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first custody hearingf , What a joke Posted: 6/19/2009 11:09:47 AM
Please with that money issues. When they created this kids he was going to have to pay for their care and now that he is gone it is an issue. Take his ass to court and keep fighting for what you KIDS have a right to have a good life. Those kids, eat, wears clothing, does school activities, after school events, etc. He needs to get off his butt and do right by his kids. If she is not providing and he can prove that this is one thing, but to just not do it because he is concerned about what she is doing with the money is BS.... This mom does not owe him proof of anything other than she had his children and he is the father, period. Jail will not help your financial situation when dealing with support for the kids, but take that money right out of his paycheck and avoid the drama. If this man is not paying now having a conversation like adults isnt going to work because this mom is not talking or dealing with one. She is dealing with a selfish man who is more concerned about the mom enjoying life at his expense than the kids who suffer because of it.

Joined: 6/12/2009

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first custody hearingf , What a joke Posted: 6/19/2009 11:04:21 AM
Hang in there. I know it can be tough because I was on the other end of the drama. I was and am a good mom, but when someone has a better attorney then all hell breaks loose. By the time all the BS cleared MAJOR AND I MEAN MAJOR lies were told my son now lives with his dad. It was either give him up or continue getting false charges against me, go to jail and then have them bring it up in court until they got the judge to believe it was all real stuff. Never convicted of these stupid charges, false charges but he still won because my attorney did not do the job I was paying them for. Nonetheless, I write down all that has happen to me so when my son is older he can see just what I experienced and understands why I made that choice. Now, he gets the right to relocate and he is 5 hours away. WTH.... I cant stop it... So my advice is fight, fight, fight and do not give up. Show your child that you are fighting for them even if you lose the battle in the end they will know how much you loved them. Every time you get a chance share those three words!!! Never say ugliness about mom to the child. And yes, your former attorney was a nutcase. You are not just a babysitter, babysitters dont pay child support. I will keep my fingers cross it gets better and send it to the man upstairs for help...

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Why are there so many attractive women on POF? Posted: 6/18/2009 1:17:12 PM
I have been single for 5 years and during this time dating has been hard. Guys always come at me first of all the wrong way, what happen to hello how are you? It's always some stupid line or they just act plain silly. Meeting a guy in a club, bar or even while out to dinner has not been a great experience. Behind all of that conversation seems to be this lil white lie they tell me about later like, I am legally separated which means to me you are still married. Then, the one I have a room mate, but we happen to have sex every now and then because we get lonely sometimes. Yea, ok. Last, but not least I want a serious relationship just not right now, I want to date a little more. OK, I laid my cards out on the table in the first conversation so if you knew you were not ready then why waste my time. Let me guess, you were hoping to get the cookie. So, many of us are just tired of the games and hope that we can find a man with some moral character, intelligence and truly wants to share his time with someone for more than a night.

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 6/18/2009 1:12:27 PM
No I have not ventured in that arena and probably will not. Lets me honest you can talk with a women/man all day via email/texting but if you walk into a room and you see a female/male that does not fit the body that you are looking for in a woman/man you would leave her right there, men for sure. Women we have a bit more heart than men. But, you know we would avoid his calls most likely. Even if you all had the best conversation and connection if her/his body is not what you want you will do any and everything to dump her/him. Well guess what, it is time that women start getting selective as well. What we will look pass in a man because he stimulated us mentally you will not look pass for us. I am glad your experience turned out great, but me boss I have to give it to ya because no way in the world would I do that.

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