Not sure what happened, although my only guess is a red flag went up when she asked how much money I made.

Why do people put their most flattering pictures up?

Just put up pictures that actually look like you so I don't have to be disappointed every time I meet someone new.

Surely, everyone wants the best for themselves. But I see all these couples today where one person is significantly better looking than the other. And it might not even be about looks, but I just think that there comes a time that everyone has to lower their standards a bit.

Should anybody really have to explain their situation on here? It's one thing if someone asks, but to me, that's kind of a turn off. It kind of suggests that the person might be insecure about everything.

Any thoughts?

If you want to know what makes me unique shoot me a message. Message me for either my facebook or phone number, if I'm interested I'll reply.

Please tell me if was wrong to react to her this way.

Thanks for your comments Dolphina, but you need to know I have paid for trips for her in the past.

Ive put a stop to us hanging out so now he is talking about coming back but with conditions.

Guys,

What is it with guys and swinging?

I don't have her number or her email and I'm still looking forward to it. Is this how dating is these days, waiting for the first meet to give those things out.

Just curious, why doesn't POF make it's users post their weight in pounds, rather than a general body type?
Just curious, why doesn't POF make it's users post their weight in pounds, rather than a general body type?

If girls keep up with the number of guys they have slept with, like a lot of guys do with the girls they have slept with?

You sound wonderful but I could not where my heals around you." I thanked her for being honest but it made me think ....are shoes really that important ?

If you tell a woman you claim to like that you lost your phone, but then update a status or post on facebook, do you really think she will not figure out that you are lying? Come on guys we are not complete idiots and for the most part most people today do know how to use a computer.

She viewed me, but no reply. What did I do wrong?

I recently discovered he was back on line on a popular dating site looking for "a relationship".

Sometimes my answer is: it doesn't matter. Meaning, I'm not sure what I am in the mood for and want to do or eat something the guy would like.

So, what do you think guys? Would you be willing to meet me with my short-term physical limitations?

And most women simply are not interested in becoming romantically involved with an unemployed man.

So I guess my question is, should I mention my situation in my profile or to the guys I message? Would guys think that's weird?

young ppl talk like that nowadays..get used 2 it

When I emailed her to ask what was up, she replied the next morning telling me "we can't see each other again" because "I do not date married men...period"!!!!! She knew this all along. Apparently, she has done the same to other separated men she met on pof.

I recently found out that she hasn't been well, although she hurt me I still really care for her and want to be there for her. Should I just say sorry for avoiding her and explain why I did or do you think I'll cause myself more heartache by opening old wounds?

Just seems that women are quick to judge without actually getting to know the man,?

Other than that I'm quite open to most women but prefer no fat birds as I have standards and believe that self respect for ones body shape is important thing to have.

"haha that is awesome! maybe!"

This is not good, right? Probably best to abandon ship, right? I'm not sure if he is playing a hard to get game and may actually still be interested or if he really just 100% wants as little to do with me as possible.

So the question is if you're dating someone but no official commitment has been made should you tell them if you're seeing/sleeping with someone else or not?

So my question here is. Am I attracting people who don't have people skills, or people who are socially awkward...
Or could my questioning be geared the wrong way.

For some reason they don't seem to get the hint and almost seem to see it as an invitation to try harder!!

Anyway, you do not own your girlfriend. She is perfectly free to dance (to do anything), without your permission. Go dancing yourself, and loosen up.

If you're going to comment on something, maybe you should know what you're commenting on. An Assault Weapon is a made up name for a semi-auto firearm that looks like a Military weapon. What the OP is holding in her picture is a real deal General Purpose Machine Gun that her son carries in the Army. To be exact a M240L. But when your only knowledge of firearms comes from the nightly news, I could see where you would make that mistake.

Now that's the kind of stuff I need not like the crap the other where giving I will look in to it and the going out no can do and I will not give a reson why

I'm done :)

And while I'm at it ladies, claiming you want something serious and then posting a bunch of cleavage and bikini photos kind of negates that claim. Not that I'm complaining about the photos; Just don't get angry if a guy compliments you on your body.

From a guys point of view what do you think I should do?

I was on a date and she kept you right at my eyes, I'm alittle shy this made be a little uncomfortable.

I didn't see any hair action?

How can I tell if she having a good time?

They pass the good guys up here and keep on waiting for the rest of these lames to message them.

I have been told I am overly honest. My view on that is that I hurt someones feelings by telling the truth. I don't think there is such thing as being overly honest.

He asked me out but he can only Really go out on the weekends.

why won't he text me first?
what's the rule on who texts first?

And as a dad I get the idea of the kids comming first.. but there has to be a time just for us doesn't there..

She says that they are monogamous to each other, but he refuses to say that they are a couple, won't do the whole facebook official thing, call her his girlfriend, etc

No I'm pretty perceptive, she wasn't too busy to text me all day and night the previous 6-7 days.

I realize it's different for your generation, but most people in my generation (at least the ones I've come in contact with), view it the way I do. Also, it is not a lie if you consider yourself to be single and are open and honest to the person you are talking to.

But I have noticed that most of the women messageing me tend to have at least one child, which isnt nessicerly a deal breaker with me, but since I am only 25 with no children, employed, etc I would tend to think I am worthy to a lot more women then just single mothers.

it seems like the girls i am least interested in always write me back. the ones i would actually like to have a conversation with wont ever write back or dont seem interested

She has told me she is taken but is not happy with the situation she is in.

And no matter what she will tell you today, tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, she will cheat again.