flaws can be seen as strengths by others. We can only present facts. If someone accepts us and wants to meet us, let them be the judge.

apamela

Joined: 6/7/2009

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Is she Waffling....? Is she scared? Does she consider herself unattractive? Posted: 6/14/2009 1:24:43 AM
OMG! You sound very open to this person!! I can't believe that she is not opening up to you. I guess that she is closed and insecure in a BIG way. I don;t know how you could convince her any more than you have convinced us!! It is A big problem, indeed. I think that you deserve better, in other words, I think that you should move on. You are ready and able to meet someone as long as they will meet you at least half way.

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