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 Author Thread: How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard...
 heartface70
Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard...
Posted: 6/11/2009 9:06:08 PM
In reading all of the posts, I can't seem to forget my ex either..I was married when my husband set me up with my "someone" so he could have his and I still believe, to this day 1 month after our breakup, that he was my soulmate. When I say that there could not have been two other people in the world so in tandem with each other, it was he and I. I cannot get him out of my head, because I know down to the very core of my being that he is what I have been wanting and searching for all of my life. But he turned a complete 180 and told me after 7 months that he feels nothing and the break up didn't even cause a hiccup in his life...everywhere I look, every song I hear, every smell, every accomplishment or disappointment in my life, I think of him and realize he's not there to share it with..I also miss him kissing me and touching me and laughing with me and all of the other wonderful things that had me on a cloud...
 heartface70
Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 823 (view)
 
How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 6/11/2009 8:45:24 PM
I am just as baffled! I was involved with a guy for 7 months ( actually 3 years but we dated for 7 months), we did the dinner thing, planned a trip for the end of the year to a hideaway cabin in the Colorado mountains for a week, spent the weekends together, wanted to take me on a spring Saturday afternoon to the Botanical Gardens ( what guy DOES THAT? ) since I'd never been, would just look at me in a way that would turn my insides to jelly, then do a complete 180 and tell me he's spent those 7 months trying to make himself feel something for me and just doesnt...now it's as if I never existed to him...haven't heard a peep out of him for over a month! What's up with that????
 
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