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twisted64

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 122 (view)

Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 1/20/2009 12:28:59 AM
Yuppers, I have cried like a baby, shaken like a leaf, and had my legs turn into spaghetti. Don't think he knew about the tears, but the rest was pretty obvious, especially when I was trying to walk. Emotional overflow, what a fantastic feeling! JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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what is this guy thing comparable to, girl wise?? Posted: 1/18/2009 11:50:21 PM
Sounds to me like you need a backhoe so you can dig that hole your working on a little faster and a whole lot deeper. But what do I know Im one of those OLD ladies!! JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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why can't prince charles and prince harry called their FRIENDS what they damm well want WHO CARES ? Posted: 1/15/2009 10:51:24 PM
I totally agree with you gilly. When we check what is under the skin, I would bet my last dollar that we are ALL red inside! Famous or not I think the only people that have any business being offended by anthing that was said, were the friends it was said about and they obviously were not offended! But luckly for the whole world there are people out there monitoring what people say in private conversations. I know I will sleep MUCH better knowting that the racist police are on duty, and knowing that I am not in the spot light and so I wont have to encounter this particular squad of idiots. Unfortunately for the royal sons they will always be under a microscope no matter what they do or say or to whom they say it. Shakespeare said; "Uneasy lies the head that wears a crown," Nothing could make me trade places. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

How do you change who you are in order to find love? Posted: 1/11/2009 11:10:15 AM
OP to answer your question "am I the only one that does this?" No your not alone in that one. I have been guilty of that myself. Call it self preservation if you like but if I can see, or feel, that WHO I am is not to someone elses liking I will prepare to bail. I should not have to change who I am for anyone, nor will I. I did that once and learned my lesson. I didn't like who I was when I changed for a relationship and it eventually affected it negatively. When the smoke cleared I realized its ME that has to live with me the most so I had better like who I am. In other words be yourself and look for someone that can accept that, make no apologies for who you are. Not sure where I heard this quote but it sums things up for me.... "I search not for perfection but for someone whose faults I can live with... and who can live with mine!" Hes out there some where, don't give up, and don't loose you! Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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what is wrong with my emotions Posted: 1/11/2009 10:51:10 AM
OP I have attended accidents and have mourned for complete strangers and have learned through debriefing with Victim Services that my emotions were/are normal and that time and talking with others start the healing process. Those victimes were strangers to me not someone I was engaged to. There is nothing wrong with you! Time will eventually soften those feelings. I say soften, I wont say 'heal' because there will always be moments in your life when you will reflect on what you had together and it will bring some tears. However, with enough time, those memories will bring more smiles than tears. Take your time in finding someone else and take the time to heal. Talking to someone, anyone, about your feelings will definately help. Good luck and God bless. Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

Body Issues? Posted: 12/20/2008 2:44:53 PM
Any middle aged person carries with them the experiences of growing older. Having children, and natural aging take a toll on the human body. But it should be viewed as beautiful at every stage and age. Well said carolann

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 135 (view)

If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do? Posted: 12/20/2008 2:37:11 PM
I'm shocked that she didn't say anything to the guy Maybe she didn't respond because you were there and she had more respect for him than he obviously had for her at that moment. Maybe he makes a habit of shooting off his mouth before his brain is loaded. Shes the only one who knows for sure but as many have said, rape is NO joking matter. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 65 (view)

Body Issues? Posted: 12/20/2008 2:04:45 PM
Love yourself first hon. He was there it was you that had troubles with what (is/was) in the mirror. He obviously was accepting of what he seen and cared for the WHO you are rather than the image in the mirror. Maybe in a "male" way he was trying to prove that to you by expressing a desire to have you moving around naked. We all cant be models and many of us have faced the same rejections, remember YOU are special and loveable you just need to start being in love with you first. Just my opinion hope I didn't offend. Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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I lost my patience.... in public! Posted: 10/19/2008 9:28:53 PM
20 Wishes You did nothing wrong all parents lose it with their children at times. Unfortunately we dont seem to have much control over the ""when"" the little darlings will push the buttons hardest but it always turns out to be a very bad time. Chalk it up to experience next time you will probably handle things a whole lot better. corindan You let a 2 year old boss you in re: walking, or stroller, when it is up to Mommy to boss kids in such matters. Then you reward the brat for being a brat by apologizing to her and kissing her after she is disobedient I think this comment, besides being totally uncalled for, is rude and disrespectful, and considering the fact that you have no children it is also a bit ridiculous. I think that you really should try 'being' a parent before you dish out rude comments on how to parent. Nothing teaches you better than EXPERIENCE. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 48 (view)

Who likes being held when they sleep? Posted: 5/21/2007 10:52:59 AM
Cuddle for a bit then roll over and sleep. However, sometimes spooning works for me if it works for him, otherwise I perfer my own space. I cant say I like someone breathing my air if you know what I mean. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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I have a question for all the ladies Posted: 5/21/2007 10:29:38 AM
, After 3 months my luck totally changed. All the females feel comfortable with me now You may have answered your own question. When women feel vulnerable they may pu ll back, become shy etc. Everyone (yes I generalized) feels more relaxed when they are comfortable with someone or in a particular situation. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Does the car make a difference Posted: 5/21/2007 10:02:39 AM
Personally your car wouldnt turn my head. well not unless it was a 65 mustang LOL Have to agree except I'm partial to the April 64 model myself. ... JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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girls who carry a wallet in their back pocket Posted: 3/13/2007 10:03:12 PM
NO purse NO wallet !!! ... My bank card, and drivers license into my back pocket any cash I might have in my front pocket ...and see ya!! Im gone!! If it doesn't fit in my pockets it doesn't go with me. Oh and Im farrrrrrrrrrrr from gay. Just simply my preference. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Housing Dillema Posted: 3/13/2007 9:30:20 PM
Apparently they need to get a set of matching Tee shirts one with an arrow pointing to the left that says... "shes my daughter" .....and one with an arrow pointing to the right that say... "hes my father/dad" .....written on the front and . ..."NOW MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BEEZ WAX"(not my first choice of words but the one that wont get deleted) written on the back with a type face just for emphasis and go for a slow walk around the neighbourhoood with grandson/daughter in tow. She has nothing to be ashamed of and what sounds like a great opportunity. I think she should go for it and screw what the neighbors think. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

No Muffler on Car Posted: 2/19/2007 11:29:36 PM
If shes more concerned about how she looks arriving somewhere in a noisy ride she probably is only worried about herself. Talk to her about the problem and what your concerned about. Maybe shes got some wheels and would be willing to drive. Best to start communicating with her now about little problems so, in case it all works out well, you'll be ready for the big problems. If shes okay with the noise remember NO parking its way too cold in Ont to have the windows rolled down. Edit: Opps my bad...to cold in Quebec Good luck Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

Too Affectionate? Posted: 2/19/2007 11:07:46 PM
Compliments can come in many forms, not all of them spoken. Sometimes a quiet look and a wink can say it all, or a low whistle and a raised eyebrow when she enters the room will keep her smiling. In answer to your question, yes too much of anything can make it blase, and may come across as being insincere. You know your lady best just remember dont stop altogether. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

Wrong #'s, WHen they call you what do you do???? Posted: 2/19/2007 10:52:02 PM
In my small town; first you talk for at least a half an hour to the caller. Then either explain to them the person they thought they called went shopping and wont be home till supper time or you take a message for them Godda love small town living Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Disabled in the bathroom.... Posted: 2/19/2007 10:22:24 PM
Given my years of experience as a Personal Care Assistant, I believe that the woman's restroom is a better choice simply for the reason that all women's restrooms have stalls, 'with' doors and walls. The gentlemen in question, if capable of caring for his own needs, could do so in privacy. His assistant can provide this for him by being able to step outside and hold the door without having to worry about other males using the facilities. That being the urinals 'without' walls or doors. If however he is not capable of caring for his needs she can assist without cuious eyes. If the case was reversed I still believe the women's restroom to be better for basically the same reasons. The challenged person can have some privacy and the male attendent can hold the door and be there if needed. Any other females can have their own stall. Any (and hopefully ALL) personal care aides, whether male or female are very capable of handling these situations with diplomacy and respect for the client and themselves, its part of the compassion that makes them tick. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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GhostRider Movie. NICOLAS CAGE?! LOL Posted: 2/19/2007 9:09:54 PM
My vote goes with the OP it was a good movie whole family was happily surprised. The ending even had my youngest wondering when the next one was coming out LOL. Will it win any awards, not likely but for some mindless entertainment I give it edit: two thumbs up JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 76 (view)

So I got my first hate mail today... Posted: 2/19/2007 11:06:19 AM
Shalom um Aloha um Ciao Guess no matter how you say it there are many words that mean both hello and farewell and lots of people end their posts the same way all the time. Its a reflection of your personality and she obviously is lacking in the personality department. Hmmmmmmm...Dang maybe if I keep ending my posts the same way I will be lucky and she will write some hate mail to me Anyway, I say dont sweat the petty stuff and DONT pet the sweaty stuff. JMO Keep smiling Shalom, Aloha, Ciao oh and... Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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GhostRider Movie. NICOLAS CAGE?! LOL Posted: 2/19/2007 10:46:03 AM
Hey OP thanks for the movie review I am off to the "Family Day" matinee with my sons to see Ghost Rider. The bike attracted their interest and I have to admit I also like bikes but was wondering if the "story" would be good enough to keep one interested. We watched the trailers on the comp last night and after reading some of the reviews here I think it will be a great "Family Day" movie day. Thanks for starting the thread. Have a good one. Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 64 (view)

Marriage: would you consider doing it again? Posted: 2/19/2007 10:06:04 AM
I think I have been single for too long, and become too set in my ways, being ""married"" is something I am simply not interested in. I perfer being in control of my life and raising my sons without interference or feeling like I have to "answer" to someone else regarding my decisions. That being said I am not against long term realationships. It is nice to have someone 'there' to talk to about decisions and do things with, enjoy each others company and the rest but without the umbilical cord that marriage seems to bring. There would have to be a very strong bond, friendship and passion before I would even consider a change to living arrangements. I am so accustom to having my solitude it would be a huge adjustment for me. For now this works for me, what the future holds who knows but to ""literally"" walk up the aisle again and say I do. NOPE, Not gonna happen. Guess I want my not wedding cake, and eat it too. LOL JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 46 (view)

5 O'Clock shadow? Posted: 2/19/2007 2:31:12 AM
I perfer the 5 O'clock tomorrow shadow it is sexy and softer, doesn't take the skin off your cheek when he rubs up close and personal but lets you know you've been rubbed. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Ladies Be Honest... Posted: 2/19/2007 2:14:18 AM
Forget the choking and biting...what we all want in bed is barnyard animals, circus midgets, and leeches. I mean jeez, OP, you didn't know that?? and here i was thinking I was the only one. LMAO Throw a wire brush or two in the mix and its all over but the shouting!! OMG too dang funny JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 70 (view)

Viewed me but didn't write Posted: 2/19/2007 1:49:46 AM
OP don't take it personally. There are many reasons people view a profile. An amusing picture a picture of scenery or some cute animal, something ammusing or witty in the beginning of their profile, strange or unique poses, curiosity about where someone might be from or what might motivate their opinions on the forums, checking out who has viewed you, who appears to live close etc etc. I am sure the list is as long as the number of people here, these are just some of my reasons for clicking on the "view" link. Not everyone is going to write and that doesn't mean that there is anything at all wrong with you it just means they took the time to look at you a little more closely. Someone hit the nail on the head earlier when they asked if you spoke to everyone you seen at the mall. JMO Happy viewing Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Assumptions on email amounts Posted: 2/19/2007 1:28:03 AM
OP Im going to ASSUME that you took a survey of some sort to come up with your assumption? JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Is is appropriate for a teacher to date a students Mom? Posted: 1/15/2007 10:28:22 PM
HOW can you be sure there won't be doubts in that kid's mind, about whether he earned his grades or not? Im going to go waaayy out on a limb here and say that if he worked for and therefore deservered a particular grade he would know it. Put it this way IF YOU received a paycheque when you didn't go to work would you not know that you didn't deserve to get paid? How can you be sure this won't affect his life? Blue eye Leo stated in her OP that her son was fine with the whole thing. I'm going to trust that mom knows her son best, he gave his blessing, she trusts him, I dont think it will affect his life. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

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Is is appropriate for a teacher to date a students Mom? Posted: 1/12/2007 2:21:02 PM
No Im sorry I DO NOT understand. I guess because I work in a school and KNOW this sort of thing cannot go unnoticed nor can it go unquestioned IF something like that ever happened. You said you read all the posts, I suggest you go back and re read the one where I covered the issue of "grades and marks". The only pall of doubt is the one projected out by narrow minded people who would probably themselves stoop to that type of action. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Is is appropriate for a teacher to date a students Mom? Posted: 1/12/2007 2:05:09 PM
So your saying dating is an inappropriate thing and creates the "appearace" that something is not ""proper"" ?? How about the appearance that it is a man dating a woman. I would bet he doesn't wear a sandwich board advertising to the world that he is a teacher. I would also bet that they are of the same age group, and have similar ideals and goals in life. Not some huge age gap that appears like some 20 year old has grandpa out on a day pass from the old age home and is likely to go no where because they are too far apart in ideals and goals. Oh and just so you know...doctors are human too . Yup!!, we have them in my small community and hell sometimes they even take off the white coat and go golfing, dancing, shooting pool, and yup they even drink beer. I guess in my mind, if someone thinks ANY less of "professionals" simply because they have a life they want to live outside of their work, they are being judgmental and narrow minded. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Is is appropriate for a teacher to date a students Mom? Posted: 1/12/2007 1:40:48 PM
Noooooo I was referring to the first statement made by blue eyes that some others have miss read and make their posts sound like the teacher is dating the student. Read back to the Blue eyes OP and the light will shine as to what I meant by clarifying. ---just read all the other posts....have none of you ever been taught what it means to be professional? You make it sound like they are going to be doing the nasty behind the bleachers or in the parking lot on the hood of the car!!. THAT is unprofessional and Im guessing they would NOT be doing that even if he wasn't a teacher. EXCUSE ME?? So you think it is only unethical/unprofessional if it's a female teacher and a father?? IF you read what I have actually written you should come to the understanding that, I do ""NOT"" in any way think that a PARENT (male OR female) dating a TEACHER (male or female) is in ANY way UNETHICAL OR UNPROFESSIONAL. It is a MAN dating a WOMAN...why does what they do to pay the bills and make a living have any bearing on if they should be dating? They are civilized adults who I am sure are very capable of conducting themselves appropriately. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Is is appropriate for a teacher to date a students Mom? Posted: 1/12/2007 1:21:47 PM
Shaking my head at the trouble people have in reading. The lady said SHE is interested in HER son's teacher or that the MALE TEACHER and the FEMALE MOTHER are considering dating. I cannot see how the teacher student relationship, position of authority, trust factors even figure into this scenario. Blue eyes. #1. First, you are a woman, and then you are a mother. #2. First, he is a man, and then he is a teacher. There is nothing wrong with you two being interested in each other and nothing unethical about you dating each other. Everyone is making it sound like its some dirty issue just because he teaches your son, its not. Teachers do have a pulse, and lives outside of the school, they eat, sleep, drink, have bad habits and desires, go on dates have girlfriends, boyfriends husbands and wives, have good days and bad days, EXACTLY the same as anyone. He is a teacher not a god, he is an educated man that will act appropriately no matter what type of relationship you and he develop and I'm guessing (personality is a factor here), he will act appropriately if problems arise in any relationship you may develop. The only people this really concerns is your son, you and the teacher. If its something you want do not let what other people think destroy what could be a wonderful thing for all three of you. Good luck Mama Bear Im sure you will be fine. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Is is appropriate for a teacher to date a students Mom? Posted: 1/12/2007 12:03:35 AM
The ethical dilema is quite staggering. He wouldn't be able to correct your son's work, for fear of the grade being biased. What happens if you son is the only one or one of a few to do very well on a test or exam. They will always the the suspicion that the teacher either helped him, or that your son took advantage of your relationship and maybe even stole a copy of it in advance. I so have to TOTALLY disagree with this statement. Im sorry but IF her son does well on a test then maybe jussssssst maybe he has done well on many many other tests. In different subjects and for other teachers that are NOT dating mom. A childs marks are based on his knowledge of material given/taught, he can't go from crappy grades to the honor roll without other teachers noticing the change. Mind ya if he was only taking one class then maybe the other teachers wouldn't become suspicious. It has been my experience that as this poster states The school I went to, in contrast to a previous poster, was small and there was no option that the teachers' children were taught by their parents. If anything it seemed that teachers were harder on their own kids than on other people's, setting higher standards etc As for other students ribbing him, it might be possible but believe it or not the other students have more important things to think about other than the sex life of their teachers. Stuff like dates, parties, who can they copy their homework from, when they can go for a smoke break, when is lunch, you know all the important stuff. Hell most would probably shiver in their boots at the thought of their teachers even having a sex life. OP if dating you doesn't go against the teachers oath he swore to, and your son is okay with it and given you his blessing..go for it...after all..teachers are humans too JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

Guys, what does this mean? Posted: 1/11/2007 10:58:24 PM
No Problema (or was that “blame porno”) That would be "onrop emalb" in my world...LOL but thats just me desiwt way. Kelly I have to agree with the open communication. You say you have called him once, you didn't mention if he had a voicemail or answering machine etc. If he does, try calling again. If he doesn't answer try leaving a message that is open and honest and direct. Ask him straight out but gently, if he is interested in you two seeing each other again, and to get in touch with you as soon as possible. If he is he as much a gentlemen as he sounds he should return your call. JMO Good luck Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

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Why do You go to bars? Posted: 1/11/2007 10:21:52 PM
Only place in town to shoot pool. Or get together and watch the Oilers on the big screen. Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

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Msg: 22 (view)

Women's attitude towards sex, let's see if I'm right Posted: 1/10/2007 10:41:47 PM
Of course, you ARE special, if I'm sleeping with you, BUT...I'm here for moi! Well said darcie58. I couldn't agree with you more! JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

a yes or a no Posted: 1/10/2007 10:23:17 PM
I read this whole thread and was surprised to see that only ONE lone male (so far) who stated "common interests" as something that was an important part of a profile to him. Maybe its just me but you could be dating the most incredibly beautiful, no hang ups, no baggage, no extra pounds, no children, educated, low maintenance girl next door who is totally down to earth but if you have absolutely zero interests in common exactly how do you connect? Don't you need somewhere to start a conversation? How do you decide where you go on a date? Guess I am just curious why common interests are so overlooked? Just a thought and as always JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

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who dominates the first time Posted: 1/10/2007 9:36:24 PM
Next time, I think I'm just going to get her naked, and then go suggest we catch a movie or something. JUST to prove that, that's not all I'm interested in. too funny Best to make sure it not rated R or XXX or some such, she might get the wrong idea.

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

right guys heres one for you all Posted: 1/10/2007 9:31:19 PM
The eyes are not sexy unless the soul shines in them..... the smile is only sexy if it can be seen in her eyes..... and her personality isn't sexy unless revealed in her smile..... SO......I'd have to say, if it's a nice one, her butt! Gotta love your honesty!! Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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Guys, what does this mean? Posted: 1/10/2007 7:57:27 PM
face2face Things that make ya go hmmmmmm...thanks for the thought you definately do have a point Then again, it is "fishing" and that means: give a little slack; reel it in a bit; give a little slack; reel it in some more... He is likely in the regroup and re-assess phase. If the OP is interested, she can reacquire his focus by increasing her visibility (i.e. give him chances and incentive to continue the pursuit Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

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First Kiss = French Kiss = Sends a Message True/False Posted: 1/10/2007 4:45:38 PM
Hey Hiker I must say I am flattered and thank you for the compliment. This IS a tough one. I tend to view things a lot differently then other women and lord knows I probably dont understand most of them any more than most men but I'll try to be helpful. As for your question I feel that YES a french kiss can definately send a message and that message can only be intensified by other signals such as the holding you tighter pulling you closer etc, than previous partings. However, ""asking"" if you should have made arrangements to stay the night was a bit presumptious on your part, depending of course on how you said it. If it was a comment meant in a light hearted goofy, manner, myself I would have laughed it off. Or did it sound like you had to clear your calender and make an appointment, not so laughable. To me it sounds like she doesn't have a problem being the aggressor so if she had wanted your date to go that way she may have responded to more intimate touches. Now dont get me wrong Im not talking about grabbing a handful of flesh you maybe shouldn't be touching just yet. I mean small things like rubbing your hand along the small of her back while pulling her closer to you or running your fingers gently along the side of her neck and down across her throat fingers in her hair that sort of thing. Simply saying her name with that hint of desire while your kissing then gaging her responses to that. In other words show your interest but let her lead the dance. I dont know if Im helping I seldom date so I'm not even sure I know what the dance is anymore . I do have to agree whole heartedly with this comment. A nice gentle kiss, and her telling you she really likes you, would be more appropriate and classy then sucking out the tongue of a stranger! But I also think that if she was interested enough in you to initiate the tonsil hockey in the first place she should be more understanding of how you interpreted it. shruggs Maybe she feels guilty and now is worried about how you see/feel about her. Im guessing her age to be close to your own so maybe she has heard the ""good girls don't"" story and your question made her feel less than a ""good"" girl. If there is anything at all between you keep trying. Im not much into flowers and the like but maybe sending her a nice little boquet with a little card may smooth the waters. In any case if shes that interested I think given enough time and your continued show of interest she may come around. If not...theres lots of fish in the sea. JMO I wish you all the best. Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

Guys, what does this mean? Posted: 1/10/2007 3:07:21 PM
I know your only looking for a man's opinion on this one but this is more for the gentlemen that have posted responses. Couldn't it just be possible that he gave her a compliment and, in an effort to set himself apart from the other men that find her attractive, was respecting her by not trying to kiss her right away? Am I old fashioned or is it just my fantasy world that not every date has to end with a round of tonsil hockey and groping along the boards? If there were other indicators of his interest maybe he just wants to take it slow? JMO Twisted P.S. Hope it all works out for you the way you want Kelly

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 13 (view)

What signals? Posted: 1/10/2007 2:40:06 PM
Hon if he is not interested in you he is blind and probably a little loose in the screws . You are a beautiful, intelligent young lady, be confident in that. I would follow the advice of the gentlemen here, so far they are intelligent, well thought out, serious answers given with your best intrest in mind. I could be wrong, lord knows the opposite sex can be a mystery to me, but if he is sending you messenges and letting you know where he is going to be and when I would say he has some interest in you and may be feeling/thinking the same way you are. Making that first move is tremendously difficult for some, no one likes feeling rejected, however to make an omelet you have to break a few eggs. Smile, eye contact and those light touches like the gentlemen said and I think you'll be just fine. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

Drugs??? Posted: 1/8/2007 12:48:04 AM
Pot is not JUST pot anymore. Unless your growing your own in your back yard you have absolutly NO way of knowing what exactly is in your marijuana besides the "weed". Pot now a days is often laced with a variety of dangerous sometimes lethal combinations of toxic waste. Meth, crack, ecstasy, pcp, cocain, ketamine, THC and others have been found in marijuana so how can one be certain the levels and combinations their Marijuana contains will not land one in emergency. Smoking a joint just about cost a young lad his life not far from my home. Seems the horse traquilizer (ketamine) it was laced with didn't quite agree with his system. He's lucky to have survived or else he may have ended up the first person to OD on marijuana...or is that how it would have been stated. Marijuana is a drug, plain and simple the same as tabacco, as alcohol, as caffeine as asprin. It alters your body immediately and it has long term affects, its not JUST grass anymore. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 20 (view)

Drugs??? Posted: 1/7/2007 12:48:01 PM
Just to clarify, drugs by definition are... any substance taken into the body other than food, which alters the structure or function of the body humans or other animals. The list includes tabacco, caffeine, alcohol, prescription medications and yes even PLANTS such as marijuana (pot,grass,etc), poppies (heroin) and coca leaves (cocain). When you think about it tabacco, caffeine, and alcohol all start in a plant form as well. I use caffeine and alcohol, sometimes even together, (sips coffee and baily's)however, I do not use them extensively. I occassionaly take something for pain but I do not pop a pill for every little ache. I can tolerate tabacco to an extent. However, yellow teeth and yellow- brown fingers, tasting like an ashtray and reeking of smoke I can no longer handle. Yup Im an ex smoker. What do you consider "drugs"? I would have to say I consider drugs to be anything legal or illegal that is used extensively or exclusively to alter the way one perceives life and the world around them. I have must "not do drugs" on my profile simply because I do not wish to expose myself, nor my children, to someone who has a habit of continuously altering their reality. To me someone who, on occassion, smokes a joint is not ""doing"" drugs. Someone who cannot make it throught the day without getting high, popping a few T3's just because, or sucking back a few beers, is ""doing"" drugs and has an issue that I do not wish to have to deal with, hench the choice on my profile. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 42 (view)

Read but NOT deleated,, What does it mean? Posted: 9/24/2006 3:04:25 AM
For me it means I didn't have time to write an appropriate response at the time I read the message and I will get back to it when time is available AND I feel like writing. The only ones I delete right away are the ones that are sent digging for a bunch of "personal" information, otherwise I always answer emails. To me its only common courtesy which unfortunately many here (both sexes) seem to have an issue with. Don't give up hope but don't recommend pestering either. Good luck. Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

Heat of the Moment Posted: 9/14/2006 9:09:21 PM
edit Ohhhhh Robbbbbbbb isn't good when his name is Greg.. This would be the reason you stick to ""oh God!!!"" JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

Why do women leave a single event as fast as possible. Posted: 9/13/2006 4:19:59 PM
OP maybe you need to approach and approve a little faster. Maybe they can't stay around till closing time cause they have children at home or have to work early, are bored had a bad day etc etc etc. The reasons are pretty much endless and, dare I say, the pendulum swings both ways. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

When it's over Posted: 9/13/2006 4:04:39 PM
Can't we just be adults and say "It didn't work out" and move forward instead of looking back? Cant we just be adults and WORK on a marriage that is faultering? To say your not happy in your relationship/marriage and you just up and walk away fixes nothing. Nor does it help you to learn from your mistakes. It appears that marriage "vows" are nothing more than words now a days. Anything worth having is worth working on, unfortunately marriage and relationships require work. In todays society very few want to put in the effort so they scrap the whole relationship and file for divorce. It takes TWO to make or break a marriage,but it only takes ONE to say they refuse to try to fix the problems and make it better. It has been said that marriage is the leading cause of divorce. JMO Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

Obstacles to love and a successful relationship Posted: 9/13/2006 3:42:33 PM
my wife's boyfriend was an obstacle... Know how that goes, my husband's girlfriend didn't like him spending too much time at home with the wife and kids. Decisions decisions... Twisted

gnoht_detsiwt

Joined: 2/19/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

what does a guy? Posted: 7/31/2006 6:22:10 PM
Discuss, discuss, discuss, listen, listen, listen...let her vent ,isten intently and be understanding of what she feels. Validate her feelings and share your own. Give her what she needs most, you. Simply saying I'm sorry, although quick and easy, does not always make things go away. Communication is VERY important to working out problems, it saves you money and gets you closer to the make up sex quicker!! JMO Good Luck Twisted

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